Scorpio man ends things because I'm "too nice"

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So I was seeing this Scorpio man for about 6 weeks. Things got kind of weird between us so I asked him if he felt the same and next thing I know he says he doesn't know what he wants but he just doesn't see a long term relationship with me and our initial spark wasn't there anymore. I suggested to him that we should hang out alone more since we were always with friends but I eventually just let him go because I'm not going to try and make a guy like me. His best friend starts texting me tonight and ends up telling me that he was told by the scorp that I was so nice and he felt weird because he's not used to a girl being so nice to him?? Is this the classic case of "why men love bitches"??
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Its a classic case of "scorpios and pisces don't work so don't buy the hype and count your blessings that you have escaped the game on level 2"
I've always heard that Pisces and Scorpio are the best match!
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Lol!!! I guess that's what I get for believing the World Wide Web.
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Its a classic case of "scorpios and pisces don't work so don't buy the hype and count your blessings that you have escaped the game on level 2"
I've always heard that Pisces and Scorpio are the best match!
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Damn!!! Wish I had these warnings before I get mixed up in it all!
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God you people are awful.

But yeah that friend sounds good.
Eh not into the friend
Don't be into men who can't even manage to get into you.

Also, don't listen to these biased ass trolls. Any pairing can work.

Maybe another arachnid though.
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yes any pairing can work.

true story. Go to several cemetaries, if you want to spend TIME and effort and write down all the pairings of couples who are together till death.

and go to different countries and write down all the dates of the couple's. you will be surprised at all the different sun signs. all mix matched.

i saw some virgo and pisces suns too!! that was pretty cool.

and the children wrote down, to our loving parents.
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So I was seeing this Scorpio man for about 6 weeks. Things got kind of weird between us so I asked him if he felt the same and next thing I know he says he doesn't know what he wants but he just doesn't see a long term relationship with me and our initial spark wasn't there anymore. I suggested to him that we should hang out alone more since we were always with friends but I eventually just let him go because I'm not going to try and make a guy like me. His best friend starts texting me tonight and ends up telling me that he was told by the scorp that I was so nice and he felt weird because he's not used to a girl being so nice to him?? Is this the classic case of "why men love bitches"??
some men like really nice girls. no matter the sun, so stay true to yourself and find someone who appreciates you for you.

men don't really like bitches in the true sense. They like kindness and compassionate women.
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pisces and scorpio are a fine match, but it goes beyond people being simps and solely using the sun to find your life.

Sometimes it doesn't work out, hell most times it doesn't because life.

Other placements play a big part, maturity level and really knowing yourself. I think most people don't really know themselves that well and you see it play out in the drama people come to this forum about. Its more important to know what works for you as a person than to worry so much on why someone else isn't feeling you. I've learned that I can see every "rejection" I get a mile away from the start because I know who I am, and what about me might not gel with certain personalities.

Don't waste your time being confused, something about him must have clued you on that it wasn't fitting. (The wack sex for starters)

You can do better.
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pisces and scorpio are a fine match, but it goes beyond people being simps and solely using the sun to find your life.

Sometimes it doesn't work out, hell most times it doesn't because life.

Other placements play a big part, maturity level and really knowing yourself. I think most people don't really know themselves that well and you see it play out in the drama people come to this forum about. Its more important to know what works for you as a person than to worry so much on why someone else isn't feeling you. I've learned that I can see every "rejection" I get a mile away from the start because I know who I am, and what about me might not gel with certain personalities.

Don't waste your time being confused, something about him must have clued you on that it wasn't fitting. (The wack sex for starters)

You can do better.
Hey girl thanks so much for saying that. You're absolutely right! It was the initial rejection that hurt but now that time has passed I definitely see more clearly. And of course he texts me al the time now haha
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God you people are awful.

But yeah that friend sounds good.
Eh not into the friend
Even if you were attracted to his best friend, It would be best to keep him at arms length. Even better don't discuss with his friend what happened with you and the guy.
Be polite if he texts you again, tell him you rather not text about your personal life with anyone. Or do not respond to him anymore. Vanish from radar.

Accepting the friend of your ex no matter how hot he is, it makes you look like a very thirsty girl and that is very un-attractive.

