HELP ME PLEASE xx

Hi - firstly thanks for reading.

Me and my pisces man broke up about 2.5 weeks ago. We've been together almost 5 years living with a 3 year old (ours together) 8 year old and 17 year old (mine)

He left after a big argument was unusually not bothered about see if his son for a week. Was unsure about us sorting things out and said we would get together after a few days - week later we tried to talk but he said he wasn't sure still. So at this point I had enough and said it was over - we argued about kids and access etc.

I spent all night and all day constantly crying and I decided to ring him and said I wanted us to be together. He saw me for half an hour last night but wasn't completly sure so said we would get together in a couple of days to talk again.

But then he really snogged my face off for a while but before he went he made sure to me that I knew that didn't mean we were sorting things out. He needed more time to decide.

But I'm now really stressed and possibly thinking is there someone else? Surely that's not a very reasonable way to act and if he doesn't know by now he never will?

I'm so upset by everything and it's driving me really really crazy 😩

Please help me understand what's going on in his head??

Please help me with my pisces man - I'm struggling 😬

No he wasn't acting strange he was just going to a football match. Things have been stressful between us and I've since discovered he finds it hard at home. In fact very hard and pressurised with the kids. My 8 year old is currently in the process of being diagnosed with adhd. The kids are normal of 1 minute friends and next min killing each other and he really struggles with that.

Posted by hayes2903
No he wasn't acting strange he was just going to a football match. Things have been stressful between us and I've since discovered he finds it hard at home. In fact very hard and pressurised with the kids. My 8 year old is currently in the process of being diagnosed with adhd. The kids are normal of 1 minute friends and next min killing each other and he really struggles with that.

Sorry to be blunt Doll, but to answer your previous post, and you already knew by now, no, he doesn't have someone else. He wants PEACE! We don't like to argue, get involved in fights, miscommunication, etc., we have ENOUGH of trials and tribulations from people at work, having bills to pay, traffic tickets (court date), getting oil changed, going to grocery story, etc, etc, etc, etc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If we cannot get peace at our OWN home it creates MORE chaos. We will do anything to find such peace (get ready if he wants a separation).

His son has ADHD. He loves his son. Right now it's you and he. When we swim away we will come back AT OUR TIME (until we've cooled off)! I keep reminding y'all that we Pisceans take and take and take and take and take and take and TAKE! When we explode, we ARE that volcano you see in movies/National Geographic....we boil, boil, and then BOOM! The hot lava shoots off so look out!

I cannot tell you that means three hours, three days, three weeks, three months, three years, etc. Since I have a Government computer I cannot add a gif. I've posted numerous ones with this saying with a hand coming outta the water shooting the middle finger, "So you've pissed off your Pisces....sucks to be you!" LEAVE HIM ALONE! He will come back to you. He's got allot to think about (see above 10,000 +1).

Open the Holy Bible:

1 Corinthians 13:4-8 NIV - Love is patient, love is kind ...

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by hayes2903
No he wasn't acting strange he was just going to a football match. Things have been stressful between us and I've since discovered he finds it hard at home. In fact very hard and pressurised with the kids. My 8 year old is currently in the process of being diagnosed with adhd. The kids are normal of 1 minute friends and next min killing each other and he really struggles with that.

Sorry to be blunt Doll, but to answer your previous post, and you already knew by how, no, he doesn't have someone else. He wants PEACE! We don't like to argue, get involved in fights, miscommunication, etc., we have ENOUGH of that from people at work, bills to pay, traffic tickets (court date), get oil changed, go to grocery story, etc, etc, etc, etc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

His son has ADHD. He loves his son. Right now it's you and he. When we swim away we will come back AT OUR TIME! I cannot tell you that means three hours, three days, three weeks, three months, three years, etc. Since I have a Government computer I cannot add a gif. I've posted numerous ones with this saying with a hand coming outta the water shooting the middle finger, "So you've pissed off your Pisces....sucks to be you!" LEAVE HIM ALONE! He will come back to you. He's got allot to think about (see above 10,000 +1).

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Eva is right, this can be typical of a Pisces male. I personally don't feel that it's fair for one to just skip out when the going gets tough but that is the way it is. I called my ex-husband Pisces out on his similar deal to what you are going through above. This was after he'd done this to a minor degree several times previously. My ex had come back and wanted to sleep in the bed and I told him, no, sleep in the guest room. When I told him weeks later that I was ready and was filing for a divorce to give him what he wanted he tried to backpedal and said that's not what he wanted when clearly he stated in front of the therapist even that he didn't want to do the work to save the relationship. Too bad. I was done at that point. I can't take the wishy washy I don't know what to do because I am just having a hissy fit thing. I am in it for the long haul no matter what. I realize that is just a different we have but so be it as it was.

It's not her fault that home life is tough. It just bees that way. Perhaps compromising with time alone or together with a sitter more often.

Good luck.