Pisces and cheating in relationships....

Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to
be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

Hi! I am a female Aquarian who had a female Pisces as a good friend in college (or so I thought...initially). I do not know if it is a Pisces trait to be preoccupied with money...but, she definitely was! It didn't bother me...until my new boyfriend, who came from a weathy family, told me she was slipping him notes that suggested she was more suited to him than I was!! Thing is she had a boyfriend! Luckily, my guy saw through her tactics...was honest with me, and remained interested in me and not swayed by her...
I thought she was a pretty girl, so, I was fortunate that my guy had morals and disliked her game-playing...he knew her boyfriend, as they grew up in the same town...so, he thought it was really shitty of her to be looking elsewhere!!
I guess I didn't help you out any...
Sorry! Just sharing my experience with a Female Pisces...funny thing is, she lost my friendship and didn't succeed in getting the "upgrade" she desired...

Take Care.
Star

Hi!
This is, like...so weird...they never talk about about any problems...even when you ask for help...
I would say...just move on...f*** it...
Star

See my previous post "Strange Twist in the Natal Chart"...
I would have thought there would be at least one humanitarian who would have responded...
Well..you take care...
Wish You The Best!
Star

All Pisces are different. Some care, some don't.

OK. Thanks for responding...
Star

Thanks for responding to my posting Star. I got an email from her on Christmas about how happy is in her relationship after she dumped me. She's now going to school to be a massage therapist and I'm sure her lover is helping her pay for that as well as the new car. It'll just be a matter of time before she's giving more than massages to someone with a fat wallet if you get my drift. She always said she wasnt materialistic but I think that was an attempt to try and cover up the real truth. I agree with you 100% . It is time to realize that she's a cold hearted cheap a** slut who doesnt know what love is unless it's been bought and paid for. Yep, this New Year I will definately put that one in the past
where she belongs and say f*ck it! Have a good one and thanks for the advice.

Thanks for responding to my posting Star. I got an email from her on Christmas about how happy is in her relationship after she dumped me. She's now going to school to be a massage therapist and I'm sure her lover is helping her pay for that as well as the new car. It'll just be a matter of time before she's giving more than massages to someone with a fat wallet if you get my drift. She always said she wasnt materialistic but I think that was an attempt to try and cover up the real truth. I agree with you 100% . It is time to realize that she's a cold hearted cheap a** slut who doesnt know what love is unless it's been bought and paid for. Yep, this New Year I will definately put that one in the past
where she belongs and say f*ck it! Have a good one and thanks for the advice.

Hey!
More power to you! Good luck in all that you do! Take your next relationship slowly...
Well...that is what I am doing anyway...and so far...things are GREAT!
Best To You!
Star

I had been surrounded by more pisces in my life than I asked for. So I know them first hand. They will go to any length to get married, or be involved in a relationship, mainly for sex, and inner-satisfaction. The more ambitious the partner, the better; funny thing is that they tend to pull him/her backwords, and then complain that he is not ambitious enough for them. Aha. So they start looking elsewhere. Unless ofcourse the partner happens to be a clever aquarius, virgo, scorpio, or another pisces. They also tend to STAY PUT once they have kids

I would also add a LEO to the list above. A Tarus refuses to be taken for a ride, and thus pulls away early, when and if he senses the irreliability of the Pisces

Thank you all for the advice, it has been very insightful. I like the posting from the person who has had more Pisces than they'd care to have dealt with. You see, I am a Virgo and yes, she was hot and heavy sexually and totally commited until we both got laid off from the same company and her financial security was at stake. She dumped me for her ex (an Aquarius) who has plenty of cash and could provide her with a Home and a stable means of financial support. Of course my ego took a big hit that she traded me in for someone that she saw as being better than me. You see, Virgo's dont take rejection and a broken heart very well. We tend to dwell on every aspect of "why" were not good enough to maintain a relationship with a person that we truly love. We are much better at being a dumper than a dumpee. Like I said, I've had several relationships with Pisces and they all seem so magical at first and like it's meant to last forever then you wake up one morning and they have decided to jump into a new relationship with someone else. I dont know any pisces who can be alone and not be in a relationship. They do tend to cling on to their partners. I also think they have a tendancy to be very codependant. Unfortunately for their partners they find that the magic is temporary because they are always looking to "trade up". I have moved on into a new job since then and I'm doing quite well. I also dont feel like I want to fall in love again with someone who is about as honest as an Atheist at Confession! lol. Have a great New Year all of you! Good luck in life and love.