And answer to your question.... do not stop being a nice, polite lady. Just know when its time to put your foot down.
My best guess is that this guy did things that he knew he was being an ass and you did not say a word or stood up to him. Men like the adrenaline rush they feel when they know a woman can stand her ground and will kick them to the curb if they are disrespected in some way.





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Yes. His friend has continued to text me and I haven't responded. Even if I was attracted to him I would not entertain it. That would be in very bad
Taste.

I h see stand what you're saying, but he never was disrespectful in the slightest. Never gave me a reason to not be nice. It was only a little over a month so I'm not going to just come out being rude! I'm definitely just staying true to myself. If he wants someone who's rude then he can go find that.
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pisces and scorpio are a fine match, but it goes beyond people being simps and solely using the sun to find your life.

Sometimes it doesn't work out, hell most times it doesn't because life.

Other placements play a big part, maturity level and really knowing yourself. I think most people don't really know themselves that well and you see it play out in the drama people come to this forum about. Its more important to know what works for you as a person than to worry so much on why someone else isn't feeling you. I've learned that I can see every "rejection" I get a mile away from the start because I know who I am, and what about me might not gel with certain personalities.

Don't waste your time being confused, something about him must have clued you on that it wasn't fitting. (The wack sex for starters)

You can do better.
Hey girl thanks so much for saying that. You're absolutely right! It was the initial rejection that hurt but now that time has passed I definitely see more clearly. And of course he texts me al the time now haha
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of course he does... lol hes a sucker. 😉
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By my post above, I don't mean you were not doing fine being a sweet lady.

He probably is like many men out there who live by the thrill of the chase. That adrenaline rush when you first meet someone and then it dies and poof they drop the "you are too nice for me"

Like when he picks up the phone and is nervous not knowing you would pick up or not. Or if you would return the call or not. Then he gets calls and is not you and his heart beat races- and then later out of no where - (un-predictably) he gets your call and it puts a smile on his face.

Ignore them a lil bit then give them some attention then go on with your own thing and then give them some more. Be unpredictable if you want to renew the spark over and over. 🙂, Once in a while it's nice to spark it up a little bit to keep them hooked. 😉

In my younger years I made the mistake of being too nice, being there for him always, cooking, cleaning, coming home before he got home to be there so he would not feel lonely. to then not be appreciative of my time and how much I cared. ----------you learn with time to be a lil selfish and get with the program.

I absolutely agree. I think I was too available. Definitely made it too easy too. Whenever I meet guys I just make them out to be how I want them to and figure it out along the way when really I need to figure them out first and then see how they work with me. Thanks so much!
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By my post above, I don't mean you were not doing fine being a sweet lady.

He probably is like many men out there who live by the thrill of the chase. That adrenaline rush when you first meet someone and then it dies and poof they drop the "you are too nice for me"

Like when he picks up the phone and is nervous not knowing you would pick up or not. Or if you would return the call or not. Then he gets calls and is not you and his heart beat races- and then later out of no where - (un-predictably) he gets your call and it puts a smile on his face.

Ignore them a lil bit then give them some attention then go on with your own thing and then give them some more. Be unpredictable if you want to renew the spark over and over. 🙂, Once in a while it's nice to spark it up a little bit to keep them hooked. 😉

In my younger years I made the mistake of being too nice, being there for him always, cooking, cleaning, coming home before he got home to be there so he would not feel lonely. to then not be appreciative of my time and how much I cared. ----------you learn with time to be a lil selfish and get with the program.

I absolutely agree. I think I was too available. Definitely made it too easy too. Whenever I meet guys I just make them out to be how I want them to and figure it out along the way when really I need to figure them out first and then see how they work with me. Thanks so much!
You are very welcome sweetie, my intentions in my posts is to help out more than anything. You will make it through, and time heals and know this was just a learning experience the universe throws at you so you can keep evolving and mastering these situations along the way. 🙂

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Yep! Chalk it up to a learning experience! All advice is very much appreciated 🙂🙂
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The scorp/pisces thing is something quite curious for me tbh. There is this scorp friend of mine who is dating this very sensitive pisces girl for 4 years staight and looks like they're gonna get married. But then there is me, who tried things with many scorpio women and they were just too manipulative and stingy for me., even when they had the same moon as me

I guess it works when the scorp is the male counterpart.
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yes sweetie, and I read on the scorpio board about the lousy sex part. No offense sweetie but not just because we are women and men like our female body, does not mean a man is going to perform well in bed or be completely turned on. And yes some men can be lousy in bed too. lol

But based on what you have said- I am trying to look at it from both sides. The sexual chemistry is built when you are dating or being around each other, and apart too, again when you are a mysterious - interesting woman, men see it as very sexy and appealing that when they get you in bed... hot sex happens. He did not feel it and neither could you.


