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Why would a guy want to hear about my sex life?
Reasons Men Might Be Interested in Your Sex Life
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If it's a scorpio asking dont tell him lol.....
I know if I ever wanted to know my partner sexual history is because he's really great and I'm like wow.. lol..
But that's me
Wrestling With Shadows.
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what does that mean? he is only 5 days older then me. the connection i have with him is strong. i dont think he feels the same
I know if I ever wanted to know my partner sexual history is because he's really great and I'm like wow.. lol..
But that's me
more detail? dont understand
I know if I ever wanted to know my partner sexual history is because he's really great and I'm like wow.. lol..
But that's me
more detail? dont understand
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Like if I ever slept with a person with spectacular sex skills...
I wanna know why and who taught you?? How much experience do you have?? Like did you sleep with 100 girls or what?? Idk.. I'm weird. Lol...
Wrestling With Shadows.
Saved.
what does that mean? he is only 5 days older then me. the connection i have with him is strong. i dont think he feels the same
Ah sorry. This wasn't directed at you or the thread. This was incase tiz hides his post.
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tiziani wont do that to me. So Shadows? he doesnt want me then?
I know if I ever wanted to know my partner sexual history is because he's really great and I'm like wow.. lol..
But that's me
more detail? dont understand
Like if I ever slept with a person with spectacular sex skills...
I wanna know why and who taught you?? How much experience do you have?? Like did you sleep with 100 girls or what?? Idk.. I'm weird. Lol...
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ok i understand that. i have not been with this guy. he says he is crazy like that. that is all he will tell me
Don't answer, they are judging.
wait what? he is judging?
He wants to be part of it.
So because he cant be with me he wants to hear about it? lol like a porn thing?
There are a few options:
1. He may find it a turn on
2. He is feeling insecure and is fishing for you to tell him that he's the best
3. He is going to use it against you at a later date.
*wait! Now that I am rereading, is this just a guy friend and not a boyfriend asking this?
is this a thing like where a man loves to watch his woman get banged by another guy? or is this different?
Wrestling With Shadows.
Saved.
what does that mean? he is only 5 days older then me. the connection i have with him is strong. i dont think he feels the same
Ah sorry. This wasn't directed at you or the thread. This was incase tiz hides his post.
tiziani wont do that to me. So Shadows? he doesnt want me then?
I'm sorry maybe I'm not explained myself.
This has nothing to do with your thread.
So don't worry about it.
Do you see or nah?
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We live in the era of aids and all the others less bad but still annoying STD, if someone is about to have sex with you, i don't find it rude to ask about the past.
Don't forget that condoms don't protect from all and chances that you have some kind of std if you had numerous sex partner even if it was protected sex.
If someone don't want to anwser i'll take it as if they were hiding something.
He wants to be part of it.
So because he cant be with me he wants to hear about it? lol like a porn thing?
Yea thats weird lol
I don't think he knows he can't be with you though?
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lol he knows i want him. he brings up reason not too.
Because once he gets you talking about sex the sexting/phone sex happens and he's one step closer to getting his dick wet lol
I would get all national geographic with it. Why not, have some fun at his expense.
Don't answer, they are judging.
wait what? he is judging?
That's the explicit reason why I don't ask. And if I'm asking it's because I'm sizing you up literally and figuratively.
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i am lost. why size me up? i am more then willing. he can take me for a test drive. 😆
Next step up from porn lol
There are a few options:
1. He may find it a turn on
2. He is feeling insecure and is fishing for you to tell him that he's the best
3. He is going to use it against you at a later date.
*wait! Now that I am rereading, is this just a guy friend and not a boyfriend asking this?
lol he is an old crush who is married. he lives far. says we are friends. at one point was going to have sex but he always found reason not too. yes he cheats on his wife with other woman. but for some reason he doesnt with me. he does sex talk with me. wants us to talk like best friends even though he knows how i feel about him.
I really would like to here from men on this, but if there is women who like to hear about guys sex life please tell why. There is this guy who wants me to tell him about all my sex adventures. Why would he want to know? Do some people get off on that?
There are guys that f*ck watermelons, hump their own pillows, and I don't even want to get started on people that are into things like "CBT" or Body Hook Suspension (yes that's a thing) to get off.
Now, with that being considered, a guy wanting to hear about your sex life to get his jolly seems pretty tame now doesn't it, lol. Plus it's better than him trying to peep in your window to figure it out because he's too afraid to ask.
