Pisces MAN!!! Virgo woman.. DATING GAMES!?!?!

Hello Fishes!! _—... I am new to the site, so please bear with me.
I am a young Virgo Female, although I am not your "typical" Virgo.
I am Out-going, Witty, Flirty, very curvy, and am noticed where ever I go. I have
a Libra Rising so people tend to warm to me very quickly. I meet a Pisces man not too
Long ago and he came on VERY strong in the beginning.. Calling and texting EVERYDAY!! Asking me to go on TRIPS!!
Well, I AM a Virgo ((LoL)) so, when it comes to dating you could say that I am typical.. ((Contradicting, I know))
He came on so strong, it scared me a bit and also made me wonder if he was a player as he is VERY
good looking and seems to be financially stable.

Well, he lives very close to me and the first time I went to his home he couldn't keep his hands off me. As I said, I am a nice looking girl. I love to work out as well so my body is very toned yet curvy.
Needless to say, being the Virgo I am... I declined his sexual advances as I have been celibate for 4 months after a break-up which he KNEW!!
He tried everything to get me in bed... Then he says he has a GF.. Well, when he said that I immediately, got off the couch with him and created some space between us!! When he saw that
I meant business he told me he was just playing and he doesn't have a GF... We ended up going to sleep FULLY CLOTHED!! Well, fast forward a couple weeks later and we ended up
having sex.. Which was a total surprise to him. I simply began taking off all my clothes and said I was ready. Lmao. Well, I guess he was too excited he couldn't perform. No biggie. I like him.
He told me I made him nervous and it was too good to br true!! We cuddled all night.. He would even wake in the night and kiss my body. When I woke up... He began to tell me again.. How much he liked me. I told him the truth... That I liked him too but it was hard to tell if he was serious and that GF comment made me wonder if he was serious or joking. He again said he didn't have one... We went to the movies later that night...
I NEVER call him and rarely text him first. I really like him I just have a hard time showing when I like people.. I look like a video vixen, but I am very shy around men I like. Well, he texts me he misses me but never sets up a date or time to see me. I don't chase men. So, I just want to know... Does he like me? Or is playing games? Does he think I'm uninterested since I went aloof!?!
Pisces Men!!! HELP!!!

I'm not a man, but I have to speak here:

Are you playing games?

Because you claim that you were very staunch about the fact that if he had a GF you couldn't even sit near him, let alone sleep with him (initially this seemed very stand-up of you). And then (here is where the fa?ade broke down for me, and I need things cleared up by you) weeks later you initiate sleeping together, and then after the fact bring up that you aren't sure if he's serious about having a GF or not....

I will leave the rest to the pisces guys - but I will say... I think you might have sold yourself down the river credibility wise. *shrugs*

I must admit that I may have been playing games initially because I didn't know him... I am very stand up and I am beyond the age of sleeping with a "attached" man. He said he had a girlfriend that night... But when he saw that I was serious about not taking HIM seriously, he began to explain that he didn't have a girlfriend and that I wouldn't be at his house if he had one and if he had one... Why was he with me at 1am ((It was pretty Late!!))... But after that, he always would joke about having a girlfriend and even me having a boyfriend ((which I don't)) but it just made me wonder if he was joking or serious or not. But, I fell for his Pisces charm and my own needs ((( Celibate for 4-5 months!!!))) and i had sex with him.

He still contacts me frequently, like I said... I NEVER contact him. But, he has never set up another date. He says he misses me... But if he did wouldn't he want to see me? Before we had sex he told me I was hard to figure out and that he couldn't tell of I was serious about him or not. He said he liked me a lot but he works ALOT starting his business and his houses. But I just would think that if he liked me he would want to see me... He texts me asking me for pictures... He asked me to Cedar Point last weekend but I declined as I had other plans. I did go aloof on him, ONLY because I can't figure him out... I like him. I want him. But I don't want to be clingy or pushy. Why hasn't he contacted me? Is he waiting on me to reach out!?!

I guess I'm just confused about whether he is into me or not AND if he was serious or joking about the girlfriend thing!!! I don't want to hound him... I've read that if you push too hard you fishes will swim away!!! I really like him tho!!
Should I call him or text him? I guess I'm just afraid... Our chemistry is REALLY strong. It's been 3 days since we've talked... Should I reach out? Like I said he had no problem reaching out in the beginning... Setting up dates and asking me to do things.
But NOW, all he does is text me... And, he never asks to see me again after I said no to Cedar Point.
I really like this Fish!! How can I hook him!?! LoL.... My Virgo mind may be thinking too much

Yea, I'm really shy... But only around men that I am interested in. I really like this Fish and I think I may have pushed him away a little... Im just not good at showing or laying my cards out first... We texted Thursday he asked me to send him some pictures... Which I did... I asked him for photos and he said he looked bad... I said ok. I think he could tell I was playing games. But, I was just unsure.... I stated my physical appearance to give you guys some insight but I not vain or anything... He is very good looking too!! Which I've told him... On our first date he said he liked me cause I was "Prissy"... —? But, I texted him Good Morning this morning.... No Response.

