help with pisces man

Well,First my Pisces man approach me,did all the sweet talks,going out on a date with me and when I share my feelings to him(after 6 months) he rejected me by saying I respect your feelings but I am committed to my mother(I don't know with mother anyway).Even after rejecting me he is not deleting my number,message me only on whtsapp(forward jokes).

Here I don't understand if he don't want me in his life then why don't he let go of me(well its not like he is chasing me,but why not blocked me or delete my number or at least stop messaging me ). I know he may be like me but don't love me but again, why he want to be in touch with me,he is not a bad person but his this kind of behaviour forcing me to think that he is a bad person and he played with me.

Can any Pisces help me to explain what he actually want?

Posted by 14leo
Well,First my Pisces man approach me,did all the sweet talks,going out on a date with me and when I share my feelings to him(after 6 months) he rejected me by saying I respect your feelings but I am committed to my mother(I don't know with mother anyway).Even after rejecting me he is not deleting my number,message me only on whtsapp(forward jokes).

Here I don't understand if he don't want me in his life then why don't he let go of me(well its not like he is chasing me,but why not blocked me or delete my number or at least stop messaging me ). I know he may be like me but don't love me but again, why he want to be in touch with me,he is not a bad person but his this kind of behaviour forcing me to think that he is a bad person and he played with me.

Can any Pisces help me to explain what he actually want?

Is he only forwarding jokes or does he sometimes ask you how you are?

Some time he ask How are you? and even tell me that he is going on a holiday trip with his family for 10 days and after coming back he even send me his pictures(I didn't even ask for).

Posted by 14leo
Some time he ask How are you? and even tell me that he is going on a holiday trip with his family for 10 days and after coming back he even send me his pictures(I didn't even ask for).

I really don't know what to suggest as this is different behavior to what I experienced with a pisces man. Have you tried to ask him why he's not letting you move on?

Yes,I even asked him to block me or delete my number but he said he will not and when I ask why then again no answer and disappear then again appear and act like nothing happened.

Are you sure it's not a virgo man?

Yes dear his b'day is 25 feb.

Posted by 14leo
Well,First my Pisces man approach me,did all the sweet talks,going out on a date with me and when I share my feelings to him(after 6 months) he rejected me by saying I respect your feelings but I am committed to my mother(I don't know with mother anyway).Even after rejecting me he is not deleting my number,message me only on whtsapp(forward jokes).

Here I don't understand if he don't want me in his life then why don't he let go of me(well its not like he is chasing me,but why not blocked me or delete my number or at least stop messaging me ). I know he may be like me but don't love me but again, why he want to be in touch with me,he is not a bad person but his this kind of behaviour forcing me to think that he is a bad person and he played with me.

Can any Pisces help me to explain what he actually want?

I hope to not sound rude but he doesn't sound like he is that into you. He likes keeping some contact as a friend but he isn't really engaging or trying to spend time with you.

You are allowing it, why does he need to block you? If you don't like it, change it. You have control of what of what you accept. Pisces don't like letting people go that they care for or cared for. That's just my opinion..

He is confusing me like hell,I am not waiting for him any more but I just want to know why is he doing all this and commitment with his mother what does that mean(Is he has a feelings for me,but because of a commitment he can't express don't know,all that over thinking killing me and I think,I am acting like become a mad person_—_—

I don't understand what is confusing for you.

What is the problem with people still being acquaintances? Why should he have to block you or do some rash actions for you to get the point? What about leaving room for "hello" in life?

And then you somehow draw the conclusion he played you? No, you played you.

As far as becoming a mad person? It's pretty much an insult to people who actually struggle with real shit in life.

I do hope I sound rude.

I know dear he is not into me that I know he don't love me and yes I think I get my answer Pisces don't like letting people go that's the reason he can't let go of me and yes I blocked him for a month but then unblocked him but didn't add him and after a few minutes I start receiving his messages like he is waiting for me.One thing is sure,I am over him(not fully but surely don't want him as a lover)I just want to know the reason why he is acting like this.

Yes dear you are right,he is a nice person after all its me or my Leo so called pride where only cutting all the connections works and these kind of nice things hard to understand (like remaining as friend) but thanks to all of you,I understand why he is not blocking me because he want to remain as a friend(no liking,no love) not as an enemy thank you..great help lots of love

is '14' your age?