You know...I agree with you! I am currently in a relationship with a fellow Aquarian (he is male...thank God! and I am female...)
I understand my own sign the best and trust is important to Aquarians...
SKEE-LO thinks I am wrong for deciding on my own sign for a relationship...but, I don't care!
I hope you find someone worthy of You!
Take Care!
Star

I was involed with a pisces who was cheating on his wife. I didn't know he was married because he kept it hidden very well. Once I found out I left him alone. Because the sex was soo good I started reading on his horoscope becaue I had never been involed with a pisces before. I'm a cancer. I found out that his wife is an aries. Well, in one of the horoscopes books that pisces will cheat until they feel they have found that perfect mate. It could take months or it could take years. The truth is, if they are not getting the satisfaction, attention, sensitity that they crave at home, they look for it elsewhere. I found out earlier that him and his wife were having problems at home. Apparently he caught her cheating and forgave her for it. So I guess cheating with me was his way of getting back at her. Well it still not working out with them and he has move on. He is paying his child support working and now he is alone. I talk to him sometimes but due to the fact that he lied to me about not being married made me feel that he could never be faithful to me. Plus I still feel bad about sleeping with him while he was married. Hope he finds what he is looking for.

Thanks for sharing your experiences with your Pisces. See, a pisces will never be happy with an Aries. Anyone who knows about astrology knows that for certain.
Yourself being a Cancer wants to find a true and spiritual love. Aries are control freaks. They make better friends than lovers. In fact, they usually suck in bed and a Pisces won't deal with that for very long. A Pisces will seek out a more rounded person that can fulfill all of their needs. Sex being very important to them- as far as sharing with a lover is concerned. I do agree that they (pisces) keep their eyes "open" as far as moving forward to finding someone who can finally complete them. I'm sorry you were lied to by the fish guy but that's their motto. They (in my opinion) are always looking for a greener pasture to bottom feed off of. They remind me of "CATFISH". I hope you can find a nice Taurus or Virgo that will treat you with romance and the trust that you are looking for. Take care my friend. Smile...

I agree with you. I had a relatinship with a piscis man and i think that he was only centered in material things. He was very difficult to understand, and was impossible to get a straight response to my ansewers. I felt irritated about this relationship and stopped see him after two very bad years. I am a leo women ( sorry about my english, I'm portuguese )

Pisces are exactly that! Imposible to get a straight response from! Probably because they're constantly trying not to reveal any of their secrets and lies.
I'm sure your much better off without that looser.

After reading all these postings, I realized that I am doing the right thing by not seeing my Fish any longer.
I am a Cancer woman and he and I should be great together. Unfortunately, I don't have a lot of money and he seems to be looking for a sugar mama.
I am sad over this break up, but based on what I've been reading, I should be looking for a Scorpio anyway :-)

CL

Crazy Luna, you're NOT crazy! ALL birth signs are capable of cheating - there are many reasons WHY they cheat. Usually, it's because they can't talk directly to the people they're having problems with. I'm a Virgo, Pisces's opposite, and I agree you'll do better with a Scorpio. I happen to love them, because they're sensitive and caring.

Okay, as fish we are very loyal by nature. You must know this about us. Just because you have made bad choices in the past in picking f***** up mates, doesnt mean that we all have this issue. It seems like this is more your issue. Maybe you latch on to the Pisces compassionate side but don't know how to nuture it. You keep getting dumped on by us fishies, but at this point you must ask yourself is it YOU.

Your right, it is me. I know that.

and then?

and then?

ANY birth sign can cheat - it's because they can't communicate and they feel they don't get enough attention, so they seek reassurance elsewhere.

Shame on her for never loving me in the first place. What she wanted I could not provide. No one has been able to support her wants. Only GOD can make that happen.

Dont even "diss" on my a**. Do you even know what you have:?

I am a pisces, and would never cheat or steal nayon'e boyfriend. If I am in a reationshjip hat its not right, I just HAVE to be honest. I cannot pretend. Even if it means saynig I can't stand you Idon't want to see you anymore! I don't mean to be so blunt but it just comes out!
Everytihg has to feel right for me to stay. If it doesn't - I;m gone - bt not without telling them !

Mmm I've a read a few post about the pisces women... and I'm one myself.

