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Star...my dear Star...oh my dear, dear Star...
At the risk of flarring this entire thing up again which is the last of my intentions and was not going to post this as a result but I feel I must...to try and explain why I took "MY" side...not SuzyQ's...
In one corner weighing in at 60 kgs in the red trunks I saw SusyQ...a person reaching out for acceptance and trying to come to terms with a very rough however self inflicted past at the same time...
In the other corner weighing in at 85622654267890 kgs I saw the "school ground bullies" (only because you ganged up on her not because I see you guys this way on the board) consisting of a tightly knitted group of friends whose arsenal consisted of...
The inventer of sarcasm...ROLF...the whip of a scorpions tail, brains and intellect and one who with an internal bullbutter radar...which apparently wasn't working at the time because of her will to get involved...even though her path doesn't want to be weighed down by such negativity.
I never took anyones side or put the blame on any one individual I was trying to make the peace at first and have learnt from this experiance not to stick my nose where it doesn't belong in future because I got washed away in the torrents of bad will as a result myself...
I hope this post is taken in the light hearted intent it was written in and that we can all learn from this entire experiance as a result...you see...
When it is you will...even the horrible experiances in life can be used for good and for progression...in a strange way I have learnt loads through those negative feelings but only because I have come through it...made peace with it and want to remain a largly positively driven soul.
Thank you laddies...thank you for your time...
Much love and light to all and always...
Durrie...
At the risk of flarring this entire thing up again which is the last of my intentions and was not going to post this as a result but I feel I must...to try and explain why I took "MY" side...not SuzyQ's...
In one corner weighing in at 60 kgs in the red trunks I saw SusyQ...a person reaching out for acceptance and trying to come to terms with a very rough however self inflicted past at the same time...
In the other corner weighing in at 85622654267890 kgs I saw the "school ground bullies" (only because you ganged up on her not because I see you guys this way on the board) consisting of a tightly knitted group of friends whose arsenal consisted of...
The inventer of sarcasm...ROLF...the whip of a scorpions tail, brains and intellect and one who with an internal bullbutter radar...which apparently wasn't working at the time because of her will to get involved...even though her path doesn't want to be weighed down by such negativity.
I never took anyones side or put the blame on any one individual I was trying to make the peace at first and have learnt from this experiance not to stick my nose where it doesn't belong in future because I got washed away in the torrents of bad will as a result myself...
I hope this post is taken in the light hearted intent it was written in and that we can all learn from this entire experiance as a result...you see...
When it is you will...even the horrible experiances in life can be used for good and for progression...in a strange way I have learnt loads through those negative feelings but only because I have come through it...made peace with it and want to remain a largly positively driven soul.
Thank you laddies...thank you for your time...
Much love and light to all and always...
Durrie...
Merry Meet All ~
Wow ~ now that was an incredibly, stimulating and very interesting thread.......There are some very passionate and caring ppl's on this board ~
Durrie, I've never "formally" met you, but like Star (who hears music when she reads your posts) I feel very calmed and almost limp when I read them.....I also "feel" like you have healer qualities/energies in your person....you remind of the healer/bard.....from the Mercedes Lackey books 😉
All of you have valid and honest feelings/thoughts about this whole thing ~ I can "see" the logic and understand what each and everyone of you are saying......Yes Suzy-Q is unique and different person, as we all are ~ not to say you have to sit and take what she dishes out....usually I read her posts and just smile, sometimes she irks me and I HAVE to say something...lol...(I have a lot of Scorpio in my chart Phoenix 😉 so I know how you feel)
Human beings are strange in that we can't seem to let anything go ~ or we have to get out our point and make sure that it's understood and somewhat accepted for what it is. When it's not, we push on and try even harder to get that fact across to each other ~ not in that we want to be "proven right" in as much as we want to get that point across & then move on....but in life there are always going to be people who are never going to agree with you or understand what you are talking about and that's pretty much when I just step back and go "whatever"....Everyone has an opinion ~ that's a gimme....it's just that some people prefer that their "opinion" be THE opinion...and that rankles most human beings beyond outrage...I learned long ago (from much conflict with an arrogant ex brother-in-law) that if I just gave my opinion and didn't "fight" with him over every "opinion" he had....it got his goat to the point of speechlessness....LOL...
