Coochiecoochiecoo
@Coochiecoochiecoo
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Posted by Gemitati
I think you need to press charges.
How dare she? Leg slapping? What’s next? Dick sucking? That woman is a savage! She is a danger to ‘want to be fit’ society! Lmao

Posted by ACsquarepluto
Even when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
What are your goals and reasons for getting a PT? Do you just expected her stand 10 feet back and yell directions? They will get close to you to correct your form and spot you. Unless you just wanted a conversation buddy while speed walking on the treadmill.
Posted by hydorah
This is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
Posted by SoftMachine
If you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.


Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ACsquarepluto
Even when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.click to expand

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by SoftMachine
If you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.
Look at the particular context and then tell me what you think as it didn’t seem to be for the sake of more efficient PT.click to expand
Posted by SoftMachinePosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by SoftMachine
If you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.
Look at the particular context and then tell me what you think as it didn’t seem to be for the sake of more efficient PT.
A lot of blah blahs
What was the bigger offense, the slapping or her commentsclick to expand
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by Coochiecoochiecoo
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
Good natured hazing is part of training in groups. Get fired up instead of feeling hurt.
She threw the gauntlet now pick it up and slap her with the gauntlet left and right.
Grow a skinclick to expand
Posted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by hydorahPosted CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ACsquarepluto
Even when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.
if the slap is unwelcome, just slap her back lol
Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full on brawl
Like a 3 Stooges shtick with 50 lbs dumbbells.click to expand
Posted by wagtail
Maybe first sesh is a bit full on. If it was 3 months in or something I’d understand a more playful attitude and it’d be fine.

Posted by ItsSupes
It’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Posted by hydorah
I think she's attracted to you
Posted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by hydorahPosted CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ACsquarepluto
Even when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.
if the slap is unwelcome, just slap her back lol
Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full on brawl
Like a 3 Stooges shtick with 50 lbs dumbbells.
No but be honest. How would a leg slap feel for not being able to do sit ups properly by a trainer you’ve just started with and met a handful of times several years ago
My old trainer tapped me on the face with a boxing pad when I missed the count. And that was our 2nd session or something.
You're insisting your question on me like you want a different answer. But obviously people have different boundaries as you can see here. If it makes you uncomfortable, communicate it like ACsq had said.click to expand

Posted by FireStarter
And no I don't think it's a violation of your personal space lol.

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupes
It’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?click to expand

Posted by hydorah
This is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by MademoiselleFisk
What are your goals and reasons for getting a PT? Do you just expected her stand 10 feet back and yell directions? They will get close to you to correct your form and spot you. Unless you just wanted a conversation buddy while speed walking on the treadmill.
I get correcting form. I really do. But slapping my leg to tell me I’m not as good at sit ups (granted it was playful) left me feeling annoyed as it’s someone not understanding my boundary.
Would you mind it in this particular context?click to expand
Posted by ItsSupesPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupes
It’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?
I definitely wouldn’t be taking it that way you’re taking it.
Did you take it sexually?click to expand


Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupesPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupes
It’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?
I definitely wouldn’t be taking it that way you’re taking it.
Did you take it sexually?
No. I took it as unnecessary for the actual training. Felt it was a little disrespectful as it wasn’t really part of achieving any goals.click to expand


Posted by GemitatiPosted by hydorah
This is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
That’s my man! Sorry...The King! 😍click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptune
Next sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"

Posted by Coochiecoochiecoo
I’m not insisting for it to be a different answer. I genuinely want to detail the question with as much context as possible so I can get sincere responses of what people feel. I know it’s different for all and so I’m happy if someone genuinely has a different POV.

Posted by hydorahPosted by LadyNeptune
Next sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
If he had germaphobia he probably wouldn't be in a gymclick to expand


Posted by hydorahPosted by GemitatiPosted by hydorah
This is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
That’s my man! Sorry...The King! 😍
I'm sorry that I'm not faithful to the queen, but I respect your commitment to the education of our retarded kids 👍click to expand

Posted by hydorahPosted by Coochiecoochiecoo
I’m not insisting for it to be a different answer. I genuinely want to detail the question with as much context as possible so I can get sincere responses of what people feel. I know it’s different for all and so I’m happy if someone genuinely has a different POV.
Honestly I think it falls into rape terrritoryclick to expand
Posted by TxOgal
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
Posted by LadyNeptune
Next sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by LadyNeptune
Next sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
Do you feel it is an over reaction on my part personally? Or would you just expect it as part and parcel of the PT game.click to expand

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgal
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.click to expand


Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgal
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.click to expand
Posted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgal
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
click to expand

Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgal
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.![]()
Tell the truth of your feelings.click to expand

Posted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgal
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.![]()
Tell the truth of your feelings.
Tie me to a chairclick to expand


Posted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by PowerDonutPosted by Coochiecoochiecoo
Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
How will a female spot you?
Females is it possible to spot a male? Say he lifts 200 squats 400
lmao. OP is a dude? I didn't know...click to expand
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Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?