My dear pisces... I distanced my self. But here we are..

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On this week, on Dawson's creek.. LOL

Some of you may already know, after our wonderful Baltimore trip, I decided to distance my self. Im falling more in Love each time we are together..

So We don't chat that much. But 3 days after Baltimore she messaged me on facebook (our main communication platform).

She said...

"Hey I don't know if you have been trying to reach me. But my phone broke a couple of days ago, but I'm getting a new one tomorrow"...

I found this VERY odd, considering we NEVER text anymore. EVER. Or talk on the phone. If we chat, it's relatively rare. And only on fb messenger.

I was kind, Yet distant in my response. A Simple "cool, thanks for the heads up."

Than she replied with "Hope your performance goes well!"...

(I had preformed at a music festival this passed weekend).

Than we chatted the day of the festival. And the day after a little. (sat and sunday)..

She messages me... "I lost all of our pictures from Baltimore, Pleaseeee can you send them to me so I can keep them close to my corazon??"

I jsut e-mail them to her...

She texts me again "Aww bringing back such good memories".

And than I kinda disappear again for a few days.

I had to contact her today about the music video. I decided to postpone the shoot. So I was messaging her and everyone involved.

She was sweet, and asked me if I was okay, because she knew I was excited about it. (this part I never read in to. She just has a good heart. I know that.. I find it so sweet and endearing.. sign)

But we continued to chat. TODAY..She told me about how she was getting a tattoo.. and we started chatting, making random inside jokes about some random shit. I sent her a picture I found of us from march. From this photog im fb friends with.

MARCH was when we reconnected after not talking for 10 months. The picture was from that night.

I just go "Here, stumbled upon this, you can add it to your collection".

The picture was on a facebook group that im in, someone tagged me...she, however wasn't tagged...

Her response...

"Yesssss I actually found that a few days ago! Wayyyy ahead of ya! hella cute.." And than she made a joke about how we both looked like we just got done with a 4 day heroin binge. LOOOL

And now I''m thinking... hmmm you "found" this pic a few days ago?... She would have had to dig REALLLLY deep to find it... archives deep.

Im trying not to over think.. But I can't help but think that our trip to Baltimore created some sort of shift... Change. I don't know what this change means yet. But I definitely feel it..
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.

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Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Right. So should I be reading in to this? Is she giving me hints that she's more comfortable with me now or something? That I mean more to her now? Regardless of romantic or platonic? I just feel like she's trying to tell me "Hey, it's okay to text/call me now. I want you to. I think about you. I care about you" Even on a friendship level..

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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Nvm I see what you are saying now. I should tell her. Imma wait though. I like having her in my life at arms distance at the moment. But I'm going to play it by ear. Next time I see her. I'll let it flow. But she knows I like her. I'm just gonna look for more obvious hints. And let our friendship grow just a little bit more. Because I appreciate her in my life regardless. And our growing bond that didn't exist before means the most to me.

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You're insufferable.

You're doing everything you possibly can to squeeze the life out of this.

btw, you're lying to her and using her, by calling yourself her friend ... because you're not a friend. You have ulterior motives. You are "playing" the part, in an attempt to get something else.

But, seeing you're a Cancer, it's doubtful that you'll do any else other than what you're doing right now = fucking smothering and suffocating every little angle, trying to gain something/someone to dump your emotional insecurities onto.

My hope is that she figures you out soon, and swims as far away from you as possible.
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You're insufferable.

You're doing everything you possibly can to squeeze the life out of this.

btw, you're lying to her and using her, by calling yourself her friend ... because you're not a friend. You have ulterior motives. You are "playing" the part, in an attempt to get something else.

But, seeing you're a Cancer, it's doubtful that you'll do any else other than what you're doing right now = fucking smothering and suffocating every little angle, trying to gain something/someone to dump your emotional insecurities onto.

My hope is that she figures you out soon, and swims as far away from you as possible.
lol... oh p-angel you slay me. i do not have ulterior motives. SHE KNOWS I HAVE FEELINGS. She doesn't know the depth that they are love. But she knows. How do you think we became friends in the first place? I told her flat out. "I CAN NOT be casual with you so if you don't want to get on the same level, lets stay friends but you CAN NOT kiss me." This AFTER confessing my feelings to her. So sweetheart. with that being said. Kindly fuck off. You are always trying to make people feel bad for how they feel. I had already said Im backing off because my feelings keep growing. IM SWIMMING AWAY. What don't you understand? God you really are a bitch.
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So ill tell you as a pisces exactly what i think of this (again) and hoooopefully you'll listen. She sounds like a very typical nice kind pisces person she wants to be your friend.she wants to stay in touch. You are in love with her, she is not in love with you. The end.
ty. that is the simple analysis i was looking for. im backing away and staying distant. i can not control my emotions after each time we meet.
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lol you already know my answer to this

but i'm going to post anyway

i honestly think she cares about you a lot

and wants to keep you in her life even though she doesn't want to commit to you romantically

so she keeps you on the hook emotionally by giving you just enough attention

all pisces women are the same ..at least the ones i've been interested in romantically
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lol you already know my answer to this

but i'm going to post anyway

i honestly think she cares about you a lot

and wants to keep you in her life even though she doesn't want to commit to you romantically

so she keeps you on the hook emotionally by giving you just enough attention

all pisces women are the same ..at least the ones i've been interested in romantically
Yeah my homegirl was saying this to me last night...
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
stay strong my friend

i know it's hard.
shit it erased what i said. I was saying how after i made this post she messages me last night at around midnight saying about "i imagine this to be your mom in the 80s" and sends me an 80s video....i just laughed. im trying not to read in to it. it's just hard not to notice distinct change in behavior. I really hope she is just being my friend, and that she's not testing my boundaries..
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Posted by P-Angel
You're insufferable.

