Pisces Girl = Heart break ?

Pisces girl can we never find some who will love is the way we love them—


do we expect too much? is it just me or does most pisces girl usually have their hear broken?

*Waits for Branh to step*

fishworry,

I think it's a female thing vs male thing, and not sign related at all. Women, in general, get thier hearts broken a lot because men CANNOT love us the way we need it inside. Perhaps, there are some men who can feel our feminity and what it takes to make us fee wholesome, but, not many. Certainly, not enough to go around to us all.

To say that Pisces girls live with rose-colored glasses on, is a fair assessment. However, I would be inclined to think that ALL women are like this when it comes to feeling loved in our hearts. If you look at other sign sites in this community, all us women are saying basically the same thing, just in different words.

People love in different ways. Men and women love in different ways. Some show affection more openly, others are more reserved and layed back. You have to ask yourself, is this the ''way'' he loves me, or is he just not interested anymore?? And is it 'enough' for you in the end? Life is mean't to be shared. And few can love as deeply or as selfless as a pisces. We truly bare our souls for another, sometimes leaving them vulnerable. But when it fits, *NOTHING* can be better. Be strong in spirit & independant within yourself first, love yourself like no other.. (Be the person that would attract you.) Also, try not to get (too) bogged down in exhausting emotion; show him the happier, more optimistic side of you. *No one person can be everything to another. What scars are you willing to accept? You either have to merge, adapt, or re-evaluate what's truly the most important to you and your own unique, special heart...'most of all, be patient and stay hopeful; what is mean't to happen will happen eventually...

Doesn't look like "B" is going to show, liokaiser.

He's so funny . . he THINKS he has us figured out . . when in reality, it's in the irony of his own mind that prevents him . . to feel us, is to FEEL us, not think us.

I wish I has the strength to be strong and be indifferent. I wish I wanted needy or at least I could hide it....play it cool

How do I let go? I know its important to keep myself busy but how do I get him out of my mind. I feel like walking away but I cant coz the feelings I have but by staying with I am still hurting.

I have realised one thing that Pisces girls take a lot of sthie and need to stop being doormats in relationship. I give too much....I should stop....but how— is the big question coz if this is who I am then isnt that changing myself?

We also need to learn how to say no....I just cant. I feel oh if calls and I dont answer it he'd get upset and go looking for someone else....

Jee why the f? I was different....what happend....why do we give in!!!

oh u so sweet, chilll,, its a horrible game, simply one step back, one step back, its not fair and just pretend it, it will hurt less than what ur doin, its horrible and unfair, do it and then he will see what hes missing, bit of fear, its modern society love, we all watched to many films, if its clear people become open to the idea of theres more than there is, its TV stuff that affects it all, hes wankin off in u in days if u step back - take it from a master tarus don of dons x

I hate games but I guess he is playing it....so I have a choice either to walk away or play along.

I am smart, intelligent, ambtious girl. I am so confident in everything I do and I work hard. But in relationship seems like I keep working hard but no rewards...I am despreatly in love with him thats what makes me weak. Its so wrong coz love should be beautiful...

I am gona take your advise and step back. Not gona answer his phone. Its wkend he'll just say you were out with your mates thats why didnt care...make me feel guilty. When he goes out I am scared to even ask if it was good..coz he'll snap saying i am try to accuse him

He is always busy but I make time for him....from sunday nite, monday, tuesday he needed help with his report...I stayed up with him till 5 am everyday online and helped him finished it. So he was calling me a lot to help and now past 2 days nothing....I am a doormat— Jeee....whats wrong with me....— I just keep giving n he keeps taking...will he ever realise...

nway, no reply as you guys said thats what i am gona do.

I feel drained out.

I have tried to let go I can't....hurts too much...but it hurt being with him...aaaaaaa I just want to cry so loud.

He is Bull! Taurus.....

Awwww thanks Starfish. U r a gem.

Well I live far away. I plan to not contact him or reply back for fews days. Lets see what happens then. Dont think he'll notice.

Thank you so much Startfish.

I have to think for myself. But I dont know if I can walk away yet coz I feel strongly for him...I developed these feeling in time so will take time to get rid.

I am not going to contact him...he pays games by being hot and cold. I was happy last week when he was telling me he misses me and thinks of me....this week as soon as his work is over he totally dropped me.

My problme is that when he contacts me I can't resist...i feel happy that he's thinking of me but then it only for the moment....then it goes back.

Yes he has a lot of women and i know he does....he is younger and its fine if he want to enjoy but not on my expense.

Thanks everyone for helping me.

Sometimes the best way to win a Pisces heart is too tell them what they want to hear, play into their fantasies, and shield them as far from reality as possible.

So Brandon, what exactly made you want to stay with her...and I'm not saying this merely to be rhetorical...I genuinely am curious to know...it's sounds like Pisces women (or women with many of the same qualities attributed to Pisces) can be a little too much for a man to handle at times. So then, what are the redeeming qualities that keep men coming back to the sometimes fitful and quixotic nature of a Pisces?

pisces is dope girls. soft and warm, easy now

I hope I am normal.

Maybe I expect too much...

Sometimes I feel maybe I have unreal expectations. He is far away...we almost talk everyday or text everyday...but i still want more....is that normal?

If I am not happy then its not right somewhere and he has to feel that I am not happy....

