Dating a Pisces man

How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away. I’m always attracted to them but struggle dealing with the lack of attention that I feel is needed in the first stages of dating. Is it just that libra and Pisces are not compatible and at what point do I realise that things are going south? I’m chatting to one , just the very beginning but think we will meet soon.

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How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away. I’m always attracted to them but struggle dealing with the lack of attention that I feel is needed in the first stages of dating. Is it just that libra and Pisces are not compatible and at what point do I realise that things are going south? I’m chatting to one , just the very beginning but think we will meet soon.

I was in a relationship with a Libra for 5 years, and I would be lying if I didn't admit that I had to regularly and consciously remember to adjust myself to the needs/desires/wants of the other person in the way you described.

If I tell somebody I'm interested or show interest it is because I am, but all those other times that I may not necessarily appear too doesn't change the fact that I am interested. I kind of just assumed that I told you I was interested you should know I'm interested and now I'm just out doing x y and z (which is unrelated), but that's not really conducive to a healthy environment with a Libra who generally enjoys the reaffirmation of comfort more regularly.

I guess the simple way to say it is Pisces assumes Libra knows where things stand and Libra like to know for a fact where Pisces stands. So it's just a matter of being more open to communicating this with one another.

That's just based off of my experience anyway for what little that may or may not be worth.

Good luck. My best friend needs alot of attention as in 0-100 and him mumbleling damn I texted her 10min ago and she hasn't replied. Me being a lib, I say maybe she's just tied up at the moment with a chuckle. Pisces friend shows me the phone and says if she has time to read it she can surely reply. I'm an aloof lib Male but my Bro is definitely on the higher maintenance spectrum. Idk why Pisces guy's flaked on your earlier trial dates but the guys like my Bro needs alot of interaction. I hope your luck changes for the better with that sign.

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How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away. I’m always attracted to them but struggle dealing with the lack of attention that I feel is needed in the first stages of dating. Is it just that libra and Pisces are not compatible and at what point do I realise that things are going south? I’m chatting to one , just the very beginning but think we will meet soon.

I was in a relationship with a Libra for 5 years, and I would be lying if I didn't admit that I had to regularly and consciously remember to adjust myself to the needs/desires/wants of the other person in the way you described.

If I tell somebody I'm interested or show interest it is because I am, but all those other times that I may not necessarily appear too doesn't change the fact that I am interested. I kind of just assumed that I told you I was interested you should know I'm interested and now I'm just out doing x y and z (which is unrelated), but that's not really conducive to a healthy environment with a Libra who generally enjoys the reaffirmation of comfort more regularly.

I guess the simple way to say it is Pisces assumes Libra knows where things stand and Libra like to know for a fact where Pisces stands. So it's just a matter of being more open to communicating this with one another.

That's just based off of my experience anyway for what little that may or may not be worth.

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So if we hit it off am I best to let him know upfront that affirmation is the way to my heart especially in the beginning? I do my own thing too and have been completely independent for years, heaps of friends and quite social but feel I get needy with a partner and if I don’t get the attention, I fuck it up. It could be self sabotaging too as I hadn’t been in a relationship for years and it’s a little scary and the scales are .

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How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away. I’m always attracted to them but struggle dealing with the lack of attention that I feel is needed in the first stages of dating. Is it just that libra and Pisces are not compatible and at what point do I realise that things are going south? I’m chatting to one , just the very beginning but think we will meet soon.

I was in a relationship with a Libra for 5 years, and I would be lying if I didn't admit that I had to regularly and consciously remember to adjust myself to the needs/desires/wants of the other person in the way you described.

If I tell somebody I'm interested or show interest it is because I am, but all those other times that I may not necessarily appear too doesn't change the fact that I am interested. I kind of just assumed that I told you I was interested you should know I'm interested and now I'm just out doing x y and z (which is unrelated), but that's not really conducive to a healthy environment with a Libra who generally enjoys the reaffirmation of comfort more regularly.

I guess the simple way to say it is Pisces assumes Libra knows where things stand and Libra like to know for a fact where Pisces stands. So it's just a matter of being more open to communicating this with one another.

That's just based off of my experience anyway for what little that may or may not be worth.

So if we hit it off am I best to let him know upfront that affirmation is the way to my heart especially in the beginning? I do my own thing too and have been completely independent for years, heaps of friends and quite social but feel I get needy with a partner and if I don’t get the attention, I fuck it up. It could be self sabotaging too as I hadn’t been in a relationship for years and it’s a little scary and the scales are .

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For me it's more about specifics than a notion. If you were to tell me, personally, that you just want more affirmation I'm simply going to do more of the same thing that I was already doing which is, if I had to guess, not going to cut it; haha.