You're doing everything you possibly can to squeeze the life out of this.

btw, you're lying to her and using her, by calling yourself her friend ... because you're not a friend. You have ulterior motives. You are "playing" the part, in an attempt to get something else.

But, seeing you're a Cancer, it's doubtful that you'll do any else other than what you're doing right now = fucking smothering and suffocating every little angle, trying to gain something/someone to dump your emotional insecurities onto.

My hope is that she figures you out soon, and swims as far away from you as possible.
Nothing to say sweetheart— Maybe do some homework before accusing people of things. Like using someone. I take that very personally because I have been used and lied to. Not everyone out there is out to use someone. I hate to sound full of my self. But I look good. I have a wide circle of great supportive friends that I mutually give and take emotionally support from. I don't need someone to dump my emotional mess on. I date other women. I tour and make music. I have a sick life. I am A-OKAY. Im just simply in love with someone. And the only thing im using. I.E. DXP to let my emotions out. And to get advice from people who potentially went through the same thing. From my experience I've learned that when someone talks shit on someone they are basically projecting their own insecurities on to them. Sounds to me that you maybe see your self in my story or something. Maybe you manipulated a situation and so you assume Id behave just like you. I LOVE MY PISCES UNCONDITIONALLY. Meaning Im perfectly okay loving from a distance and letting her grow in to whatever it is she wants to be with or without me. But I hope you get some help and support I really do @p-angel ... Sounds like you need more of it in your life. And I pity you. Funny thing though. You are still my favorite DXPer. Because your remarks are so fucking bitter. Thanks for your entertainment.
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On this week, on Dawson's creek.. LOL

Some of you may already know, after our wonderful Baltimore trip, I decided to distance my self. Im falling more in Love each time we are together..

So We don't chat that much. But 3 days after Baltimore she messaged me on facebook (our main communication platform).

She said...

"Hey I don't know if you have been trying to reach me. But my phone broke a couple of days ago, but I'm getting a new one tomorrow"...

I found this VERY odd, considering we NEVER text anymore. EVER. Or talk on the phone. If we chat, it's relatively rare. And only on fb messenger.

I was kind, Yet distant in my response. A Simple "cool, thanks for the heads up."

Than she replied with "Hope your performance goes well!"...

(I had preformed at a music festival this passed weekend).

Than we chatted the day of the festival. And the day after a little. (sat and sunday)..

She messages me... "I lost all of our pictures from Baltimore, Pleaseeee can you send them to me so I can keep them close to my corazon??"

I jsut e-mail them to her...

She texts me again "Aww bringing back such good memories".

And than I kinda disappear again for a few days.

I had to contact her today about the music video. I decided to postpone the shoot. So I was messaging her and everyone involved.

She was sweet, and asked me if I was okay, because she knew I was excited about it. (this part I never read in to. She just has a good heart. I know that.. I find it so sweet and endearing.. sign)

But we continued to chat. TODAY..She told me about how she was getting a tattoo.. and we started chatting, making random inside jokes about some random shit. I sent her a picture I found of us from march. From this photog im fb friends with.

MARCH was when we reconnected after not talking for 10 months. The picture was from that night.

I just go "Here, stumbled upon this, you can add it to your collection".

The picture was on a facebook group that im in, someone tagged me...she, however wasn't tagged...

Her response...

"Yesssss I actually found that a few days ago! Wayyyy ahead of ya! hella cute.." And than she made a joke about how we both looked like we just got done with a 4 day heroin binge. LOOOL

And now I''m thinking... hmmm you "found" this pic a few days ago?... She would have had to dig REALLLLY deep to find it... archives deep.

Im trying not to over think.. But I can't help but think that our trip to Baltimore created some sort of shift... Change. I don't know what this change means yet. But I definitely feel it..


she is showing you some sign of interests...
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On this week, on Dawson's creek.. LOL

Some of you may already know, after our wonderful Baltimore trip, I decided to distance my self. Im falling more in Love each time we are together..

So We don't chat that much. But 3 days after Baltimore she messaged me on facebook (our main communication platform).

She said...

"Hey I don't know if you have been trying to reach me. But my phone broke a couple of days ago, but I'm getting a new one tomorrow"...

I found this VERY odd, considering we NEVER text anymore. EVER. Or talk on the phone. If we chat, it's relatively rare. And only on fb messenger.

I was kind, Yet distant in my response. A Simple "cool, thanks for the heads up."

Than she replied with "Hope your performance goes well!"...

(I had preformed at a music festival this passed weekend).

Than we chatted the day of the festival. And the day after a little. (sat and sunday)..

She messages me... "I lost all of our pictures from Baltimore, Pleaseeee can you send them to me so I can keep them close to my corazon??"

I jsut e-mail them to her...

She texts me again "Aww bringing back such good memories".

And than I kinda disappear again for a few days.

I had to contact her today about the music video. I decided to postpone the shoot. So I was messaging her and everyone involved.

