
Aqua
@STILL
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Posted by saggurl88
I wonder if men confuse selfishness with just knowing what you guys want and not giving in to other people.
I think most people are selfish when it comes to their own needs. Anyone calling someone selfish usually just means that they aren't getting their way.


Posted by Nightcap-
I think the two are interrelated. Stubbornness is a form of selfishness as it hinders compromise within a group. It manifests in not relenting so that the other person has to give in..especially if the Aqua has a good read on that person through observation and can gauge their reactions. I see this more in the males than the females though.

Posted by Silverado
@Orgasme
Pretty much from start to finish.
You're welcome.




Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.click to expand


Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.click to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPP
never seen it
they let other people control their lives

Posted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPP
never seen it
they let other people control their lives
I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.
Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.
Do you live in America?click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPP
never seen it
they let other people control their lives
I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.
Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.
Do you live in America?
noclick to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPP
never seen it
they let other people control their lives
I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.
Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.
Do you live in America?
no
Make sense. Different culture.
Actually it’s surprising.click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPP
never seen it
they let other people control their lives
I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.
Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.
Do you live in America?
no
Make sense. Different culture.
Actually it’s surprising.
surprising?click to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by STILLPosted by virgoOPPP
never seen it
they let other people control their lives
I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.
Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.
Do you live in America?
no
Make sense. Different culture.
Actually it’s surprising.
surprising?
That the Aquas you know seem to let people control them.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lolclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.
How have you been anyways?click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.
How have you been anyways?
Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆
I'm good ty for asking (:click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.
How have you been anyways?
Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆
I'm good ty for asking (:
So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛![]()
https://media.giphy.com/media/3ohc0RSHbaIvjRv2Ks/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.
How have you been anyways?
Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆
I'm good ty for asking (:
So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛![]()
Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.
How have you been anyways?
Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆
I'm good ty for asking (:
So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛![]()
Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆
That's the idea behind them! 😄 I'm glad you like them so much.click to expand

Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by saggurl88Posted by AerialViewPosted by STILLPosted by AerialViewPosted by STILL
Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑
That's soooo selfish. Typical.
Any incidents to share?
I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.
How have you been anyways?
Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆
I'm good ty for asking (:
So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛![]()
Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆
That's the idea behind them! 😄 I'm glad you like them so much.
It's almost like you're having your own gif factory 😆
So many and quick to share lolclick to expand


Posted by SilveradoPosted by LadyNeptune
People view 'selfish' like its a four level word.
Putting yourself first is a good thing. Your a better partner, friend, parent, employee, etc etc if you prioritize your needs and are a balanced individual.
Gotta take care of yourself first, cause no one else is gonna.
I do a decent job of taking care of myself and I doubt anyone would call me selfish.
I will agree about the balanced part though.click to expand

Posted by ElvisStalinWoods
Self-absorbed and stubborn af, yes.
Selfish, no.
Except for this one Aqua woman who wouldn't let me touch her damn plate of ribs but snuck a bite of my food

Posted by Phantom_Dangus
I know an Aqua who always talks about how much she loves other people, particularly her son and her grandmother, but she also uses them. She knows her grandmother is broke and on a fixed budget, but she takes her money anyway. She has stolen from other family members several times. She tries to ride on her son's coattails because he is smarter and more successful than her already (and not yet out of high school.) For example, he won a computer for some coding contest at school, and she tried to guilt him into giving it to her. He acts like he is mostly immune to her bullshit now, but I've noticed it's made him hard.

Posted by Black-Mamba
I find aqua women and men to be extremely self oriented and selfish and super cold



Posted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo

Posted by Nightcap-
I think the two are interrelated. Stubbornness is a form of selfishness as it hinders compromise within a group. It manifests in not relenting so that the other person has to give in....

Posted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔click to expand

Posted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herselfclick to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...click to expand


Posted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its okclick to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now whatclick to expand

Posted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now what
So how is cyphing buying her weed—
When she clearly rolls up
Put me onclick to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now what
So how is cyphing buying her weed—
When she clearly rolls up
Put me on
What? 🤷♀️click to expand

Posted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now what
So how is cyphing buying her weed—
When she clearly rolls up
Put me on
What? 🤷♀️
Exactly
🤔click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now what
So how is cyphing buying her weed—
When she clearly rolls up
Put me on
What? 🤷♀️
Exactly
🤔
You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...
What’s EXACTLY?click to expand

Posted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now what
So how is cyphing buying her weed—
When she clearly rolls up
Put me on
What? 🤷♀️
Exactly
🤔
You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...
What’s EXACTLY?
What didn't you understand about pencil spliff—?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGABPosted by GemitatiPosted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo
You let them...sucker...🤔
Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.
While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
Who's paying for her weed—
🤔
You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
I am. For almost 40 years...
Now what
So how is cyphing buying her weed—
When she clearly rolls up
Put me on
What? 🤷♀️
Exactly
🤔
You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...
What’s EXACTLY?
What didn't you understand about pencil spliff—?
Relax. You need it...click to expand

Posted by ELIGAB
As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table
With $ 8,000 in savings thou
Greed.... lmaoooooo

Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by STILLPosted by Phantom_Dangus
I know an Aqua who always talks about how much she loves other people, particularly her son and her grandmother, but she also uses them. She knows her grandmother is broke and on a fixed budget, but she takes her money anyway. She has stolen from other family members several times. She tries to ride on her son's coattails because he is smarter and more successful than her already (and not yet out of high school.) For example, he won a computer for some coding contest at school, and she tried to guilt him into giving it to her. He acts like he is mostly immune to her bullshit now, but I've noticed it's made him hard.
She's horrible.... beyond selfish. I can't relate.
Thanks for provided an actual example.
I am getting serious deja vu. I think someone asked this before, and I answered the same before. And then I followed up the same way I'm going to now. Anyway, this woman had an unusually difficult childhood. It's not an excuse, but it does explain her behavior.click to expand

Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by STILLPosted by ElvisStalinWoods
Self-absorbed and stubborn af, yes.
Selfish, no.
Except for this one Aqua woman who wouldn't let me touch her damn plate of ribs but snuck a bite of my food
Tell me more about this self-absorption and stubbornness?
That's right!. What's Aquas is Aquas and what yours is Aquas. 😛
Some aquas think their opinion is gospel and just like to talk down to people. If you want a prime example, look up Tony Ferguson in the McGregor/Nurmagomedov post-fight conference.
Theyre stubborn as hell when they think you're wrong about something, and they seem to determine whether you're right or wrong on a whim; trust you today and doubt you tomorrow. Example, one day my former manager was just hell bent on doubting me and another employee (both of us, she considered very reliable and self-sufficient) when we told her the card used to unlock a door stopped working. Got to the point that she eventually walked over to the door herself and only believed us when her swiping the card didn't work. She'd trust us in much more serious and complex issues and then sometimes just refuse to take to our outlook on something simple.click to expand
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I continue to see variations of those key words posted when referring to Aquas.
I definitely concede to stubbornness, but idk about selfish.
I’m genuinely curious to know how they manifest.