How do you like to know? Everybody has these little things that make them feel special or to have that more intimate connection.

Here's a for instance. With my 5y Libra ex it wasn't so much a verbal thing. It was more like a look up from the book and smile at them simply to let them know that you were thinking about them, or in the beginning sending a random 💌 emoji or something if a certain amount of time went by.

This was more prevalent in Social settings where I was more apt to be floating around talking to people distributing myself evenly I guess you could say. Just something that I know that they appreciated to convey that. You may be entirely different and you like something more direct or verbal, but whatever it is to try to be specific. I doubt you're going to hurt his feelings by telling him secret special ways to let you know that you're important.

Don't leave it up to him to figure it out though; haha. Pisces can be cheesy and they may think some corny joke got the message across when it probably didn't. Yep I've done that. It was to a Taurus though. Suffice it to say they weren't very receptive of my tomfoolery. Haha.

This branches out to other areas of the relationship too, by the way. Drop as many hints on to the things you enjoy early on and all kinds of fun things will happen later. They're going to store that in their memory banks and surprise you when you least expect it... and it's going to be epic! You just have to get past the courting part (which is a pain in the ass for most signs dealing with Pisces I would imagine). 🤣

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Oh yeah.. every Pisces man I fcked had a big dick so maybe that’s why I stuck around lol

I’m hoping... haven’t had sex in a while 😂

Posted by Aqua-Marine

With Pisces I feel you need to have patience. They often are very inconsistent and go with the flow sometimes getting lost and distracted with other things. If they care about you they will show but more so in actions. So you have to be quite intuitive with a Pisces man. I think with Pisces energy men you have to be more assertive or else they easily swim away. I think a lot of times Pisces men are not very pushy and don’t like to impose. So it takes patience and time. If you give them the same attention they give you the relationship will most likely go no where and get lost.

I have very little patience, maybe that’s why I can’t do Pisces

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With Pisces I feel you need to have patience. They often are very inconsistent and go with the flow sometimes getting lost and distracted with other things. If they care about you they will show but more so in actions. So you have to be quite intuitive with a Pisces man. I think with Pisces energy men you have to be more assertive or else they easily swim away. I think a lot of times Pisces men are not very pushy and don’t like to impose. So it takes patience and time. If you give them the same attention they give you the relationship will most likely go no where and get lost.

I have very little patience, maybe that’s why I can’t do Pisces

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Perhaps that is also the very reason why you should?

People are placed in our lives, playing very different roles, for a very specific purpose... to help us understand, grow, nurture, and evolve who we are.

Perhaps this Pisces has been placed in your life as an effort to help you understand the limitations of your patients, and to help you grow beyond those limits so that you're better equipped to handle the next situation that comes around which requires more patience of you.

Or maybe not. lol. *shrug* That's not for me to decide. 😜

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Good luck. My best friend needs alot of attention as in 0-100 and him mumbleling damn I texted her 10min ago and she hasn't replied. Me being a lib, I say maybe she's just tied up at the moment with a chuckle. Pisces friend shows me the phone and says if she has time to read it she can surely reply. I'm an aloof lib Male but my Bro is definitely on the higher maintenance spectrum. Idk why Pisces guy's flaked on your earlier trial dates but the guys like my Bro needs alot of interaction. I hope your luck changes for the better with that sign.

I can do 10 minutes but when it stretches past a day or even longer I don’t get it! I guess it’s a pet peeve. Even my gf’s when I put something out there to see if anytime wants to go to dinner or come for a bbq, I expect an answer. It’s polite and because I would never, i feel the same respect. That’s when I tend to mirror someone **shrugs**

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How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away. I’m always attracted to them but struggle dealing with the lack of attention that I feel is needed in the first stages of dating. Is it just that libra and Pisces are not compatible and at what point do I realise that things are going south? I’m chatting to one , just the very beginning but think we will meet soon.

I was in a relationship with a Libra for 5 years, and I would be lying if I didn't admit that I had to regularly and consciously remember to adjust myself to the needs/desires/wants of the other person in the way you described.

If I tell somebody I'm interested or show interest it is because I am, but all those other times that I may not necessarily appear too doesn't change

So if we hit it off am I best to let him know upfront that affirmation is the way to my heart especially in the beginning? I do my own thing too and have been completely independent for years, heaps of friends and quite social but feel I get needy with a partner and if I don’t get the attention, I fuck it up. It could be self sabotaging too as I hadn’t been in a relationship for years and it’s a little scary and the scales are .

Maybe just get to know him as a friend and wait until you are more comfortable and can show those sides of yourself instead of feeling self conscious?

Then when the moment is right you can let him know.

