@Orchidee
9 Years
Calling all Libra moons to help
I can't help you cause I don't confuse love with infatuation. If anything, I almost refuse to because that gives someone else power over me. Also if I don't want to be tied down by someone, they know because I'm sometimes hurtful in my bluntness.
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.
Posted by nikkistar
I can't help you cause I don't confuse love with infatuation. If anything, I almost refuse to because that gives someone else power over me. Also if I don't want to be tied down by someone, they know because I'm sometimes hurtful in my bluntness.
What's your sun sign? I'm not blunt and I don't think bluntness is a libra moon trait. We're quite diplomatic and peacemakers.
Posted by nikkistar
I can't help you cause I don't confuse love with infatuation. If anything, I almost refuse to because that gives someone else power over me. Also if I don't want to be tied down by someone, they know because I'm sometimes hurtful in my bluntness.What's your sun sign? I'm not blunt and I don't think bluntness is a libra moon trait. We're quite diplomatic and peacemakers.
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Scorpio with a 6 planet stellium in my 4th house of Libra. And most Leeb moons aren't peacemakers, most are actually pot stirrers and are known for it. Ask @ram416
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.
This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
Posted by nikkistar
I can't help you cause I don't confuse love with infatuation. If anything, I almost refuse to because that gives someone else power over me. Also if I don't want to be tied down by someone, they know because I'm sometimes hurtful in my bluntness.What's your sun sign? I'm not blunt and I don't think bluntness is a libra moon trait. We're quite diplomatic and peacemakers.
Scorpio with a 6 planet stellium in my 4th house of Libra. And most Leeb moons aren't peacemakers, most are actually pot stirrers and are known for it. Ask @ram416
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Oh, I agree! We are instigators but we have a peacemaker front. At least I do as well as the ones I know.
Posted by Ravishing
How old are you?
I turned 31
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
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On and off relationships shouldn't be counted. They are not exactly ideal. I'm looking for a consistent partnership where I don't feel like straying.
Posted by Ravishing
How old are you?I turned 31
Hmm, very interesting.
Maybe when you meet the guy you'll just "know."
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You thought I'm some immature little child confused, right? LOL. I do find this trait about myself annoying and childish. I want to be rid of it but no man has been able to quench that consistent desire to be in a relationship with them. I'm unable to connect with them emotionally for some reason. This current guy has been able to keep me interested for 8 months and that's huge for me.
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
On and off relationships shouldn't be counted. They are not exactly ideal. I'm looking for a consistent partnership where I don't feel like straying.
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Our off period wasn't for negative reasons, it was to allow him to fix his depression. We continued to communicate through it all and i communicated with his mom too. So I don't really consider it a true break.
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
On and off relationships shouldn't be counted. They are not exactly ideal. I'm looking for a consistent partnership where I don't feel like straying.
Our off period wasn't for negative reasons, it was to allow him to fix his depression. We continued to communicate through it all and i communicated with his mom too. So I don't really consider it a true break.
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Oh, okay. Makes sense. So how did you know he was the one? I'm a cancer sun as well btw
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
On and off relationships shouldn't be counted. They are not exactly ideal. I'm looking for a consistent partnership where I don't feel like straying.
Our off period wasn't for negative reasons, it was to allow him to fix his depression. We continued to communicate through it all and i communicated with his mom too. So I don't really consider it a true break.
Oh, okay. Makes sense. So how did you know he was the one? I'm a cancer sun as well btw
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He feels like home to me.
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
On and off relationships shouldn't be counted. They are not exactly ideal. I'm looking for a consistent partnership where I don't feel like straying.
Our off period wasn't for negative reasons, it was to allow him to fix his depression. We continued to communicate through it all and i communicated with his mom too. So I don't really consider it a true break.
Oh, okay. Makes sense. So how did you know he was the one? I'm a cancer sun as well btw
He feels like home to me.
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How long have you been with him?
Posted by nikkistar
I can't help you cause I don't confuse love with infatuation. If anything, I almost refuse to because that gives someone else power over me. Also if I don't want to be tied down by someone, they know because I'm sometimes hurtful in my bluntness.What's your sun sign? I'm not blunt and I don't think bluntness is a libra moon trait. We're quite diplomatic and peacemakers.
Scorpio with a 6 planet stellium in my 4th house of Libra. And most Leeb moons aren't peacemakers, most are actually pot stirrers and are known for it. Ask @ram416
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Truth 😝
Posted by Ravishing
How old are you?I turned 31
Hmm, very interesting.
Maybe when you meet the guy you'll just "know."
You thought I'm some immature little child confused, right? LOL. I do find this trait about myself annoying and childish. I want to be rid of it but no man has been able to quench that consistent desire to be in a relationship with them. I'm unable to connect with them emotionally for some reason. This current guy has been able to keep me interested for 8 months and that's huge for me.
Lmfao I thought you were like some High School moron.
But very interesting situation. Maybe there's like a deep-rooted problem you have trusting and opening up to men? For you to like lose interest and run off before things truly get serious? I honestly have no idea.
Maybe just date who you're dating now, have fun and if things end take a long break and do some soul-searching.