All of you have such wonderful thoughts, insights, ideas, quotes, opinons, etc......I so enjoy reading your posts and gaining the knowledge that you have to share and the little peeks into your inner "personalities"....It's what makes us the wonderful human "beans" we are......
~ Merry Part & Blessed Be to all of you ~
Wow ~ now that was an incredibly, stimulating and very interesting thread.......There are some very passionate and caring ppl's on this board ~
Durrie, I've never "formally" met you, but like Star (who hears music when she reads your posts) I feel very calmed and almost limp when I read them.....I also "feel" like you have healer qualities/energies in your person....you remind of the healer/bard.....from the Mercedes Lackey books 😉
All of you have valid and honest feelings/thoughts about this whole thing ~ I can "see" the logic and understand what each and everyone of you are saying......Yes Suzy-Q is unique and different person, as we all are ~ not to say you have to sit and take what she dishes out....usually I read her posts and just smile, sometimes she irks me and I HAVE to say something...lol...(I have a lot of Scorpio in my chart Phoenix 😉 so I know how you feel)
Human beings are strange in that we can't seem to let anything go ~ or we have to get out our point and make sure that it's understood and somewhat accepted for what it is. When it's not, we push on and try even harder to get that fact across to each other ~ not in that we want to be "proven right" in as much as we want to get that point across & then move on....but in life there are always going to be people who are never going to agree with you or understand what you are talking about and that's pretty much when I just step back and go "whatever"....Everyone has an opinion ~ that's a gimme....it's just that some people prefer that their "opinion" be THE opinion...and that rankles most human beings beyond outrage...I learned long ago (from much conflict with an arrogant ex brother-in-law) that if I just gave my opinion and didn't "fight" with him over every "opinion" he had....it got his goat to the point of speechlessness....LOL...
All of you have such wonderful thoughts, insights, ideas, quotes, opinons, etc......I so enjoy reading your posts and gaining the knowledge that you have to share and the little peeks into your inner "personalities"....It's what makes us the wonderful human "beans" we are......
~ Merry Part & Blessed Be to all of you ~
keh durrie..i have nothing more to say but.. you misunderstood everything.
LOL Lena!
Durrie,
Yeah...this time you did not understand why I wrote to you...
I felt I should warn you...it is OK though...
Nevermind...
You didn't get what I was saying...
But, like you I do not care to harp...
I have done enough of that...
Take Care...Be Well!
Durrie,
Yeah...this time you did not understand why I wrote to you...
I felt I should warn you...it is OK though...
Nevermind...
You didn't get what I was saying...
But, like you I do not care to harp...
I have done enough of that...
Take Care...Be Well!
Okay durrie, I emailed ya.
Star I understood perfectly fine...
I guess the differance is that I am pisces and you are Aquarius (or I think you are atleast)
I have no problem living the "dream"...the one where we all live happily together with each other support...infact I prefere it that way...
I thank you for your concern though...you truely are a very careing soul but I think I'll be fine...though the task may be a daunting one I think that's why I am so damn determind to show her some light...
Much love and light as always...
Durrie.
P.S And I don't think she is such a bad person...infact I think she is great...just a little confused with life and how she feels it is treating her...I need to get her to realise it is her that is treating her like that not life.
I guess the differance is that I am pisces and you are Aquarius (or I think you are atleast)
I have no problem living the "dream"...the one where we all live happily together with each other support...infact I prefere it that way...
I thank you for your concern though...you truely are a very careing soul but I think I'll be fine...though the task may be a daunting one I think that's why I am so damn determind to show her some light...
Much love and light as always...
Durrie.
P.S And I don't think she is such a bad person...infact I think she is great...just a little confused with life and how she feels it is treating her...I need to get her to realise it is her that is treating her like that not life.
brainwashed...
LOL about the determination, Durrie...
I can be that way about such things, so, I do understand.
She is lucky that you feel that way!
Best to you!
Star
I can be that way about such things, so, I do understand.
She is lucky that you feel that way!
Best to you!
Star
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