I am young. And, I do play games with guys sometimes. But I like him... How can I gain his 100% interest back? Is is possible? I WANT him... Although he doesn't seem to know it!! I just fear rejection... I never had to chase a man and not to be cocky... But I've never been rejected either. I guess he is bruising my ego... I'm very sweet, I just want to show him I like him... I'm confused that's all

I think it's funny as shit that after having sex with you, he doesn't ever ask to see you again .... coupled with you saying at least 3 times how good looking you are.



You talk from pure ego, no depth whatsoever.

Thanks for the input guys... And P-Angel... You misread or probably didn't understand what wrote... I only mentioned my appearance to give you guys some insight!! I'm am not vain... I am a Virgo for Christ sakes. Secondly, as I stated we did not have sex... He Couldnt perform... He was too excited/nervous but so was I.... Like stated he is VERY nice looking too... He seemed a bit egotistical as well... Telling me he only has to ask women once to get in his bed and if I'm not crazy he said "He'd keep me" .... Sorry Mr. Fish... People are not things to be kept.

So, you see I'm not playing games just to play games. He came off very aggressive and like a player... I stated my appearance because that would be the reason he even became interested in me in the first place!! Correct? There is depth to me as well as my morals and values which he could clearly see by me not giving into him easy for sex.... I don't want to play games anymore... Which I know and he' knows that is what we are doing.... Vain... No. Honest.... Yes. If i was that full of ego... Would i be this insecure about something? No, i'd simply move along to the next guy... So To say I have no depth is quite funny to me actually... Especially seeing as though you only have these comments as proof....
Lesson of the day _—_—_—_— Listen before you speak. Or more importantly, UNDERSTAND before you respond. Thanks for your input as well tho!!

So, I guess I'll give him some time to swim back!?!? I just really want to understand him and Pisces as well, or try my best to at least... I've never encountered one before and being a Virgo... You guys are very hard to understand is all... You guys have an air of mystery.. I Love it!! _—

boy were my guns loaded after reading that initial post...but me being the backwards a $ $ pisces that i am, i pilfer backwards, reading the thread instead of posting my thoughts in the comment section...i learn that you're just a kid, and my post (which is based on a great deal of experience with virgo women) would have seriously hurt your feelings...

one word on the matter, however...you won't ever understand a pisces (not a man anyway), so save that energy because we don't fit into that 'sort-and-file' cabiinet of a brain that virgos use...

have a nice day....

-Jack

sure i don't mind to share with you, but that's TOO general of a topic for me...it will take me all day just to figure out where to start lol (4X pisces, triple water, mercury in aqua aaandddd ADHD!!! and OCD...yeah lol) is there something in particular you want to ask? or what 🙂

i am unfamiliar with the term 'third decan pisces'...

and no, i am not a mean person...high-strung and rather impatient, but not mean...

--Jack

i didn't mean to sound like an expert at failed pisces/virgo relationships or anything, i was merely informing the initial poster that i had a fairly intense response on deck regarding the matter...

when it comes to pisces and virgo in a relationship, you can tell both people are trying their best to give their 50% but it seems like NO MATTER how many different ways we REALLY and TRULY tried, each person can only come up with 49. and that 1% that each person just cant seem to find, the 1% missing...impacts the whole relationship despite the other 49 that's already there...nevermind how 'close we are'...or how far we've come...all it takes for the whole thing to fall apart is that 1% she just can't analyze...and that 1 instance my intiuition failed me...

--Jack

i work with all women at my job, lol it's fun to me...i do quality assurance for tyson and the line i inspect is ALL women...heh i like it that way...i've been gone from this site for quite a few years, it's good to be back...

and i am not worried about this 'pain in the @@@' you speak of...is he gonna talk crazy to me or try to hurt my feelings? i live in the hood, i'm not messed up about some message board rat...i sure hope he doesn't bust a CAPS LOCK on me 🙂

--Jack

@ Yellow.... Why not post real response instead of posting a response about how you would post a response.... This is honesty here... LoL. And, I AM a Virgo... My feet are always planted firmly on the ground.. See us Virgo's find comfort in Logic and Facts if what you say is true. How could it hurt my feelings? I am young yes... Naive or easily hurt... No. Bring it ON BABY!!!! _—

sounds like he is the common denominator in that equation lol...and yes, without revealing anything person about them, i figured by the way i worded that, those who were supposed to understand, would 🙂

off to work i go! talk to ya'll later...