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LOL!
I've been reading up on abandonment issues. Perhaps I have that and just haven't gotten help. I will seek that if my current relationship goes the same way.
Posted by Orchidee
I have been seeing a Sag guy since January but we became official in July. If we count from January, this is the longest I've gone in a relationship without feeling stagnant. He keeps me active and on the go. I suppose I never get bored with him. I know that our relationship won't always stay this carefree and fun. In my last couple relationships, I would lose interest in my partner about 6 months later or keep my eyes open for other prospects.This is a trait I exhibit when single. It just takes the right one to get you to commit. My cancer is that for me. Two years on and off now.
On and off relationships shouldn't be counted. They are not exactly ideal. I'm looking for a consistent partnership where I don't feel like straying.
Our off period wasn't for negative reasons, it was to allow him to fix his depression. We continued to communicate through it all and i communicated with his mom too. So I don't really consider it a true break.
Oh, okay. Makes sense. So how did you know he was the one? I'm a cancer sun as well btw
He feels like home to me.
How long have you been with him?
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2 years
Also prior to him, after my divorce from a 13 year married, i had a few years where I got bored constantly with guys. It was a miracle if anything lasted past a month to three. Everyone bored me or annoyed me. I can also admit that I wasn't as into my husband as I am invested in my Cancer. I believe I stayed married for the sake of my son more than for myself.
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,
Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
Let me get this straight... A few months ago you were slamming Sagittarius moons for being disingenuous with their love. Now you’re asking for advice for pretty much the same thing??
Posted by Orchidee
I'm a Libra moon and I fall "in and out of love" a lot or rather confuse infatuation with love. How do I know when it's the real deal and will it ever be real for me instead of getting stagnant and leaving the relationship?The best help available is for you to remove all this from project status and not worry about it. Anything beyond your control, or rather, variables in life on which you find yourself expending inordinate amounts of energy, should be left to themselves. Leave these things alone and what is meant for you in this area will happen in its own good time.
It doesn’t make sense to create major life goals out of variables.
If you remove the concern (crucial to this is seeing it for what it is), the problem goes with it and doesn’t require any resolution.
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That's good advice but if all my relationships turn out the same way, then I'm the problem. I want to fix it but not by remaining single or leaving it alone. To be honest, I have never really been single. I'm not good with being single. I think concern is necessary to fix a problem.
Posted by nikkistar
Also prior to him, after my divorce from a 13 year married, i had a few years where I got bored constantly with guys. It was a miracle if anything lasted past a month to three. Everyone bored me or annoyed me. I can also admit that I wasn't as into my husband as I am invested in my Cancer. I believe I stayed married for the sake of my son more than for myself.
I guess I have to meet the right person. It seems you went through something similar to what I'm facing.
That's good advice but if all my relationships turn out the same way, then I'm the problem. I want to fix it but not by remaining single or leaving it alone. To be honest, I have never really been single. I'm not good with being single. I think concern is necessary to fix a problem.
I think your first step, is learning to be okay by being alone. If you are co-dependent on not per say a person, but the act of being in a relationship, then you will continually have issues of boredom. After my divorce, I took more than a year of just being alone. I had fallen into a pattern of someone always being there, and having no one made me uncomfortable. Being self aware of that issue, I purposely didn't date anyone for quite some time, to allow myself time to fix those issues I saw within myself. And yes, I dated after, and I got bored with people, but I didn't waste my time on something that I didn't feel would lead to anything significant. At the same time, I didn't really care if I was with someone or not by then.
i talk myself into it. its usually an overthinking thing, try meditate to calm your mind/thoughts so you can really absorb time together and develop deep feelings. its also naturally how libras are they feel indifference mixed with love. i feel like the only way to really feel in love is to become attached, like toxic love attached lmao.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
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well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
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That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
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tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
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I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
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put this in your head,a person who doesnt put effort into you doesnt deserve your love and affection,and a person who doesnt put effort into someone wont think twice to replace them since they didnt put in time,effort and feelings in it,if your an aqua then you really need someone who is consistent,we aquas put wall for a reason and i dont know about you but i get dissapointed when someone who i feel is special to me cant consistently show the same effort i put in for them😯
Erotic love or infatuation is still a form of love
just not the type of love even when it's reciprocated btw that sustains relationships.
it is however the type of love that initiates most relationships.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
a person who doesnt put effort into you doesnt deserve your love and affection,and a person who doesnt put effort into someone wont think twice to replace them since they didnt put in time,effort and feelings in it
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💯% truth!! I couldn't agree more wit this statement. Also, as an Aqua I'm the same way.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
a person who doesnt put effort into you doesnt deserve your love and affection,and a person who doesnt put effort into someone wont think twice to replace them since they didnt put in time,effort and feelings in it
💯% truth!! I couldn't agree more wit this statement. Also, as an Aqua I'm the same way.
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they say we are emotionless,if only they knew😂it really is true only an aqua can totally understand an aqua,how old are you anyway?
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
a person who doesnt put effort into you doesnt deserve your love and affection,and a person who doesnt put effort into someone wont think twice to replace them since they didnt put in time,effort and feelings in it
💯% truth!! I couldn't agree more wit this statement. Also, as an Aqua I'm the same way.
