My friends blacklisted me... (Page 2)

Posted by DMV

Also if you told someone Happy Birthday and mad you didnt get a Thank you...

What was your intention for saying happy birthday in the first place?

This is somwone ive been reaching oit to for a month now, with no reply. I figures a happy birthday would be a a sign. If they didnt say thabk you...then i figure i did something to hurt or offend her.

Shw responded to everyone above and below my fb comment...just mine was left with nothing...like she just skippes right over it.

I even decided to call her today....rang 2xs went to voicemail.

I cant rhink of any behavior i did to upset her except a) say i dont like hanging out if drugs are involved. (In the most diolomatic way) and b) not hanging one night when they were all doing acid.

If she doesn't respond then i dont know what i did...

There is a ppssibility this all stems to the fact im dating somone she was intrested in 2 years ago and he basically ghosted her.

I asked her permission before gettin togther a d she laughed and thought it was "absurd" i even had to ask, swore she didnt care. So i dont think thats it either...i hope not.

Maybe they don’t want to hang with you because they feel judged when they do drugs. I’m not saying that like you should feel bad for not wanting to hang with people who do. I mean if every reply to this thread is well they do this and that, then why do you even care about being friends with them? I know it’s hard for Taurus to let go of things/people, but maybe it’s time?

Posted by euphony

Maybe they don’t want to hang with you because they feel judged when they do drugs. I’m not saying that like you should feel bad for not wanting to hang with people who do. I mean if every reply to this thread is well they do this and that, then why do you even care about being friends with them? I know it’s hard for Taurus to let go of things/people, but maybe it’s time?

It is hard. They honesty havent done anything "wrong" and i still care about them as people. They have been my only support and friendship grouo for the last 6 years.

Its hard to kindnof meet new people in your 30s. And honestly i dont like how thy paety and do drugs, but i like them indivdually jist fine.

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Posted by Mr_Pinchy

Heh, i read a little bit on the first page, read a little bit here....

Coke friends eh? They ain't friends, you're just using each other's disfunctionality. I dropped a similar circle in my mid twenties to finish university. I don't miss them at all.

right? same situation here.

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How do you just "drop" people...that seems weird to me...

Posted by Boots1313

Posted by euphony

Maybe they don’t want to hang with you because they feel judged when they do drugs. I’m not saying that like you should feel bad for not wanting to hang with people who do. I mean if every reply to this thread is well they do this and that, then why do you even care about being friends with them? I know it’s hard for Taurus to let go of things/people, but maybe it’s time?

It is hard. They honesty havent done anything "wrong" and i still care about them as people. They have been my only support and friendship grouo for the last 6 years.

Its hard to kindnof meet new people in your 30s. And honestly i dont like how thy paety and do drugs, but i like them indivdually jist fine.

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Well I do know my Taurus friend rarely goes anywhere without her husband. Until she starts to see a lot of girls out together on social media, including her friends hanging out. Then it suddenly hits her that she hasn’t done that in a long time and all of a sudden is trying to get others to go out or do something. When she was single she was everywhere with them and out all the time. When she got married, she all of a sudden didn’t feel like it was something she “needed” to do. I don’t mean like she was just obsessed with being with her husband, as many of us do. 😂 I mean she told them she didn’t need to go drinking and stuff like that. Her friends felt judged and stopped hanging out with her. She never apologized or said anything to them about how she felt. The Virgo friend dropped her completely. The Leo came back. I don’t know the rest of the signs, but they all dropped also. Then she made other friends. Some that had the same nerdy 🤓 hobbies as her now. 😂😂 It can happen.

Either you accept them for who they are or find other friends. You telling them to stop won’t make them stop. And you telling them you don’t want to be around them, will only mean you won’t be getting invited. Simple. I wonder what the signs are of your friends?

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Posted by Boots1313

Posted by euphony

Maybe they don’t want to hang with you because they feel judged when they do drugs. I’m not saying that like you should feel bad for not wanting to hang with people who do. I mean if every reply to this thread is well they do this and that, then why do you even care about being friends with them? I know it’s hard for Taurus to let go of things/people, but maybe it’s time?

It is hard. They honesty havent done anything "wrong" and i still care about them as people. They have been my only support and friendship grouo for the last 6 years.

Its hard to kindnof meet new people in your 30s. And honestly i dont like how thy paety and do drugs, but i like them indivdually jist fine.

