*Pisces men aren't naturally cheaters!*

I am probably going to get a lot of hate from other signs for this but here goes.

It is not within their nature to hurt another soul. The simple truth is Pisces Men will directly reflect back to you the energies you send into the relationship!

Pisces men (especially with a Pisces Venus) are not naturally cheaters! They are so loyal and so so loving! They are sensitive to a fault and although they will never admit it - but gosh, tell them you love them every single day and mean what you say! Give them reassurance and tender love and care. Often the poor fishies get into patches where they have so much on their mind that they doubt themselves a little. Show them that no matter what they go through you are in their corner! It is like a whirlpool of knowledge and stimulation bombarding them both in their head and heart! Don't play games or wait for signs, just be natural and just say I love you when you feel it! Be open!

They need patches of rest - to retreat and rejuvinate themselves! These patches they need are often mistaken for disinterest or even worse - a sign of them cheating elsewhere! IMAGINE how they feel? After endless days dealing with everyone's worries and woes and contemplating their own dreams AND being your silent emotional pillar - when he needs his rest the most - you hound him down only to accuse him of something he didn't even do or think about! He will feel hurt - by the simple fact that you don't trust him ... then he will think, hey what is the point? I am so loyal and all she ever does is accuse me of something I didn't do. It is heartbreaking for them.

If you trust a Pisces man with all your heart, he will be what you dream of. If you are insecure and worry and doubt and interrogate him in a way that you do not trust him - it will hurt him and he will act as your worst nightmare.

I read all these topics about women stating all the things that their man didn't do for them, when they miss all the subtle more refined way in which a pisces cares. The thing is, every person gives and receives love in a particular form and often just because a person gives love in a different from to what we expected, we discount them altogether. I am best friends and have flatted with 3 Pisces Males and all I hear about is their girlfriends complaining how they don't put in enough effort, do big romantic gestures. I just want to tell them they miss all the small things. I've seen their pisces boyfriends get up on a cold morning to make a c

.... cold morning to make a cup of tea - with the right sugar and milk - they way their girlfriend likes it. Make sure she has socks on her own feet on cold days instead of his own. While on a sporting trip the Pisces boyfriend did his best to keep in touch (and all she complained about was how it wasn't enough). Imagine trying your best only be shot down that your efforts weren't good enough?!

Fishies are caring people, they are universal lovers, but the one they love is their one and only TRUE LOVE. Just because they care about other souls - it doesn't mean you're not the most important person, you should be proud of their beautiful heart!

It fucking hurts them when you doubt and mistrust! Learn to appreciate what they do for you! And for crying out loud - tell them you notice their efforts. Because truth is, if you are not secure enough to trust wholeheartedly & notice more refined forms of love - you don't bloody deserve a fishes love.

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
The Pisces males I have met here are some of the best. I admit I came here with some negative views of Pisces men based on past experiences. But now that I have had a chance to find out what the personality of a mature Pisces man is like, I realize that I've been missing out.

I completely agree! They are truly amazing souls. I have a Pisces Moon (as a female I resonate with my Moon more so than my Sun) + I have Neptune (ruler of pisces) in my first house aspecting my moon. I am drawn to Pisces Men. And frankly they are most misunderstood souls in the universe!

A lot of Pisces Men are being bad mouthed because they have a VENUS in a different sign. For example, Aqua Venus, Aries Venus often have a different view on love to a Pisces Venus!

Also a person's rising sign heavily influences their relationship approach as well!

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Aqua Venus gets a bad wrap of being detached. How I wish this were true for me but its not. It is a fixed Venus just like Scorpio, Taurus, and Leo. While I am not one to stay in a bad relationship, it does not mean I detach and forget about the person. I may be miserable for months after the break up thinking about that person. But in the words of George Washington, I believe that " it's far better to be alone, than to be in bad company." That's the strength of Aqua Venus, we are able to put our emotions to the side and leave a bad situation. Where as some of the other fixed Venus signs would stay and try to force it to work.

