Pisces Man said I'm Amazing?

Virgo woman here, another Pisces Man... I never crowd him. Always give him space.... We have sexual interactions of course but I'm very busy as he seems to have a lot going on as well... He is always VERY affectionate.. Kissing my back and my shoulders, holding me through the night, giving my back rubs.... He just had a birthday, in which I surprised him by showing up in nothing but my trench coat and lingerie ((and Thigh-High Boots)) lmao!! He was very pleased!!! He looks into my soul sometimes it feels like... He will just STARE me down... And that night he did just that!!! He told me I was very beautiful.... The next morning after we had parted... I get this random text from him... Saying " Your So Amazing".... I told him that I thought he was amazing too and that whenever he touched me or looked at me I got chills... Which is SO TRUE... The last time we had sex I was trembling so bad and I know he noticed!!! Well, when I responded with that... He didn't respond back!!! I often wonder where I stand with him... And if he is serious about me as I am with him... What did he mean by the amazing stuff? Does he like me? Has he decided to swim in MY waters? How do you know when a pisces man is REALLY interested and wants to build something? Should I just keep going with the flow with him? I am not your typical virgo woman... I am VERY full of life and always have a smile on... He just confuses me sometime, one minute I KNOW he's interested and then he will disappear for a day or 2 and then return like nothing happened? How can I maintain more of his interest and time?

By putting your clothes back on and stop giving him your pussy so easily.


If you want to have a Fish be serious with you ... then you have to come from a place in the heart, not a place in the crotch.

Posted by BadGalVirgo

" Your So Amazing"

It's you're, not your

Thank you for the grammar correction, however I was quoting what he texted to me... Perhaps you should be an English teacher? LoL.... So I should stop having sex with him? What will he think if I do? Will he take that as a sign of no interest? Because I am still very interested... I just want hook him, I think... LoL. Ate you saying he's not taking me serious? How can I determine if he is just using me for sex? Or I'm just another toss in the hay or someone to pass time?

Posted by BadGalVirgo
Thank you for the grammar correction, however I was quoting what he texted to me... Perhaps you should be an English teacher? LoL.... So I should stop having sex with him? What will he think if I do? Will he take that as a sign of no interest? Because I am still very interested... I just want hook him, I think... LoL. Ate you saying he's not taking me serious? How can I determine if he is just using me for sex? Or I'm just another toss in the hay or someone to pass time?

You are.

Wow. Tough crowd. How so though? I'm young and hunan ... I make mistakes... Tell me from a pisces point of view how I've failed to hook or intrigue him? Like I said... I'm very friendly, helpful, and nice... I know that he is going through tough times so I let him swim away and come back... Which crests intensified chemistry when we are together I think. This pisces is also a ALPHA Pusces male.
Very Confidant. Very sure and certain of his power over females.... So I pull away and make him chase me after I chase him... I know he is going through tough financial times and I even told him.... I would like to help him if he would allow me to.... He never responded... When we go out I offer to pay and he never accepts.... He always jokes about running away together... He constantly asks me what I need when we are together... Like do I need money and what not... I always get quiet or tell him I can get things on my own when he asks... He asks to go in trips... I've even asked him was this all sex and he says... No... And spent the next 2 days after glued to my hip or on my phone!!! But then he just makes me unsure.... I should just leave this pisces alone because something about him screams heartbreak!!! I'm a good girl... Finishing College, attractive, helpful, LOVE sports, music ((all types)), I am very accepting and kind to ppl.... Why doesn't he like me? Lol... My virgo analysis is INSANE, I know!! Lol

Hey, be young and human, make mistakes. That's what 23 is for!
Do you sound likeable? Sure. Sometimes it's not simply about being disliked. You can't approach this as a black and white thing.

You said he is going through tough times.... It could be as simple as: he's not looking for a relationship. And when you show up wearing nothing but a trench coat and lingerie, you aren't exactly implying that you are either. Does he like you? I'm sure he does. He also likes sleeping with you. But that's sounding like the extent of it. So what? Have fun, be 23. Don't get so wrapped up in baiting and hooking someone. Just live in a way that you are accepting of living.

