What are the emotional needs of a Scorpio moon?

Time and again, I have read articles and user experiences on how they will stick with a person "just for the sake of it" because they are in a relationship and their partner loves them.

And when someone who eventually does come along who piques their interest, they fly away with them, or worse cheat on their existing partner.

The worse part is, their partner might not even know about this, as they dont communicate.

And almost every moon scorpio person who has confessed to cheating, its the same old response "My emotional needs were not met".

So my question to you scorpio moon peeps (especially those who have strung along their partners for long periods of time "just for the sake of it" ) is :

What are your emotional needs?
Why are you so coward that you don't let go?
Does it ever occur to you that you are ruining other people's lives?

(Scorpio mooners who are/have been in a happy relationship and are evolved enough to have not strung their partners along need not put in their two cents).

1. Love me and only me
2. Have passion
3. Be able to bounce out of altercations and moods
4. When we love something, we LOVE THE CRAP outta it
5. Be sincere

It took me years to realize that I hurt people in the process.
karma is a biotch.
now i am 100% appreciative of my relationship and i stick no matter what.
but that was a major learning curve.

What are my emotional needs?

Keep it simple. And, a companionship.

i have emotional needs

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i have emotional needs

Housecleaning, are you a Scorpio moon too— :O wow, we're so cool Ž

Posted by RumiL
What are my emotional needs?

Keep it simple. And, a companionship.

Ever been in a serious long term relationship?

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1. Love me and only me
2. Have passion
3. Be able to bounce out of altercations and moods
4. When we love something, we LOVE THE CRAP outta it
5. Be sincere

It took me years to realize that I hurt people in the process.
karma is a biotch.
now i am 100% appreciative of my relationship and i stick no matter what.
but that was a major learning curve.

Thank you for the clarity.

Also what would happen when you have alll that but find someone "more interesting" and giving you all this.

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Posted by RumiL
What are my emotional needs?

Keep it simple. And, a companionship.

Ever been in a serious long term relationship?

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No

I've noticed this with fixed placements, tbh.

I'm starting to think fixed placements are the psychopaths of all things zodiac.

In regard to your questions, the answer to all three is "selfish." Selfish people do that. They should be shipped off to an island and not allowed back into the general population until they've done 5 years hard labor.

Not really, but these types are the most disgusting human beings and shouldn't be allowed near anyone, tbh.

Yes yes now tell us about your emotional needs. We always hear you saying that your emotional needs aren't being met and that you are not satisfied in a relationship. What are those needs ? Spill it c' mon

For me it's all about riding with me through my emotional waves. Though intense I get past them quickly and I'm back to the good old me in no time. Other then that don't be an idiot and give me reasons to not trust you. That's most important.

Posted by LuckyLibra979
Depends on maturity. Scorpio is about surviving the emotional currents we call life.

My sister....she needs help. Professional help. Her emotions have no floor nor ceiling. She is like the scorpion stinging himself, the Phoenix going up in flames....

My brother tho....he is different. He is actually a comforting, dependable and very devoted person. I can't speak high enough about him

So it depends. They need nurturing but are afraid they can't keep it

We can't keep what ? ?

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For me it's all about riding with me through my emotional waves. Though intense I get past them quickly and I'm back to the good old me in no time. Other then that don't be an idiot and give me reasons to not trust you. That's most important.

+1
That's me

I had so much success with cancer moon cause he matched my level of passion. He was consistent.

Its hard to put a finger on it. I just know over time if someone has what it takes.

Direct clear intentions. Dont ever leave me guessing.

You cant fake being genuine. You cant fake who you really are. If im giving you crazy, give me crazy. Don't give me normal if im being irrational.

You must know how to screw like a rabbit.

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Posted by sparkle11
1. Love me and only me
2. Have passion
3. Be able to bounce out of altercations and moods
4. When we love something, we LOVE THE CRAP outta it
5. Be sincere

It took me years to realize that I hurt people in the process.
karma is a biotch.
now i am 100% appreciative of my relationship and i stick no matter what.
but that was a major learning curve.

Thank you for the clarity.

Also what would happen when you have alll that but find someone "more interesting" and giving you all this.