Same w aries venus for being implusive. Aries is fire and aquarius is air. It also depends on planets that touch your venus and which house it is in. It must be noted aquarius and Aries Venus women behave differently to Aquarius and Aries Venus men. I think in general all signs feel a lot of pain, fire signs tend to feel it quickly and intensely but it dies it quicklt as well. Air signs feel a lot to but sort of like the wind, it comes in storms. Water tends to just constantly feel it.

It is important to note the MOON sign in relationship as well. I have found saggi venuses to be stable because of a Taurus moon. It all depends really.

Posted by djbuck1
This is the most accurate description of a Pisces Sun Sign with Venus in Pisces that I have ever read, bar NONE.

What venus are you? and thank you 😄 I just hope it helps some women understand their fishies a bit better.

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Posted by djbuck1
This is the most accurate description of a Pisces Sun Sign with Venus in Pisces that I have ever read, bar NONE.

What venus are you? and thank you 😄 I just hope it helps some women understand their fishies a bit better.

Venus in Pisces, of course. 😉

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haha 😛 thought so! Yuss!

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
Good points. I have Moon in Virgo which further adds to my level-headedness I suppose. And a tenth house venus(Capricorn) cusp. So I'm quite a bit earthy I suppose, as well as airy do to my other Aquarius and Libra placements.

Oh, you are rather earthy aren't you 😛 !! Yea, I don't think people give enough emphasis on house placings. For example a gemini venus in the 8th or 2nd would ground it a lot! Plus LIBRAS are rules by venus the sign of parntership 😛 if anything it helps 😛!!

I endorse this as a venus in pisces 😛 go fishies!

The reflection part rings true for me personally and further amplified with my pisces moon as well.

As a Pisces sun and a Pisces in Venus, thank you for a wonderful thread.

Thanks, the OP. Very beautifully said and true. Ive come to the same conclusion after a year of loving a Pisces man.

Posted by illusion
It is not within their nature to hurt another soul. The simple truth is Pisces Men will directly reflect back to you the energies you send into the relationship!

Pisces men (especially with a Pisces Venus) are not naturally cheaters! They are so loyal and so so loving! They are sensitive to a fault and although they will never admit it - but gosh, tell them you love them every single day and mean what you say! Give them reassurance and tender love and care. Often the poor fishies get into patches where they have so much on their mind that they doubt themselves a little. Show them that no matter what they go through you are in their corner! It is like a whirlpool of knowledge and stimulation bombarding them both in their head and heart! Don't play games or wait for signs, just be natural and just say I love you when you feel it! Be open!

Fishies are caring people, they are universal lovers, but the one they love is their one and only TRUE LOVE. Just because they care about other souls - it doesn't mean you're not the most important person, you should be proud of their beautiful heart!

accurate points IMO 😛

and good post.

Posted by Piscesdream89
As a Pisces sun and a Pisces in Venus, thank you for a wonderful thread.

Thank you Piscesdream89 🙂

Posted by ProphetaAzteca
I honestly had tears in my eyes while I read this.Very beautiful words,and such a touching reminder that there are people who do appreciate all the little things we do for our loved ones.

it is the only reason I leave relationships.when you do all you can for someone,put your heart into every endeavor,every gesture,every moment,and then get told off because of the others' expectations...well,it kills you inside.

My natal chart has Venus is Aquarius now progressed into Pisces.

seriously,just being grateful and genuinely showing your love and appreciation for your pisces is the ONLY thing you have to do.

when the world has taken a serious toll on our minds,and we're left feeling drained of our energy,something as simple as a warm hug and a hand held in silence with a loving presence,that right there speaks volumes for the effect it has on our spirits

Aw! Thank you for the heartfelt reply. I think pisces are often under apprecited. I love you all to bits!!

Posted by eglantine
Thanks, the OP. Very beautifully said and true. Ive come to the same conclusion after a year of loving a Pisces man.

I am glad a fellow pisces lover feels the same way. means you truly understand you man 🙂 they are just gorgeous are they not?!

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

accurate points IMO 😛

and good post.

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Thank you afternoondelights22 🙂

Of course they are .... if we are talking "natural" inclinations, Pisces is more prone to cheating than any other sign

Posted by P-Angel

Of course they are .... if we are talking "natural" inclinations, Pisces is more prone to cheating than any other sign

Unfortunately, I share in this experience. I know many male fish and not one of them is faithful. One I am uncertain about but look into his eyes and you can see his mind is on naughty things.