She was sweet, and asked me if I was okay, because she knew I was excited about it. (this part I never read in to. She just has a good heart. I know that.. I find it so sweet and endearing.. sign)

But we continued to chat. TODAY..She told me about how she was getting a tattoo.. and we started chatting, making random inside jokes about some random shit. I sent her a picture I found of us from march. From this photog im fb friends with.

MARCH was when we reconnected after not talking for 10 months. The picture was from that night.

I just go "Here, stumbled upon this, you can add it to your collection".

The picture was on a facebook group that im in, someone tagged me...she, however wasn't tagged...

Her response...

"Yesssss I actually found that a few days ago! Wayyyy ahead of ya! hella cute.." And than she made a joke about how we both looked like we just got done with a 4 day heroin binge. LOOOL

And now I''m thinking... hmmm you "found" this pic a few days ago?... She would have had to dig REALLLLY deep to find it... archives deep.

Im trying not to over think.. But I can't help but think that our trip to Baltimore created some sort of shift... Change. I don't know what this change means yet. But I definitely feel it..


she is showing you some sign of interests...

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hmm. what specifically told you that?
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So ill tell you as a pisces exactly what i think of this (again) and hoooopefully you'll listen. She sounds like a very typical nice kind pisces person she wants to be your friend.she wants to stay in touch. You are in love with her, she is not in love with you. The end.
ty. that is the simple analysis i was looking for. im backing away and staying distant. i can not control my emotions after each time we meet.
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Good luck.
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Why can't you tell her this?? That you can't control your emotions after you meet each time?

If she knows you like her, then who cares. At least you'll get some sort of straight up answer from her. If she does the whole "oh that's sweet or nice" then you know she's not interested.

Can't you say that her friendliness confuses you sometimes. Let her say something about that?
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Posted by boxcarmirnta
So ill tell you as a pisces exactly what i think of this (again) and hoooopefully you'll listen. She sounds like a very typical nice kind pisces person she wants to be your friend.she wants to stay in touch. You are in love with her, she is not in love with you. The end.
ty. that is the simple analysis i was looking for. im backing away and staying distant. i can not control my emotions after each time we meet.
I won't give up so easily! I would say just be more direct the next time you see her. I'm sorry, we are very confusing and unintentionally so, and if she is anything like me, she might be shy.

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how do you mean?
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On this week, on Dawson's creek.. LOL

Some of you may already know, after our wonderful Baltimore trip, I decided to distance my self. Im falling more in Love each time we are together..

So We don't chat that much. But 3 days after Baltimore she messaged me on facebook (our main communication platform).

She said...

"Hey I don't know if you have been trying to reach me. But my phone broke a couple of days ago, but I'm getting a new one tomorrow"...

I found this VERY odd, considering we NEVER text anymore. EVER. Or talk on the phone. If we chat, it's relatively rare. And only on fb messenger.

I was kind, Yet distant in my response. A Simple "cool, thanks for the heads up."

Than she replied with "Hope your performance goes well!"...

(I had preformed at a music festival this passed weekend).

Than we chatted the day of the festival. And the day after a little. (sat and sunday)..

She messages me... "I lost all of our pictures from Baltimore, Pleaseeee can you send them to me so I can keep them close to my corazon??"

I jsut e-mail them to her...

She texts me again "Aww bringing back such good memories".

And than I kinda disappear again for a few days.

I had to contact her today about the music video. I decided to postpone the shoot. So I was messaging her and everyone involved.

She was sweet, and asked me if I was okay, because she knew I was excited about it. (this part I never read in to. She just has a good heart. I know that.. I find it so sweet and endearing.. sign)

But we continued to chat. TODAY..She told me about how she was getting a tattoo.. and we started chatting, making random inside jokes about some random shit. I sent her a picture I found of us from march. From this photog im fb friends with.

MARCH was when we reconnected after not talking for 10 months. The picture was from that night.

I just go "Here, stumbled upon this, you can add it to your collection".

The picture was on a facebook group that im in, someone tagged me...she, however wasn't tagged...

Her response...

"Yesssss I actually found that a few days ago! Wayyyy ahead of ya! hella cute.." And than she made a joke about how we both looked like we just got done with a 4 day heroin binge. LOOOL

And now I''m thinking... hmmm you "found" this pic a few days ago?... She would have had to dig REALLLLY deep to find it... archives deep.

Im trying not to over think.. But I can't help but think that our trip to Baltimore created some sort of shift... Change. I don't know what this change means yet. But I definitely feel it..


she is showing you some sign of interests...


hmm. what specifically told you that?
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She broke her phone and obviously she was thinking of informing you because probably she cares and don't want you to be upset about her ...i do this when i like someone tough...also the picture thing..is another hint... it's an excuse to talk to you
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On this week, on Dawson's creek.. LOL

Some of you may already know, after our wonderful Baltimore trip, I decided to distance my self. Im falling more in Love each time we are together..

So We don't chat that much. But 3 days after Baltimore she messaged me on facebook (our main communication platform).

She said...

"Hey I don't know if you have been trying to reach me. But my phone broke a couple of days ago, but I'm getting a new one tomorrow"...

I found this VERY odd, considering we NEVER text anymore. EVER. Or talk on the phone. If we chat, it's relatively rare. And only on fb messenger.

I was kind, Yet distant in my response. A Simple "cool, thanks for the heads up."

Than she replied with "Hope your performance goes well!"...