The problem when you start acting one or another way to try to get someone’s attention is you stop being real and people can sense something is off.

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Maybe a good thing is we have been able to talk/text a bit because of this crazy ISO time. So we have spoken on different things and what we both like and our families etc. I’ve never online dated before but there wasn’t any other option these last few months. But yeah I get what you’re saying about acting differently to get someone’s attention. Will keep you posted.

Btw, some on these threads say Pisces can go into their own world for a couple weeks at a time?? Not sure I can deal with that. Are you suppose to wait or prompt?

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Good luck. My best friend needs alot of attention as in 0-100 and him mumbleling damn I texted her 10min ago and she hasn't replied. Me being a lib, I say maybe she's just tied up at the moment with a chuckle. Pisces friend shows me the phone and says if she has time to read it she can surely reply. I'm an aloof lib Male but my Bro is definitely on the higher maintenance spectrum. Idk why Pisces guy's flaked on your earlier trial dates but the guys like my Bro needs alot of interaction. I hope your luck changes for the better with that sign.

I can do 10 minutes but when it stretches past a day or even longer I don’t get it! I guess it’s a pet peeve. Even my gf’s when I put something out there to see if anytime wants to go to dinner or come for a bbq, I expect an answer. It’s polite and because I would never, i feel the same respect. That’s when I tend to mirror someone **shrugs**

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Respect is key factor in any ship aswell as being tactful. Use your tools to win him over. GL

I don’t think giving him more or less interest was the problem here. It’s his interest levels that were questionable.

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How much interest do you give to a Pisces man? In general I tend to give back the same amount that men give me but I’ve never been able to last more than a few dates with a Pisces. The connection always seems to be there at first and then they swim away. I’m always attracted to them but struggle dealing with the lack of attention that I feel is needed in the first stages of dating. Is it just that libra and Pisces are not compatible and at what point do I realise that things are going south? I’m chatting to one , just the very beginning but think we will meet soon.

I was in a relationship with a Libra for 5 years, and I would be lying if I didn't admit that I had to regularly and consciously remember to adjust myself to the needs/desires/wants of the other person in the way you described.

If I tell somebody I'm interested or show interest it is because I am, but all those other times that I may not necessarily appear too doesn't change the fact that I am interested. I kind of just assumed that I told you I was interested you should know I'm interested and now I'm just out doing x y and z (which is unrelated), but that's not really conducive to a healthy environment with a Libra who generally enjoys the reaffirmation of comfort more regularly.

I guess the simple way to say it is Pisces assumes Libra knows where things stand and Libra like to know for a fact where Pisces stands. So it's just a matter of being more open to communicating this with one another.

That's just based off of my experience anyway for what little that may or may not be worth.

So if we hit it off am I best to let him know upfront that affirmation is the way to my heart especially in the beginning? I do my own thing too and have been completely independent for years, heaps of friends and quite social but feel I get needy with a partner and if I don’t get the attention, I fuck it up. It could be self sabotaging too as I hadn’t been in a relationship for years and it’s a little scary and the scales are .

For me it's more about specifics than a notion. If you were to tell me, personally, that you just want more affirmation I'm simply going to do more of the same thing that I was already doing which is, if I had to guess, not going to cut it; haha.

How do you like to know? Everybody has these little things that make them feel special or to have that more intimate connection.

Here's a for instance. With my 5y Libra ex it wasn't so much a verbal thing. It was more like a look up from the book and smile at them simply to let them know that you were thinking about them, or in the beginning sending a random 💌 emoji or something if a certain amount of time went by.

This was more prevalent in Social settings where I was more apt to be floating around talking to people distributing myself evenly I guess you could say. Just something that I know that they appreciated to convey that. You may be entirely different and you like something more direct or verbal, but whatever it is to try to be specific. I doubt you're going to hurt his feelings by telling him secret special ways to let you know that you're important.

Don't leave it up to him to figure it out though; haha. Pisces can be cheesy and they may think some corny joke got the message across when it probably didn't. Yep I've done that. It was to a Taurus though. Suffice it to say they weren't very receptive of my tomfoolery. Haha.

This branches out to other areas of the relationship too, by the way. Drop as many hints on to the things you enjoy early on and all kinds of fun things will happen later. They're going to store that in their memory banks and surprise you when you least expect it... and it's going to be epic! You just have to get past the courting part (which is a pain in the ass for most signs dealing with Pisces I would imagine). 🤣

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Great advice, thanks. When together I will always get attention I am libra 🙂 it’s when we are going about day to day. Just burnt by the last 2 Pisces and felt like I had to do all the chasing. I have no problems with some of it but they have to put effort in too or I’ll walk. I don’t serial date and feel ready to find someone, so to be strung along is not my ideal.