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Posted by PiscVirgAquaFish
The Pisces males I have met here are some of the best. I admit I came here with some negative views of Pisces men based on past experiences. But now that I have had a chance to find out what the personality of a mature Pisces man is like, I realize that I've been missing out.

I completely agree! They are truly amazing souls. I have a Pisces Moon (as a female I resonate with my Moon more so than my Sun) + I have Neptune (ruler of pisces) in my first house aspecting my moon. I am drawn to Pisces Men. And frankly they are most misunderstood souls in the universe!

A lot of Pisces Men are being bad mouthed because they have a VENUS in a different sign. For example, Aqua Venus, Aries Venus often have a different view on love to a Pisces Venus!

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+1

Like PVAF said! We both have venus in aqua, so I can pretty much vouch for and agree with what was mentioned.

I have a scorpio ascendant, so for me I think relationships are pretty intense from the get-go and is either a yes or a no when it comes to pursuing something. I dont like wasting my time on something that possibly wont bear fruit... I think that COULD be due to other placements in my chart, but I do think the scorpio's all-or-nothing stance dictates most of my approaches towards things like relationships.

As for those who have run into unfaithful pisces, you have my sympathy! Its never happened to me the occasion that I sought after someone else while in a relationship. I've got a Taurus moon (high five to pvaf for earth moons 😄) so I blame it on that my getting pretty possessive at times.



Thanks for giving us some praise! It is much appreciated. I agree that we (at least I do, everyone is different) reflect the energy put into a relationship. *Thumbs up* 🙂

Posted by P-Angel

Of course they are .... if we are talking "natural" inclinations, Pisces is more prone to cheating than any other sign

We are extremes, you can find the other extreme, but maybe more rare to find.

Oh please

They are the biggest players. Stop reading astro books and newspaper horoscopes. Real life has taught me that they are always cheating and living double lives and love to actually hurt People.

Posted by bkbella86
They are the biggest players. Stop reading astro books and newspaper horoscopes. Real life has taught me that they are always cheating and living double lives and love to actually hurt People.

Not sure if srs...

Posted by P-Angel

Of course they are .... if we are talking "natural" inclinations, Pisces is more prone to cheating than any other sign

And what type of proof do you have of this claim?

Posted by bkbella86
They are the biggest players. Stop reading astro books and newspaper horoscopes. Real life has taught me that they are always cheating and living double lives and love to actually hurt People.

maybe you've had a bad experience. it depends on the rest of their chart. haha i am speaking from real life as i am with a very faithful fishie.

I think these are beautiful sentiments that express the highest qualities of the pisces male but not all pisces are operating at that level. My ex fish was all that you wrote in your post. However, he shared with me that he cheated on his ex wife left and right while they were married. He told me he was young and arrogant and full of himself at that point of his life. I know that he also had some mother issues and often you find that going on with serial cheaters. Thing was, he grew up. I never doubted his loyalty. It's all about stages of development and some pisces never get there. They are racked by self doubts (their worst undoing) and addictions (to drown out the pain). There's light and shadow to every sign. I don't think cheating is a characteristic of any sign. It has to do with things like maturity, unresolved childhood issues and good old fashioned values more than any astrological sign. Anyway, that's my take. I'm glad I shared 7 years of my life with a beautiful pisces man who got his act together and learned from his mistakes.

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Posted by illusion
It is not within their nature to hurt another soul. The simple truth is Pisces Men will directly reflect back to you the energies you send into the relationship!

Pisces men (especially with a Pisces Venus) are not naturally cheaters! They are so loyal and so so loving! They are sensitive to a fault and although they will never admit it - but gosh, tell them you love them every single day and mean what you say! Give them reassurance and tender love and care. Often the poor fishies get into patches where they have so much on their mind that they doubt themselves a little. Show them that no matter what they go through you are in their corner! It is like a whirlpool of knowledge and stimulation bombarding them both in their head and heart! Don't play games or wait for signs, just be natural and just say I love you when you feel it! Be open!