(I had preformed at a music festival this passed weekend).

Than we chatted the day of the festival. And the day after a little. (sat and sunday)..

She messages me... "I lost all of our pictures from Baltimore, Pleaseeee can you send them to me so I can keep them close to my corazon??"

I jsut e-mail them to her...

She texts me again "Aww bringing back such good memories".

And than I kinda disappear again for a few days.

I had to contact her today about the music video. I decided to postpone the shoot. So I was messaging her and everyone involved.

She was sweet, and asked me if I was okay, because she knew I was excited about it. (this part I never read in to. She just has a good heart. I know that.. I find it so sweet and endearing.. sign)

But we continued to chat. TODAY..She told me about how she was getting a tattoo.. and we started chatting, making random inside jokes about some random shit. I sent her a picture I found of us from march. From this photog im fb friends with.

MARCH was when we reconnected after not talking for 10 months. The picture was from that night.

I just go "Here, stumbled upon this, you can add it to your collection".

The picture was on a facebook group that im in, someone tagged me...she, however wasn't tagged...

Her response...

"Yesssss I actually found that a few days ago! Wayyyy ahead of ya! hella cute.." And than she made a joke about how we both looked like we just got done with a 4 day heroin binge. LOOOL

And now I''m thinking... hmmm you "found" this pic a few days ago?... She would have had to dig REALLLLY deep to find it... archives deep.

Im trying not to over think.. But I can't help but think that our trip to Baltimore created some sort of shift... Change. I don't know what this change means yet. But I definitely feel it..


she is showing you some sign of interests...


hmm. what specifically told you that?
She broke her phone and obviously she was thinking of informing you because probably she cares and don't want you to be upset about her ...i do this when i like someone tough...also the picture thing..is another hint... it's an excuse to talk to you

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yes. I just don't understand what to do. So Im doing nothing. The way I see it. We tried dating twice. Each time she backed off.. I don't want to look stupid anymore. She KNOWS I like her. So I don't know what she wants me to do with all these hints when I already set my boundaries. Im definitely not gonna act upon them like I did in the past. Am I wrong to think "If she really wants me.. she'll show obvious effort." at this point?
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Well no sorry. You were the one who said to want to stay friends because she didn't want to proceed into a romantic relationship. Obviously she's still in the flirting vibe and has an attraction towards you. I don't know why she wouln't want to get involved into a next level. Have you ever asked her what keeps her from going further with you? What are her reasons exactly? You are both mature people. Why not ask her directly? You must not be afraid that she says something hurtful. She likes you and is attracted to you. Dont worry if you ask (only when the conversation gives the opportunity of course).


Thank you. That is solid advice.... when opportunity presents it self of course. She has had more assertive flirting when we first met a year ago. But At the time we both we super in to each other. And passionate. But I wasn't showing her enough friendship. And that's why she put a stop to it the first time. This time around I didn't ask why. Because she wasn't face to face with me when she told me she didn't want to"take it further" for a second time. I wan't to ask her in person because I don't want to give her a chance to lie to me or beat around the bush. If I learned anything about her since meeting her... not to get deep if we arn't face to face. Right now she's not aggressively flirting. But I don't know if it's because Iv set a boundary or not. I guess I just want more aggressive signals from her. if I don't get them Im staying still. Not reacting. Staying distant. I feel like i've put my self out there too many times with her.
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Well yeah.

So you say you weren't showing her enough friendship and she put a stop to it. Did she withdraw? Who initiated contact again?




Well Its hard to say who initiated contact again.. let me explain. Last summer she withdrew before I called her out on her distant behavior. And than she just simply said (all through text after not seeing each other for two weeks) " Im not feeling it anymore. Im sorry."

At that point we barely knew each other really. But there was so much passion for the month we spent together... than I ask her why. She simply said "you showed me more girlfriend than friend".

I know now that she was "falling in love" with someone at that time that she withrew. We talked about her ex last time we saw one another. She fell out of love with her within 6 months. I ask her if she thought she was really in love. She said " Yes, I knew because of the words she said to me"... which I respond "actions speak louder than words". But it makes sense considering what you described.

we met july last year. stopped talking august last year. february i set a job up for her with a friend that was looking for workers in her field. BUT it wasn't me initiating contact. Just a simple "hey this is my friend... she works at... looking for... hit her up if you are interested. . Late february she thanked me. she was still with her ex at the time. I ran in to them at a party i told her she'd enjoy and that I'd be at. She ended up showing up. Her and I saw each other at that part for the first time since august. She met me outside to smoke a cigarette and it was just me and her. She was showing her outfit out to me.

I asked her to hang out after that causally but didn't hear back.

Than hit me up after her birthday in march saying she was away in texas but would love to sometime. I asked her how she had been. Apparently her and her girl broke up. And she was sad because she felt due to her shitty relationship with her ex she hadn't gotten a chance to make friends and explore our city since she had just moved here when her and I met. The next day I invite her out to hang with me and our friends. With no intentions in mind other than being a friend to her. THAT IS WHEN SHE KISSED ME. And I started getting confused. Which made me passive aggressive. And a month later she distanced again. Thats when I told her my intentions through e-mail. That I wanted to get on the same page. If she was down great. If not let's be friends. That is all I wanted in the first place. But if we are friends. You can not kiss me anymore. And she responded that she didn't want to take it any further. Than she agreed to be in my music video. Than we went to baltimore as friends. Spent an entire day together for the first time. Than the change of behavior. And here we are...
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Dude you should't have emailed her your intentions. Anyway look my advice even though I had said to be distant is just chase it. Tell her again what you want (which is her).

