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Excuse the typos and the post in general...I needed to vent and Mar in Aries is all better now 🙂
Amen.
lmfao
Posted by caligula
Sometimes I really want to slap a bitch. Like I'd love to pull back and in one, swift, HARD blow, fuck something up other than what's in her middle. I listen to the laments of friends, read articles and posts, listen to music about the same old repetitive shit and ultimately what it boils down to is that women are dumb as fuck.
Trust me, I don't believe in striking someone unless I expect to get smacked the f@ck back. With that being said, I feel what you are saying 1000% .
love is easy. It's the purest, simplest emotion and yet we complicate it with so much shit. It's nice to never, ever wonder. To walk with confidence and to rest assured that no matter that you're in it together.
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Word. While relationships take work (daily), when you are in a HEALTHY relationship, and you KNOW yourself and accept yourself as you are; it only stands to reason that all the bs falls by the wayside and IF the person you are with ALSO has a high degree of self actualization and self acceptance, then everything else can work itself out. Most people make the ish harder than it has to be. Too often I've heard leagues of women complain about a guy when NOTHING bad is going on. It's only when they are embroiled in drama (violence, disrespect, infidelity, etc) that the women start touting how much they "love the guy" and can't "live without him."
Happy Holidays btw Cali 😉
Posted by caligula
Why are we justifying bad behavior? Do we all have daddy issues. Maybe that's why so many of us enjoy being physically, emotionally and verbally spanked?
I agree.
The best thing I ever did was stop making excuses for him.... & stop accepting other's excuses for him too - including his own.
A lot of people put me down for making the decision I did, they made all these excuses for him, like "waahhh he is just going through some shit, he spent a year in Iraq, don't be selfish, take one on the chin for him, he needs you."
He needs me, aka someone to take it out on? I don't think so... I'm not a doormat. I'll be there for him, I wouldn't completely walk out on him when he needs someone. (He wouldn't do that to me) BUT at the same time, being there doesn't mean letting him shit on you and stomp you down.
We now enjoy a very light-hearted relationship. We still spend tons of time together. The only difference now though is I don't have to. I don't feel obligated. If he starts getting shitty, I will leave and he won't hear from me until he's ready to apologize and/or change his tune. He knows I'm only there if I want to be, if he gives me reason to be.
Men only act the way they do because they get away with it.
Crap...my last post got lost in the internet abyss. In short...
Amen USC and Happy Holidays.
@thecat, you still don't get it and are thereby still dumb as fuck. If it makes you feel better, cap women are dumber and have owned the crown for 2010.
damn why we gotta be all that?
"It took a while but I'm starting to realize via Catfish that love is easy. It's the purest, simplest emotion and yet we complicate it with so much butter. It's nice to never, ever wonder. To walk with confidence and to rest assured that no matter that you're in it together"
That is probably the only paragraph I can 100% agree with you.
But all the other stuff is counterproductive. Yes, it's no secret that alot of women need backbones, BUT it's just AS disturbing to see some of YOU guys chasing after those VERY same women. Playing games with those very same women. Taking home to mama those very same women. Pretending to love those very same women. The pot can't call the kettle black. The men who are tired of broken-hearted women better NOT be the main ones doing all the heartbreaking.
I think both men AND women need to both get some standards. The women need to stop opening their legs for any guy that pays them some attention & you men need to stop being desperate enough to sleep with them, only to complain later that she "trapped you," gave you an std or grew feelings for you. In other words, the person doing the hitting/abusing can't knock the abused for crying & balling up in a corner afterwards.
THAT is the pattern I'm seeing. People who are apart of the problem ignore their accountability. Some things that are done to us are SUPPOSED to affect us negatively. Maybe not for long periods of time or forever, BUT granted, having a lack of love is supposed to affect someone. That's why we have parents, friends & support systems b/c God forbid any of us go through life without respect/love from others.
