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Posted by saggurl88

I wonder if men confuse selfishness with just knowing what you guys want and not giving in to other people.

I think most people are selfish when it comes to their own needs. Anyone calling someone selfish usually just means that they aren't getting their way.


Yes, I agree with this.

I’m mainly looking for situations individuals have had or witnesses these traits.
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Posted by Nightcap-

I think the two are interrelated. Stubbornness is a form of selfishness as it hinders compromise within a group. It manifests in not relenting so that the other person has to give in..especially if the Aqua has a good read on that person through observation and can gauge their reactions. I see this more in the males than the females though.


I agree. Stubbornness is a form of selfishness. I’m just not selfish across the board.

Aqua women are more stubborn in intimate relationships as opposed to group relationships.

I never experienced stubbornness in the men, they always bend to my will.

Anyway, what I’m interested in are examples.

Maybe I’d have a revelation.

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never seen it

they let other people control their lives

I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.

Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.

Do you live in America?

no

Make sense. Different culture.

Actually it’s surprising.
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surprising?
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never seen it

they let other people control their lives

I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.

Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.

Do you live in America?

no

Make sense. Different culture.

Actually it’s surprising.

surprising?
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That the Aquas you know seem to let people control them.
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never seen it

they let other people control their lives

I don’t know what Aqua chicks you know.

Aquas only let people seem to control things when manipulating. Must’ve went over your head.

Do you live in America?


no

Make sense. Different culture.

Actually it’s surprising.

surprising?

That the Aquas you know seem to let people control them.
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yeah surprised me too

and very frustrating coz that's not what i read about

sometimes i'm convinced that people are the opposite of what's astro written about them or the moon must be so much stronger along with dominants
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Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol
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Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?
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Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol

Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?
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Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆

I'm good ty for asking (:
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Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol

Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?

Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆

I'm good ty for asking (:
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So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛

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Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol

Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?

Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆

I'm good ty for asking (:

So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛

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Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆
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Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol

Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?

Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆

I'm good ty for asking (:

So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛

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Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆
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That's the idea behind them! 😄 I'm glad you like them so much.
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Posted by STILL
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Posted by STILL

Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol

Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?

Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆

I'm good ty for asking (:

So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛

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Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆

That's the idea behind them! 😄 I'm glad you like them so much.
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It's almost like you're having your own gif factory 😆

So many and quick to share lol
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Idk why I started a thread, as busy I am right now. 😑

That's soooo selfish. Typical.

Any incidents to share?

I've been called selfish numerous times. But that's it. I never went deeper to know why. Idc lol

Such the Humanitarian! 😆 That's funny. I agree though. People should be a little more selfish.

How have you been anyways?

Lol most people aren't human. I'm sure I'm a human so myself first 😆

I'm good ty for asking (:

So much selfish Sag Placements!! 😛

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Your gifs always makes me laugh 😆

That's the idea behind them! 😄 I'm glad you like them so much.

It's almost like you're having your own gif factory 😆

So many and quick to share lol
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lol It's called the internet!

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People view 'selfish' like its a four level word.

Putting yourself first is a good thing. Your a better partner, friend, parent, employee, etc etc if you prioritize your needs and are a balanced individual.

Gotta take care of yourself first, cause no one else is gonna.

I do a decent job of taking care of myself and I doubt anyone would call me selfish.

I will agree about the balanced part though.
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On the flip side the person who calls another selfish cause they aren’t doing enough for them is, by definition, selfish.

Personally I think only kids can call a parent selfish. They didn’t ask to be brought into this world. So there’s certain expectations there.

Otherwise nobody really owes you anything.

An if they promised you something and didn’t deliver that doesn’t make em selfish. That makes em a liar.
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I know an Aqua who always talks about how much she loves other people, particularly her son and her grandmother, but she also uses them. She knows her grandmother is broke and on a fixed budget, but she takes her money anyway. She has stolen from other family members several times. She tries to ride on her son's coattails because he is smarter and more successful than her already (and not yet out of high school.) For example, he won a computer for some coding contest at school, and she tried to guilt him into giving it to her. He acts like he is mostly immune to her bullshit now, but I've noticed it's made him hard.


She's horrible.... beyond selfish. I can't relate.

Thanks for provided an actual example.
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As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself
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If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
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As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...
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Who's paying for her weed—

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You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
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I think selfishness is acceptable and a positive trait in moderation.

