Share your experience with a Pisces

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SmartOnTheRocks
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10 Years

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I had a serious relationship for 2 years with one. The most draining relationship I have ever been. We had fun. The sex was great. We could go on for like 5 days 5 hours a day. But he was a LIAR. He lied about everything. He lied that they paid him only half his salary to only find it that he created another bank account so it debited there on pay day. He only bought me things when I was leaving him. And every time I wanted to leave my Gosh he cried like a baby.
He was so stingy that he moved from place to place the cheaper the better but the conditions were bad I even dumped him. We got back together until I got a job and he took my salary. I got a nice place and he wanted to move in with me. I refused point blank. told him he must get his shit together.

I was going to go back but then I found it be slept with some girl. I played the victim told him I never slept with anyone but him I just wanted him to get his shit together. But I can't do this anymore.

Well anyways he calls me twice a year. Always wants to hook up but I tell him I'm going out of the country wrong timing.

I can't even stand him just writing this is emotionally draining. I am myself how did I end up there. 1 of my biggest regrets hands down.

The girls are okay. a bit dull and people pleasers. They can be mean for no reason and I never give them the time of day. But my cousins are nice we have fun but not loyal. Always steal their friends boy friends saying it was meant to be.

Good characteristics they are good listeners. They out going and show empathy.

Bad charateristics they are liars.
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SmartOnTheRocks
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
You don't sound like the most honest person yourself op, no offense.
I'm not I'm just sharing my experience from my side. He also has he's side. But I wasn't interested in money. I had my own. But I couldn't build with someone who lied about everything all the time while I put all my cats on the table.

I just wanted out and didn't know how. so when he slept with someone I saw my free card
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SmartOnTheRocks
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Posted by SeaGoddess
Lol!! What kind of pisces have you been running in to ? Dont throw us all in the same box dear. Im
Definitely not dull and I'm sure as hell not a people pleaser. I'll please you if you're worth pleasing. I don't lie , and I'm loyal af so loyal it makes me sick sometimes. Sorry about your obviously terrible experience.
no hun not all of them. Just the ones I experienced. personally. I don't have many pisces friends
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Posted by SmartOnTheRocks

1. He lied about everything.

2. He lied that they paid him only half his salary to only find it that he created another bank account so it debited there on pay day. He only bought me things when I was leaving him.

3. I was going to go back but then I found it be slept with some girl.

4. I played the victim told him I never slept with anyone but him I just wanted him to ......

5. I tell him I'm going out of the country wrong timing.


1. you said "everything" ..... of course, we know that it's not "everything" ... so that means you just lied to us when you said "everything" I don't see how any person could come in here crying about being lied to, and in their description, you lie to us.

If he lied about everything ... then that means you were shit to him, and every sweetness he whispered in your ear was false. that means you're beautiful, as I'm sure he told you, that means he didn't like to make love to you, as I'm sure he told you

you said "everything" .....


2. you seem to believe that his personal finances is your business and it's not. He could have 10 bank accounts if he wants to, and it's still none of your business. BUT, the way you have it worded, you make it sound like he was hiding the money from you. So, that means he suspected you of being materialistic.

And you are ... after all you made sure to grumble in here about him buying you things.

You seem to be focused on money. Once this was mentioned to you in here, you backpedalled and pretended as though money isn't important ... but, that's a lie you said to us in here because we can all read ... and you made sure to whine about HIS money, as if it should be yours.

3. Here you state that you had intentions of going back to him, which means you WANTED to go back to him.

Then in a later post, you state ....

Posted by SmartOnTheRocks

I just wanted out and didn't know how. so when he slept with someone I saw my free card

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It can't be both ... so one of those is a lie you told us. It looks like you're the liar.

4. we find in this partial quote, where to decided to "play" a game of deception with him, with intentions of manipulating him. If you never slept with anyone, then you could stand confidently on the merits of that truth. But, you couldn't do that - you said you had to (play) the victim, in order to convince him that you didn't sleep with someone.

that means you did sleep with someone. If you didn't sleep with someone .. then you wouldn't have to play about it, you could just stand on the truth of that fact.

So, on top of you lying to us in here (and lying to him, since you feel the need to play on him) ... you're also a cheater.

5. this excuse you tell him now when he's trying to reach out to you.
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SmartOnTheRocks
@SmartOnTheRocks
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@p_angel my sweet I was sharing my experience. And no I never change cheated on him. playing the victim means me having the upper hand in why I have to leave him instead of adding I don't want him anymore. He had a bait in that girl and I ran with it. I'm not here to ask for opinions by the way. I'm here to share my experiences.

And read others people or yourselves on how pisces are.

Thanks in advance


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SmartOnTheRocks
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10 Years

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Posted by Nemilicious
so, instead of questioning your own values and actions, WHY you are still together with an alleged asshole or entertaining the idea of communication with one; you go into blame-shifting instead? you guys are hilarious.

ever questioned yourself what it says about you when you stay with an asshole?

these people will fuck you over time and time again because you are weak.

such is the nature of life.



