Advice?!? Virgo Woman/ Pisces Man

First of all let me say I love my Pisces ::sprinkles fish food into tank, and turns on bubbling toy treasure chest::

I come to you on bended knee admitting I don't know what to do.

I have many Pisces lady friends who I care for deeply with years long friendships...
and I am used to (March) Pisces men flocking to me, doting on me, wanting me to be their all; my first BF was a Pisces and it was wonderful blissful 2 years...(until he became an alcoholic).... and the other mermen seem great and are sweet but usually a random Leo swoops me up before the fish gets a chance.

NOW! There is a (February)Pisces man who I am just swooning over...like he is just, the Bees Knees (I'd give up all the Leos.) But I can not read him for the life of me! My Leo Venus has taken over and I can't help but chase. I have initiated all of our get togethers, and texts, and he responds promptly to everything and we have good times and long conversations, the body language is on point, there is laughter and SO much in common, and he pays for all the things!

In our conversations we have spoken openly and candidly about our past relationships (he's dated some virgo's) and it seems like we'd match well. He is very intuitive, he even dreamt a mutual friend told him, his sign and when he guessed the next day was correct, he guessed my sign during dinner and was correct! So my concern is, Is he not picking up what I'm throwing down? Should I be direct and just be like "Hey, you...me...let's do this." Or dote on him a bit more until his lightbulb turns on— I would like very much for him to be my squishy.
I'd buy him the biggest tank the Monterey Bay Aquarium has.

I don't know...you describe this amazing dynamic but then you say most of the time with Pisces Men..you flaked on them and went for Leos.

How long have you dated? Doing this dance you're doing.

Wouldn't call it flaking...but no time to give all the details of those situations...

Anyways we met in November, lots of text back and forth, have been getting together since mid January. Wouldn't call it dating. That's why I'm curious as to whether I should just make a move, I'm just used to a Pisces taking the lead.

Awww...djbuck used the spelling for the two virgo chicks in this thread. Cute 😄

I've heard of Leo Man - Virgo Woman also...never seen it happen in my life though. My parents were the opposite combo and it was hell.

I played in My Fair Lady in highschool..little miss Eliza Doolittle. Oh, the rain in Spain 😉

I have a Pisces Sun, Aries Moon mate dj, I love that man 😄.

I know! But they do! I'm not sure of the inner workings of the last few's charts but I keep running into the Pisces men who are like "HEY! I WANT YOU....to come hold me and love me..." it's seems as though with this gentleman I have to say "HEY! come here and let me love you..." Which I guess is the natural order? Thank you for the well wishes lol. I'm oh so gentle. Setting phasers to patience. I'd like to see where this could go.

OH but wait! So we do hang out often and he always responds...but should I also initiate space. Should I be spontaneous and hit him up whenever? Or every other week? Three day rules to call— I don't want to burn him out or seem too eager, at the same time I like to be honest and in the moment, if I'm thinking about you/ want to see you, I want you to know. I don't like to play games or have them played on me. How do you Pisces men like to being pursued, frequency wise?

Posted by VirgoVoodoo

I come to you on bended knee admitting I don't know what to do.

Of course, you don't know what to do ... you're a Virgo.

You carry on about how wanted you are, and have men fawning over you ..... then the other side of your mouth talks and conveys to us that you can't actually GET the man you want.

So, the only thing you need to do is .... get the fuck over yourself

P-angel. So angry, this early? Poor thing.

and yet YOU are the one unwanted

Being unwanted must be really hard on you considering how much you adore yourself

and yet, I've had my life partner true to me for over 30 years .. while you can't even manage to get one person.


poor you

You are clearly conceited .... again .....


the only thing you need to do is get over your fucking self

The Fish laughs at you.

All this while, as you sit back, so beside yourself that you make a whole thread to honor how you can't manage to get the man you want ..... and he laughs at you, and you have no clue.

You have no clue that he laughs at your weakness in being so vain .....



He's probably already sitting with Leo, beers in hand ... laughing their assess off at the stupid girl.

Posted by P-Angel

and yet, I've had my life partner true to me for over 30 years .. while you can't even manage to get one person.


poor you

Are you serious? You're how old, and you're pulling this immature shit? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

It's called dating. It's fun. I'm getting to know people. I'm used to being pursued, now I'm the one pursuing, and asking for advice.
That's it. There's nothing else. If it doesn't work. I'll move on.

And I DO adore myself because I'm awesome. And that doesn't take away from anyone else's awesome, cuz there's enough to go around!

I'm sorry (actually I'm not) that your so bored with your life that you have to wake up and ATTEMPT to talk shit, hiding behind a computer screen.

You're hilarious. I was gonna read the funnies, but you'll do.