The main people complaining about how dumb/weak women are, are the MAIN ones doing everything they can to further step on the women who are already down. We are only human. We are only designed to handle/take so much. Yes, some of us need to learn when to let go and/or perhaps never to start with someone in the 1st place, but my goodness, we can't start blaiming others for genuinely believing in someone else b/c doing so would imply that we aren't supposed to trust anything/anybody. And if a person ever really wants true love, trust is exactly what'll have to happen. Some of us are fooled; some b/c we're blind. Others b/c the other person was THAT good at manipulation
If one must ask, one must need to be friend abused...once, maybe twice so that it sinks in.
Let's get on the guys:
1. You guys run around claiming you're tired of "HOES" but yet every time we look around, you're running/chasing after another skirt again. If you're THAT tired of the women who don't respect themselves, start chasing only the ones who do!
2. You guys hate women that are so bitter and/or who put up with nonsense. Well, 1, remember she's just believing in everything YOUR lying azs told her. And in love, that's what we're supposed to do. We're supposed to believe you when you say, "I won't hurt you." As soon as we get hurt, somehow WE are the ones who get blaimed. Pretty backwards if ya ask me.
3. The pot can't call the kettle black. The men who prey on the women who are "broken" are like big bullys who can't pick on someone their own size. What does it say about the man who only draws weak/submissive/broken women to him? SHE may have an excuse/reason to be broken, but HE doesn't have a real excuse to entertain her, especially if he's going to knock her for being so weak even after HE's the one who brought her home to mama!
4. You guys love having your cake & eating it too yet you guys look like deer in headlights when she gets pregnant, gives you an std or grows feelings for you. If you guys knew how to use your BIG head instead of your little 1, you wouldn't be stuck paying child support/raising a child you didn't want, treating a rash on your slinger all b/c you couldn't keep your slinger in your pants and/or trying to fend off a woman that finally started having feelings for you!
((BREATHE))
You can't beat someone up emotionally & then afterwards, look at them & say, "My gosh, you're bruised!"
Doesn't work that way!
The main people complaining about how dumb/weak women are, are the MAIN ones doing everything they can to further step on the women who are already down. We are only human. We are only designed to handle/take so much. Yes, some of us need to learn when to let go and/or perhaps never to start with someone in the 1st place, but my goodness, we can't start blaiming others for genuinely believing in someone else b/c doing so would imply that we aren't supposed to trust anything/anybody. And if a person ever really wants true love, trust is exactly what'll have to happen. Some of us are fooled; some b/c we're blind. Others b/c the other person was THAT good at manipulation
Yes, I am a "bend that back til it breaks" advocate. He wants to break her spirit and so do I.
Fuck WHY he does it. Fuck your reasons, your excuses, your justifications. Fire burns bitch. It takes a child but a few lessons to look both ways and yet, we as women suffer the same abuse, again and again while proclaiming "it aint my fault."
Fuck ya feelings. Aint no fairytales and starshine in this life. So while he's crackin your back and you're breaking your neck, turn round because yes, that is my foot in your ass.
A person only has control over themselves - nobody else; therefore, if they don't like the treatment by someone, then they need to NOT allow it and leave the situation. Using the women as the example, if they don't like the treatment/behavior of men, then they need to NOT be with them. They can't control the actions of the man, but they damn sure can control their own actions. For every man who has laid up with a woman, gotten a woman pregnant, gotten an std from one, etc, that SAME woman could have said "No." (I'm not talking about situations regarding rape/force). While I may think a lot of men are jackasses, there are some who are upstanding, forthright, honest and wanting to be in relationships. It may take time and work, but if a woman wants to be in a relationship with a man like that, then she needs to take responsible actions for herself, and not worry about those men who don't want, nor will appreciate her.
Oh I'm NOT blaiming women for why they put up with what they put up with. I 100% agree that a woman should take 100% accountability when she has been duped or fooled, even if it wasn't her fault or as a result of her being blind. There's this FALSE conception that all the women who get hurt only got hurt b/c they choose to be naive/blind. That's not true. Manipulation actually DOES work & even on the smartest people sometimes.