honestly I was young he was 10 years older than me. I thought he genuinely loved me but when I got out of the emotions and became logical I want to choke myself
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Eleventh
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I met my ex piscean about 8 years ago and we were together just under 2 years. He was the first guy I ever approached to be my boyfriend which was a big deal because I was used to only going out with guys who approached me.
At first I had my apartment and he had his and that was fine because I loved where I lived then he asked me to move in with him, I really didn't want to as I thought it was too soon and his apartment was shit and he couldn't stay at mine because it was a share house but I did anyways. What I didn't know however was that he broke up with a girl and she was on holiday in New Zealand and she was due to arrive back in 3 months in her old apartment in the same building which he used to live in.....anyways he ended up telling me what was going on because people in the building were looking at me weird and his phone was constantly going off and I cried but he said it was over with her and i had already moved my shit in there so I stayed, well I avoided the girl as much as I could when she got back but it was inevitable that we should meet and she confronted me when I was doing my laundry, it turned out she was a transsexual and we ended up being really good friends, she was a Virgo and we both cried to each other because she still loved him and I felt bad for her and we developed an intense bond.
Anyways we would all start hanging out and drink together and my ex would get really drunk and every night would end up in a fight with me and him, I never understood why he would just get so violent for he would rip my shirt and punch me in the face and throw my shit out of the apartment, there have been many times she and other friends have pulled him off me.....I would sleep at her house or my friends to stay away from him and he would knock on the door crying the next day and we would make up. I eventually became really depressed because I didn't know what to do, I think was too young I wasn't equipped to be alone and handle a breakup as well as life in the city.....eventually it all ended when I came home from partying and found him making out with his ex transsexual girlfriend's best friend on my couch and I was completely hysterical I instantly left and went to his exes room and told him what he and she was up to and I instantly regretted it because she was so hurt from it, I didn't know who to tell I was just in so much agony..that night I booked my train tickets home and I went to sleep on my friends couch, I woke up the next day and went back to my room and my BF was sleeping in his bed and I crept around the room and packed a bag of stuff then I jumped down on him while he was asleep and punched him in the face then got up and smashed everything in the apartment all while he was attacking me with a piece of wood,,,,once I was done ruining everything he saw that he broke my arm and he was really apologetic and so was I , it was so weird I told him I was going to go to the hospital to get it fixed and he should stay to clean up an
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Eleventh
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I left and got on the train home and that was the last time I saw him.., when we fought he punched my mouth and my tooth went through my lip, I was on the train hung over as fuck and just dead pan staring into oblivion, the 8 hour trip seemed like nothing and i arrived back home looking like I had gone under a train with a mangled arm and a mouth full of blood and had turned my teeth black, my mother and little brother were at work and the door was locked, I went to my little brothers work in the mall which was Kmart and he was working on checkouts and when I saw him I broke down and cried infront of his customers and he gave me the keys and told me to go home and I did and when he and mum came back they both looked after me, it was unbelivebly hard for my brother to see what I had become because he always looked up to me, even to this day he doesn't have the same respect for me that he once had, so not only did it take ages for me to get over my ex it took ages for my brother to gain respect for me. My mother was absolutely awesome after getting me patched up at the hospital she took me to Bunnings and bought me all these different vegetables and plants and when we got home she made me make a vegetable garden and I watered and tended to it ever day and I talked to it like a crazy person but I really took my mind off things, I learnt that when you cut off branches new ones sprout and flourish and I see that as that time of my life and now I've become something different, I consider my drag career to be at its budding stage. Also it was around this time when I was rehabilitating from this was when I met the DXPers and when I told my story surely enough P-Angel was there ripping me a new hole, wasn't something I wanted to hear but I did need to hear it?
I read our star sign comparability in the beginning of our relationship and it said we would learn big karmic lessons in life and we did! I thought telling this story again would be draining and would open up old wounds and it hasn't, I now have a lovely new boyfriend who is a libra and we're very much in love and I'm a lot more wiser in love and I'm so happy that I'm giving it a second chance 8 years later because I never thought it would be possible, my libra has defiantly helped heal up the last part that needed fixing.
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Posted by SmartOnTheRocks
Oh my word and you do sound stronger. I was never in abused relationships but most of my friends who either dated pisces aries or Capricorns always have stories of being abused physically. I can only imagine. I'm happy you healed my baby
Thanks, I've learnt a lot about myself and relationships I vowed to never let myself get like that again, I was just so pathetic and weak but still strutting around like i had things under control, towards the end I was reverting into the old depressed me when I was in high school, I think he definitely sensed this and did what he had to do to get me to leave, it was so weird, he always said he wanted me there and never wanted me to go and then when I asked him how could he just cheat on me like that, he said "what did you expect"?....I never expected that but I'm glad I did....he was charming, spiritual, good in bed and cultured, I learnt a lot in those two years.
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I'm a VirgoLibra cusp so opposites attract and repel.
My current crush is a Pisces but my enemy is also one.
Ohhh my god shes the worst version of a pisces and my crush is the best!
My crush: Compassionate, gentle, honest, caring, reasonable, smart. Typical pisces traits but I still think hes a lot better than most pisces.
Enemy: Says she hates pisces rather be a capricorn. She is manipulative bossy mean and cold. She bullied me in middle school and we used to be best friends. She turned all my friends against me but now they admit that her actions were very bad. She would bully me with her friend when teachers werent around and she would sweet talk and suck up to the teachers. She is very academic and gets super jealous of whoever tries to top her. Unlike average pisces she denies the need for romance and says that love comes last in life and money makes the world go round. So she is pretty materialistic too. She cant draw and she would be jealous of me who could draw. She criticized/insulted my art.
So that made me believe that there are amazing and terrible people in ALL signs. You just have to make do of what you have naturally.
I have another pisces friend and I like her. Shes a bit crazy and she goes to film school. She has a boyfriend who is also pisces. I think shes the most imaginative pisces Ive ever met