I'm a bit confused - you just told us that he's going through tough financial times, and you offered to help him; and then apparently he's asking you if you need money. It's irrelevant to me what the actual "facts" of this are, you just aren't making much sense to me.

In general: people aren't above telling you what you want to hear in order for them to keep getting what they want from you.

Keep being you, and let the cards fall where they may. You can't "hook" anyone, as if it's tactical war. They either willingly participate or they don't. It doesn't sound like this guy is to your level of approval. So, finish school, do your thing, and see what happens.

He was going through tough financial times... And I just assumed he was still going through them... But then he just recently began asking me to go places with him and if I needed or wanted anything... But he may just be blowing me game... Idk. I don't like how Pisces is so evasive... He is not direct enough for me... I think I'm going to leave him alone. Thanks Guys!!

Yea, I guess it just kind of stings to hear from other Pisces that he just views me as a sexual object... I have very STRONG sexual appeal... ANSI gave been working on trying to tone it down.... From the day we first started having sex I was very inexperienced compared to him... In fact, he was a little disappointed. When I finally mustered the courage to tell him that I wasn't that experienced and that a may need a little help and patience... He said ok... So we've been sexually involved for a couple of months I think... And he says I've gotten better. I really like him and have told him more than once that I like him and I would love to get to know him because I feel like although we share our bodies and its beautiful... I still feel like I don't know him. I've only been with 4 guys in my entire life ((TMI, but I want you guys to know what he knows))) when I meet him I was out of a bad break-up and was celibate for 5 months prior. He is my 4th sexual partner which he knows... So knowing that, could he still feel I am all sex? I know Pisces needs days to recharge and I am just not the clingy type!! I can't talk to someone EVERY single day... So I am fine with a little distance for him to live his life so I can live mines, and once we establish a relationship we can communicate everyday if that's what he would like? I am a attractive girl, a lot of men in our city pursue me... Which he is aware of as well. I just don't get why, of he knows all this... And, I have made it clear that I want to get to know HIM... Why he hasn't began to unfold himself... I'm a pretty laid back girl and I am looking for someone with moral and substance as well.. I'm just confused by this man and quite frankly at this point from you guys POV I am starting to feel like sharing my body with him is wrong and I kinda feel like I'm morally wrong now... Should I approach him about this... And, tell him... We shouldn't have sex anymore until we get to know each other? And if he does not pursue that platonic friendship with me temporarily than I'll have my answer... What do you guys think!?! You guys are Great BTW!! I love to hear other ppl's POV's!!!

I never make him aware... He has roughy that fact up to me however... I am a typical virgo... I have told him that it makes me uncomfortable if people stare at me too long.... And he has told me he doesn't understand why... I'm beautiful, blah, blah, blah.... AGAIN!! He is an ALPHA MALE PISCES... Very cocky and certain that he could break me in the beginning....

I just need answers from a pisces point of view how he views me.... You guys said its all sex but... I'm not that sexually experienced.. He has had to teach me a lot of things!!! I just don't understand what it is that we're doing... And now you guys are confusing me even more!!! Just I just disappear on him... How can I turn this thing around is what I'm asking you guys!!!!! I feel like I'm talking to him now!!! You guys are not giving direct answers!! LoL

I'm pisces and i would like to help her but i need more details

More details like..... — I would be happy to share!!! We meet in August of 2012 and he was VERY overly confidant!!! When I first declined his sexual advances he was shocked that I turned him down!!! He seems to be the player type now that I think about it... But I'm now being persuaded to believe that from previous posts!! LoL

He is very sweet when we are together... Whenever I tell him how I feel and tell him we should stop or I'm not playing his games anymore he gets really anxious and tells me that it's def not about sex and we don't even have to have sex... Blah, Blah... He said he likes being around me and our good sex was just icing on the cake... He gets really scared when I tell him that I want to end things!! Or come back later in life, if fate will let us!! He says that he is going through tough times and that is the reason why he is staying away... Because he DOES like me and wants all his ducks in a row... Which I understand... But it seems like that is always his excuse!!! And whenever I bring it up, he changes for a couple days and then he's back to the vanishing act!!