Fishies are caring people, they are universal lovers, but the one they love is their one and only TRUE LOVE. Just because they care about other souls - it doesn't mean you're not the most important person, you should be proud of their beautiful heart!

accurate points IMO 😛

and good post.

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Nights, you dirty slut. Stop cheating on me!!!

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Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Posted by illusion
It is not within their nature to hurt another soul. The simple truth is Pisces Men will directly reflect back to you the energies you send into the relationship!

Pisces men (especially with a Pisces Venus) are not naturally cheaters! They are so loyal and so so loving! They are sensitive to a fault and although they will never admit it - but gosh, tell them you love them every single day and mean what you say! Give them reassurance and tender love and care. Often the poor fishies get into patches where they have so much on their mind that they doubt themselves a little. Show them that no matter what they go through you are in their corner! It is like a whirlpool of knowledge and stimulation bombarding them both in their head and heart! Don't play games or wait for signs, just be natural and just say I love you when you feel it! Be open!

Fishies are caring people, they are universal lovers, but the one they love is their one and only TRUE LOVE. Just because they care about other souls - it doesn't mean you're not the most important person, you should be proud of their beautiful heart!

accurate points IMO 😛

and good post.

Nights, you dirty slut. Stop cheating on me!!!

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hahahaha well according to the assclowns on this thread we fish are all just dirty sluts yo

Posted by kalin
It's just amazing to hear Pisces men rationalize why they are entitled to cheat..."I'm a very good bf. I love my girl, I take very good care of her ....and I won't let her find out." They think as long as they are good to both women, they are not doing anything wrong there. of course, they just "want to make everyone happy".

Not sure how is relevant to just Pisces? The OP has explained why Pisces generally are not cheaters. And a girl who's sexual morals are non existent doesn't mean the "Pisces" is cheating.

i agree Este8, it depends on how mature the fishie is.

i think a huge part is about how we (as the fishie's partner) views love as well. perhaps it is my pisces moon, but i see all pisces as true sages - fish naturally swim forward and live in the moment. they are wise monks - because to a certain extent, no matter how in love they are in a relationship - there will always be a part of themselves that will be alone ... because that is how they reflect and learn the lessons that they need to. they remind me of the tarot card ' the hanged man' the person that often does a lot of their journeys internally ... they understand that their future is what the universe brings to them. the more highly evolved fishies - understand that the beauty to life is surrendering to the greater picture that the universe will eventually reveal - and that means that sometimes even when they deeply love someone - a stable love relationship may not be what the universe has planned for them - and instead of fighting for a better future or struggling to rekindle the past - they simply let things unfold as they happen. and this can be very daunting for a lot fo signs which crave predictibility and stability.

we all claim to be living in the moment, but in truth, we often regret the past, be nostaligic of what could have been, hold onto things that should have long been released. instead of demanding a pisces to be a certain way, expecting a pisces to behave or express love in a certain way ... just love them as they are! or you are simply loving your interpretation of what you projected onto them and not for their own soul! their beauty is their ability to be free - to express love freely.

the truth is, love is actually seen by the majority as a very inhibiting controlling energy - and most of these people don't realise it. love at its highest form is universal. it is not about ownership - but understanding and giving. a pisces will never fully belong to you, nor will his fantasies - there is a part of him that will always be free - and to love them means that they teach you how to love universally and love like the ocean. it is not about capturing a pisces man, it is about appreciating him when he comes to swim by yourside. sometimes my fishie will go out into the oceans to explore, to reflect, to learn about the world, but he swims back when he feels the need and we share many stories and laughter under the stars. it is a relationship based on understanding, freedom and a

.... and all encompassing love. loyalty is simply honoring a bond - as long as boht parties share the same definition of that bond.

my fishie taught me how to love universally and with an open mind. when i first met him, i used to get angry at him for little things he'd do and feel let down - then one day i thought about love from his freespirited perspective ... i thought about what i do day to day and how i am able to give and forgive other people in my life and watch them grow - and it made me question why i had to be so critical on what my fishie ought to be like in my mind - that often because i 'loved him too much' i could not be as forgiving or look past things because i imposed these expectations of what he ought to be like. then i realised that my approach to love was one of confinement and it was not all encompassing at all - because, back then, when i treasured someone, i could not love them and forgive them freely - it made me look at myself and i realised that when i 'truly love someone' i should be able to give and forgive them and watch them grow freely just as how i would with friends, family and other people in my life. it was then when i truly began to love my fish, and that i truly understood that to love him is to let him be. and with this understanding we have grown so much more insync with each other.

haha, in a way, i love his freespirited nature and when he is on his solo journeys of enlightenment - i just think of him and send love to him and hope that he is smiling. because he taught me that to truly love someone is to wish for them to be happy.

