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The Pisces shadow involves tendencies toward victimization, over-sacrifice, and guilt, stemming from their desire for union with the divine. It can manifest as being used or manipulated, often through guilt or compassion. Recognizing these patterns helps Pisces integrate their shadow and harness their spiritual and creative potential healthily.





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You might know, of couse, that nothing is all light. With all those beautiful aspirations and longings for purity, devotion, goodness, mercy, compassion and self-sacrifice, there's bound to be a pretty big wallop of a shadow downstairs. It's always like that of course. And this basic law of life .. that everything comes in opposites .. is nowhere truer than of the sign of Pisces.
Pisces knows no limitations. Nothing less than the union with the divine, the source of life, will suit. Whether this is achieved through religious longing, creative expression, or heroin is not so important as the experience itself. Right? .. Right for Pisces, at any rate .. And the dark fish knows no limits either .. His name is Power.
In ordinary situations, Pisces tends to be the victim. We can meet this figure in many Pisceans. They are the ones who are taken advantage of, used, bled white for money and sympathy, held in bondage through their sympathy, made to feel obligated through their tendency to feel guilty for everybody else's sins. It's almost inevitably the Pisces who stays with the violent husband, nurses the schizophrenic wife, raises the retarded child, supports the ailing mother, gives up this, that or the other thing to help somebody else. It is sometimes very hard to tell whether these are the noblest or the silliest of human beings; and whether they are truly saints, or wield a tremendous power through making the other guy feel hopelessly obliged .. Nobody has quite as much power as a martyr .. maybe it's a little of both.
In "The Iceman Cometh" by Eugene O'Neill there is a character named Harry: an ordinary sort of man with the usual array of vices and virtues. And Harry has a wife who, although we don't know whether Eugene O'Neill practised astrology, must surely be a Pisces. Harry's wife forgives him for everything. No matter how abusive he is, no matter how badly he treats her, she never raises her voice in anger, or rebels, or shows a little bitchiness herself. She always, always forgives. And of course it makes Harry worse. If you make anybody feel guilty, then they will resent you, and if they resent you, then they're going to treat you even more badly the next time. So Harry's treatment of his wife goes downhill, from bad to abominable.