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Is this how Pieces men are? I met a man a couple of weeks ago. He approached me while I was out with a male friend and we exchanged numbers. I actually thought he was pretty bold to approach us. We talked on the phone shortly after and it was amazing! We have a lot in common on a spiritual side. I've seen him 3 times since meeting him and all was well. He does text in between but I still feel like this is moving slowly. Our text are light and more on how is your day but no real "meat" to them. I'm getting a little bored but also don't want to rush things. He has not planned our next date and for example this weekend went by and we texted but he didn't make any real plans. He did ask me if I wanted to meet @ his house after I met up with friends. I declined.

For something that started out with such spark - it's dwindling down for me. I am a Cancer female by the way and we love connection.

What do you think?

Sounds like he's not that serious hun imo, try texting him to see if he would like to meet up? See how you interact again face to face, I didn't like it when you said he asked you to go back to his place already without getting to know you better first.

Like I said, try meeting up with him again,not at his house obviously, if you don't feel the vibes, forget about him as he only wanted sex and it will show if you try to get him to take you seriously x

We talk via text every other day but it's nothing juicy or substantial in my mind. I don't want to ask him out. If he's interested I think he will make plans. He claims to be very romantic. Or perhaps he has another love interest. Not sure.

I'm trying to hang in there. We had such an awesome meeting and the times we did go out were really fun. I'm just not into this phone and text thing for so long.

Posted by KRA
I'm trying to hang in there. We had such an awesome meeting and the times we did go out were really fun. I'm just not into this phone and text thing for so long.

Tell him that the next time you hang out.

Damn! We started off with so much promise lol

Not all pisces are big into chasing. If you sit on the sidelines, then you will stay there. He may just had a wild hair up his butt the night the approached you.

But I will say, that if he hasn't alluded to you spending time together besides the whole Netflix and chill thing...well he isn't that interested in anything besides sex.

I dunno. We can talk to people over the phone or text, and we normally don't take forever (we can if we aren't that in to you) if we are very interested.

**shrugs**

All I can say is that he won't know what you want, what you like or the reverse if you don't tell him. No one can read minds. You are playing coy, which is fine, but you are kind of shooting yourself in the foot in this situation.

Posted by tbird
Not all pisces are big into chasing. If you sit on the sidelines, then you will stay there. He may just had a wild hair up his butt the night the approached you.

But I will say, that if he hasn't alluded to you spending time together besides the whole Netflix and chill thing...well he isn't that interested in anything besides sex.

I dunno. We can talk to people over the phone or text, and we normally don't take forever (we can if we aren't that in to you) if we are very interested.

**shrugs**

All I can say is that he won't know what you want, what you like or the reverse if you don't tell him. No one can read minds. You are playing coy, which is fine, but you are kind of shooting yourself in the foot in this situation.

That's why I said meet up again face to face if you can, totally agree ?

As an update we had a great convo last night and we are meeting up tomorrow. He expressed that he's interested and hoped that I am as well and that he's interested in getting to know me better. We talked for about 2 hours. We have a ton in common - spiritually and emotionally. He is an attorney and appears to work a ton of hours and said that sometimes he has to be reminded to slow down and that I have permission to do so. I expressed some things that I need and appreciate in a relationship and he was accepting of them. It was all positive and felt good. I'm back in like with him lol