The pisces I am involved with who has a gf, tried cutting off contact between us but I soldiered on telling her I wasn't going anywhere because I liked and wanted her and if I could only be her friend then fine.

Fast forward 3wks and it looks like her relo is slowly dissolving and WE are dating. She's actually been kind of obsessive and clingy but whatever I like her.

Just ask her to hang out and just be open. Just tell her what you're feeling. You have nothing to lose. Be very clear and assertive about it. One thing I noticed is pisces girls love to hear that they're wanted. If nothing comes out of it then you got to decide whether you can remain her friend or cut the friendship till your feelings are gone. I played the friendship route but both our feelings are intense and its more than a friendship rn but less than a committed relo.

Just do it once more. Tell her how you're feeling!!!
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You're insufferable.

You're doing everything you possibly can to squeeze the life out of this.

btw, you're lying to her and using her, by calling yourself her friend ... because you're not a friend. You have ulterior motives. You are "playing" the part, in an attempt to get something else.

But, seeing you're a Cancer, it's doubtful that you'll do any else other than what you're doing right now = fucking smothering and suffocating every little angle, trying to gain something/someone to dump your emotional insecurities onto.

My hope is that she figures you out soon, and swims as far away from you as possible.
lol... oh p-angel you slay me. i do not have ulterior motives. SHE KNOWS I HAVE FEELINGS. She doesn't know the depth that they are love. But she knows. How do you think we became friends in the first place? I told her flat out. "I CAN NOT be casual with you so if you don't want to get on the same level, lets stay friends but you CAN NOT kiss me." This AFTER confessing my feelings to her. So sweetheart. with that being said. Kindly fuck off. You are always trying to make people feel bad for how they feel. I had already said Im backing off because my feelings keep growing. IM SWIMMING AWAY. What don't you understand? God you really are a bitch.
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Age does this to best of us!

Imagine what it does to worse of us...?
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Dude you should't have emailed her your intentions. Anyway look my advice even though I had said to be distant is just chase it. Tell her again what you want (which is her).

The pisces I am involved with who has a gf, tried cutting off contact between us but I soldiered on telling her I wasn't going anywhere because I liked and wanted her and if I could only be her friend then fine.

Fast forward 3wks and it looks like her relo is slowly dissolving and WE are dating. She's actually been kind of obsessive and clingy but whatever I like her.

Just ask her to hang out and just be open. Just tell her what you're feeling. You have nothing to lose. Be very clear and assertive about it. One thing I noticed is pisces girls love to hear that they're wanted. If nothing comes out of it then you got to decide whether you can remain her friend or cut the friendship till your feelings are gone. I played the friendship route but both our feelings are intense and its more than a friendship rn but less than a committed relo.

Just do it once more. Tell her how you're feeling!!!
Hmm I have a lot to think about... my mind is kind of cloudy rn.. we chatted a couple days ago.. I sent her a snap she has yet to open. It feels like she's playing games now that we are friends and it kinda sucks. Im not really receptive to that kind of bullshit. When she hits me back up. And she will. Im gonna assess the situation. Right now....how do the pisces say it?? YES. Imma let it flow. If it is meant to be. It will be. there is no rush.

But if im gonna tell her what it is I want from her. I need to think about my wants vs my needs very heavily until its clear as day for me. only than can i be honestly assertive. i cant act when im clouded. but my head is such a fog rn. could be cause im sick. literally. lol
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100% figure out exactly what you want and need. This pisces was also really wishy washy with me until I made it clear that it was her I wanted and I wasn't taking no for an answer.

She did a 360 and is full on now. Sometimes I think they play games other times I think they literally zone out but either way it makes you think they're playing games and its fucking annoying.
right! haha. do you remember what you said to your pisces??
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Dude you should't have emailed her your intentions. Anyway look my advice even though I had said to be distant is just chase it. Tell her again what you want (which is her).

The pisces I am involved with who has a gf, tried cutting off contact between us but I soldiered on telling her I wasn't going anywhere because I liked and wanted her and if I could only be her friend then fine.

Fast forward 3wks and it looks like her relo is slowly dissolving and WE are dating. She's actually been kind of obsessive and clingy but whatever I like her.

Just ask her to hang out and just be open. Just tell her what you're feeling. You have nothing to lose. Be very clear and assertive about it. One thing I noticed is pisces girls love to hear that they're wanted. If nothing comes out of it then you got to decide whether you can remain her friend or cut the friendship till your feelings are gone. I played the friendship route but both our feelings are intense and its more than a friendship rn but less than a committed relo.

Just do it once more. Tell her how you're feeling!!!
Hmm I have a lot to think about... my mind is kind of cloudy rn.. we chatted a couple days ago.. I sent her a snap she has yet to open. It feels like she's playing games now that we are friends and it kinda sucks. Im not really receptive to that kind of bullshit. When she hits me back up. And she will. Im gonna assess the situation. Right now....how do the pisces say it?? YES. Imma let it flow. If it is meant to be. It will be. there is no rush.

