How to cure Pisces moodiness?

Why are we moody and what causes it?

I think we as fish are very sensitive and whenever we hear something that we dislike we react to it immediately and become very defensive.

I personally think a nice sincere apology would work.

Another reason for our moodiness is that even though we are forgiving, at a certain degree we do hold grudges. This is why people wonder why we are angry at something and we think to ourselves "did they forget that they offended me?". We remain moody because we don't tell the other person what bothers us, we want them to figure it out on their own. Other signs have a different way of handling their problems, some handle it by ignoring or pretending that it never happened. I as a Pisces wish to discuss the problem through compromise whatever it may be in order to resolve it. Any problem that is not resolved will bother me. This explains why I am moody.

Fellow Pisces what are your sentiments on this?

BA .. perhaps, these two quotes from you might explain a lot.

" .. people wonder why we are angry at something and we think to ourselves "did they forget that they offended me?"."

" .. we don't tell the other person what bothers us, we want them to figure it out on their own."


Think about what this says .. if we don't tell the other person what is bothering us because we want them to figure it out for themselves, how then can we get angry at someone for forgetting that they offended us?

How do they know they offended us, if we don't tell them it bothered us?

This pretty much defines a lot about being moody .. and it also sounds self-inflicting. I'm guilty of it, also .. so, I suppose that if a Pisces wants the mood swings to improve, we have to "speak" what is bothering us and not wait for the other to figure it out on their own.

The problem remains unresolved because we choose not to confront the situation .. in reality, we cause our own distress.

Speak the mind, make it known .. deep down, I believe that the Pisces think that if they "say" what is bothering them, then the other person will disregard their words even further .. because that IS what it is, if we're to keep it real ..

.. we want to be heard, taken seriously .. people disregard what we say and THAT is what makes us clam up and not say .. a paradox, in reality because by us NOT articulately speaking what we want to be heard, is the exact reason why they blow our words off in the first place.

Circles ..

Both my roommate and I are Pisces females. She is moody as HEEELLL. She gets pissed off over the littlest things and internalizes it. She never talks directly to us when she gets this way and instead leaves nasty messages or we'll hear her slam doors and throw things. She's chased one of my roommates out and I'm currently moving out since she owns the place. Her brother lives with us and he stays away from the house when he can.

I was terribly moody as a teenager but I don't find myself being so moody now. Every once in a blue moon, I'll feel a little down or anxious for no reason but it never lasts long. When something upsets me, it'll eat away at me for quite awhile until I talk to someone about it. I don't sweat the small stuff but I do hold grudges if someone really messes with me and I'll never forget it. A Cancer recently told me that one of my best qualities is my cheeriness...lol.

Oh gosh, she's throwing things right now 😢 It's as if she knew I was typing this. Crap. I guess I'm eating dinner in my room tonight.

Thank you guys for your input!

What I've noticed about myself is for instance when I just finished having an argument over the phone, I would hang up, go to the kitchen and the first person who speaks to me, I take it out on them. And then they wonder what they did wrong. It's not right but sometimes I do it without realising, and it bothers me when I hurt other people that has nothing to do with my problem.

Guys, I think the solution for our moodiness is to stay in one spot until we are calmed down, but then again sometimes it will take a bit more time to calm down because like I said we hold grudges. sighhhhh

I hate being moody =/

My Pisces boyf is so moody it's unbelievable. Being a Taurus I can sometimes be blunt (ok most of the time) and I seriously can't handle the moods much longer. If he's not in a mood with me, then I'm bearing the brunt of him being in a mood with someone or something else. I've tried speaking to him a few times about this and he gets ultra defensive and then goes in a mood. So I've stopped trying. His best friend asked me what I thought about his moods and told me that he's always been like it, even with his ex girlfs, and that I should just tell him to snap out of it. As a last resort I did that (previously I was as nice as I could be about his moods and tried to help him) but that certainly didn't work lol It's like he spends so much time in a mood/stressing he's missing out on the small things that make life special and it's driving me crazy. Unfortunately if things don't improve I may have to call it a day. I don't want to, but I can't spend the rest of my life walking on eggshells trying not to upset him. I wish I could 'cure' him of 90% of the moods, that would be bearable then.

Sorry, just had to vent about it!

BA83,

"I as a Pisces wish to discuss the problem through compromise whatever it may be in order to resolve it. Any problem that is not resolved will bother me. This explains why I am moody."

I used to get that way as well. I want to address what's bothering right away rather than wait. Waiting used to make me crazy but I've learned to deal. Disciplining my mind and learning not to react to every emotion or take things personally has helped me immensely. I am a much freer person now that I work to control the mood swings. It takes daily viligence.

This may sound corny but I saw the new Harry Potter last night. The lesson Harry needed to learn was to discipline his mind and allow others to help him rather than internalize everything It's true for many signs but more so for Pisces.

Shoes .. point me in the direction of a shoe store with money in my pocket and I'm the happiest camper in the forest.

lol, I probably own a couple hundred pair, and only two feet. 😛

Macy's is too expensive .. I'm too cheap for that store 😉

Don't you just hate that? The perfect pair of the most adorable shoes that you know would look perfect on you, and you even have the cuttest outfit in mind to wear them with .. and they don't have your size.


ggrrrrrrrrr ..

Yesssss shopping helps!

You know what cheers me up, cosmetics. Call me weird but when I am in a bad mood I always put on my lip gloss hahaha.

I'm a 7 1/2 for heals, but I always get an 8 in sneakers for allowance for when I wear thick socks during the winter.

I love Macy's =D

Oh yeah, my favorite subject: shoes and lip gloss! (I just bought 3 lip glosses this past weekend.)

Regarding moodines:
I'm usually in a happy mood 🙂 However, I do get extremely moody when people start taking advantage of my generosity or they're being inconsiderate. But I'm usually only upset at the person who is being a jerk, not at the whole wide world.

Awwwwwwwwww, hell 2 the no sista! I wear an 11B and have since I was a teen, but I am
5' 11". Now, if I had an arch I would probably be a 10.

Most Pisceans should be slaughtered.

Leave them alone for a minute. Sometimes people just want to be left alone. That is the best gift of all.
I do not kow about other Pisces, but mine start actting emo/pissy...

1.) Sat down by her, ask what's wrong with you...

If something unserious..

2.) Tell her what could've been worse & that she should just stop whineing over crazy stuff & tickle her.

If something serious..

3.) Give hug or buy favorite ice-cream, Rocky Road & tickle her..

4.) Or, I give her something that is pink, shiny, funny, perfume, or Hello Kitty & tickle her.

5.) Or take long walk with her(that works best) & ease the convo into something off-task and stupid. Like our child hood shows and crap.

But if it's her time of month...

6.) RUN! Leave her the fuck alone. Leave home and do not return unless crampiness & mean-ness is gone.

Lol @ a4_Gemini..and GBA