--Jack

masochist 😉

Ok YALL!!! Big Update!!! And , this is CRAZY!! So he did have a female friend that he was involved with... I guess they had been involved for a while and he was trying to end things or was unhappy.... He wanted to start things with me... But I'm guessing he wanted us to start fresh with no baggage or anything... ((Strike 1: He Lied)) So, remember I said I talked to him and he asked me to send him so pictures... Well, I did... LoL. So I guess the girl went through his phone saw my photos and went OFF.... ((Strike 2: Drama)).... This Fish was a PLAYA!! LoL!! Smh

But, my intuition tells me he was serious about me. But, my question is... For how long? He has already been proven to be a lie and a cheat.... So ANYWAY, him and the girl argue... She calls the police... He so happens to be involved in some illegal activities... He gets arrested!!! Smh... They take all his vehicles including a 2013 BMW!!! And, now he's facing jail time.... I feel really bad for him. Although I don't like that he lied about his life style and relationship status... I feel really bad for him. I really liked him... And he has never been in any type of trouble before!!! Should I reach out to support him? I see no reason I can't be there for a friend in need... He may need a shoulder to cry on.. This is crazy!!!

Now that you've seen for yourself.. he's a player, a cheat, a coward, A LIAR, and he promotes DRAMA in his life - which is currently falling apart.. illegal activities?! ARRESTED, his shit TAKEN, facing JAIL?!.. WHY would you willingly subject yourself to this bullshit and drama?? Cuz that's what you're asking us here.. "Oh, he was so cute, and I liked him and I think he really liked me cuz he CHEATED to be with me.. his life is shit now... so I should run to him and get involved with him, right? Right?"

THIS, honey, is what's known as the fork in the road... one side leads AWAY from him.. onward with your life, he's just a memory of a hot guy you once really liked who turned out not to be good relationship material. And one side leads TO him.. "supporting" him, being his "shoulder to cry on".. being his "friend" and hoping for more.. but when you DO get "more".. when you DO become his "new girlfriend".. wait, wait.. but you ALREADY KNOW how he treats girlfriends!

Why would you even CONSIDER being involved with this man's hot mess of a life?! WALK AWAY.

Giiiiiirl, I see the big picture... He is a Lie and a cheat... And was also involved in illegal activities. It's not funny but I can't help but laugh because this is the craziest thing that has happened to me.... My first Pisces turned out to be a liar, cheater, and drug dealer... I'm scarred by them for life!!! _—_??__??_.... I def have self worth and there is no question as to wether I'm walking away... But damn, too bad _— smh!! Wish him the best of luck tho!!!

Naw.. I (the eternal optimist) think she was just the (hopeful) girl who saw that dude was good looking, sexy and sweet, had the cars and stuff that SEEMED to point to him having his shit together and able to provide a decent life (maybe unlike some of the busters that try to roll up on her?? lol).. she was just HOPING that such a seemingly good catch might not turn out to be a douchebag.

And while dude technically may or may not be a douchebag (no, wait.. liars and cheaters ARE douchebags! Double douchebags for being able to do it with such apparent sweetness!).. he's certainly showed himself to be anything BUT a good catch. Throw that one back in the Pond to grow some more, he's stunted and not good eatin' .. plenty of other yummy Fish in the Sea! 😉

My advice would be to leave this man alone and sort out his things/life first.
It's going to be a lot of drama if you enter his life at this stage, you'll probably even be used as a crutch or temporary fix for the situation.

There's this thing pisces males do sometimes when we're in trouble and we're dating.
If you push us far enough to open up, we do share secret information, but the dynamic of the dating changes.
It's THE tipping point that makes us go for you completely -you have to do this too then- or we just use you till we feel better.
It's harsh I know, but at the time time he'll have given you a lot of hints that make it obvious he wants you.
BUT also comes with a slew of problems.
Sounds to me like you're not ready to face this with him -understandable-, but if you really want him it's best to back off now. He needs some time alone to fix his life and then when all is done, and you're still around, we'll poke you to see if we can pick up where we left things.

If you can survive that period of no emotional contact and being needy, you have a shot.
But something tell me you won't last a week.

@ 88 Of course not. I can provide nice things for myself. I just thought that he was attractive and when we did spend time together he was always very sweet... So his life style came as a complete shock!!! I mean, this was on the news and everything... I'm just shocked because we had a discussion about our lives and where we wanted to end up... Smh!! I thought he sold houses!!! But his income was in no way shape or form a factor in why I dated him!! In fact, besides his vehicles... He lived a regular life...nothing seemed out of the ordinary!!! I just hope he finds his way in life.
Lesson Learned.

Also, the "Scarred For Life" thing was a joke... Virgo's have humor too..... LoL. Duh.
Are Pisces women Gold Diggers!?!

@ Pisces Passion... Do Pisces know what sarcasm is... —? I think not. For Christ sakes, your profile says your 40 yrs old and profile pic is of MORPHEUS!?!? Word!?
Ok, Blue Pill --- Red Pill....
Truth... Your a man giving some random young girl dating advice online. Shove it Weirdooooooo —_??'

"Why, oh why didn't I take the BLUE pill?!"

Posted by BadGalVirgo
So he did have a female friend that he was involved with...

anyone who has been following this post already knew that lol...if he's never been in trouble before, he won't be in there long...and if he does end up spending a few months in jail, don't worry...he'll definitely have a shoulder to cry on in there 😉

--Jack

Posted by BadGalVirgo

Ok, Blue Pill --- Red Pill....

i took them both...i was higher than american airlines 😛

--Jack