It's funny...when women start getting on the guys, all of the sudden they say, we're trying to place fault/blaim on them. All of the sudden, guys get uncomfortable and/or start calling us "feminist," but yet they want full ears when they're "getting on" us women.
My point was that women aren't the ONLY fools in this universe! If women are "dumb," men are just as dumb for messing with them! For instance, if a woman is dumb/weak for putting up with a man who control her, that very same man is just as insecure/weak & cowardly for only seeking a partner whom he can step on! Think about it! The weak kick it with the weak!
Let's talk about men? Let's not. Hold yourself accountable for you.
Or let me make this easy on myself...what USC said.
Krys, I didn't read that post about men because what they do doesn't matter. If WE raised the bar, THEY would rise up as well...or begin fucking each other in the ass and/or watching more porn.
Survival of the fittest. You adapt or you die.
To the dumbfucks out there who think their vaginas are gold plated and that you "deserve" better, EVOLVE...or suffer.
-If a woman is dumb/weak for putting up with a man who control her, that very same man is just as insecure/weak & cowardly for only seeking a partner whom he can step on! Think about it! The weak kick it with the weak!
-If women are dumb for putting up with the men who use them sexually, the men who are dumb enough to recognize her insecurities, KEEP sleeping with her, only to get mad when the pregnancy AND std test is positive are just AS foolish/weak.
-If women are dumb for believing the lying bastard who lied to & continually cheated on her, the man who did all the lying/cheating isn't the 1 who should be exploiting the emotional damage that resulted from it. If a man hasn't done a woman wrong & yet she makes him pay/suffer for what some other azshole did, he has every right to give her the "women are dumb," speech. But if a man is going to emotionally target & beat someone down emotionally, they look like cowardly idiots to point out & throw in her face how "Scarred/bruised" she is. Just saying
What BOTH genders do DOES matter b/c we both coexist with eachother. With every 100 dumb/strong women, there are 100 dumb/strong men behind her. They both go hand in hand.
So many people like to talk about the victim, but yet when it's time to talk about the villian (male OR female), people get uncomfortable & no longer want to discuss it. That's what I thought.
Posted by krysrenee7
Oh I'm NOT blaiming women for why they put up with what they put up with. I 100% agree that a woman should take 100% accountability when she has been duped or fooled, even if it wasn't her fault or as a result of her being blind. There's this FALSE conception that all the women who get hurt only got hurt b/c they choose to be naive/blind. That's not true. Manipulation actually DOES work & even on the smartest people sometimes.It's funny...when women start getting on the guys, all of the sudden they say, we're trying to place fault/blaim on them. All of the sudden, guys get uncomfortable and/or start calling us "feminist," but yet they want full ears when they're "getting on" us women.
My point was that women aren't the ONLY fools in this universe! If women are "dumb," men are just as dumb for messing with them! For instance, if a woman is dumb/weak for putting up with a man who control her, that very same man is just as insecure/weak & cowardly for only seeking a partner whom he can step on! Think about it! The weak kick it with the weak!
You're missing the point. I don't give a shit about dem. Let dem handle deres andus handle ours. You're complaining about the neighbor's yard when you got a snake in your grass and an old couch on your porch. When we get straight, then we can start throwing stones.
blablabla typical feminist bs
stfu bitch!
Posted by TG
What are you talking about caligula?A womans job is to listen to the man and do everything he says. Specially if he is going through a rough time. A real woman never complains, she takes care of her man.
And this is why Ms. Dumbfuck 2010 is Capricorn.
Wave and smile 😛
I used to be dumb as fuck too but now I'm in dumbfuck recovery.
Hilarious??_!
I??ll keep copy of this shit for ever..!
Love you too dumbfuck??_!
You be bitch
Individually people need to take responsibility for their OWN actions so that collectively it will make a difference. If you can't take care of yourself, you can't help somebody else out; as Cali alluded too, clean up your own back yard and then you can start helping others. As an example, if a woman meets a man and finds out he is married and then tells him to f@ck off, then that's ONE woman who is doing the right thing. She can't think about the next woman that will say yes to him, only HER saying no.
