
Ram416
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Posted by Jules-llPosted by Gobby
Bossy, controlling, intrusive, vindictive, with a high tendency of exhibiting bi-polar tendencies.
I'm a Libra Sun and moon and I don't identify with any of the qualities described. I could care less what others think are cool. If I like it it's already cool with me. What is their viewpoint of emotional Substance?
Also, superficial, in every aspect of their lives, to the nth degree - if it's not publicly well-revered or lacking a cool factor, they're not interested. From an emotional viewpoint, substance is a concept they'll never fully understand (unless it's defined on their terms, of course)...
Going to strongly disagree with you on this, in fact superficiality and prejudice are my two biggest pet peeves. I'm vindictive when you mess with my loved ones, but that's my mars not moon.
Sure you're not thinking of Leeb suns with this description?click to expand

Posted by aquarius09Posted by BathHouseCulturePosted by aquarius09Posted by GobbyPosted by Jules-llPosted by Gobby
Bossy, controlling, intrusive, vindictive, with a high tendency of exhibiting bi-polar tendencies.
Also, superficial, in every aspect of their lives, to the nth degree - if it's not publicly well-revered or lacking a cool factor, they're not interested. From an emotional viewpoint, substance is a concept they'll never fully understand (unless it's defined on their terms, of course)...
Going to strongly disagree with you on this, in fact superficiality and prejudice are my two biggest pet peeves. I'm vindictive when you mess with my loved ones, but that's my mars not moon.
Sure you're not thinking of Leeb suns with this description? click to expand
I have at least four Libra mooners, IRL, to refer to. If I didn't notice a correlation, I wouldn't have bothered commenting.
While some may disagree, this is how I see Libra mooners from my own personal perspective.
Btw, liking stillstillwater's bitchy post just adds more weight to my own...
I am surrounded by Libra moons and I completely agree with everything you wrote about them. You have to have air in your chart to see these guys for what they really are. They use their charm to conceal their fatal personality flaws.
Aspects factor in. I agree that you need air to see the bs but I prefer to deal with a Libra moon than a sun.
I don’t know about aspects because all the Libra moons I interact with share same traits that annoy me. Unlike you, I’ll take Libra suns over moon. Moon placement is where you see the true essence of a zodiac sign play out.click to expand



Posted by dilettante
anyone ever read about libra moon being the “courtesan” placement?
i can kinda see it tbh


Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?

Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Dangus
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?
Yes. But I've never attributed this to my libra moon, always thought that was my mars...
What is your Mars?
My Libra moon Pisces was like that when he was single. He somehow sensed that I wouldn't be able to hold my shit together as well as he could, and he made me wait for sex. lol I did sleep with a couple men I liked but didn't love, so I know I can do it too, but he was able to put the brakes on if the love bug bit but things weren't working logically, and I was not able to do that.
He has Pisces Venus and Aries Mars.click to expand

Posted by dilettantePosted by stillstillwaterPosted by dilettante
anyone ever read about libra moon being the “courtesan” placement?
i can kinda see it tbh
definitely not. I won't say that sex is as close as love but for me there's always feelings involved after sex... even if I can't see myself dating that person. Of course, the missing ingredient in sex is always love. But I'm a woman so on the majority cases sex is emotionally tying for us.
i think, ultimately, this stems from males confusing intimacy for romance.
i guess, i can relate to it in this way,
i used to hook up w/ this guy, who actually likened me to a courtesan before - used thee exact word.
he said it was bc i was able to get him to emotionally open up & “feel safe” (intimacy). but bc i didn’t want a commitment & allowing him emotional space, i was “fucking with him”. he was convinced i was trying to make guys fall in love with me so, i could use them... for lord knows what... sex? i dunno.
i can develop feelings for someone after sex, sure. but to me, i can have sex with someone, care about them, & still not wanna date them... which i think is also what you said? i am able to not allow myself to fall in love with someone. my feelings will still get involved but i can create a boundary around the “love” wall, so to speak. i can deeeeply care for them but not allow myself to love them.
which is maybe where that courtesan thing comes into play? i, strictly, surround myself with intimate relationships. friends, family, romance, etc. i prefer one on one hang outs, or small groups. bc of this, i see & refer to people in my inner circle as companions. men tend to mistake that treatment bc it’s intimate.
so bc i create & thrive in intimate settings, the dude gets confused when i say i don’t wanna date but just keep it how it is. i haven’t had too many issues about hanging out with someone until one of us finds a more suitable person to date. as long as everyone is transparent & on the same page.
i mean, it’s kinda what everyone is doing with ONS FWB etc etc. anyway... filling the loneliness with someone who will do “for now”. i know not everyone is like this bc feelings can get/have gotten very involved but... this is how i kinda operate... maybe that’s fucked up but 🤷🏻♀️ it’s kinda worked for me tbh
😬 sorry if this was long & ramble-y... i haven’t really fleshed out this argument in my head yetclick to expand


Posted by Arielle83Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?
Yes from meclick to expand
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