But if im gonna tell her what it is I want from her. I need to think about my wants vs my needs very heavily until its clear as day for me. only than can i be honestly assertive. i cant act when im clouded. but my head is such a fog rn. could be cause im sick. literally. lol

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plz give me a break of snaps and all this borring lazy way of communication.,why you can't just meet?..What games she is playing with you...you didn't open the subject to her...and she isn't sure of what you think ..and you want her to threw up herself to you?

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100% figure out exactly what you want and need. This pisces was also really wishy washy with me until I made it clear that it was her I wanted and I wasn't taking no for an answer.

She did a 360 and is full on now. Sometimes I think they play games other times I think they literally zone out but either way it makes you think they're playing games and its fucking annoying.
right! haha. do you remember what you said to your pisces??
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Yeah she had asked for space. I gave her 2 days then I couldn't handle it and text her and told her I missed her and she text back saying she was missing me also but was in a relo and had to remember that and that it was best we stopped communicating. I told her that was bullshit and I wasn't going to accept it and wanted to talk to her in person. She agreed and we went for lunch. At lunch I was just honest.

I said I know you have a gf but you can't deny theres something between us I know you feel it too. It's too strong and as much as we've tried to stay away we can't and always end up talking again. I told her that I didn't care she was in a relo but I wasn't going anywhere. I was like I fucking like you and all my life I always hide how I feel etc but I'm sick of it. Sick of hiding how I feel and what I want and I'm not going to do that with you. I refuse. I also said to her that even if right now you say to me we can't talk that I'm not going to accept it. I'm still going to contact you regardless because I'm not going to sit here and pretend I'm not feeling what I do for you. I'm not going anywhere and I'm not taking no for an an answer. All the time I was talking and saying this she had a confused look but also was smiling. I was being quite direct and passionate about it all.

Then we went back to work and she text me all arvo and asked to see me that night so we did and we kissed all night and hugged and she was telling people I was her gf and it's been great ever since.

I think you should just be open and honest and put your heart and pride on the line. I did and it worked for me. I have a cancer mars so doing that and opening up like that took a lot but I NEEDED to be real about everything instead of side stepping situations how I generally do out of fear and doubt.

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Dude you should't have emailed her your intentions. Anyway look my advice even though I had said to be distant is just chase it. Tell her again what you want (which is her).

The pisces I am involved with who has a gf, tried cutting off contact between us but I soldiered on telling her I wasn't going anywhere because I liked and wanted her and if I could only be her friend then fine.

Fast forward 3wks and it looks like her relo is slowly dissolving and WE are dating. She's actually been kind of obsessive and clingy but whatever I like her.

Just ask her to hang out and just be open. Just tell her what you're feeling. You have nothing to lose. Be very clear and assertive about it. One thing I noticed is pisces girls love to hear that they're wanted. If nothing comes out of it then you got to decide whether you can remain her friend or cut the friendship till your feelings are gone. I played the friendship route but both our feelings are intense and its more than a friendship rn but less than a committed relo.

Just do it once more. Tell her how you're feeling!!!
Hmm I have a lot to think about... my mind is kind of cloudy rn.. we chatted a couple days ago.. I sent her a snap she has yet to open. It feels like she's playing games now that we are friends and it kinda sucks. Im not really receptive to that kind of bullshit. When she hits me back up. And she will. Im gonna assess the situation. Right now....how do the pisces say it?? YES. Imma let it flow. If it is meant to be. It will be. there is no rush.

But if im gonna tell her what it is I want from her. I need to think about my wants vs my needs very heavily until its clear as day for me. only than can i be honestly assertive. i cant act when im clouded. but my head is such a fog rn. could be cause im sick. literally. lol



plz give me a break of snaps and all this borring lazy way of communication.,why you can't just meet?..What games she is playing with you...you didn't open the subject to her...and she isn't sure of what you think ..and you want her to threw up herself to you?

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she knows. just not the depths. how long am i to chase? and we will meet. i wasn't insinuating anything with the snaps. just giving context..
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If you really like her you need to chase and chase. We love romance. We love to be chased.

It seams to me that she wasn't sure before and that she needs more time, but she definitely is interested in you. She probably needs a bit more convincing. You are growing on her.

Just be her friend. Be patient. Tell her how you feel when in a romantic situation. Flirt. Relax. Enjoy it and don't rush it. Go out with her and have fun.

I think you probably came to strong in the wrong moment. But she is definitely sending you signs to keep going.
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Posted by pisceswoman123
If you really like her you need to chase and chase. We love romance. We love to be chased.

It seams to me that she wasn't sure before and that she needs more time, but she definitely is interested in you. She probably needs a bit more convincing. You are growing on her.

Just be her friend. Be patient. Tell her how you feel when in a romantic situation. Flirt. Relax. Enjoy it and don't rush it. Go out with her and have fun.

I think you probably came to strong in the wrong moment. But she is definitely sending you signs to keep going.


hmmm shes a virgo rising like you. thank you for the input..
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Right. So should I be reading in to this? Is she giving me hints that she's more comfortable with me now or something? That I mean more to her now? Regardless of romantic or platonic? I just feel like she's trying to tell me "Hey, it's okay to text/call me now. I want you to. I think about you. I care about you" Even on a friendship level..