No 18 Am I behaving like a chid? well,I guess I am because I finally know the reason behind his behaviour is not love nor liking its just a friendship.All confusion gone and will move on with a positive mind thank you all.God bless you

Posted by 14leo

.... my Leo so called pride where only cutting all the connections works and these kind of nice things hard to understand ....

.... he want to remain as a friend ....

You are the only problem you have in this scenario.

And you sure do act like a 14 year old.

Thirdly, on the Relationships board, when you wrote about this, you said that as soon as you professed your love for him .. is when he backed off.

I will tell you again, just like I've told you twice already .... he liked you, and his actions showed that he wanted to be around you. But, that wasn't enough for you. You had to have more. You pushed love on him.

Now, you come here and insinuate in the quote above that you will have all or nothing. Then turn around in your immaturity and blame your sun sign, as if it is stupid and not you.

Yes my dear when I professed my love to him,he rejected me by saying respect your feelings but I am committed to my mother.

But even after that he ask me not to block him and just remain as we are right now but surely he can't accept my feelings and after that he keep on sending messages like nothing happened

And I am not blaming anyone,I just think they are right about he never liked me and he just want to remain as a friend(he is a good friend to me)that's it sorry dear I think I have offended you sorry.But he is my first love and his rejection break me.

Posted by Damnata
I don't understand what is confusing for you.

What is the problem with people still being acquaintances? Why should he have to block you or do some rash actions for you to get the point? What about leaving room for "hello" in life?

And then you somehow draw the conclusion he played you? No, you played you.

As far as becoming a mad person? It's pretty much an insult to people who actually struggle with real shit in life.

I do hope I sound rude.

lmao!! ^^

uote>Posted by 14leo

..... he ask me not to block him and just remain as we are right now but surely he can't accept my feelings and after that he keep on sending messages like nothing happened

In reality, you are the one who cannot accept that you are in error.

If he is acting like nothing happened and treating you the same way as before you told him you love him, and the below is what you wrote on the Relationship board as to how he treated you ...

Posted by 14leo

...... he is the one who approached me first,did a sweets talks with me,asking for my pictures,calling me a special person,invited me on a date and then hold my hands,want to stay with you forever ....

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... when that ^^^^^^ clearly shows his actions as liking you.


Then everything you say here is just you whining out of your ass because you cannot accept how he feels, you cannot accept that he likes you because as you've made clear ... it's your way or the highway.

This thread is in place because you can't handle the truth, or yourself and so you need a place to go wa wa wa because that is what 14 year olds do

Posted by 14leo
Yes my dear when I professed my love to him,he rejected me by saying respect your feelings but I am committed to my mother.

But even after that he ask me not to block him and just remain as we are right now but surely he can't accept my feelings and after that he keep on sending messages like nothing happened

And I am not blaming anyone,I just think they are right about he never liked me and he just want to remain as a friend(he is a good friend to me)that's it sorry dear I think I have offended you sorry.But he is my first love and his rejection break me.

Believe him, he isn't going to be with you. He was honest with you, he still wants to communicate. If you can't deal with it, then you need to block him. You are hurting yourself by reading into it after he was honest with you.

P-Angel sorry to offended you but why are you getting so angry?If you are saying, I am wrong, I am at fault than ok I am.Sorry for wasting your time and thanks alot for your help but

whatever I have written here and in relationship all is true, we did go on a date where he hold my hands like 10-15 times,he may be like me but he never even said that, its only me who;always express feelings he only do one thing I respect your feelings,you are special to me,the way,I am with you I am not with anyone,you have a right to scold me or to give me a order etc etc.

But whenever I said I start liking you,he give a same answer,I respect your feelings,please don't block or delete me.

And I am not here asking whether he like me or not,I just simply want to know the reason of his behaviour.I know I don't have a future with him.

do you have your Saturn in pisces? Born 1994?

Don't know dear

Posted by DwellingOnMove
do you have your Saturn in pisces? Born 1994?

well, 1995 is the same.

With Saturn in Pisces you'll be doing like a small child. fears fears fears.

How do I know it? I have a pen pal at your Age. it's been three years between us. she comes with lots of worries and questions. she does not get enough. one day I checked her Saturn. And saw how it is suggested they would relate to older people to ask questions.

Then I got the idea to check the Saturn placements of my sister. cause she is always worrying and fearing. Look, Sat in Pi again.