Scenario as an example of the nice sweet,accommodating woman:

Him : "hey babe how about we get together tonight?"

Her: (drops everything to say----------------> "yes what time?"

Him------ " 😢" - 7 is good" ----------------------he got you. he knows what will happen and just goes on doing what he is doing.


Better scenario.

Him: "hey babe how about we get together tonight?"

Her: "hmm, I can't tonight, I wish I could but I have to do a few things, how about tomorrow or the next day?"

Him " scratches head asking himself "what could be more important for her- than me right now?" -------- "I want this girl how can I get her to see me"-
and his mind starts working on overdrive----------chase begins.


The second type of woman described above- is not going to be rushed and will not drop everything to run to a man the moment he snaps his fingers... She is busy, has a life and wants him to respect her time and ask her on a date properly in advance......... -----------> He likes that about her... It is just the way it is.


Make it easy for a man, be the nice sweet girl always available, not letting him wonder how he will have you, how you will be in bed. ------will just imagine you standing there with puppy eyes and may just not even desire to have sex or be aroused.


Honestly,,,, I as a woman if I was dating a man who is too nice and is very acommodating all the time specially - while in the dating stage....
I would not feel the chemistry and most likely the sex would be very lousy too.. And same if I was the nicest -accommodating person to a man - he would lose interest very fast.

Not being mean sweetie but that is part of life weather we want to admit it or not ^^^^^^^^ even married couples get to that stage because it just gets boring if we women are not constantly keeping him interested and challenge him along the way to never let him know he has gotten a hold

Yes. I agree. He keeps texting me so maybe I can approach this differently. Thank
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The scorp/pisces thing is something quite curious for me tbh. There is this scorp friend of mine who is dating this very sensitive pisces girl for 4 years staight and looks like they're gonna get married. But then there is me, who tried things with many scorpio women and they were just too manipulative and stingy for me., even when they had the same moon as me

I guess it works when the scorp is the male counterpart.
I think it works a lot better when it's a Pisces female and Scorp male. My grandparents were the opposite though and were together until my Pisces grandfather died two years ago. I did have a Scorp say the same thing about me...being too nice years ago after we broke up. I was like, meh...oh well. Now, I'm a bit different and though I prefer to be kind, I don't hold back when I don't FEEL like being kind. I think this is what the first Scorp was saying about me. I didn't really respond in a human manner...more robotic, but the thing is, even though I did love him, I wasn't ready for a serious serious relationship. So, my responses to him were pretty even and cool. If we were together now and his son's mother tried that same shit she did years ago...oh, it would be a wrap. lol ha ha ha ha ha

I'm more invested in my potential relationships than I was then. I'm willing to put up SOME type of fight for my relationship. You can't always just be so....easy going when it comes to love. If your emotions NEVER show or fluctuate then I can see how it would be suspect or I would question whether or not the relationship CAN last. Me and my Scorp bf...OMG, you would think we were both crazy. LMBO!!!! I tell about MY end of things and how I act up/out, but he acts up/out just as bad. I got mad at him for wanting to hang out with his friends while I was there and I was like, "Fine GO" and attempted to get out of the car angry...this dude put me in a headlock and the whole time I'm yelling, "Get off of me and don't touch me...get your clammy ass hands off of me and just go be with your friends!!" I finally get away from him and slam the car door only to realize that my phone charger wasn't where I left it. So, I go back outside to ask him about it and he's using his phone. He rolls down the window and tells me where to find it. I say, "Ok, you can go back to calling your bitches now.' I go back into the hotel room and a few minutes later he knocks on the door for me to let him in. He throws me on the bed and is like, "What did you say to me!?!?!" I start yelling at him AGAIN to not touch me and go hang out with his friends....long dramatic story short...he texts me an hour after leaving with, "Call me....please." Well, I didn't see the text right then and there, he comes back RIGHT after I don't call and has me pinned up against the wall at 1am asking me why I didn't call him.
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When I laughed at him...he started sulking and was like, "You don't treat me right...I did all of this for you and you're just...you don't care." I told him to take his ass to bed and stop whining. He gets ready to get in the bed and goes, "Did you see the rose I bought you?"....who can miss a big ass almost two foot long stem rose sitting on an empty bed...before I could respond, he goes, "You're welcome". Then I say, "Thank you for the rose Babe" and he says, "Well...in that case, you're NOT welcome."

