@brianafay
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Posted by PurrHiss
I love that idea, and I know exactly which bitch I would slap.
LOL!
Posted by MsPisces.
"If only, if only one of my good friends would domestically abused my ass just once, maybe that would've snapped me out of it."Nope. You know how it goes. Women will forgive their man for anything, but let one of their girlfriends say one wrong thing to them and their friendship is down the drain! No matter how long they've been friends.
Wassup MsP? Hope you had a lovely Christmas, and that you won't get into TOO much trouble on NYE 😉 Although, I cracked my a $ $ up seeing you in that pix where you were passed out in the backseat! LMAO!
And yes, a some women will drop their bestest girlfriend over a man any day, all day. Not ALL women, but quite a few.
lol USC. Almost forgot about that one! Unfortunately though, I don't think I'll be having a New Years like *that* 😛 No good plans as of yet.
I had a wonderful Christmas, thank you 🙂 Hope you did too.
Yes, I had a nice Christmas. Nothing crazy or extraordinary, and that's just the way I like it! Except, I've eaten too much over the past 2 weeks! So, I'll be cleansing for 7 days and back to eating right!
You never know, those types of nights sometimes can sneak up on you, when you least expect it! LOL!
*now, back to our regularly scheduled thread programming! *
dammit, i forgot about the mut
In this state alimony checks do not exist. You get a pat on the head and a greeting to "You're Screwed..Population..You."
No alimony? Wtf? I demand 65% on principle.
Overall, women make me sad. I hate us sometimes. Our stupidity is shocking and I was fine until I aligned myself with them. My bff taught me so much. He was recently dating some hollywood producer chick. Gorgeous, well-off, stable. Well she ended up being hospitalized and called him incessantly thereafter because he didn't call to check up on her. My initial reaction was, he's a piece of shit but then...
He says he txtd her and asked what's wrong. He said he knew she wanted him to call but her emotensity was scaring him off. They'd only been talking a few months but the crux was when her friend called him...a friend he'd NEVER met and had NEVER spoken to...and told him that he "was making the biggest mistake of his life." The friend then told him how wonderful the producer chick was and how he needed to realize how lucky he was.
The old, jaded me wouldve chastised a man who didn't think to call up on a friend let alone a love interest who "could have died." He talked to her daily prior to this and now, when she needs tlc he's nowhere to be found? How fucking horrible. He should call her right?
WRONG!
The bitch be crazy.
A. WTH did she get her friend to call? Crazy ho.
B. She's onlu known him a few months and is "in love?" Really fuckin crazy ho.
C. She's purty, wealthy... What a stupid bitch.
!. If I was dying and a bastard didn't think to call, if he ignored my repeated phone calls, the problem isn't him...it's me and that's the point of this thread. How downtroddin does one have to be to realize he's put you 6ft under?
Bitches b crazy!
Oh and scorp, my mercury is in the sign of awesomeness!
Posted by caligula
How downtroddin does one have to be to realize he's put you 6ft under?Bitches b crazy!
Truly!
And rest assured, I'm reformed too! I had my dumb as f@ck moments too, so I was NOT above it either. It's living and learning. If you continue to do the same f@cked up things/decisions, relationship, after relationship, after relationship it's like DAYUMN WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE! It truly is frustrating. My best advice Cali is to NOT talk to too many women. I've cut a LOT of them off because quite honestly, I couldn't stand anymore of the tumultuous, horrifyingly, embarrassing stories that they would tell over, and over, and over again. When the f@ck is enough, enough—
My patience level on a scale of 1-10 on nonsense is now at a -10. Compassionate? Yes. Being subjected to the same stupid a $ $ stories ad nauseum? Nope!
Tru tru. As MsP said, the truth is, you can't be real and honest with dumbass bitches...I know (step 2 in dumbfuck recovery). You can't change what you don't acknowledge and embracing the fact that you're dumb as fuck (step 1) isn't easy. I think that's why so many of us will blame him for our woes and beat up the ho he's fuckin. It doesn't dawn on us in the midst of it all that we can choose to be wise and see things for what they are.