Awwwh hello love 🙂
I hope you're having a festive holiday season.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
caligula is the type of woman who tends to fight her masochist tendencies,
by trying to portray herself as tough and domineering.nice try (😛)
Nah, I just look for bitch ass fuckers such as yourself and show them my platinum plated dick.
There's nothing wrong with being a feminist or an advocate for black folk, latinos, children, elderly... Only a chauvinistic asshole would use "feminist" as a slur. I bet you think we're all lesbians eh? Bend over and let me show you how us "feminists" do it.
Posted by oldskoolflavor
caligula is the type of woman who tends to fight her masochist tendencies,
by trying to portray herself as tough and domineering.nice try (😛)
and that's why she is so cute! (atleast 1% of the time) she still has a big mouth. One of these days you gonna see me on the streets cali. Wacha gonna do then, ha?
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Tell your pimp that you're working the wrong corner.
And I did not give you permission to speak to me so fuck ya twice.
Posted by USCTaurusGal
Individually people need to take responsibility for their OWN actions so that collectively it will make a difference. If you can't take care of yourself, you can't help somebody else out; as Cali alluded too, clean up your own back yard and then you can start helping others. As an example, if a woman meets a man and finds out he is married and then tells him to f@ck off, then that's ONE woman who is doing the right thing. She can't think about the next woman that will say yes to him, only HER saying no.
Exactly!
It's the "if I won't, some other bitch will" defense. A lot of "women" do dirt because they have been on the receiving end of deception. Where grown ass women know to fault the man and keep on steppin, these sadistic, simple ass bitches (capricorns represent the "simple" crowd) will rationalize sleeping with married/involved men.
When a guy comes to realize that their are underhanded bitches out there, that far too many don't respect the sanctity of relationships, why should they?
This is why I advocate "Slap a Bitch" day. There should be a national day where your closest female friend should be allowed to whoop your ass if you're embroiled in something stupid. So many of us respond to violence and I say, we should use it productively. Like an adult spanking/timeout.
LOL, somehow Cali, I don't believe "Slap A Bitch Day" will likely ever be made a National Holiday!
there will always be dumb girls in the world. dumb girls give birth to kids and raise them dumb, thus continuing the cycle.
some men love dumb girls. makes life a helluva lot simpler. dumb girls have no expectations. their bar is set sooo low.
if two people love each other, making the other happy will always be the #1 goal
lol... dumbfuck recovery. I love that.
^^ have i ever told you what great lips you have?
unfortuantely, i am in and out of treatment. i am often tempted by my loins and succumb to fuckery. literally and figuratively
americans, including myself, were always taught the american dream.
date
get married
white picket fence
die
BUT
the values of todays american have become so jaded.
date
get knocked up
get knocked up again
get knocked up again
*you get the point
Posted by DMV
unfortuantely, i am in and out of treatment. i am often tempted by my loins and succumb to fuckery. literally and figurativelyIt's because you haven't been fucked (physically and mentally) by a real man.
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the only real man i know is my father...and that would be incest
i came on a boat!
wasnt the best trip of my life
who am i kidding, who the hell dates and gets married anymore...
shame
the values of todays american have become so jaded.
date
get knocked up
get knocked up again
get knocked up again*you get the point
OY! Ain't THAT the truth! But come on DMV, if you have a baby with someone they will love you forever; you are bound to them forever. Even if they don't return most of your phone calls, txt msgs, etc he will eventually come around...(dripping w/sarcasm).
latina women, will fight a fight for their man
the values of todays american have become so jaded.
date
get knocked up
get knocked up again
get knocked up again*you get the point
OY! Ain't THAT the truth! But come on DMV, if you have a baby with someone they will love you forever; you are bound to them forever. Even if they don't return most of your phone calls, txt msgs, etc he will eventually come around...(dripping w/sarcasm).