Well I do know my Taurus friend rarely goes anywhere without her husband. Until she starts to see a lot of girls out together on social media, including her friends hanging out. Then it suddenly hits her that she hasn’t done that in a long time and all of a sudden is trying to get others to go out or do something. When she was single she was everywhere with them and out all the time. When she got married, she all of a sudden didn’t feel like it was something she “needed” to do. I don’t mean like she was just obsessed with being with her husband, as many of us do. 😂 I mean she told them she didn’t need to go drinking and stuff like that. Her friends felt judged and stopped hanging out with her. She never apologized or said anything to them about how she felt. The Virgo friend dropped her completely. The Leo came back. I don’t know the rest of the signs, but they all dropped also. Then she made other friends. Some that had the same nerdy 🤓 hobbies as her now. 😂😂 It can happen.

Either you accept them for who they are or find other friends. You telling them to stop won’t make them stop. And you telling them you don’t want to be around them, will only mean you won’t be getting invited. Simple. I wonder what the signs are of your friends?

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Thats all pretty accurate.

My friends im speaking of are: Sagittarius, Gemini and Libra.

They can just go go go, non stop party. I get tired a d lazy lol

I’ve only read some of this but drugs change people. I used to have a good Leo friend who has insomnia problems but she had a guy she was seeing got her into coke. I saw our friendship start to dissolve. She would only hit me up when she wanted a favor and really only seemed interested in making money, doing coke, and spending time with the guy she seeing. And the last time I saw her she seemed so different saying some rude things I never heard her say before. Drugs definitely change people.

Posted by MephistoZap

I’ve only read some of this but drugs change people. I used to have a good Leo friend who has insomnia problems but she had a guy she was seeing got her into coke. I saw our friendship start to dissolve. She would only hit me up when she wanted a favor and really only seemed interested in making money, doing coke, and spending time with the guy she seeing. And the last time I saw her she seemed so different saying some rude things I never heard her say before. Drugs definitely change people.

This seems accuate. My friends only started soing coke a out a year ago (why start in their late 20s...idk). They refered to it as "novemeber bender"...i was around but never partook, and after a while ibwould just not hang becasue they all got rude like you said, so the friendship has been been disolving since then.

Posted by Boots1313

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Posted by euphony

Maybe they don’t want to hang with you because they feel judged when they do drugs. I’m not saying that like you should feel bad for not wanting to hang with people who do. I mean if every reply to this thread is well they do this and that, then why do you even care about being friends with them? I know it’s hard for Taurus to let go of things/people, but maybe it’s time?

It is hard. They honesty havent done anything "wrong" and i still care about them as people. They have been my only support and friendship grouo for the last 6 years.

Its hard to kindnof meet new people in your 30s. And honestly i dont like how thy paety and do drugs, but i like them indivdually jist fine.

Well I do know my Taurus friend rarely goes anywhere without her husband. Until she starts to see a lot of girls out together on social media, including her friends hanging out. Then it suddenly hits her that she hasn’t done that in a long time and all of a sudden is trying to get others to go out or do something. When she was single she was everywhere with them and out all the time. When she got married, she all of a sudden didn’t feel like it was something she “needed” to do. I don’t mean like she was just obsessed with being with her husband, as many of us do. 😂 I mean she told them she didn’t need to go drinking and stuff like that. Her friends felt judged and stopped hanging out with her. She never apologized or said anything to them about how she felt. The Virgo friend dropped her completely. The Leo came back. I don’t know the rest of the signs, but they all dropped also. Then she made other friends. Some that had the same nerdy 🤓 hobbies as her now. 😂😂 It can happen.

Either you accept them for who they are or find other friends. You telling them to stop won’t make them stop. And you telling them you don’t want to be around them, will only mean you won’t be getting invited. Simple. I wonder what the signs are of your friends?

Thats all pretty accurate.

My friends im speaking of are: Sagittarius, Gemini and Libra.

They can just go go go, non stop party. I get tired a d lazy lol

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Yeah. Eventually they probably will too. But for now. I’m thinking you need to just let this go. Unless you can accept them for who they are too. Giving yourself anxiety over it is not healthy. Really that is something you can control more than anything they can say to you. Because even if you do make up, from the sounds of it, you all are just in different places in your life and it’s still not going to work over time. Unless they change one day.

This is why couples start to find other couples to hang out with. Different places in life. 😂 But really, true friendships could stand the rest. This doesn’t seem like true friendship.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Boots, hope you’re ok. Remember, you’re awesome!

Thank you for that!

So I walked into the party like nothing was wrong went up to all my friends gave him a big hug and kiss and just acted like everything was cool, and for the most part everything was cool. They were little standoffish at first but eventually they all came around and I was invited to the after party but I'm already tuckered out cuz I'm on the old fart. But overall it went okay no real hard feelings on anybody's behalf then I'll see them when I see them but I just don't think they're a group of friends I'll be hanging out with all the time now