My picses is mad at me for being mad at him

Hes 21 and Im 25, we known eachother for 2 months, officially dating for almost a month, my birthday was last tuesday and he had been bringing it up every other day and asking me what I wanted, we just started so I didnt want anything but to spend time with him. He fell asleep so the time I was supposed to spend with him I went to work, but he said sorry I fell asleep when he woke up in the morning but I was already upset. He froze me out didnt talk to me for 2 days but he drove 40mins right after work to come to a late birthday dinner with some friends and he was completely shut down, didnt talk to me or anyone, when we were left alone at the table I asked him to say something, he kept saying I have nothing to say, I said so you just dont care and he said I didnt say that I just dont have anything to say. Long talk later I asked him if we were ok, I thought we were but the whole drive home he didnt talk and his txt were so emotionless and he wouldn't txt me throughout the day like he used to so I told him I know your not fine whats going on. He said he feels our relationship is rushed because I guess he doesn't feel I had the right to be mad because he fell asleep on my birthday when I was supposed to spend time with him, because fo the short amount of time we have been together.

I agreed that we are rushing things but I asked if he wanted to slow it down or stop, he wants to slow things down but his txt are still a little emotionless and he didnt want to come to dinner with me tonight because he had a headache which is fine but before he would come out with me no mater if he had a headache or not. Does he have the right to be mad, do I? how do I handle this?

I am his second relationship since high school and I am allot more experienced than him

Posted by Libra_TT
He said he feels our relationship is rushed because I guess he doesn't feel I had the right to be mad because he fell asleep on my birthday when I was supposed to spend time with him, because fo the short amount of time we have been together.

I think I understand how he gets headaches

Posted by Libra_TT

I am his second relationship since high school and I am allot more experienced than him

You sound extremely immature. I see you've prided yourself on being bigger and older than him in your words and self praise ... but, your actions are that of a 9 year old.

You iced him out when he wanted to be nice and give you a gift.

He fell asleep on a day you wanted attention from him.



and like a child, you're having a temper tantrum because you didn't get the attention you wanted.



dude, the man fell asleep, and you act like it was a personal assault against you.



Can you be anymore ridiculous?

Posted by Libra_TT
his txt were so emotionless

Lmao texts are in their very nature devoid of emotion. Their texts.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Libra_TT

I am his second relationship since high school and I am allot more experienced than him

You sound extremely immature. I see you've prided yourself on being bigger and older than him in your words and self praise ... but, your actions are that of a 9 year old.

You iced him out when he wanted to be nice and give you a gift.

He fell asleep on a day you wanted attention from him.



and like a child, you're having a temper tantrum because you didn't get the attention you wanted.



dude, the man fell asleep, and you act like it was a personal assault against you.



Can you be anymore ridiculous?

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Can you be anymore ignorant?

1) I didn't ice him out whatsoever when he asked what I wanted for my birthday I told him exactly what I wanted but I didn't expect anything from him but we had planned to spend time together on that day.

2) I didn't have a tantrum at all, hours before we were supposed to get together I told him if he was too tired when he got home let me know and he can go out another night, the time for us to go out came and went, no communication from him at all. Until 5am the next morning and I specifically said I know it wasn't intentional but next time if your too tired just let me know next time. But I didn't get an answer back from him because he was already mad at me for being a little upset with him

Seems like my pisces.. still is kinda like that and it has been 3 years, and also has the ability to make me unhappy at my birthdays!

No idea how to handle that yet!

Posted by AriesLove
You downplayed your own birthday by declining his nice gestures. People give gifts out of kindness and thoughtfulness which really has no timeframe.

Sometimes men get offended when you turn down their acts of sincerity. I understand if this was a guy who you were not interested in but you guys are dating and you are giving him your time. Let him be a man and treat you it doesn't mean your any less of a person by being treated special. My friend does it all the time. Sometimes I tell him to tone it down I don't need all that but I see the look on his face like I hurt him by saying that so I just let him do his thing.

Did he fall asleep on you or fell asleep and no showed?

I didn't downplay it, I told him what I wanted and we were supposed to spend time together on my birthday but the time for us to go out came and left, the last txt I got from him was a couple hours before he left work asking hows my day going, I said it was going fine but I couldn't wait to spend time with him later on that night.

Posted by Libra_TT

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Libra_TT

I am his second relationship since high school and I am allot more experienced than him

You sound extremely immature. I see you've prided yourself on being bigger and older than him in your words and self praise ... but, your actions are that of a 9 year old.

You iced him out when he wanted to be nice and give you a gift.

He fell asleep on a day you wanted attention from him.



and like a child, you're having a temper tantrum because you didn't get the attention you wanted.



dude, the man fell asleep, and you act like it was a personal assault against you.



Can you be anymore ridiculous?

Can you be anymore ignorant?

1) I didn't ice him out whatsoever when he asked what I wanted for my birthday I told him exactly what I wanted but I didn't expect anything from him but we had planned to spend time together on that day.

2) I didn't have a tantrum at all, hours before we were supposed to get together I told him if he was too tired when he got home let me know and he can go out another night, the time for us to go out came and went, no communication from him at all. Until 5am the next morning and I specifically said I know it wasn't intentional but next time if your too tired just let me know next time. But I didn't get an answer back from him because he was already mad at me for being a little upset with him

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I guess I was wrong ..... you can be more ridiculous. The above is evidence.

You're not even aware of yourself and of your own actions.



It's funny as shit that you mention the experience of age, as if you benefit from it over him ..... while your description of events paints a juvenile picture

The guy fell asleep, but, you're so unreasonable, selfish and inconsiderate that by your own admission, you're completely intolerant and misunderstanding of it.

Yet, just previous to this ...... you iced him out and rejected him, with his desire to please you.



We'll await your next thread in where you are crying about being all alone