AHAHAHAHAA Oh my God, you just wrote a short story about me with your projections. I think you're more into me than I am. Thanks lovely!

This shit is too funny!!!

hey! i'm in the same boat as you... completely/generally clueless about this adorable pisces man as a virgo woman yet all the while, completely/generally crazy about him. the virgo/pisces dynamic (in my opinion) won't be the easiest and smoothest ride, but it's the only ride so far that has been worthwhile for me. i would describe the pisces boy that i know as very feminine (though not at all in looks)... poetic softness in every move... but with this seething intensity/power under that quiet guise. i have this undeniable, intense attraction towards him but i would describe the energy between us as a crazy electrical current contained and reserved behind a wall that is VERY SLOWLY breaking down, with time, patience, and understanding. i do think the right path, at least for me with this pisces boy, is gentle nudging (as others have mentioned)... which is showing him that i care for him and openly letting him know that he's in my thoughts/heart. i can still see he has his guards up, but i can also see we're making progress. so while i won't be confessing my undying love for him anytime soon, i'll continue to let him know i care for him and let him open up to me more on his own schedule.

all that of course i realized after a little bump in the road between us, involving my insecurities about everything because he wasn't as open as other men that i've dealt with before. i guess i would just suggest always having an open line of communication.. and just keep in mind he won't always do things the way you expect him to. just be flexible but obviously don't be a doormat.

Posted by bloodflood
hey! i'm in the same boat as you... completely/generally clueless about this adorable pisces man as a virgo woman yet all the while, completely/generally crazy about him. the virgo/pisces dynamic (in my opinion) won't be the easiest and smoothest ride, but it's the only ride so far that has been worthwhile for me. i would describe the pisces boy that i know as very feminine (though not at all in looks)... poetic softness in every move... but with this seething intensity/power under that quiet guise. i have this undeniable, intense attraction towards him but i would describe the energy between us as a crazy electrical current contained and reserved behind a wall that is VERY SLOWLY breaking down, with time, patience, and understanding. i do think the right path, at least for me with this pisces boy, is gentle nudging (as others have mentioned)... which is showing him that i care for him and openly letting him know that he's in my thoughts/heart. i can still see he has his guards up, but i can also see we're making progress. so while i won't be confessing my undying love for him anytime soon, i'll continue to let him know i care for him and let him open up to me more on his own schedule.

all that of course i realized after a little bump in the road between us, involving my insecurities about everything because he wasn't as open as other men that i've dealt with before. i guess i would just suggest always having an open line of communication.. and just keep in mind he won't always do things the way you expect him to. just be flexible but obviously don't be a doormat.

Thank you so much for sharing! This pisces gentlemen is very similar, I don't want to say he's not masculine, but the other pisces men were broad shouldered HE-men, promotors, businessmen, adventurers, factory workers and he's kind of tall, lean muscular, laid back, artsy, works with kids. But has a deep sexy voice (yum). I'm very intrigued by him. A word to describe him is refreshing. The conversation is easy, we laugh a lot, he's heading the same direction in life that I am. Just having trouble reading the signs. But I think the next time we hang out I'll just let him know I would like to see him as more than a friend, and if it's not his thing, then I look forward to having a close platonic friendship, which we are in the early enough stages to where that is not a problem. I

Posted by bloodflood
hey! i'm in the same boat as you... completely/generally clueless about this adorable pisces man as a virgo woman yet all the while, completely/generally crazy about him. the virgo/pisces dynamic (in my opinion) won't be the easiest and smoothest ride, but it's the only ride so far that has been worthwhile for me. i would describe the pisces boy that i know as very feminine (though not at all in looks)... poetic softness in every move... but with this seething intensity/power under that quiet guise. i have this undeniable, intense attraction towards him but i would describe the energy between us as a crazy electrical current contained and reserved behind a wall that is VERY SLOWLY breaking down, with time, patience, and understanding. i do think the right path, at least for me with this pisces boy, is gentle nudging (as others have mentioned)... which is showing him that i care for him and openly letting him know that he's in my thoughts/heart. i can still see he has his guards up, but i can also see we're making progress. so while i won't be confessing my undying love for him anytime soon, i'll continue to let him know i care for him and let him open up to me more on his own schedule.

all that of course i realized after a little bump in the road between us, involving my insecurities about everything because he wasn't as open as other men that i've dealt with before. i guess i would just suggest always having an open line of communication.. and just keep in mind he won't always do things the way you expect him to. just be flexible but obviously don't be a doormat.

...I like the way you're going about your Pisces man. I remember my Pisces boyfriend seemed really guarded and I just told him I need more openness and affection, after a couple of months, the floodgates opened and it was roses and teddy bears. I think they just need a little more time to really see we're trustworthy with their hearts. Good luck with everything, and feel free to keep me posted on your progress!!!