Pregnant and don't know who the father is..

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sharareperez_808
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Please don't be rude.

My bf and I split up and April 26,2013 I had sex with another guy and used a condom. It was covered in my cum so I couldn't see if it tore or if it was my cum. But the guy said he checked it out & that the condom hadn't been broken.

June 1 I took a pregnancy test it came back positive. The day after April 26 I was back with my bf. We continued having unprotected sex until June & a lot of unprotected sex in April before we broke up.

I told the doctor the first day of my last menstrual period was April 26 which it wasn't because I had sex with the other guy that day & had no period. I just couldn't remember when it was last. I had an ultrasound done and they told me the first day of my last menstrual period had actually been on May 2, a week after April 26.

Is it at all possible that this baby is the other guys and not my bf's?
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flipyourwig
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And this is why I always with out fail use Spermicidal Inserts with women. You may have to wait 10 minutes for the suckers to dissolve, but there is a thing called foreplay too. As long as you put a new one in before starting the next sex session so to speak, it's good to go. Provided you're patient with waiting 10 minutes everything.

I'd rather wait 10 minutes, then have to deal with 10 years of raising kids. I noticed the OP said "lots of sex with her boyfriend" Being a Sag Moon myself I can attest that we have raging libidos 🙂
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From the timing it sounds like the baby is your boyfriends but it’s good that he knows that it might not be . I would say since you both know about this it’s best to just put the idea out in your mind for now as best as you can and just enjoy being pregnant. Can’t change what happened what you both need right now is acceptance. It also wouldn’t hurt to have a real conversation about how he would feel if the baby wasn’t his. Meaning is he just there to work it out because you are pregnant or does he want you. You both should be honest with each other because resentment is a hell of a thing.