Asking a pisces guy out..

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If a pisces guy texts often, is very sweet and touchy when we meet, but doesn't initiate dates, should I bother continuing to ask him out or is he just not interested?

The last time I asked him out, he already had plans with his friends, but invited me to come along and introduced me to them. Is this something a pisces guy would do with every girl they're just seeing or does this mean they treat this as something serious?
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If a pisces guy texts often, is very sweet and touchy when we meet, but doesn't initiate dates, should I bother continuing to ask him out or is he just not interested?

The last time I asked him out, he already had plans with his friends, but invited me to come along and introduced me to them. Is this something a pisces guy would do with every girl they're just seeing or does this mean they treat this as something serious?

He’s investing in you.
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Define investing? :-)
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Posted by LittleStar
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Posted by Scorpiogrlll

If a pisces guy texts often, is very sweet and touchy when we meet, but doesn't initiate dates, should I bother continuing to ask him out or is he just not interested?

The last time I asked him out, he already had plans with his friends, but invited me to come along and introduced me to them. Is this something a pisces guy would do with every girl they're just seeing or does this mean they treat this as something serious?

He’s investing in you.

Define investing? :-)

He’s spending time with you and wants you in the situation with his friends.

If he wasn’t that interested he wouldn’t be putting you in his world. He’d keep you apart from what he does in his normal day to day activity.
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Aye, sounds like a great start!
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Posted by MareInfame
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Why wouldnt he initiate dates tho... Afraid of rejection?

In general, Pisces like to really go with the flow. Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule (I know a few that initiate everything and plan well)... but most, don’t like planning too much. They are super chill, do things last minute, thrive on spontaneity, and get more excited about the unexpected.

He might be the relaxed type. If so, don’t worry so much about formalities. He would rather throw those formalities out the window and will just feel out the mood of the room/moment and go by that.

The important thing is to have experiences with him and for you to truly be yourself while you share those experiences. That is where he will float into your energy field and if he’s comfortable enough with you, he will make a move.

Until a physical move has been made, that is when you will start hearing him wanting more of your time, presence and commitment.
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Soo helpful, thanks!!!
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Posted by Scorpiogrlll

If a pisces guy texts often, is very sweet and touchy when we meet, but doesn't initiate dates, should I bother continuing to ask him out or is he just not interested?

The last time I asked him out, he already had plans with his friends, but invited me to come along and introduced me to them. Is this something a pisces guy would do with every girl they're just seeing or does this mean they treat this as something serious?


I obviously can't speak for every Pisces, but for me it's kind of the opposite. I'm generally very friendly, silly, or just general Lee free-spirited and open; however, whenever I do get the feeling that the dynamic has changed I retract, because whereas before I was just being myself now I'm more self-aware of what I'm doing since nobody wants to look like a fool in that type of atmosphere.

I can't say one thing though... I can't recall any point in time if somebody has openly brought the conversation up, or believed that my intentions were different and had questions that it was really a big deal. Tell me if somebody has the courage open the ask something like that then there is no reason I shouldn't have the courage to answer honestly. I find that most water signs have that mentality because the last thing I would want to do it's a lie about something so silly whenever the opportunity was there and I didn't take it and then I fucked it up later.

Anyway that's just my two cents for what it may or may not be worth. Regardless I hope you find the answers and outcome in which you are seeking.
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Posted by Dreamy88

I don’t like arranging dates, but I’m always down to hangout if I find a woman with things I like. Also, I don’t go out of my way to push for it either. From what it sounds like, he didn’t decline your offer. He made a rebuttal with a counter offer to a more relaxed date.

For me, say, you asked me out to hang out at a club. I don’t like clubs. I’d turn that around and ask you to come to my favorite bar. Maybe it’s summer, if you’d ask me to go hiking, I’d say how about kayaking at the lake. You get the idea.


Why you trying to get people drunk in a little bar then alone in the middle of a lake!?! This sounds a bit questionable...

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