Pisces guy hates me for no reason?

I am a Gemini woman with Leo Rising.

We live in the same dorm building and we met each other during some parties. I find him attractive (and I really don't think he wouldn't talk to me because I would be ugly or something, I've had guys even more handsome than he is, there is just something that I like about him). When I see him around, he is always talking to someone, he has so many acquaintances and friends and he's very social and loud. Definitely not a shy guy.

I know some Pisces and I know that they are really emotional and romantic and sometimes even shy. Just as described in every Pisces characteristics. But this one seems so different.

He just seems to like and talk to everyone except for me. When I came to a party with my friend, he greeted him and didn't even look at me. When we sit in a bar, he is so loud and talks to all my (our) guy or girl friends.

One day I needed help in the library and he was there so I asked him and he was really nice and helped me, but when he helped me, I felt like he left the library asap to avoid any further conversations.

When I go for a lunch with my two girlfriends, nothing happens. But when they go without me, he says "hey, come sit with me/us".

One day my friends told me that he had my FB profile on his laptop and was saying something to his friend in school. During one class I knew he was looking at me across the class, when I looked at him, he QUICKLY pretended he didn't look. Last week when I came to class my friend told me "He was looking at you when you came in" and when we were leaving, our eyes met for like 4 seconds. No smile, no words, just staring.

I am getting all nervous and my confidence just keeps getting lower and lower because I start to overthink this. I don't understand him, I never gave him any reason to hate me if he never speaks to me, help me someone please...

His attraction to you scares the pants off him, well that's how I am if I find myself around someone I have a strong connection with? But there's nothing to say anything will come of it, he will just shy away from it because it feels too powerful to him and very scary but intriguing at the same time, hence the staring at you, I may be wrong but, just my guess?

I can tell you where you went wrong..."I'm a Gemini Woman" :/



I kid. It is just gonna have to come down to one of you making a move. Less starting more talking and flirting.

You probably will have to be more assertive with him.

You do sound like a teenager. I think it's a fairly obvious sign that someone likes you when someone you've been around enough but you don't really know will talk to everyone but you, unless you are really different from everyone else in some way (i.e. race or something like that). If I won't talk to someone, it's either because I really like them or I really don't. The "really don't" part is something I think women do way more than men do--as a woman, I ignore men whom I can sense are interested in me and I am not at all interested and don't want them to mistake it at all...and I ignore women who have done something to me, said something behind my back or whom I know keep up a lot of bs/drama that I want no part of.

I can't think of any reason a man would ignore a woman and not anyone else, except for she makes him nervous and/or he is not ready for you to know he's interested in you. It's not a shyness thing, either, I wouldn't say (although if he doesn't know what to say around someone he likes, I guess it could be). If I ignore someone I like, it's more so because I don't want you to know I'm interested, and that's usually because I don't think I have a chance with you. If I don't have a chance with you, why act interested? It's a different type of ignoring than the "really don't like you" type, too. Like you said, if you talk to me, I'll be very nice to you if I like you. If I don't like you, though, my body language, lack of eye contact, facial expression and everything should give it away when you try to talk to me, unless I'm in a professional environment...in which case there will be a lack of eye contact at least and more of a professional, cordial type of way speaking to you than a friendly, nice and open type of way.

He probably thinks you're too physically attractive to be interested in him. Very, very common.

he likes you. whatever you're doing, you've got his attention. whats his venus?

You seem to be excited and thrilled over the possibility of being hated ... afterall, that feeling of hatred is what you titled this thread, and it is what you believe, while talking about how much you want this guys attention.

You must be a hater, then, and want to be hated on ... since you appear to love it, since you are fondly embracing the attention of someone who hates you.



how sad for you

Posted by wolverineP

I can't think of any reason a man would ignore a woman

girls and women aren't the same creature ....

Since he hates you, why are you getting excited about him?

don't you have any honor?



There are plenty of people out there who will take you seriously, and give you the attention you seek .... you're not supposed to pine over and crave a person who doesn't like you.

You will realize this when you grow up.



Unless maybe, you were exaggerating and acting spoiled in saying that ... and that you don't really think he hates you, but, you couldn't help yourself from being melodramatic.