I'm confused. You told @nikkistar that you are a Cancer sun, but told @aquarius3189 that you are an Aquarius. Which one is it?
Also, I have a Libra moon and don't have this problem. The problem I have is actually finding someone who I am truly interested in and where sparks fly. I would love to find that. I am independent and live alone. I have gotten comfortable with being alone that it would take someone who is amazing to give that up. Unfortunately, I can't seem to find that person.
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My bad. I meant Aquarius. I got sidetracked reading about her Cancer man.
I'm what you're describing except I don't know how to be alone and I've noticed this to be a prevalent problem with libra moons, not just myself. My sister's a libra moon too and she has the same problem of not knowing how to be alone. I am impressed that you're able to do that. I wish I could. I wonder what it is that makes you so different from other libra moons. What is your sun, and Venus?
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
a person who doesnt put effort into you doesnt deserve your love and affection,and a person who doesnt put effort into someone wont think twice to replace them since they didnt put in time,effort and feelings in it
💯% truth!! I couldn't agree more wit this statement. Also, as an Aqua I'm the same way.
they say we are emotionless,if only they knew😂it really is true only an aqua can totally understand an aqua,how old are you anyway?
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True. I think my fellow Aquas just understand that inner loneliness I feel. Maybe it comes from being double air. Maybe what makes me feel alone even though I have a partner at all times is the aqua energy.
Posted by Aquarius3189
Then you havent found the one,keep on looking,someone whose consistent but will never bore you,Me and my leeb moon gf are already 11years together and still counting she never strayed
Maybe I'm dating all the wrong signs. Let's see how this Sag pans out. So far so good. If I can make the one yr mark, that's a milestone.
well my leeb moon gf has been a playgirl in the past and i didnt know she has a boyfriend while dating me until we were 3months into going out but then she choose me over the 1yr bf after i made her fall inlove with me she never cheated after that episode in our relationship
That's the thing I'm guilty of doing as well and I fully understand that's not the right thing to do because I sure as hell wouldn't like it if a man did that to me. I would want someone who is available physically and emotionally. I'm a work in progress.
tell me about it,my leeb moon is a scorp it took me years to finally make her open up to me she has trust issues,you need someone that is patient and someone who will make effort in making you fall inlove with them,and consistent otherwise you will stray again😂
I guess I need someone with great patience willing to make the effort to make me fall in love with them but in today's world, what man really has the time to do that? He'll turn around and there's another woman waiting for him for whom he may not have to put in any effort😢 We live in a world where we want instant gratification without any work. I guess since I'm also Aqua sun, I should eventually get with a friend, because only a friend would wait around.
a person who doesnt put effort into you doesnt deserve your love and affection,and a person who doesnt put effort into someone wont think twice to replace them since they didnt put in time,effort and feelings in it
💯% truth!! I couldn't agree more wit this statement. Also, as an Aqua I'm the same way.
I'm confused. You told @nikkistar that you are a Cancer sun, but told @aquarius3189 that you are an Aquarius. Which one is it?
Also, I have a Libra moon and don't have this problem. The problem I have is actually finding someone who I am truly interested in and where sparks fly. I would love to find that. I am independent and live alone. I have gotten comfortable with being alone that it would take someone who is amazing to give that up. Unfortunately, I can't seem to find that person.
My bad. I meant Aquarius. I got sidetracked reading about her Cancer man.
I'm what you're describing except I don't know how to be alone and I've noticed this to be a prevalent problem with libra moons, not just myself. My sister's a libra moon too and she has the same problem of not knowing how to be alone. I am impressed that you're able to do that. I wish I could. I wonder what it is that makes you so different from other libra moons. What is your sun, and Venus?
Sun and Venus in Aries. My south node is also in Aries, so it could be my comfort zone. But I may not be reaching my full potential unless in a partnership as my North node is in Libra in the 8th house.
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Makes sense. You have a strong presence with you Aries while My Venus and Mars is weak. I have Venus in Capri and mars in Aries.
Posted by lesenfantterribles
i am a water sun w/ libra moon & i can kindddda relate. while i dont confuse infatuation w/ love, i can concede to certain things to have my needs met.i have gone thru many periods of dating around & blips of short lived relationships. only fell in love w/ ppl who made it easy to be with.
i know libras tend to get the pot stirrer reputation (w/ that facade of wanting peace & balance) but i dont think of it as a negative quality. i read somewhere that libra moons tend to see things critically, pinpointing areas of imbalance. they fixate on the imbalance ( aka pot stirring) & try to balance everything out. kinda like a control freak. i’ve caught myself trying to fix the imbalance in other ppl’s lives & realized i was meddling/being nosey af bc i couldnt help but fixate on the problem, to solve it. libras want harmonious environments & will try to fix whatever is fucking up that flow.
When you say short lived relationships, how long were they? Is one yr short?
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I'm a Libra moon and I fall "in and out of love" a lot or rather confuse infatuation with love. How do I know when it's the real deal and will it ever be real for me instead of getting stagnant and leaving the relationship?