Conflicting parenting.

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PurtyWingzFly2
@PurtyWingzFly2
7 Years

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Why there would be reasons someone get you pregnant but doesn’t want nothing to do with you? They stated they got you pregnant on purpose but doesn’t want a relationship what’s the main reason into that ? People don’t realize be careful who you have a baby by ?! I’m in this type situation he tries to act like he doesn’t care about me but why he makes things bout me ? Hell ask bout our daughter then the topic gets switched on me. Any one going thru this type of thing or similar speak on their experience on how well they dealing with this. He hardly sees my daughter the remark him stating that he wasn’t there for his other bms and I’m selfish because I’m basically not allowing my daughter to have her dad in her life because whatever reasons. He doesn’t want a relationship so I ask him why would you get me pregnant on purpose if you didn’t want a relationship knowing he knew I wanted a family. I’m at the point I’m walking away nothing changed. I didn’t talk to him when I was pregnant and I don’t understand why he comes back around if he doesn’t fully want to be involved in my daughters life. He doesn’t come spend time with her. If he just want sex he can get that anywhere.
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sweetpea2977
@sweetpea2977
6 Years1,000+ Posts

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You're responsible for becoming pregnant just as much as he is 🤷 Now that the child is here, be the BEST mother you can be. Nothing else matters. Nothing. If you continue to feel like and sound like a victim, you will transfer that energy to your child.

FOCUS on you and your child.

FOCUS on you and your child.

FOCUS on you and your child.

If the father doesn't want to be an active participant of the child's life, it's his loss. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING you can do about that but maybe pray. If he's not financially contributing, apply for child support. You won't regret it. Doesn't matter if he doesn't want the child...He created it so he's also responsible whether in denial or not.

Having a child is a gift and a blessing. Enjoy it ♥️