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Pretty decent people. Easy to be with.
My brother is one.
Bossy, controlling, intrusive, vindictive, with a high tendency of exhibiting bi-polar tendencies.
I'm a Libra Sun and moon and I don't identify with any of the qualities described. I could care less what others think are cool. If I like it it's already cool with me. What is their viewpoint of emotional Substance?
Also, superficial, in every aspect of their lives, to the nth degree - if it's not publicly well-revered or lacking a cool factor, they're not interested. From an emotional viewpoint, substance is a concept they'll never fully understand (unless it's defined on their terms, of course)...
Going to strongly disagree with you on this, in fact superficiality and prejudice are my two biggest pet peeves. I'm vindictive when you mess with my loved ones, but that's my mars not moon.
Sure you're not thinking of Leeb suns with this description?
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Bossy, controlling, intrusive, vindictive, with a high tendency of exhibiting bi-polar tendencies.
Also, superficial, in every aspect of their lives, to the nth degree - if it's not publicly well-revered or lacking a cool factor, they're not interested. From an emotional viewpoint, substance is a concept they'll never fully understand (unless it's defined on their terms, of course)...
Going to strongly disagree with you on this, in fact superficiality and prejudice are my two biggest pet peeves. I'm vindictive when you mess with my loved ones, but that's my mars not moon.
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I have at least four Libra mooners, IRL, to refer to. If I didn't notice a correlation, I wouldn't have bothered commenting.
While some may disagree, this is how I see Libra mooners from my own personal perspective.
Btw, liking stillstillwater's bitchy post just adds more weight to my own...
I am surrounded by Libra moons and I completely agree with everything you wrote about them. You have to have air in your chart to see these guys for what they really are. They use their charm to conceal their fatal personality flaws.
Aspects factor in. I agree that you need air to see the bs but I prefer to deal with a Libra moon than a sun.
I don’t know about aspects because all the Libra moons I interact with share same traits that annoy me. Unlike you, I’ll take Libra suns over moon. Moon placement is where you see the true essence of a zodiac sign play out.
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"You have to have air to see the bs" ain't that the truth ahahahahahahhahaa. 😂😂😂
Eh..
Back and forth. Always trying keep peace
anyone ever read about libra moon being the “courtesan” placement?
i can kinda see it tbh
definitely not. I won't say that sex is as close as love but for me there's always feelings involved after sex... even if I can't see myself dating that person. Of course, the missing ingredient in sex is always love. But I'm a woman so on the majority cases sex is emotionally tying for us.
I know 3 more Libra moons and none ever described sex as just sex. It seems like there always had to be some additional attraction and emotional involvement. I think Libra moon would be much more comfortable with an affair rather than plain sex.
Sex for the sake of sex never seemed appealing to these people including myself.
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?
Yes. The tendency is to detach emotionally from an ONS or FWB situation and they do it with ease.
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?
Yes. But I've never attributed this to my libra moon, always thought that was my mars...
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?
Yes. But I've never attributed this to my libra moon, always thought that was my mars...
What is your Mars?
My Libra moon Pisces was like that when he was single. He somehow sensed that I wouldn't be able to hold my shit together as well as he could, and he made me wait for sex. lol I did sleep with a couple men I liked but didn't love, so I know I can do it too, but he was able to put the brakes on if the love bug bit but things weren't working logically, and I was not able to do that.
He has Pisces Venus and Aries Mars.
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I know that Libra moons are accused of being logical not emotional with our feelings, so that plays into it. But my scorpio mars wants what she wants, when she wants it lol.
anyone ever read about libra moon being the “courtesan” placement?
i can kinda see it tbh
definitely not. I won't say that sex is as close as love but for me there's always feelings involved after sex... even if I can't see myself dating that person. Of course, the missing ingredient in sex is always love. But I'm a woman so on the majority cases sex is emotionally tying for us.
i think, ultimately, this stems from males confusing intimacy for romance.
i guess, i can relate to it in this way,
i used to hook up w/ this guy, who actually likened me to a courtesan before - used thee exact word.
he said it was bc i was able to get him to emotionally open up & “feel safe” (intimacy). but bc i didn’t want a commitment & allowing him emotional space, i was “fucking with him”. he was convinced i was trying to make guys fall in love with me so, i could use them... for lord knows what... sex? i dunno.
i can develop feelings for someone after sex, sure. but to me, i can have sex with someone, care about them, & still not wanna date them... which i think is also what you said? i am able to not allow myself to fall in love with someone. my feelings will still get involved but i can create a boundary around the “love” wall, so to speak. i can deeeeply care for them but not allow myself to love them.
which is maybe where that courtesan thing comes into play? i, strictly, surround myself with intimate relationships. friends, family, romance, etc. i prefer one on one hang outs, or small groups. bc of this, i see & refer to people in my inner circle as companions. men tend to mistake that treatment bc it’s intimate.
so bc i create & thrive in intimate settings, the dude gets confused when i say i don’t wanna date but just keep it how it is. i haven’t had too many issues about hanging out with someone until one of us finds a more suitable person to date. as long as everyone is transparent & on the same page.
i mean, it’s kinda what everyone is doing with ONS FWB etc etc. anyway... filling the loneliness with someone who will do “for now”. i know not everyone is like this bc feelings can get/have gotten very involved but... this is how i kinda operate... maybe that’s fucked up but 🤷🏻♀️ it’s kinda worked for me tbh
😬 sorry if this was long & ramble-y... i haven’t really fleshed out this argument in my head yet
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That completely makes sense and it's what I meant too. I can have feelings for someone especially after sex but not want to date them.
I can see how this is difficult for someone and honestly a bit unfair.
If I want commitment though I'll definitely have the "what are we" convo 😁
To play devil’s advocate:
Yes, I agree that we can have a tendency to be manipulative.
However, I feel the manipulation comes out only when I feel there is an imbalance in a relationship, or some sort of injustice. It’s a natural tendency for me to correct any sort of imbalance. I am very compromising and I do wear rose-colored glasses, expecting people to do the right and just thing. If I feel a person is taking this for granted or being selfish or dishonest with me, the manipulative bitch comes out. I manipulate to “rebalance” the power in the relationship dynamic.
When I feel wronged, I do feel vindictive. I can never hold on to that toxicity for too long though ... I usually end up cutting off the person or situation that wronged me at this point. I think this is what separates the libra mooner from the scorpio mooner, the inability to hold onto the “feeling” for too long, and to act on it. This is too draining for an air moon.
My mom's a Libra moon.. She's the fairest of them all.
Um, I just noticed a Libra moon pattern that I hadn't before. Folks can confirm or deny. Does it tend to be easy for Libra moons to separate love from sex, have ONS and FWBs and such until they find the right partner?
Yes from me
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Me too. It's also said that Libra moons can make others feel strong passion but they themselves don't feel what they are projecting.
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