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I have a Capricorn sun and Scorpio moon and Venus. Not sure about other Scorpio moon types, but typically, when I'm really interested in someone (because my needs were met) I wouldn't really bother looking at others. I don't really notice them or think about them as someone with whom I can cheat on my partner. But we also need to periodically test whether our needs are being met, probably because we feel most alive in emotional intensity.

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Posted by sparkle11
1. Love me and only me
2. Have passion
3. Be able to bounce out of altercations and moods
4. When we love something, we LOVE THE CRAP outta it
5. Be sincere

It took me years to realize that I hurt people in the process.
karma is a biotch.
now i am 100% appreciative of my relationship and i stick no matter what.
but that was a major learning curve.

Thank you for the clarity.

Also what would happen when you have alll that but find someone "more interesting" and giving you all this.

I have a Capricorn sun and Scorpio moon and Venus. Not sure about other Scorpio moon types, but typically, when I'm really interested in someone (because my needs were met) I wouldn't really bother looking at others. I don't really notice them or think about them as someone with whom I can cheat on my partner. But we also need to periodically test whether our needs are being met, probably because we feel most alive in emotional intensity.

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So what do you need in a relationship to stay faithful ? and how will you define emotional intensity ?

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Posted by sparkle11
1. Love me and only me
2. Have passion
3. Be able to bounce out of altercations and moods
4. When we love something, we LOVE THE CRAP outta it
5. Be sincere

It took me years to realize that I hurt people in the process.
karma is a biotch.
now i am 100% appreciative of my relationship and i stick no matter what.
but that was a major learning curve.

Thank you for the clarity.

Also what would happen when you have alll that but find someone "more interesting" and giving you all this.

I have a Capricorn sun and Scorpio moon and Venus. Not sure about other Scorpio moon types, but typically, when I'm really interested in someone (because my needs were met) I wouldn't really bother looking at others. I don't really notice them or think about them as someone with whom I can cheat on my partner. But we also need to periodically test whether our needs are being met, probably because we feel most alive in emotional intensity.

So what do you need in a relationship to stay faithful ? and how will you define emotional intensity ?

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What do I need? See Sparkle11. Primarily, Scorpio moons are very afraid of loving someone, only to realize that that person doesn't love them back as much. The partner needs to provide that security, through transparency. The specifics of this depend on what kind of Scorpio moon you're dealing with, i.e. How they recognize that love is being expressed.

To stay faithful? Personally I'm not inclined towards straying. But I would need to be convinced that person was mine, devoted to me only. Faithful, prioritizes me, someone worth spending my time and effort and attention on.

How I'd define emotional intensity? I don't know, it's something that is experienced, not described. I'll try to give examples, but I can't describe emotional intensity between partners.

When a partner loves the Scorpio moon intensely, it is definitely felt by the Scorpio moon. That's intense emotion. When heartache is felt, it is a powerful hollow ball of pain, kind of like a pulsing black hole. Pain radiates from that hollow ball down to the very tips of your toes. That's emotional intensity.

Some don't realize the love when their partner tried all along to show it in every way that was possible. In my experience the Scorpio moon begins to take their partner for granted, at least that's what it felt like to me. Scared of loving and afraid to say it? Yes. Then gets pissed off in a fight and storms off like a bratty five year old child and never wants to talk about it or see what went wrong and fight for it? Yes.

I have heard stories of several Scorp moons who did this and then regretted years down the road that it was the best person for them and they royally fucked it up.

So, then why, I ask would you treat someone like that, when they proved their love and loyalty to you? I don't think I could ever date another Scorpio moon or Scorpio sun.

What I've learned from dating Scorpio Suns and Moons is that although transparency and kindness makes them feel more at ease (because you've essentially made yourself an open book, very vulnerable) they don't respect it in the long run, they abuse it; they are now comfortable with you as an open book because at that point they feel some sense of control over you. In their eyes, being transparent, kind and sweet comes across as weakness to them. Scorpionic energy doesn't respect what it senses as weakness.

I've found that they do indeed respect strength (emotional and mental) and strong boundaries. They may not like it (because they can't control a person with these), but they respect it.

Scorponic energy is self fulfilling, self defeating and self destructive when in its worst form.

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Scorponic energy is self fulfilling, self defeating and self destructive when in its worst form.

Finally, someone said it!