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Posted by bkbella86
They are the biggest players. Stop reading astro books and newspaper horoscopes. Real life has taught me that they are always cheating and living double lives and love to actually hurt People.

maybe you've had a bad experience. it depends on the rest of their chart. haha i am speaking from real life as i am with a very faithful fishie.

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nah honey I have encountered this with maybe 4 or 5 fishes and some that i havent even dated myself..just cuz you got a good one means nothing...Pisces men are as loyal as the wind

Posted by kalin
Nah, they don't want to hurt anyone's feelings so when a girl wants to fuck, the Pisces man feels he can't let the girl down/break her little heart so he is left w no choice but fuck her. They are born to cheat.

lol so they are weak willed and minded...not sure what worse being a cheater or so weak willed you allegedly cant be faithful.

why are guys trying to rationalize and defend cheaters? they come in all signs not just yours so whats the big deal....Pisces arent above this behavior.

OP it sounds like all the stories of fishies cheating may have you a lil insecure...but you shouldn't worry if you know your pisces well...but other people haven't all had the same experiences with them as you have...and that is life.

*yawns* hear we go again with the cheating bs

MLK.JFK.Bill Clinton.Micheal Jordan.Tiger Woods.Arnold Schwarzenegger...overall great guys that have cheated..

shit happens.in every sign..and chances are if you got cheated on by a pisces, its more then likely because you aren't doing something right in bed(or doing something at all), or you're not that attractive anymore(may have gained weight or got too comfortable and started slacking in overall apperance) *shrugs*

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Posted by Piscesdream89

Posted by kalin
It's just amazing to hear Pisces men rationalize why they are entitled to cheat..."I'm a very good bf. I love my girl, I take very good care of her ....and I won't let her find out." They think as long as they are good to both women, they are not doing anything wrong there. of course, they just "want to make everyone happy".

Not sure how is relevant to just Pisces? The OP has explained why Pisces generally are not cheaters. And a girl who's sexual morals are non existent doesn't mean the "Pisces" is cheating.

Never met guys of another sign said something like that. Most cheaters of other signs knew it's wrong.
A Pisces wanted me to be his secret lover and I asked him how about his gf? And he told me he treats her like a princess (paying for food, rent, buying her stuff, listening to her talk, etc.) so he believed that since he's a "perfect bf", he was entitled to sleep with other women to get more sex. I was so sick of his theory so I asked him to go see a sex therapist.

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So what does this have to do with the sign of Pisces?

T

This shit is ridiculous haha

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Posted by Piscesdream89

Posted by kalin
It's just amazing to hear Pisces men rationalize why they are entitled to cheat..."I'm a very good bf. I love my girl, I take very good care of her ....and I won't let her find out." They think as long as they are good to both women, they are not doing anything wrong there. of course, they just "want to make everyone happy".

Not sure how is relevant to just Pisces? The OP has explained why Pisces generally are not cheaters. And a girl who's sexual morals are non existent doesn't mean the "Pisces" is cheating.

Never met guys of another sign said something like that. Most cheaters of other signs knew it's wrong.
A Pisces wanted me to be his secret lover and I asked him how about his gf? And he told me he treats her like a princess (paying for food, rent, buying her stuff, listening to her talk, etc.) so he believed that since he's a "perfect bf", he was entitled to sleep with other women to get more sex. I was so sick of his theory so I asked him to go see a sex therapist.

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LMAO

Posted by kalin
Nah, they don't want to hurt anyone's feelings so when a girl wants to fuck, the Pisces man feels he can't let the girl down/break her little heart so he is left w no choice but fuck her. They are born to cheat.

LMAAAAAAOOOOO.....

