Why would your baby momma or baby daddy want to be friends after you establish your relationship between y’all wont work? I see it to be civil for the child or whatever but if the conversations isn’t never really bout the child what is the motive here ? For one shouldn’t the convos be bout the child not so much what the other parent is doing or what they trying to do which it doesn’t have no benefits that include the child ? I’m having issues with this completely right now. My bd moved on and I really don’t care tbh but why he asking me what I got going on or just bringing up meaningless convos such as he bout to go on trips or whatever or asking if I’m going to move on soon ? He said these are just convos but I don’t see no meaning into them is it me or he’s fishing for something ? He think it’s friendly convo but I don’t see no point if he doesn’t ask me bout the baby. He’ll ask me how she doing then start meaningless convos. He didn’t care bout talking bout past relationships but how come he doesn’t bring up the one is supposedly in. He told me he moved on and he said he doesn’t care if I move on as long he takes care of our daughter but why he kept bringing up convos bout a guy. Like I don’t get it so if he doesn’t have feelings for me which I really don’t care why he has some smart ass remarks to say to me. Saying dumb bs stating he’s glad the baby took over his looks. I only wanted a baby from him saying if it was for him I wouldn’t had my daughter?? Like I’m like wtf is this all bout like I don’t get someone please help me understand this bs. I know I’m not delusional but fr tho what’s up with this craziness. He says I only hmu to talk bout our child what else I’m supposed to hit him up about. If he moved on why tf he care foreal. He states I take good care of her I’m doing a good job mommy! Why he trying to play mind games he clearly doesn’t give a fuck bout our child.