LMBO!!!!!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
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..... he just doesn't see a long term relationship with me and our initial spark wasn't there anymore.



This is the reason why he doesn't want to be with you.

Your title is a lie. You likely tell it to yourself so you won't feel like an asshole. Because the truth is, according to you, the friend was telling you what the Scorpio was used to/or not used to ... the friend didn't say that this was the reason for the breakup.

The reason for the breakup is what the Scorpio told you .... the spark is gone.

You're deceptive .... try being honest, and maybe you'll find the true answer.
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A person is allowed to decide that a relationship isn't going to work out long term and since the spark is gone, they are allowed to make the decision to end the relationship ... and that is all that has happened here.

He hasn't done anything against you, for any reason, according to the OP.


yet, you've come in here to create a falsehood about his character to the point that you've got people making comments/judgments about his character such as: player, jerk, etc.

You're the asshole, it appears ... in that you're encouraging these dumb ass people to comment on his character in a bad light


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The scorp/pisces thing is something quite curious for me tbh. There is this scorp friend of mine who is dating this very sensitive pisces girl for 4 years staight and looks like they're gonna get married. But then there is me, who tried things with many scorpio women and they were just too manipulative and stingy for me., even when they had the same moon as me

I guess it works when the scorp is the male counterpart.
hhahaha I swear Tony I was about to choke you. But I had a good laugh when I saw your user name and where you are from.. 🙂

The scorp/sag guy's name is Tony and is from Brazil. bonito.....

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Quite a coincidence I must say, but pls dont choke me I'm just a random living being surfing the interwebs.
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A person is allowed to decide that a relationship isn't going to work out long term and since the spark is gone, they are allowed to make the decision to end the relationship ... and that is all that has happened here.

He hasn't done anything against you, for any reason, according to the OP.


yet, you've come in here to create a falsehood about his character to the point that you've got people making comments/judgments about his character such as: player, jerk, etc.

You're the asshole, it appears ... in that you're encouraging these dumb ass people to comment on his character in a bad light

GO EAT A SNICKERS, P. YOU'RE BEING RUDE AGAIN

I think she has every right to be pissed off at that shrimp dick asshole for playing head games. Perhaps he did tell her why he wasn't interested, but his horrible sex and his inability to directly communicate make him deserving of atleast a few insults.
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Also, @p-angel, if you actually read her other posts you'll see that he pretty much convinced her to have sex with him and then started to act really fucked up and distant afterward. Even after his crappy sex she was still willing to invest time in him. She definitely has good reason to be confused and pissed off. He's a shit stain person and deserves to be talked about like a shit stain person.
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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
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But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
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By design Scorpio people are extremely abusive
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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
By design Scorpio people are extremely abusive
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LMBO!!! I really can't argue with you there. As many times as me and my Scorp have play fought or he's playfully snatched me up and I've bucked him in return...can't even argue with you there. I knew I was in for it, because the very first time he hemmed me up, he put me upside down in a corner of my bedroom on my head. I was like, "WTF—" I'm like heavy set and 5ft 10in tall. I've never had a man fold me up period. He picks me up, tosses me, folds me up, and pins me down regularly. The crazy part is that he's only a couple of inches taller than me...just MUCH stronger.
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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
By design Scorpio people are extremely abusive
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I do 🙂
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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
So you have met one now 😄......5 planets in Scorp too

I wont allow anyone to treat me badly, and i hate hurting people


One of my pet hates is when people allow other people to hurt them and do nothing about it
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i hate that too, star.

alot of people just stand by and do nothing in the real world when they see someone get hurt.
maybe it's because they are afraid themselves.

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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
So you have met one now 😄......5 planets in Scorp too

I wont allow anyone to treat me badly, and i hate hurting people


One of my pet hates is when people allow other people to hurt them and do nothing about it
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I think it's ironic that you say anything about people being hurt considering you routinely make condescending remarks about women who are in abusive relationship. Always asking them if they enjoyed being abused or like being "punished". That's really disgusting attitude to have to hurt someone who is clearly not strong enough to leave a situation that is not to their benefit. what does that say about you?