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what do you mean? are you implying that my first baby daddy wont keep his promise and stay with me forever? what about the second baby daddy? what about his best friend, my third baby daddy? they all made me the same promise!!!
a lot of latinas are abused about latin men...
not to pain them all with the same paintbrush...
each culture has its hangups
dont even get me started with the Black community (where have MY people gone wrong!!)
HA! i have seen the second one before...HIGHlarious
the values of todays american have become so jaded.
date
get knocked up
get knocked up again
get knocked up again*you get the point
OY! Ain't THAT the truth! But come on DMV, if you have a baby with someone they will love you forever; you are bound to them forever. Even if they don't return most of your phone calls, txt msgs, etc he will eventually come around...(dripping w/sarcasm).
what do you mean? are you implying that my first baby daddy wont keep his promise and stay with me forever? what about the second baby daddy? what about his best friend, my third baby daddy? they all made me the same promise!!!
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Oh, never, how could I imply such a thang!They will all continue to be upstanding men and love you forever...polygamy anyone 😉
the values of todays american have become so jaded.
date
get knocked up
get knocked up again
get knocked up again*you get the point
OY! Ain't THAT the truth! But come on DMV, if you have a baby with someone they will love you forever; you are bound to them forever. Even if they don't return most of your phone calls, txt msgs, etc he will eventually come around...(dripping w/sarcasm).
what do you mean? are you implying that my first baby daddy wont keep his promise and stay with me forever? what about the second baby daddy? what about his best friend, my third baby daddy? they all made me the same promise!!!
Oh, never, how could I imply such a thang!They will all continue to be upstanding men and love you forever...polygamy anyone 😉
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well, no bother because i met this nice guy at the Walmart and i really love him and i think i want to surprise him and have his baby..
what do you think?
Dont worry about the money. The US Government and the fine taxpayers of America support me and my kids very well.
LOL, DMV you are too much! OY! Honey, what you are saying isn't far from the truth. The sad thing is that so many women (young and old) get embroiled in this. *smh *
"If only, if only one of my good friends would domestically abused my ass just once, maybe that would've snapped me out of it."
Nope. You know how it goes. Women will forgive their man for anything, but let one of their girlfriends say one wrong thing to them and their friendship is down the drain! No matter how long they've been friends.
And who the hell got Krys started.
People are so willing to acknowledge that "Stereotypes" are literally what they sound like. STEREOtypes, meaning for every person that fits the description, there is another 100 people who don't. So there's no use in stereotyping, especially now b/c they're always 1 million people that can prove them all wrong.
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Sometimes I really want to slap a bitch. Like I'd love to pull back and in one, swift, HARD blow, fuck something up other than what's in her middle. I listen to the laments of friends, read articles and posts, listen to music about the same old repetitive shit and ultimately what it boils down to is that women are dumb as fuck.
I used to be dumb as fuck too but now I'm in dumbfuck recovery. I know what it's like to spend years with the same sorry ass fucker and love him "in spite of," "because of" and out of a belief that you are "destined to."
If only, if only one of my good friends would domestically abused my ass just once, maybe that would've snapped me out of it. I'm not talking full-on abuse...just a hard "love tap." After all, that's what he does right? Or maybe just yelled at to the point that I "understand." I mean, that's what he does right?
It just seems as if we're collectively putting up with more and more bullshit. The level of passivity, acceptance, self-degredation seems far more pungent now than it ever was in my youth. Why are we justifying bad behavior? Do we all have daddy issues. Maybe that's why so many of us enjoy being physically, emotionally and verbally spanked?
It took a while but I'm starting to realize via Catfish that love is easy. It's the purest, simplest emotion and yet we complicate it with so much shit. It's nice to never, ever wonder. To walk with confidence and to rest assured that no matter that you're in it together.
New Years is supposed to mark a rebirth so for those of you who are stuck, who are left waiting, wondering, hurt, bruised and battered, may I ask you a question?
Since you're content with his using and abusing you, can I have a go at whooping your ass?
PlEeeeaaAse...