I also have very few female friends. Bitches be exhaustin. In my youth I didn't mind droning on and on about the bastard in her/my life but when you become secure in and within yourself, it all seems kinda foolish
I'm so thankful that I'm not stupid anymore. Here's praying that I don't relapse.
so what happened then? What brought this on?
A post in the gemini forum nugglenuts.
ew. The Gemini forum is like the manifestation of stupid.
Lol, no wonder
Anyways, I am dumb as fuck sometimes. I am getting better...but it's a work-in-progress.
Dumbfuck recovery, as you have called it Tubbs, is like any other recovery. It's not like you're ever going to be completely recovered. You'll always still do dumb ass shit...at least at some point you know what you're doing and you can stop yourself and be like really?!?! wtf am I doing right now?
& I don't think women are any more passive/permissive now than they were decades ago.
I think the opposite is true. I think more and more women are standing up and pointing out the dumbfuckery, as you have, calling more attention to it than before.
Nope. I think men have not taken to Women's Lib favorably and as a result, you have women who have a "sexual freedom" mind set while dude is drawing an opposite conclusion..."Ho."
The problems among women have existed since the beginning of time but society used to deal with dumbass bitches far more swiftly and resolutely. A woman caught cheating, sleeping with a married man, or otherwise being a dumbass could face...
Death by burning
Death by stoning
Shunning
Scarlet Lettering (which isn't as cool as it sounds)
In other countries/cultures, most of these practices are still in effect to this day and I think it's barbaric. My method is kinder and gentler...although a scarlet letter would be awesome to reinstate. I fear though that the hoes will wear it proudly. Baby phat might actually come out with a "Branded A" line of jeans that are to be sold in a hood near you.
haha, was is that post by the Cap girl looking for a gemini man??
I fear though that the hoes will wear it proudly. Baby phat might actually come out with a "Branded A" line of jeans that are to be sold in a hood near you.
Lol!!
Please let there be matching hats for easier identification.
Posted by DMV
haha, was is that post by the Cap girl looking for a gemini man??
undoubtedly
Lol. But sometimes stupid really hurts your head and you don't even care if they get sound advice because they're stupid and it doesn't matter. :/
I would rather not even respond.
i can't stand half assed threads. give me all the info or keep on moving...because you are looking for nothing more than someone to change your diaper.
Exactly! That's how I feel about half the females coming on here for "advice."
Sometimes the level of stupidity is unreal. Like there is no way these females do not see what we see. There is no way they are that dumb that they really don't see the blindingly obvious answer in front of them.
I swear, they don't even want real advice. They are just hoping that one person out there will agree with them and tell them what they want to hear so they can justify their own stupidity.
Haha that's why I'd rather not even respond. I just shake my head and keep on moving.
Posted by DetailsPlease
Damn, men are no where nearly as complicated as women.
Mostly true.
The only douche at present is you.
I don't give a damn about these bitches. Do you honestly believe people come to hear anything but an echo? Your warped ass thinks that imparting knowledge will make a woman who has been in a "relationship" with a man for 3 years but never met his kids realize that she aint nothin but a ho?
When a bitch is that far gone, they don't need kid gloves. They need a swift kick in the ass. Hence this thread.
Posted by ellessque
exactly my point.but...there are better ways to go about it than calling them stupid. at once the stoooopid word is thrown they don't hear you anymore.
best thing to do is to call them out, get their attention and they try the real talk.
but when you go straight to the jugular...they aren't hearing you, really. *shrugs*
they are like "I'm not stooooooopid, I can go be with douchebag right now if I want to, I'll show you, you internet text biatch....I'm not stooooooooopid" *wiping tears*
so, if we kick them while they are down, we are doing ourselves no justice. us bitches are all in this together.
haha....i called this one girl crazy and an idiot and she sent me a private message telling me how men i was to her and how dare i
Yes. A lot of the men here are golden.
They're the only ones that could truly give insight as to what a man might be really thinking
The bitch can spell. Her lazy ass chose not to.
If some mofo came up to me and asked if the sky was blue, yes, I will tell them that their shoes are butt ugly.
If they can't see the obvious, not God, not angels descending from the heavens, nor you or I can snap a bitch out of love sickness. That's why she needs to be beat down. In a few years she will get it and will applaud the "friends" who stood by her side but she'll be echoing me...
