Scorpio's tail around fish... help me

Hey, this is a long story. But hope someone can shed some light. Basically, I am a 17 yr old scorpio and the guy in question is a piscean.

I first met him 2 years ago through a friend, and at the first meeting, I quite honestly was very committed to another guy, so I didn't even think of him like that. I did however from time to time ask about his academic endeavors to my best friend b/c he is kind of smart, and she told me that the two of us were driving her nuts with the competition and asking her. I didn't see him, and I actually thought it hilarious when my best friend told me she was kinda fantasizing about him. His not your average hot guy. We'd IM sometimes, but it was just.. i dont even know.... pointless but always amusing?

Last year, he was kind of warming up to me, and being a scorpio I sensed right away that he had ulterior motives. This pisces boy is somewhat renowned for leeching. He's always calling someone for hw, getting some1 to do his work. He'd be taking calculus the year after (this year) and I just knew he'd be calling me up all the time asking me for help.

Neways, in the summer, he'd call maybe twice a month, and we'd talk for hours. The thing is I would be really pissed because he'd go on and on and on about academics, I mean we all have our limits. But Idk, everytime I'd get ready to hang up, he'd say something I would have to say sth back, or w/e the point is, we'd talk for 2-3 hours.

I would be very hostile, and i knew he knew it was on purpose, but I didn't care. Neways, in the summer, I got really involved with a taurus, and things would either be really great with me and the taurean or really bad. And when things got bad, I would call him, I wouldn't necessarily say anything about the relationship, but he somehow just could sense my sadness? I don't know, really hard to explain, but he'd comfort me. We got to being good friends, because I finally kind of warmed up to him instead of being emotionally blank and uninvolved in conversations.

Point is, when school started, the calls became more and more frequent until, I actually got frustrated that it's him, AGAIN. But I was also flattered, and couldn't help but smile. We'd talk all the time, but we were both just friends really.

When things finally crashed with the taurus, I gave my all to the pisces guy. I'd tease, I'd flirt. I would pick up the phone saying "Hey Baby" and we'd be talking about sleep or something and he'd be like "Imagine waking up in my arms". He was very imaginative, hypothesizing about road trips and such....

Well, I started thinking hmmm what if... but I didn't allow myself to get hurt like that again. There is this one incident I remember, which really pissed me off. We were talking and I was like "I'm bored, You're boring me, I'll ttyl" And he's like "Oh you're bored, what do you wanna talk about? Wanna talk about the kind of women I find attractive" I was really put off because, how dare he think himself so fucking great, playing me like putty, when I was just teasing the guy?

I hung up, obviously. The guy is not a player, atleast, I don't think so. He's huge, but I find him adorable anyway. Also, he's a senior in hs, but hasnt had a gf since 6th grade, which i thought was really weird.

He pissed me off, with a joke, it was a misunderstanding really, but a small thing became huge, and instead of just apologizing, he continued to explain his point of view and how he was wrong. I yelled at him for a good hour. Anyway I told him he was forgiven, but I would get revenge. Anyway, I needed to borrow a calculator from him, for a mutual friend, but he flat out refused. I had borrowed it b4, so I thought no sweat. But apparently it's true what they say about pisces males being possesive of their stuff. He flat out denied, and I pretty much begged and pleaded and pretty much offered him anything, anything at all.. I mean this was the entire scorpio in

You are an idiot for not meeting him half way with this🙂Okay that was rude I agree but yes I think you should grab him while you can.He's sorta kinda already did his part of it and now you need to start actiing or else he'll turn into sensitive pisces and take it personal as in the way that he thinks you don't like him.It's not his fault that the other guys burned you and if anything has proven to be very loving towards you.

I agree with Tiamat...BUT to reinforce the point

You are young...There will be many men to come and go in your life. Don't let the actions of a few dictate how you react to everyone. I don't see where he was being such a jerk. Sometimes you Scorp women confuse the men trying to be so darn secretive all the time! I don't really see how he has been a dickhead, but you know alot more about the story than me.

GOOD LUCK!

CL/Cm2