Don't answer, they are judging.
wait what? he is judging?
That's the explicit reason why I don't ask. And if I'm asking it's because I'm sizing you up literally and figuratively.
i am lost. why size me up? i am more then willing. he can take me for a test drive. 😆
Maybe it'll work for you two.
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no i accept it will never be. it will just be this weird friendship with high sexual tension. >>
I really would like to here from men on this, but if there is women who like to hear about guys sex life please tell why. There is this guy who wants me to tell him about all my sex adventures. Why would he want to know? Do some people get off on that?
There are guys that f*ck watermelons, hump their own pillows, and I don't even want to get started on people that are into things like "CBT" or Body Hook Suspension (yes that's a thing) to get off.
Now, with that being considered, a guy wanting to hear about your sex life to get his jolly seems pretty tame now doesn't it, lol. Plus it's better than him trying to peep in your window to figure it out because he's too afraid to ask.
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😆 that is a very good point. i was looking for a reason
Wrestling With Shadows.
Saved.
what does that mean? he is only 5 days older then me. the connection i have with him is strong. i dont think he feels the same
Ah sorry. This wasn't directed at you or the thread. This was incase tiz hides his post.
tiziani wont do that to me. So Shadows? he doesnt want me then?
I'm sorry maybe I'm not explained myself.
This has nothing to do with your thread.
So don't worry about it.
Do you see or nah?
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omg he did hide it. @tiziani 😆
Don't answer, they are judging.
wait what? he is judging?
That's the explicit reason why I don't ask. And if I'm asking it's because I'm sizing you up literally and figuratively.
i am lost. why size me up? i am more then willing. he can take me for a test drive. 😆
Maybe it'll work for you two.
no i accept it will never be. it will just be this weird friendship with high sexual tension. >>
Friend zoned, the both of ya! 😆
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more to it then that. i wanted fwb. he said he wanted that too but never did anything. when we were young i wanted more way back then. long story. huge crush for some reason lasted 30 years and didnt know till he just popped up out of no where
Because once he gets you talking about sex the sexting/phone sex happens and he's one step closer to getting his dick wet lol
I would get all national geographic with it. Why not, have some fun at his expense.
😆 so true. but i thing is i am more then happy to jump his bones
Never EVER discuss your personal sex life with anyone.
Why is that?
Next step up from porn lol
wait i would think it below not up.
Next step up from porn lol
wait i would think it below not up.
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Not at all.....real person 😀
Next step up from porn lol
wait i would think it below not up.
Not at all.....real person 😀
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lol true
I get off on it
Its not a source of insecurity or anything
I dunno... I would probably like watching too
lol he is kinky.
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
To see how nasty you can get. Probably because interested and to say he can top it. I have a friend that likes to talk about sex as an ice breaker. It’s a bit annoying, but he’s feeling out for the freaks. He’s a Scorpio
he could have had sex with me. he said he wanted to but he didnt. but he wants to talk sex a lot
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
😆 very well put
To see how nasty you can get. Probably because interested and to say he can top it. I have a friend that likes to talk about sex as an ice breaker. It’s a bit annoying, but he’s feeling out for the freaks. He’s a Scorpio
that does more then break ice.
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
I can’t tell you how many guys that I’ve talked to that say “I can’t believe I’m telling you this or I have a feeling I’m gonna regret this later”
I’m wondering what the typical women talks about when it comes to sex.
Im too curious about their experience level or fetishes to care. I’m always looking for new stuff to try.
There are a few options:
1. He may find it a turn on
2. He is feeling insecure and is fishing for you to tell him that he's the best
3. He is going to use it against you at a later date.
*wait! Now that I am rereading, is this just a guy friend and not a boyfriend asking this?
lol he is an old crush who is married. he lives far. says we are friends. at one point was going to have sex but he always found reason not too. yes he cheats on his wife with other woman. but for some reason he doesnt with me. he does sex talk with me. wants us to talk like best friends even though he knows how i feel about him.
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He's just a perv.
If he wasn't married, I would be easier on him
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
I can’t tell you how many guys that I’ve talked to that say “I can’t believe I’m telling you this or I have a feeling I’m gonna regret this later”
I’m wondering what the typical women talks about when it comes to sex.
Im too curious about their experience level or fetishes to care. I’m always looking for new stuff to try.