Damn, that color looked horrible.
Damn, what a dumbass I was for dealing with his sorry has.
Posted by ellessque
yeah!!! we now have something to disagree upon.i do believe in this case with the cap chic/gemini douche, tiki's approach was much better than the two of you. (no, i don't have a fever).
a women who has dove to the depths of stupid doesn't need more stupid to pull her to the surface. you did nothing more then frustrate her and make her dig her heels in even more. she hid her posts to manipulate the advice received and will walk back into the situation with a notebook full of misleading advice based on what she left exposed.
a little tact perhaps? sometimes that is all it takes from a member of the same sex pool to knock some sense in our thick heads.
yeah i can see that. i just was so floored by her behavior.
i just think that too much advice is sugar coated. if your a dumbass, your a dumbass.
some girls and men, get so caught up in their own craziness that they forget all about reason.
it takes a 3rd party to come in and shed some light
ellesque, you make a good point.
tact, is not my strong suit.
i did talk to her one on one and she asked me straight up, was she overreacting and i told her YES.
BUT some people just dont want to face the truth of the situation and the answers they receive arent the ones they want to read and they ignore them. when infact, those are the answers they really do need.
some people who post to blogs, want people to give them validation. one think i like about DXP is that the posters do not validate.
one thing i will say,
talking about her hair color, was a bit much...that had nothing to do with her problem of not respecting a jumpoff's place in the world
Posted by DMV
ellesque, you make a good point.tact, is not my strong suit.
*feeling your pain*
Sag Sun/Sag Merc.
Lol. I am doomed too
Yeah, she will hear me and that's the point. Maybe it's because you're a water sign that you're stupid? Real talk appeals to us earth sign folk. Fuck ya feelings!
She wants an echo chamber? Talk to your best gf.
Want real talk. Talk to a stranger. I don't know ya and don't give a damn about she or he. In the end, right is right, wrong is wrong and where you may need a paci and a blankey to see the light, who the fuck are you? I been meaning to slap your ass for months now.
who broke your heart? i sense some misdirected anger
@ellesque^^ that was good right?
i bet you afteer she logged off, she started to wonder if she was a jumpoff or not. and her and that gemini had a long conversation.
plus, shes gotta stop bringing men around her kids. in 3 years, she never met his kids. what does that say??
A change in hair color would do her good.
So if she was pretty, you think it would be beneficial to say, "you're a pretty girl. Any guy would love to be with you?". That's ok right? As ling as it's positive it's ok to say. But if it's real and happens to be negative, don't share that. Don't tell your girl that dress makes her look fat. Don't tell her she has on too much makeup. Don't tell her that her tracks are showing.
Thanks for proving my point. You bitches are dumb as fuck.
no Caligula, you are so angry that your even missing the point.
the way she looked had nothing to do with her problem. her problem was that she was a jumpoff and didnt know it.
Posted by DMV
i bet you afteer she logged off, she started to wonder if she was a jumpoff or not. and her and that gemini had a long conversation.plus, shes gotta stop bringing men around her kids. in 3 years, she never met his kids. what does that say??
Exactly!
She aint gotta like ya. She gotta hear ya.
When someone is THAT jaded, I throw the kitchen sink. Hate me so much that you don't forget me...or my words.
pisces will bring out the worst in me
cmon Caligula...
LMAO, her hair color had nothing to do with her desperate need for a father in her kids' life.
think about it, the way she writes is the way she talks. her friends probably talk just like her and do the same shit that she does. so she doesnt see a thing wrong with her behavior. it was until she got on the WORLD WIDE WEB, that reality set in
No, telling her that hair color looked horrible was pretty darn solid. In fact, I got a bottle of loreal with her name on it.
Lmao.... *shakes head*
So yall think she's legitimately stupid? Wow, you're some horrible, presumptuous bitches. I say she was lazy typing. Yall think she's truly ignant. Did yall come to this conclusion because her hair color is so hood?
I disagree. I think she is angry. It's her thing.
i also didnt notice her hair color. BUT once you mentioned it. i said yes, your right BUT it is so low on her list of priorities. lol
LOL @ he brought me gifts for me and my kids. lucky bitch
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