I know for a fact that he is coming out of REALLY hard times, like I said I have even offered to help him financially.... But he never accepted!!! He is always trying to win me back by doing things for me which I always decline!! He said he know what I want and to just give him some time!!! But sheeeesh!?! I told him I don't like how he makes me feel and how you feel for someone is very important... He says it will change, he also said he speaks so highly of me... I kind of felt bad tearing into him today because I know a Virgo woman full throttle is No FREAKING joke!!!
He just kept asking for more time... But my feelings are hurt you know? I am very big on vibes and if I feel rejected I kinda run off back to solitude...

Is he interested? Is it all a game?

Posted by TaureanAries
Ok woah back there!!

Make a decision...either you want to be with him or you don't. Don't jump around in the water making a fuss. If you want to be with him he has asked you for time.

Stand still, hang strong and stop ripping into him. You are dealing with a Pisces man. They will not swim to you until they are ready to and the more fuss you make the harder it makes it.

I'm really not surprised he's doing a vanishing act because you're hounding him for a commitment which HE HAS SAID he is not ready to give you.

So either reign in your temper and be patient or walk away. You're only going to destroy any potential with your impatience.

Agreed. With TaureanAries.

You (virgo) say that Pisces are all over the place.
Reflect on your entire thread here. You are all over the place as well... based on the simple (and yes it is simple what has been said) advice from strangers.

Don't expect what you can't provide yourself.

Posted by BadGalVirgo
More details like..... — I would be happy to share!!! We meet in August of 2012 and he was VERY overly confidant!!! When I first declined his sexual advances he was shocked that I turned him down!!! He seems to be the player type now that I think about it... But I'm now being persuaded to believe that from previous posts!! LoL

He is very sweet when we are together... Whenever I tell him how I feel and tell him we should stop or I'm not playing his games anymore he gets really anxious and tells me that it's def not about sex and we don't even have to have sex... Blah, Blah... He said he likes being around me and our good sex was just icing on the cake... He gets really scared when I tell him that I want to end things!! Or come back later in life, if fate will let us!! He says that he is going through tough times and that is the reason why he is staying away... Because he DOES like me and wants all his ducks in a row... Which I understand... But it seems like that is always his excuse!!! And whenever I bring it up, he changes for a couple days and then he's back to the vanishing act!!

I know for a fact that he is coming out of REALLY hard times, like I said I have even offered to help him financially.... But he never accepted!!! He is always trying to win me back by doing things for me which I always decline!! He said he know what I want and to just give him some time!!! But sheeeesh!?! I told him I don't like how he makes me feel and how you feel for someone is very important... He says it will change, he also said he speaks so highly of me... I kind of felt bad tearing into him today because I know a Virgo woman full throttle is No FREAKING joke!!!
He just kept asking for more time... But my feelings are hurt you know? I am very big on vibes and if I feel rejected I kinda run off back to solitude...

Is he interested? Is it all a game?

Does he call/text you most of the times or you always intiate first?
Does he complement you all the time? you will knew when a pisces loves you🙂D

To me how you know if a pisces is interested is that they initiate. We compliment our love and we get them things and dote after them. Now this can be tricky because we can compliment and dote after our friends as well. We just love to give to people and let them know how special they are.

Now, I'm not going to lie... I didn't read everything because I'm acting like a mermaid, but use your instincts. There is no way to "trap" or "bait" a fish. We feel it or we don't, it is just as simple as that. I went out on 10 dates with a guy and even though we got along famously the connection wasn't there and he was a fish. He felt it, but I didn't. We make decisions based off our emotions.

It is not uncommon for a fish to disappear for a while, but if we come back within a short period of time that is a good sign. Sometimes we need to just swim and do our thing. We need to decompress and just be... us.

I don't think any fish can give you the dibs on another fish because we are so different from each other. There are shy fish, flirty fish, player fish, monogamous fish, lovey-dovey fish, mean fish, sorrow-filled fish, full of life fish and countless others. We can't peer into a mind of other fish. I'm have been dating a beautiful merman for 6 months now and at times, I can't read him and I'm a mermaid. We just all come in different flavors. *shrugs shoulders*

Yea, I never pressure him though... We have had this convo about twice. Thanks for the input guys... I'm gonna just go with the flow and see where it goes!!!