Posted by 14leo
Don't know dear

dear, you don't know if you were born in 1994?

anyway, touch this:

So you are saying, My question is not logical and because of Saturn placements,I am behaving like this_—_—

Oh year yes its 14 aug 1994

Leo sun, Sag Moon, Libra Venus, Mars Gemini, Jupiter Scorpio, Saturn Pisces I looked it up

Posted by 14leo
So you are saying, My question is not logical and because of Saturn placements,I am behaving like this_—_—

I mean we have all fear and we may be confused to be Logical sometimes.

But your Saturn placements makes you worry, doubt, overthink more than the average zodiac-citizen.

Maybe I was in the same situation at your age. Then I did decide something and went with it and the outcome. reckless. fast. (fire I am)

you have the right worries. longer and intensiver than me for example.

Posted by WateryGem
Leo sun, Sag Moon, Libra Venus, Mars Gemini, Jupiter Scorpio, Saturn Pisces I looked it up

nice from you.

OP, I have to reform my statements. Look at these degrees:

Sun Leo 20.58
Mercury Leo 21.57
Pluto Scorpio 25.19
Asc node Scorpio 19.01

1) Your Mercury conjuncts Sun and SN. => you are born to think and communicate.
2) And squares your Pluto. => that thinking stresses your feeling of power.

Besides the Saturn thing you have this natural enemy with you too.

Can somebody please correct/modify me before I mislead this poor girl?

Posted by hydorah
Are you sure it's not a virgo man?

hahaha coool idea 😛

"1) Your Mercury conjuncts Sun and SN. => you are born to think and communicate."

small hint: your sn is in Taurus and opposes your Pluto.

this is the 3rd source of feeling weak.
but of course only at times. it changes.
you have lots of winning cards. the Leo parts. and the conjunctions.
Inbetween you are stressed by the square and oppositions.

Maybe you should start ignoring your fears. Usually fears are there to warn us not to risk dangerous situations. but you have too much of it. I am not sure if we can say about "warning" functionality anymore.

back to the Pisces guy. Maybe he needs you cause he has a drab life. Maybe he thinks you need him/help cause Pisces is the sign of pity and charity.

Posted by 14leo
... I just simply want to know the reason of his behaviour...

I believe you because of this:

Posted by DwellingOnMove

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...
Sun Leo 20.58
Mercury Leo 21.57
...

1) Your Mercury conjuncts Sun...

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You said "a date". So you only went on one date with him?

Is it possible you read too much and rushed things and jumped the gun telling him your feelings. One date is NOT enough to open up feelings afterward. You yourself, in this thread, said you don't even really know him.

So, seems to me like you shared your feelings way too soon. He's trying to be the mature adult and say hey I like you enough to be friends with you but I'm not ready to be sharing feelings yet. Very honest, very respectable. But, you're acting like you are enemies and have to block each other.

Ehhh, you're young. Chalk it up as a life lesson and move on with your dignity intact.

Dear,after 8 months I share my feeling with him.you all might be right I rush things,but he is the one who started it by asking for a pictures, since he want to see me daily(whose friend ask for a pictures).

Feelings are feelings it has
Nothing to do with a time,he has rejected me that is Ok but the reason he gave was not good i.e commitment to mom(if you are committed to your mother,then you should not have started all this?)Everyone has a right to reject but be a man n always keep your commitment with your mom in mind and don't act all that sweet type.

He is honest, I agree but he should not act like this because even though he loved me still because of a commitment he won't accept me.(He is the one who approach me(my school friend recently tell me he had a crush on me)

The question here is if your mom don't let you decide or have not give you a freedom to choose a partner,then being a good person you should not get in to all this and live a single life happly.

But why approaching people and make them believe by your actions(special to me,more than a friend to me,want to see you daily,want to spend at least 40 years with you) that you like them and once they open up with their feelings for you(after 7-8 months) you reject them by saying commitment to mom sorry..he should have said sorry, I don't feel same towards you etc etc but mom commitment?

Why is he so committed to his mom? Does she have a chronic illness?
I think it would be understandable if he had to care for her.

Otherwise, a man that committed or controlled by his mother is a red flag and you're better off without that.

Hehehe you are right truecap...but you know what dear it just came into my mind that he was enjoying my liking towards him and continuesly giving me a same response by actions not by words but through actions.