Any normal human being would have compassion and concern for someone in a messed up situation, not look down on them. It is one thing to try to give advice it is another thing to make yourself look good amidst someone being in the shitty situation. All you ever do is give backhanded remarks that would make the victim look/feel even worse about the situation. You shouldn't, all things you don't understand its okay to just not saying anything at all.
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I only like a woman who is nice.
I like nice men too.
You have to be pretty screwed up to want to be with someone who treats you badly

or a masochist?
But in a way...isn't this Scorpio energy? Scorps don't trust anything that remains good, because they know that there's something bad deep down in all of us. I'm not saying that Op is at fault...not at all!! I'm just saying that Scorp heavy people or prominent people have to have this element of suffering or negativity or toxic energy in their relationships for them to believe that it's true...that both people are being honest and for them to believe that they are merging with who the person is showing themselves to be.

I think that all Scorps are Masochistic. I haven't met one YET who wasn't. They like to inflict pain and they EXPECT pain in return. If you don't deliver, it's almost like someone expecting a gift that never comes. lol
So you have met one now 😄......5 planets in Scorp too

I wont allow anyone to treat me badly, and i hate hurting people


One of my pet hates is when people allow other people to hurt them and do nothing about it
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Nope, not 5 planets in Scorp. One of my sons has 5 planets in Leo. My Scorps loves to play fight and I hit back. End of pain. He's actually very emo sensitive.
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I dont know what the hell you are talking about

To enable someone to stay in a an abusive relationship is far worse than help them have the strength to leave


Your posts come across as aggressive and you seem very angry

Of course you don't know what I'm talking about it. It's called selective memory. And me seeming angry is besides the point. You have a disgusting attitude towards people who are in abusive relationships (especially Pisces) and I'm pointing that out. Your backhanded remarks are uncalled for and condescending.
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The fuck....LMBO...I'm not being abused. Lol ha ha ha...I LOVE play fighting. Love it, love it, love it. I also love being spanked. It actually turns me on. I used to have these lingerie pajama parties in my thirties while single. That was something everyone in my circle was/is aware of. I don't have a male friend...single, married, or otherwise who attended those parties and DIDN'T spank me. Lol ha ha ha And I mean hard enough to leave marks. They would bring their single male friends and say...watch this...spank me and then we'd laugh at my response to it. It's just something (liking to be spanked) that's a part of who I am. It's all good.
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The fuck....LMBO...I'm not being abused. Lol ha ha ha...I LOVE play fighting. Love it, love it, love it. I also love being spanked. It actually turns me on. I used to have these lingerie pajama parties in my thirties while single. That was something everyone in my circle was/is aware of. I don't have a male friend...single, married, or otherwise who attended those parties and DIDN'T spank me. Lol ha ha ha And I mean hard enough to leave marks. They would bring their single male friends and say...watch this...spank me and then we'd laugh at my response to it. It's just something (liking to be spanked) that's a part of who I am. It's all good.

that post want about you. I meant to comment your dynamic with the scorp seems fun and playful.
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I have 5 planets in Scorp Ms

How are you now, healthwise?
Ohhhhhh...got it. Ok, I see what you're saying. My apologies. I JUST woke up. As far as pain...what about emo pain? I have two female Scorp friends and it's like...once they bond with a guy during the break up, they couldn't do the no contact thing, even though the guys were ignoring them. They also had sex with the exes WEEKS after the break up, throwing themselves into emo turmoil.
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The fuck....LMBO...I'm not being abused. Lol ha ha ha...I LOVE play fighting. Love it, love it, love it. I also love being spanked. It actually turns me on. I used to have these lingerie pajama parties in my thirties while single. That was something everyone in my circle was/is aware of. I don't have a male friend...single, married, or otherwise who attended those parties and DIDN'T spank me. Lol ha ha ha And I mean hard enough to leave marks. They would bring their single male friends and say...watch this...spank me and then we'd laugh at my response to it. It's just something (liking to be spanked) that's a part of who I am. It's all good.