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(sorry I was on leave on Friday; just got back to work today). Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You got it now! ^5 (high five!). She's opening that door for you. Always, always, ALWAYS, "listen" to her words, look at her facial expressions, non verbal communication, etc., as you yourself will catch "her hints". If and when we meet a guy that already KNOWS about us, we won't let you go! You'll be the first person we will contact about what we're going thru, who did/said to us, work/school, etc. THAT'S when she'll be the parrot (communicating w/you). Just LISTEN to the girl when she does...as she doesn't want "advice" she just wants you to LISTEN to her. Even if she's a platonic "friend".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Nvm I see what you are saying now. I should tell her. Imma wait though. I like having her in my life at arms distance at the moment. But I'm going to play it by ear. Next time I see her. I'll let it flow. But she knows I like her. I'm just gonna look for more obvious hints. And let our friendship grow just a little bit more. Because I appreciate her in my life regardless. And our growing bond that didn't exist before means the most to me.

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You both seem to have "patience". Allow time to have both your hearts grow fonder. When you're gone and she tells you, "I miss you" you'll know.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by EvatheDiva
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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Nvm I see what you are saying now. I should tell her. Imma wait though. I like having her in my life at arms distance at the moment. But I'm going to play it by ear. Next time I see her. I'll let it flow. But she knows I like her. I'm just gonna look for more obvious hints. And let our friendship grow just a little bit more. Because I appreciate her in my life regardless. And our growing bond that didn't exist before means the most to me.


You both seem to have "patience". Allow time to have both your hearts grow fonder. When you're gone and she tells you, "I miss you" you'll know.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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I didn't get the "I miss you" yet.

I'm waiting.

She did however text me first thing this morning to ask me if I'm still not feeling good since I'm sick. That was nice.

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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Nvm I see what you are saying now. I should tell her. Imma wait though. I like having her in my life at arms distance at the moment. But I'm going to play it by ear. Next time I see her. I'll let it flow. But she knows I like her. I'm just gonna look for more obvious hints. And let our friendship grow just a little bit more. Because I appreciate her in my life regardless. And our growing bond that didn't exist before means the most to me.


You both seem to have "patience". Allow time to have both your hearts grow fonder. When you're gone and she tells you, "I miss you" you'll know.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
I didn't get the "I miss you" yet.

I'm waiting.

She did however text me first thing this morning to ask me if I'm still not feeling good since I'm sick. That was nice.

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Awwwwwwwwwww. You see?! 😎

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am conversing with an "Early Taurus" man (5th May). It was raining cats and dogs here in Texas (flash floods, thunder/lightening, etc). We text good mornings and good nights. I texted him, "I made it safely to work. Be care when driving today." He texted me back, "I'm glad to hear you make it to work. Yes, Ma'am, I will be careful". Then I sent him an Btmoji of me blowing him a kiss and he did the same (boy, his image of himself, so cute! Since he has a goatee, baseball cap, shirt/shorts).

This early Taurus is also "slow" (turtle) and I gotta be patient.....rub some of that patience off you and send to me!

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Hi! I know you don't' know about Piscean women, but here's a hint! We don't get rid of things that have value to us. You should see how I panicked when MY phone went dead, I bought a battery from Amazon, and was told it only lasts four hours or so; to start saving my photos to FB, send to a friend, etc! Believe her when she said her phone went dead (we don't lie). Thank God my BFF (I visited her in Califas last month) forwarded pics of my trip to my FB, too. I don't know where I'd be if "someone" didn't have a copy of a copy of a copy to send to me (in her case, it was you, she turned to). ALWAYS be there for your Piscean "friend". She treasures that and will turn to you when need be. Now, about communicating, I'm surprised y'all don't talk (we are considered talking parrots, LOL). She doesn't sound like a play-by-play type of gal. If and when I'm talking to a guy I tell him EVERYTHING about my day (if he asks; is interested; only one was a Cancer guy I was seeing for a while). Before him was my ex-bf (Saggy; I dissed him February 2016). So she's busy. She doesn't feel she has to inform you what she's doing, etc. Me, I'm different. I will text the guy I am talking to (no serious SO) when I'm leaving work, when I got home, going to lunch, etc. As I ONLY do this when it's getting "serious". We're not hoarders, but then again, we do clean up house (spring cleaning) if you get my drift. So, those pics are valuable to her as it brings back good memories. So what if she suddenly found a pic she asked from you. We are so busy that when we have time we will sit down and start "playing" on our phone, FB, etc, and then realize, "Hey, look! I DO have this pic after all!". We're not DENSE, but then again, we can be a little "spaced out" and that's okay! We own up when we do things like that (she did). Just have fun w/your Piscean.....any questions, IM me, or post here.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate ya! But I think you missed the point of my thread... maybe you havn't followed my previous posts on her? but it's a saga...... But my point is her recent change pf behavior toward me...

We dated... twice.. Recently decided to be friends... But its been a distant friendship.. we have a heavily passionate history... Im in love with her. She doesn't know.

My point with the phone. It broke. Its not that I didn't believe her. I knew her phone was fucked. It was the fact that SHE MADE IT A POINT to tell me it was broken.. though we NEVER talk on the phone.. Only facebook. We arn't close friends. She has close friends. We never were friends.. until recently.. And we went on a day trip together for the first time over a week ago... And it felt like a date... It really did. Our chemistry is still there. And she flirted with me heavy. But I didn't give in. Because I set boundaries with her a couple months ago... "If you want to take it further, great. If not. You CANNOT kiss me anymore. I CAN be casual. HOWEVER I CAN NOT be casual with you".

These were my exact words... She didn't want to take it further. And we decided to be platonic friends..