Read somewhere there are more then one tpye of pisces. Like there's the whale thats more aggressive and more stubborn then usual.

I would never cheat on a person, and I wouldn't ever want to use someone for something. I could also care less about money! If I turly loved them I would always stay with them regradless of what others would say about it. The only time I would ever leave someone is if I turly felt it wasn't going to work, if they kept treating me badly and if they where always angry and had to aruge over everything. At least I am I really have no idea baout the whale! (There are other tpyes as well but I really have no clue about it. I'm trying to find more information.)

We ARE very complex sensitive and emotional people. Sometimes we don't even always understand how we feel. We can usaully understand how others feel and why, but not ourselves. So we can't always explain it. You can' t explain something unless you understand it can you?

I knew a Leo guy (No offense to any other Leos!) and we were ok friends at first. Then when he knew I was with someone and that I WASNT going to leave them he would always try to start arugments...When we broke up I ended up going out with him because I wanted the arguments to stop....And then he became very...possive jealous over every small thing twisted my words around... When he kept trying to convice me that my ex had been using me and kept trying to make me to stop talking to her... Eventually we broke up (Twice in fact) lol. Couldn't handle it. His anger his possiveness... he always hurt me as friends anyway and she...Never did. She didn't always understand but she was there. She gave me comfort and somebody I could trust. She always wanted me to be happy whoever I choose to be with and even if she did get angry.. She didn't scare me at all. It wouldn't be over something stupid and she'd always have a reason.

Funny she's an Aquarius and I saw an Aquarius mentioned somewhere else in here. But I really don't care if she's rich or not. I just enjoy being with her and her company.

I will say this sometimes we do lie. But then doesn't everyone? We want to be honest and we usaully are but soemtimes we lie...Because we don't want to hurt you. We generally like to be cause of someones happiness not the cause of their sadness. The tipical pisces always mean well...

What's with all the "unregistered" users? Makes it very hard to follow the tracks. Anyway, this thread is hilarious since I love Pisces. Some pretty hard stuff spoken against them ... Only bad thing I have to say about Pisces is that I find them somewhat irrational.

Can't say I was ever involved with one, but some experience I have tell me that despite them being romantic and sensitive, they do love materialistic features in a man. But then again, a woman wants a leader, not a follower =P

Now I'm really starved for fish, never had one though. Want one! 😢

haha so you decided not to write anything, despite all

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Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to

be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

I'm so sorry for your losses.

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

a pisces dude still messages me but he tells me he has a gf . his gf will be angry if she knows he's talking to me etc

thats fine but im like isnt your gf going to be mad

keeps saying "i have a personal question" so many times but wont specify

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Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

WTF are you talking about?

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She is talking about cheating when she doesn’t get enough attention.



ROFLMAO

I find Pisces to be pretty forgettable lovers. ( Don't get me wrong I like pisces ) but they something that you can find anywhere. They are kind of basic, which isn't a bad thing

I think mutable signs can be very tricky when they don't know what they want in general

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

WTF are you talking about?

She is talking about cheating when she doesn’t get enough attention.



ROFLMAO

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Thought, you wanted a perspective view of cheating from a Pisces.

Here is a my perception. No offense. My worst experience of cheating was with a Gemini. God, it was a some unique experience . We both we were cheating on each other. She even had the guts to tell me that she was cheating on me. I thought that was disrespectful, whatever was going on with her other private life was her BS.

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Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

WTF are you talking about?

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He's taking the piss 🙂

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I was 5 years old when she created this thread

Yeah, things happened even before you were born...

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

WTF are you talking about?

She is talking about cheating when she doesn’t get enough attention.



ROFLMAO

Thought, you wanted a perspective view of cheating from a Pisces.

Here is a my perception. No offense. My worst experience of cheating was with a Gemini. God, it was a some unique experience . We both we were cheating on each other. She even had the guts to tell me that she was cheating on me. I thought that was disrespectful, whatever was going on with her other private life was her BS.

You were both cheating, but she was the disrespectful one because she admitted it?

I'm so confused.

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I never revealed about relationships to her, I also thought she would do the same. We lived in different parts of the city. Hence we had secret love affairs from our homes.

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Posted by Unregistered

Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to

be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

I'm so sorry for your losses.

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Lol. This girl was a Virgo!

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Unregistered

Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to

be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

I'm so sorry for your losses.

Lol. This girl was a Virgo!