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Haha. I believe you I was just talking with you because of what you said in your first post.
something to jerk off about
something to jerk off about
Exactly....
To see how nasty you can get. Probably because interested and to say he can top it. I have a friend that likes to talk about sex as an ice breaker. It’s a bit annoying, but he’s feeling out for the freaks. He’s a Scorpio
that does more then break ice.
Yea, I get his plan, but I hear it all the time so now it’s repetition and it’s just me in my head “hear we go again...” and then eventually things get naughty and he manages to get me to play wingman and to play with her friend -_-
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To see how nasty you can get. Probably because interested and to say he can top it. I have a friend that likes to talk about sex as an ice breaker. It’s a bit annoying, but he’s feeling out for the freaks. He’s a Scorpio
he could have had sex with me. he said he wanted to but he didnt. but he wants to talk sex a lot
Hmmm. Well. Then I’m not sure. If he had the chance and chose not to, maybe he had whiskey dick and knew it? Or he’s into a lot of mental foreplay
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well mental foreplay and flirting is very fun
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
The catch is she's Sagittarius. This is just like playing with some toys. She'll show you a good time by allowing you to be open and then leave your ass high and dry.
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
The catch is she's Sagittarius. This is just like playing with some toys. She'll show you a good time by allowing you to be open and then leave your ass high and dry.
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Firstly... I sleep with dudes, so your preconceived thoughts, as well as that comment, are not applicable. Secondly... Even if I did sleep with women that doesn't sound like a bad Friday night. I mean I don't even have to make breakfast in the morning based off of your scenario. Haha
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
I can’t tell you how many guys that I’ve talked to that say “I can’t believe I’m telling you this or I have a feeling I’m gonna regret this later”
I’m wondering what the typical women talks about when it comes to sex.
Im too curious about their experience level or fetishes to care. I’m always looking for new stuff to try.
Haha. I believe you I was just talking with you because of what you said in your first post.
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I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
The catch is she's Sagittarius. This is just like playing with some toys. She'll show you a good time by allowing you to be open and then leave your ass high and dry.
Firstly... I sleep with dudes, so your preconceived thoughts, as well as that comment, are not applicable. Secondly... Even if I did sleep with women that doesn't sound like a bad Friday night. I mean I don't even have to make breakfast in the morning based off of your scenario. Haha
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You being gay doesn't mean anything. Same shit, different sex - what I said applies to everyone with Sag energy, ESPECIALLY Venus in Sag. It's an absolute trashfire of a sign.
I like hearing about someones sex life and history. I just like knowing what the man is into and how open minded he is. I want to know what he's done before and how he enjoyed it, if there are things he wont do. If there are things that I can try and how willing he is to let me do them. I love hearing about this type of stuff.
Sex is so different between people that there is no way one experience is exactly like another persons experience.
I can talk super open and almost have a third person view of it. I don't get jealous at all and can openly talk about all exes and why things didn't work sexually and how we can do things differently. It just helps me learn the person.
Most guys actually think they are being tricked until they get used to being able to talk to me about anything, openly.
The catch is she's Sagittarius. This is just like playing with some toys. She'll show you a good time by allowing you to be open and then leave your ass high and dry.
Firstly... I sleep with dudes, so your preconceived thoughts, as well as that comment, are not applicable. Secondly... Even if I did sleep with women that doesn't sound like a bad Friday night. I mean I don't even have to make breakfast in the morning based off of your scenario. Haha
You being gay doesn't mean anything. Same shit, different sex - what I said applies to everyone with Sag energy, ESPECIALLY Venus in Sag. It's an absolute trashfire of a sign.
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Don't answer, they are judging.
This.
He's an Aries, did you find out his moon? If he's fixed moon, then he's collating info for use against you later. If he's mutable moon, then it's mental foreplay.
Don't answer, they are judging.
This.
He's an Aries, did you find out his moon? If he's fixed moon, then he's collating info for use against you later. If he's mutable moon, then it's mental foreplay.
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if you are talking about me. He is a Aries sun Virgo moon, Aries rising. HUG Ram416 always knows what i am talking about. 😆 if that question was for me
They want to find a reason to hate on you.
you know that might be it. really it might be.
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I really would like to here from men on this, but if there is women who like to hear about guys sex life please tell why. There is this guy who wants me to tell him about all my sex adventures. Why would he want to know? Do some people get off on that?