Our behaivior was distant the last to months. But cordial. And than out of no where we planned a baltimore day trip.. And I think it brought us closer.. but even though we went as friends. It felt very romantic.. And now her behavior changed toward me. See what Im saying? She knows I NEVER EVER text her or call her anymore. So why was she so pressed for me to know that her phone was broken for a few days?

Why was she digging into facebook forums from over 3 MONTHS AGO, to look for the photo that me and her took the night we saw each other for the first times in 10 months? She grabbed me and made out with me that very night. Im just saying.. Its a symbolic picture of the night of our reunion. these are not her normal behaviors. Feel me? And these behaviors started like a trickle effect a week ago. Baltimore was our first outing as "friends"...And we felt far from friends.. I hope i cleared things up.


Yes, I read your novel. Again, so what if y'all NEVER talked, texted, etc., and she told you her phone broke. She's CONFIDING in you; thus the affection, she may start conversing with you, etc. They say a Piscean woman is hard to understand. True. Yes, you love her. She cannot read your mind! That's is the REVERSAL of a Piscean! We want YOU to read OUR minds......tell her!

Gone for the day.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
Nvm I see what you are saying now. I should tell her. Imma wait though. I like having her in my life at arms distance at the moment. But I'm going to play it by ear. Next time I see her. I'll let it flow. But she knows I like her. I'm just gonna look for more obvious hints. And let our friendship grow just a little bit more. Because I appreciate her in my life regardless. And our growing bond that didn't exist before means the most to me.


You both seem to have "patience". Allow time to have both your hearts grow fonder. When you're gone and she tells you, "I miss you" you'll know.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
I didn't get the "I miss you" yet.

I'm waiting.

She did however text me first thing this morning to ask me if I'm still not feeling good since I'm sick. That was nice.


Awwwwwwwwwww. You see?! 😎

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I am conversing with an "Early Taurus" man (5th May). It was raining cats and dogs here in Texas (flash floods, thunder/lightening, etc). We text good mornings and good nights. I texted him, "I made it safely to work. Be care when driving today." He texted me back, "I'm glad to hear you make it to work. Yes, Ma'am, I will be careful". Then I sent him an Btmoji of me blowing him a kiss and he did the same (boy, his image of himself, so cute! Since he has a goatee, baseball cap, shirt/shorts).

This early Taurus is also "slow" (turtle) and I gotta be patient.....rub some of that patience off you and send to me!

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I learned earlier this time last year... "patience is a virtue because it gives you time to reflect".

Shortly after me and Pisces girl didn't work out for the first time. First time around I had shitty patience. And so after we didn't work out would ask my self. "WHY IS PATIENCE A VIRTUE?"... And I realized... I need patience. Patience gives me the time to reevaluate any person, thing, situation at any given time. And can only be used to my advantage. That realization helped me a lot. So Im different now than I was last year. More self reflective. More aware. And slightly less impulsive. Im still flawed as fuck. But patience has brought me friendship with my pisces. And that makes me happy. Very happy.

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@EvatheDiva
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Well, that's what I HAVE when after my date(s) -- we make out, then I walk him to the door, ask him to call/text me, he does, and them BAM! No communication thereafter because the guy wanted some "booty". Not! This is another TEST I do to the guy to make sure it's what he wants (just a piece of arse from me). I don't get upset, nor do I start putting a knife to my heart, etc, as I already know by dead silence that's what he wanted from me...again, not and next!!!!

I sense this is what the Taurus man is doing (reevaluating his life, decisions he's made, how "quickly" he married a 2nd time, etc). My mom tells me the same thing. He's rationalizing how different I am, respond to his texts, etc. I ALMOST gave up on him since I didn't hear from him and realized, yeah, he too has a life and is busy like I am. My kiddo is going to stay w/his dad this weekend again, and I just hope he'll ask me out!!! I'll give him the "hint" and see if he takes the bait.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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WaterDevil
@WaterDevil
8 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Comments: 55 · Posts: 1309 · Topics: 92
Posted by Piscox
She likes ya. Wants some more of ya. When we go out of our way to talk to you, we are in.
she's so fucking fickle thoooo. Like she texted me this morning to see if i was feeling better. and we get in to it deep about some family stuff i have going on. I confided in her because i knew she had been through something similar. And she was sweet and talking to me.. but than backs away.. isn't so responsive. I don't know dudeeee. Im just too sick and in my head since this weekend. I need to go do things.
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@WaterDevil
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Posted by EvatheDiva
Well, that's what I HAVE when after my date(s) -- we make out, then I walk him to the door, ask him to call/text me, he does, and them BAM! No communication thereafter because the guy wanted some "booty". Not! This is another TEST I do to the guy to make sure it's what he wants (just a piece of arse from me). I don't get upset, nor do I start putting a knife to my heart, etc, as I already know by dead silence that's what he wanted from me...again, not and next!!!!

I sense this is what the Taurus man is doing (reevaluating his life, decisions he's made, how "quickly" he married a 2nd time, etc). My mom tells me the same thing. He's rationalizing how different I am, respond to his texts, etc. I ALMOST gave up on him since I didn't hear from him and realized, yeah, he too has a life and is busy like I am. My kiddo is going to stay w/his dad this weekend again, and I just hope he'll ask me out!!! I'll give him the "hint" and see if he takes the bait.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


what hint you gonna give?

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