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maybe you've got a point about that whole gold digging thing

Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

wow yeah i noticed this, they need tons of attention

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Unregistered

Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to

be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

I'm so sorry for your losses.

Lol. This girl was a Virgo!

maybe you've got a point about that whole gold digging thing

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Don’t over think your situation. You have to be cautious about every sign. Pisces are just sweeter on the delivery but not all of them are gold diggers. It does depend on their personal placements. And like I said. You can easily say no and they will stay too.

You should be comfortable with your decisions and don’t let the internet sway your decision, especially since we don’t know all the facts involved. Just keep a watchful eye and take notes.

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Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Unregistered

Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to

be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

I'm so sorry for your losses.

Lol. This girl was a Virgo!

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What's your point?

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Posted by saggurl88

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Unregistered

Could some of you Pisces women tell me if you keep your eyes open for someone "better" or constantly on the move to upgrade from relationship to relationship? I have had three long term relationships with Pisces women and in each relationship I was dumped by them for someone who had more money or more to offer them than I did. I've been hurt three times by different Pisces who couldnt keep their commitment and cheated on me. The last one really hurt because I was in love and thaought that she was also in love with me when she turned aound and out of the blue dumped me for someone rich and ugly. She moved in with the Aquarius and bought a new car two weeks later. What a slut. That broke my heart and my self esteem. Are all Pisces that way? Looking for the grass (or the money) to

be greener? Doesnt loving someone include fidelity to them? I just hate cheaters and I havent met one who can be faithful yet. Next time I think I will pass on the fish!

I'm so sorry for your losses.

Lol. This girl was a Virgo!

What's your point?

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Virgos don’t like cheaters , but cheaters apparently prosper 🧐

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Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

WTF are you talking about?

She is talking about cheating when she doesn’t get enough attention.



ROFLMAO

Thought, you wanted a perspective view of cheating from a Pisces.

Here is a my perception. No offense. My worst experience of cheating was with a Gemini. God, it was a some unique experience . We both we were cheating on each other. She even had the guts to tell me that she was cheating on me. I thought that was disrespectful, whatever was going on with her other private life was her BS.

You were both cheating, but she was the disrespectful one because she admitted it?

I'm so confused.

I never revealed about relationships to her, I also thought she would do the same. We lived in different parts of the city. Hence we had secret love affairs from our homes.

Are you under the impression that cheating is fine as long as you don't get caught? Do you expect an unspoken "gentleman's agreement" with your lady?

P.S. Are you European? The people who have tried before to convince me that this is how one should do things were European.

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“European” here 😄 We only care about things which have consequences! Wass ich nicht weiss, macht mir nicht heiss!

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Posted by chris19

As a Pisces I hear no 😈 and do no 😈. So in relationships I might cheat for a while and think I am not doing anything wrong.

However if you cheat on me I will definitely leave you.

Most likely I am always faithful to my partner. Cheating only happens when I'm not getting enough attention.

WTF are you talking about?

She is talking about cheating when she doesn’t get enough attention.



ROFLMAO

Thought, you wanted a perspective view of cheating from a Pisces.

Here is a my perception. No offense. My worst experience of cheating was with a Gemini. God, it was a some unique experience . We both we were cheating on each other. She even had the guts to tell me that she was cheating on me. I thought that was disrespectful, whatever was going on with her other private life was her BS.

You were both cheating, but she was the disrespectful one because she admitted it?

I'm so confused.

I never revealed about relationships to her, I also thought she would do the same. We lived in different parts of the city. Hence we had secret love affairs from our homes.

Are you under the impression that cheating is fine as long as you don't get caught? Do you expect an unspoken "gentleman's agreement" with your lady?

P.S. Are you European? The people who have tried before to convince me that this is how one should do things were European.

“European” here 😄 We only care about things which have consequences! Wass ich nicht weiss, macht mir nicht heiss!

I personally think cheating always has consequences. Lack of intimacy being the first.

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That’s often the cause, not the consequence!

“Keeping a secret kills intimacy”

Finding a secret kills the relationship.

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Posted by Undine

“Keeping a secret kills intimacy”

Finding a secret kills the relationship.

Right, so best to not cheat. Or confess if you already did and take your lumps.

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I agree. I just like teasing you 🙂

Although I’m not sure that “keeping a secret kills intimacy”. Secrets are fascinating. I’ll have to sleep on this....