You're hilarious. I can't stop laughing.

Posted by DAMEN VI
*yawns* hear we go again with the cheating bs

MLK.JFK.Bill Clinton.Micheal Jordan.Tiger Woods.Arnold Schwarzenegger...overall great guys that have cheated..

shit happens.in every sign..and chances are if you got cheated on by a pisces, its more then likely because you aren't doing something right in bed(or doing something at all), or you're not that attractive anymore(may have gained weight or got too comfortable and started slacking in overall apperance) *shrugs*

O YEA...THATS Y DAMIEN

aND JUST LIKE YOU TYPICAL PISCES DAMIEN....CANT STAND TO BE CONFRONTED ON YOUR BS....ITS ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSES FAULT....THAT SOUNDS PRETTY WEAK

Posted by bkbella86
aND JUST LIKE YOU TYPICAL PISCES DAMIEN....CANT STAND TO BE CONFRONTED ON YOUR BS....ITS ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSES FAULT....THAT SOUNDS PRETTY WEAK

i think its always both parties fault to some degree when it comes to cheating..how could a relationship that seemingly start off so good, eventually get to a point where one (or both) person decides that they gotta look elsewhere for sexual gratification(or more)?

unless you never had real love for him/her in the beginning, then there's always a reason..weight gain,too much arguing,not being around enough(working),monotony,etc

@bkbella. My apologies to you on behalf of all the Pisces men that have scorned you. There had to initially be something that attracted you to the Pisces men you dated. I can understand how having connected to someone on such a 'deep' level can cause so much pain and resentment when that bond is severed.

There is a thin line between love and hate so 'thread' carefully.

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Posted by illusion
.... and all encompassing love. loyalty is simply honoring a bond - as long as boht parties share the same definition of that bond.

my fishie taught me how to love universally and with an open mind. when i first met him, i used to get angry at him for little things he'd do and feel let down - then one day i thought about love from his freespirited perspective ... i thought about what i do day to day and how i am able to give and forgive other people in my life and watch them grow - and it made me question why i had to be so critical on what my fishie ought to be like in my mind - that often because i 'loved him too much' i could not be as forgiving or look past things because i imposed these expectations of what he ought to be like. then i realised that my approach to love was one of confinement and it was not all encompassing at all - because, back then, when i treasured someone, i could not love them and forgive them freely - it made me look at myself and i realised that when i 'truly love someone' i should be able to give and forgive them and watch them grow freely just as how i would with friends, family and other people in my life. it was then when i truly began to love my fish, and that i truly understood that to love him is to let him be. and with this understanding we have grown so much more insync with each other.

haha, in a way, i love his freespirited nature and when he is on his solo journeys of enlightenment - i just think of him and send love to him and hope that he is smiling. because he taught me that to truly love someone is to wish for them to be happy.

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thank you 🙂

I know a few Pisces men, there are two types it seems. The ones that cheat without shame and the ones that wouldn't dream of cheating.

Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sense
@bkbella. My apologies to you on behalf of all the Pisces men that have scorned you. There had to initially be something that attracted you to the Pisces men you dated. I can understand how having connected to someone on such a 'deep' level can cause so much pain and resentment when that bond is severed.

There is a thin line between love and hate so 'thread' carefully.

I don't need your insincereapologies. Thanx but no thanx.

Pisces men are cheaters no way around that. Bye bye

I'm sorry "some" Pisces men.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I know a few Pisces men, there are two types it seems. The ones that cheat without shame and the ones that wouldn't dream of cheating.

^^^^This is very true!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I know a few Pisces men, there are two types it seems. The ones that cheat without shame and the ones that wouldn't dream of cheating.

^^^^This is very true!

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I think this is the case for all 12 signs

Posted by aquapiscescusp
I know a few Pisces men, there are two types it seems. The ones that cheat without shame and the ones that wouldn't dream of cheating.

touuche. and as previously mentioned by another poster, the more evolved ones are the ones that wouldn't dream of cheating

The OP makes the assumption that her interpretation of the word, "cheating" is definitive for everyone across the board.

That in itself should be enough for people to realize that Pisces is more than capable of cheating, considering how closed the mind is here.