But when i ask for a seriously and straight,he back off by using mother commitment excuse.And when i confronted him he simply said i never said you anything(which is true)But sometime action speaks louder than words and he still want to be in touch with me to see if i am ok or not.That's what i think.

Now,I am sure he even never liked me.He was just attracted to me(his actions shows) and when he realise I am getting serious for him(love him).

He stop me(mother commitment) and the reason why he wants to be in touch with me to see whether I am doing ok or not since he feel because of his actions i feel that way.

Now, I get all my answers thanks to all of you.

np, see you in a couple months for the follow up

Hahaha follow up..dear he is out of my life now and offcourse i am from his.

What you guys think about leo and aquarius match?

Posted by 14leo
Hahaha follow up..dear he is out of my life now and offcourse i am from his.

What you guys think about leo and aquarius match?

They say it's a good match, but my personal observation is Leos need a lot more attention than aquarius is capable of giving. Aquarius likes space and independence and aren't very reassuring.

people do marry their Saturn signs. we're endlessly attracted and fear the Father archetype; through Saturn we find a way to forever erotically reconcile into loving our parents without the incest guilt
there's an opportunity for you to grow if you just allow yourself to love more. keep quiet and observe more. the road is long, an if you're really into him, treat him the best that you can, love him and try to make the best of the relationship 🙂
oh, and down with the ego 🙂

I thought people (women that is)married their jupiter sign?

not sure Jupiter would be the happiest of marriages though since it creates the unequal rapport where the jupiterian partner dances through life while the native gets cats in the perpetual jealous-envious consort, Juno
for the unexpected joys of a saturnian marriage see Liz Greene's Saturn book on relationships

Huldra..I haven't move on yet.But what can i do now chase him? He made himself very clear to me,that he can give his life but can not break the commitment he has with his mother.I am just telling my mind about he never loved me and what i write here is my another way of telling my mind and heart and yes after discussing here,i add him again on whatsapp and when he message me,i reply him back as a friend that's it.I stop avoiding him and facing him.

My best friend is leo and her boyfriend is aquarius and they are perfect,that's why i asked about their match.

If we are to marry our Saturn sign..then most of my generation is fucked cuz there's no way that many of us can find Sags willing to commit.

Poor Sags.

Posted by Damnata
If we are to marry our Saturn sign..then most of my generation is fucked cuz there's no way that many of us can find Sags willing to commit.

Poor Sags.

EXACTLY, Im not in the least interested in Sagg men either!
I read somewhere that mars represent what we think we want in a man and jupiter the great benefic planet is what we will actually get (marry).

^I DON'T LIKE THE JUPITER THING.

I'm not really into Gemini Men. But I read it respresents the qualities of a partner so yes..I want them smart and talkative. Just not..Gemini level of talkative.

I'm on board with the Mars sign though 😄. But even then it's about confidence and assertive behavior..not necessarily Aries Sun.

Posted by Damnata
^I DON'T LIKE THE JUPITER THING.

I'm not really into Gemini Men. But I read it respresents the qualities of a partner so yes..I want them smart and talkative. Just not..Gemini level of talkative.

I'm on board with the Mars sign though 😄. But even then it's about confidence and assertive behavior..not necessarily Aries Sun.

My jupiter is in pisces so I feel safe lmao.Compassion is HUGE thing for me so my husband need to have that trait.I just don't want him to be flakey and run away from problems instead of facing and working through them which some pisces are known to do!

Posted by Damnata
^I DON'T LIKE THE JUPITER THING.

I'm not really into Gemini Men. But I read it respresents the qualities of a partner so yes..I want them smart and talkative. Just not..Gemini level of talkative.

I'm on board with the Mars sign though 😄. But even then it's about confidence and assertive behavior..not necessarily Aries Sun.

i dont really believe so much in the saturn and Jupiter thing. Maybe in VEDIC (because the vedic prof. astrologers Always say Jupiter, but it's Always vedic) but not tropical.

cause look at Selma Hayek's chart; she has Jupiter in Cancer and Saturn in Pisces (both in water) and she married a Gemini sun man:


then i looked at her husband's chart. He has an Aries moon like her. What is it with Aries moon with men who produce billionarie (like Bill gates??)
he does have a pisces Jupiter which conjuncts her saturn and venus cancer also conjuncts her Jupiter. dont know how any of that fits in.