that post want about you. I meant to comment your dynamic with the scorp seems fun and playful.
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It's the most fun I've had with a man in my ENTIRE life. Thanks...you get it. Lol...anytime I mention him being physically aggressive, it's always in a playful or cute manner. That man would never physically hurt me. He's wayyyyy too kind hearted for that.
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The fuck....LMBO...I'm not being abused. Lol ha ha ha...I LOVE play fighting. Love it, love it, love it. I also love being spanked. It actually turns me on. I used to have these lingerie pajama parties in my thirties while single. That was something everyone in my circle was/is aware of. I don't have a male friend...single, married, or otherwise who attended those parties and DIDN'T spank me. Lol ha ha ha And I mean hard enough to leave marks. They would bring their single male friends and say...watch this...spank me and then we'd laugh at my response to it. It's just something (liking to be spanked) that's a part of who I am. It's all good.

that post want about you. I meant to comment your dynamic with the scorp seems fun and playful.
It's the most fun I've had with a man in my ENTIRE life. Thanks...you get it. Lol...anytime I mention him being physically aggressive, it's always in a playful or cute manner. That man would never physically hurt me. He's wayyyyy too kind hearted for that.
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I have that kind of dynamic with a Taurus when I was in high school. Any time he and I were together we could never keep our hands off of each. We were always pinching, pushing, touching. Any reason for us to "bother" one another we found it. It was fun and sweet. Our own little way of telling each other how much we liked each other.
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The fuck....LMBO...I'm not being abused. Lol ha ha ha...I LOVE play fighting. Love it, love it, love it. I also love being spanked. It actually turns me on. I used to have these lingerie pajama parties in my thirties while single. That was something everyone in my circle was/is aware of. I don't have a male friend...single, married, or otherwise who attended those parties and DIDN'T spank me. Lol ha ha ha And I mean hard enough to leave marks. They would bring their single male friends and say...watch this...spank me and then we'd laugh at my response to it. It's just something (liking to be spanked) that's a part of who I am. It's all good.

that post want about you. I meant to comment your dynamic with the scorp seems fun and playful.
It's the most fun I've had with a man in my ENTIRE life. Thanks...you get it. Lol...anytime I mention him being physically aggressive, it's always in a playful or cute manner. That man would never physically hurt me. He's wayyyyy too kind hearted for that.

I have that kind of dynamic with a Taurus when I was in high school. Any time he and I were together we could never keep our hands off of each. We were always pinching, pushing, touching. Any reason for us to "bother" one another we found it. It was fun and sweet. Our own little way of telling each other how much we liked each other.
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Yep...that's it! Lol....have you had the experience with anyone else since then?
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The fuck....LMBO...I'm not being abused. Lol ha ha ha...I LOVE play fighting. Love it, love it, love it. I also love being spanked. It actually turns me on. I used to have these lingerie pajama parties in my thirties while single. That was something everyone in my circle was/is aware of. I don't have a male friend...single, married, or otherwise who attended those parties and DIDN'T spank me. Lol ha ha ha And I mean hard enough to leave marks. They would bring their single male friends and say...watch this...spank me and then we'd laugh at my response to it. It's just something (liking to be spanked) that's a part of who I am. It's all good.

that post want about you. I meant to comment your dynamic with the scorp seems fun and playful.
It's the most fun I've had with a man in my ENTIRE life. Thanks...you get it. Lol...anytime I mention him being physically aggressive, it's always in a playful or cute manner. That man would never physically hurt me. He's wayyyyy too kind hearted for that.

I have that kind of dynamic with a Taurus when I was in high school. Any time he and I were together we could never keep our hands off of each. We were always pinching, pushing, touching. Any reason for us to "bother" one another we found it. It was fun and sweet. Our own little way of telling each other how much we liked each other.
Yep...that's it! Lol....have you had the experience with anyone else since then?
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No. Well... there was a scop. He and I were really close. we always wanted to be up under each other. It was pleasant and loving but it wasn't playful like the way it was with the Taurus. 😢
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Posted by starlover
I have 5 planets in Scorp Ms

How are you now, healthwise?
Healthwise...I'm coping. My attitude is a lot better than it was. That helps tremendously. My body...same ole, same ole. I had to leave work early on Thursday due to pain and had a hard time sleeping, because I was so sore. Next week, I'm hoping to dive into some symptomatic treatment to alleviate the pain. I met my specialist for the first time on Wed. He's AMAZING.
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