I am trying to be strong and I know right thing to do is let go of him but its not easy at all coz in my heart I want it to work...I want him to put that extra effort in and invest some emotions in this but maybe I am asking for too much.

Solution is I have to walk away...I hope I can by end of this year.

Fishworry, don't let this guy drain your whole self to little pieces!! girl, you should be having fun, and living your life!! I can't beleive how much we are alike! it's very hard for us to walk away, because we love to belong to a man more than we want to live! right? and we are the damsels in distress!! You're expectations are not too high, it sounds really reasonable..it's weird though..how we can be sooo picky, but yet we put up with A LOT of shyt from guys! I say "we" because I'm the same way! but don't ever lower your expectations that you have...you don't want to be unhappy for the rest of your life

Thanks piscesgrl

Thats right I dont want to be unhappy for rest of my life. Last nite I told him I have had enough cause he insults me and all he had to say was you dont have to explain yourself...its okay. And thats it.

I havent called him or spoken to him since. No contact....I hope I can get over this soon and move on.

I tried my best. It just wasnt good enough.

Lady, I don't know that I agree completely, but, for the most part, B is right.

One thing, though, that I don't believe B knows, nor, a lot of people. Maybe it's a guy thing, I don't know . . but, just because someone speaks and ponders something, doesn't mean they "don't know" the answers, or what to do.

Perhaps, it's the men from mars, women from venus thing . . but, just about EVERY Pisces I know . . talks, asks, ponders, wants counsel from other's perspective, we are curious folk . . but, that doesn't mean we are ninny's and require another to solve something for us.

Branh said, "I am only human, so you still need to think for yourself. I can only tell your things based on what I know. It is up to you to come to your own conclusions".

It's very irritating when you're talking, asking, wondering about something and sharing this with your partner, only for your partner to then think, "Ok, she doesn't know this. I HAVE to tell her." Most of the time, we aren't asking a question of you, we are sharing . . we are feeling you and asking a question because we are relating to our partner.

Men, mainly Virgo's, who can't FEEL another and have to use only their brains, thinks we are directionless, that we can't think for ourselves.

So, my question would be . . Are we really asking a quetion of you, or, are you just compelled to answer because you don't comprehend that we are relating in the form of a question . . . and, not asking you to think for us?

We spoke today like nothing happend.......just like always we just never leave each other.......

Its just so hard....

he is coming to see me in 11 days. Then I'll probably go up to see him in January end after my exams. Then its 1 year on 15tn feb for us so i am planning to go see him...then its my birthday in March and then its easter in april and then its his Birthday in may and then he come back to england for summer in June....so Just have to get pass this month....

I just dont find anyone attractive to get over him.....I can never dump anyone for whom i feel so strongly for...I guess I'll know better after I see him.

*hug*

Chill, you'll drive yourself insane 🙂

Hi Fishworry,
I have been in a similliar situation as you with an Aquarius. I am pisces ascendant with scorpio/sage cusp. I fell for Aqua because he played the nice gentleman role in the beginning. Then I got attached and started to think that he was the one. However there were some contradictory things his actions didn't match his words. I gave him a chance I told him he needs to call me more often than once every other week or when he is bored. He didn't do that so I just dropped him. First time I went back second time I stayed away. This was painful for me because I thought I loved him but after I cried and all I realized there was no way. How can I love someone who doesn't care about my feelings. Later on with time and no contact I saw what a selfish opportunist he was taking advantage of my already fragile condition. I thought we had a deep bond but not really. If we did he would have made more of an effort and given me what I wanted. And now I don't even think of him I am instead smitten w/ a Pisces who I can at least understand. With guys it is about what they do if they don't follow through the warm fuzzy stuff doesn't matter. Because they figure they can still get the sex for little effort why do more. So don't give him anything drop him don't look back esp if he isn't respecting you. It will hurt at first but if you don't dwell on it things will improve. But you have to put yourself first I know that is hard it is almost against a woman's nature to do that.

Relationships aren't something you should have to work hard at. The hard work should come later. Men always get you hooked and think that your love is weakness that you will always stay no matter how they treat you. That makes me sad so I try to leave if I get disrespected. Also Taurus tends to be chauvenistic.
You are sending him the message that you are ok with doing alot more and the little that he does is all you expect. He already knows he can get away with very little that he does. But you can stop that..the woman can always say no.
Aqua guy had the nerve to call me a month later and I told him there is no point in me seeing him. WHY? He didn't call me enough I wasn't looking for him anymore. No I didn't want to go on a motorcycle ride where he thought he could easily seduce me or whatever. He called many times after that but it is too late. I know that I loved once in good faith gave my heart and it wasn't enough and having done that he didn't want to do one thing for me? That isn't fair and I wouldn't allow it to happen love doesn't matter if there is no respect. So I shed my tears and moved on he didn't have to know anything.Now he's with someone who has no respect for him and I will never go back to him. I can't imagine how I could like anyone so selfish and cold. Being a dreamer and wearing rose colored glasses one tends to fill in the blanks give the benefit of a doubt instead of seeing what IS.

Brahn that was answered like a typical male who wants women to make it easy for him. And yet guys go on to play their games get you hooked but you have an aversion to a woman doing the same? Double standard much? And you don't ever ever say that to a Pisces
"I am only human, so you still need to think for yourself. I can only tell your things based on what I know. It is up to you to come to your own conclusions".
Maybe you don't appreciate or understand Pisces and they aren't for you. Not everyone can be as great and flawless as you are.