In the end if you don't put yourself mentally as first in life then you are accepting the idea of being a pushover and getting walked on. In a sense you fail yourself, which means you also fail every single person that put their hope and faith into you. It forces them to be pushed over and walked on because they trusted you, but you couldn't even trust your own confidence enough to take advantage of the things that could potentially make life better for everyone. Even if that ment being selfish for a period of time.
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As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok
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I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what
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Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what
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So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on

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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what

So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on
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What? 🤷‍♀️
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what

So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on

What? 🤷‍♀️
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Exactly

🤔
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what

So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on

What? 🤷‍♀️

Exactly

🤔
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You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...

What’s EXACTLY?
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Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what

So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on

What? 🤷‍♀️

Exactly

🤔

You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...

What’s EXACTLY?
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What didn't you understand about pencil spliff—?
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Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what

So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on

What? 🤷‍♀️

Exactly

🤔

You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...

What’s EXACTLY?

What didn't you understand about pencil spliff—?
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Relax. You need it...
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Posted by ELIGAB
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Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by ELIGAB

As of right now my aqua sun/Taurus moon friend is smoking my weed and bringing nothing but a pencil spliff to the table

With $ 8,000 in savings thou



Greed.... lmaoooooo

You let them...sucker...🤔

Or I'm just giving her enough rope to hang herself

If you’ll continue to pay for her weed you won’t have money left for rope.

While you saving for a rope she is using you for weed...

Who's paying for her weed—

🤔



You're clearly not a smoker and its ok

I am. For almost 40 years...

Now what

So how is cyphing buying her weed—

When she clearly rolls up

Put me on

What? 🤷‍♀️

Exactly

🤔

You paying. She is smoking. Your weed...

What’s EXACTLY?

What didn't you understand about pencil spliff—?

Relax. You need it...
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Jumped the gun huh— Lol

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus
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I know an Aqua who always talks about how much she loves other people, particularly her son and her grandmother, but she also uses them. She knows her grandmother is broke and on a fixed budget, but she takes her money anyway. She has stolen from other family members several times. She tries to ride on her son's coattails because he is smarter and more successful than her already (and not yet out of high school.) For example, he won a computer for some coding contest at school, and she tried to guilt him into giving it to her. He acts like he is mostly immune to her bullshit now, but I've noticed it's made him hard.

She's horrible.... beyond selfish. I can't relate.

Thanks for provided an actual example.

I am getting serious deja vu. I think someone asked this before, and I answered the same before. And then I followed up the same way I'm going to now. Anyway, this woman had an unusually difficult childhood. It's not an excuse, but it does explain her behavior.
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Ha!

Yeah sounds as though she didn't receive enough love in her childhood. Still, that's not an excuse to treat your family that way. How does that even feel right unless you have some type of personality disorder?
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Self-absorbed and stubborn af, yes.

Selfish, no.

Except for this one Aqua woman who wouldn't let me touch her damn plate of ribs but snuck a bite of my food

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Tell me more about this self-absorption and stubbornness?

That's right!. What's Aquas is Aquas and what yours is Aquas. 😛

Some aquas think their opinion is gospel and just like to talk down to people. If you want a prime example, look up Tony Ferguson in the McGregor/Nurmagomedov post-fight conference.

Theyre stubborn as hell when they think you're wrong about something, and they seem to determine whether you're right or wrong on a whim; trust you today and doubt you tomorrow. Example, one day my former manager was just hell bent on doubting me and another employee (both of us, she considered very reliable and self-sufficient) when we told her the card used to unlock a door stopped working. Got to the point that she eventually walked over to the door herself and only believed us when her swiping the card didn't work. She'd trust us in much more serious and complex issues and then sometimes just refuse to take to our outlook on something simple.
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Yeah I can see how some people would say that. Aquas are mostly objective decision makers. The argument could be made that coming to a conclusion without allowing feelings to influence your decision yields more accurate results than not. Just playing devil's advocate.

For me, on most occasions. I really don't care to sway anyone to my vote, so.........shrugs. I prefer to use my energy for other things. I'm well aware of how the males operate, but I'm not interested in their behavior right now.

LOL at her being hell bent on you two being wrong.

Seemed like she either deemed you two idiots for that moment or thought you two were kidding, Idk. People aren't trustworthy in every situation. For instance, I trust my bff with my life, but don't trust him to sleep in the same bed. Makes reasonable sense to me.
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