when pisces go quiet and ignore you

what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢

It means you done fucked up..

If I go quite, I'm upset and don't want to talk. But, if you give me a day or a hour (depending on the situation). I'll get over it and won't look back.

what do you mean wont look back?

as in we are done?

How long has it been?

well 2 days

if you want to read the full story read my other topic called scorp girl likes pisces man

thank you so much

so im supposed to get over it and forget about him?

ok that is actually helpful, thank you

and i think its a bit of both, in wich case, should i appologize casually throwing in a joke, via facebook, or should i let him come to me?

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
It means you done fucked up..

+100

I concur

Venus in Pisces here

Posted by sonofthunder
If it was me, it'd mean one if two things..

1. I want you to initiate with me, show that you actually want to talk to me and it's not just me doing all the work.

2. You did or said something to make me not want to speak with you. Could be something small that just made me change my mind about you, or something bigger that made me swim away for good.

But these are just me..your fish could be doing something totally different.

+1 I''m the same in these situations. We don't ignore people we like .

+1 to everypost... to me I never ignore or give up hope ever,. but rather just giving up on the situation we are like turtles if we sense trouble, danger, or assault we hide. then when you are not looking we swim away and hid out in a cave." just went through this my self with a girl I liked and also her friend. I'm hiding because I get feelings hurt inside. I saw something I hate and well Tbh I'm searching for a new set of fish to impress with my shinny colors

No (sorry for the confusion). I was saying won't look back and implying "I won't bring it back up" "won't still be mad about" or "wouldn't hang it over your head anymore"

But again it depends on the situation. Give your friend a while and sincerely apologize and everything will be okay. I'm a pisces and I forgive easily.

this question is asked every week and was never solved on these forums.
And you'll probably get called a ho by P-angel.

When he disappears after you had sex with him and whine and moan and groan he is running for the hills until he gets horny again and he can't find anyone but you to screw. Let this man go....unless that is all you want to be is an option for sex. That is your prerogative.

They're being moody babies and need to be left alone. They'll be back around when the mood swing goes away.

Pisces currently in hiding here....

It means our feelings have been damaged and they are in need of repair. Time could heal and things may be fine OR go completely opposite if they sense the slightest amount of bullshit.

Posted by AfternoonDelights22
It means you done fucked up..

Bingo.

Unlike some other signs around here, we go silent for a very, very distinct reason.

Posted by TruePisces5

Posted by sonofthunder
If it was me, it'd mean one if two things..

1. I want you to initiate with me, show that you actually want to talk to me and it's not just me doing all the work.

2. You did or said something to make me not want to speak with you. Could be something small that just made me change my mind about you, or something bigger that made me swim away for good.

But these are just me..your fish could be doing something totally different.

+1 I''m the same in these situations. We don't ignore people we like .

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yep!

either we're done with you OR we're giving you an opportunity to get off your ass and initiate the communication just once before we lose interest

Pisces sun, asc, venus, mercury and jupiter here 😄

We are annoyed/upset and we are giving you the opportunity to show us how sorry you are. We aren't confrontational unless we absolutely have to be and obviously we aren't there yet or we feel it's less painful to just swim away, because we foresee losing this battle in the future. We won't tell you what you've done wrong, even if you ask, but we would expect you to know! If they're interested in you, they will forgive you with a small gesture or even just over time with some space, but if they've lost interest and the reasoning behind it doesn't even matter anymore, because they've moved on, they won't care how sorry you are.

They're probably doing large quantities of drugs

Posted by Ubermensch
it means they will come back.

Not necessarily. Depends on the person and situations. We are capable of coming back and we are capable of just bouncing with no word.

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Posted by southieface
Pisces currently in hiding here....

It means our feelings have been damaged and they are in need of repair. Time could heal and things may be fine OR go completely opposite if they sense the slightest amount of bullshit.

+1 for me

although ignoring is not a word I would use to describe it

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We could be ignoring, could be healing, or picturing ourselves stabbing them in the fucking face with a spork. Either way. It takes a lot to get us there, so its justified when we do.

Its like , just get the message and move on....please, lifes too short"

I love love alone time, hear that? Total peace and quiet, beautiful!!

We don't ignore people on purpose, just those who bring us down, or try to tell us how we should be and what to do as if we are idiots.

I love advice, good respectful advice, given in a sincere and respectful manner, which is how I try to give it, but if someone even gives me a slight hint they disrespect me/my views/values, I cant be bothered anymore, I'm too old to keep sucking it all in now lol!

Pisces moon & Merc ... Depends how long it's been with no word. I have to be really annoyed. It's when a person really deserves for me to pay zero attention to them anymore.

You were draining me emotionally or someone else did.

I'm taking a break to an imaginary Water Paradise Fun Pirates and Rockets land.....where I'm spending my time talking to an imaginary you till our dispute is settled....

If you didn't get the outcome of our dispute in IRL, it's a red flag...you are unable of communicating telepatically with me...I'm sorry but your EPS sucks! Neeeeext!

One is sure...never in my life have I gone MIA as a way to punish someone! If I dislike someone and want them out of my life...I would say so loud and clear!

To go MIA on you, you must have fallen in the in-between territory....I don't dislike you but I don't like you enough either.

It starts like that: I'm smiling reading your message but don't feel compelled to answer. I actually answer you in my mind but don't feel like writing it down.

It continues: Oops, I should have replied three days ago.....Fuck, he send me another message (which I'm too apprehensive to read). I hope we could still reconnect later adn he's not upset about it.

If ends up: Sheeeet, there have been two weeks and there are 20 UNREAD MESSAGES in my inbox, all from him! I'm scared now! He looks like a stalker to me....

Later on: I'm so relieved he gave up!

Posted by hydorah
either we're done with you OR we're giving you an opportunity to get off your ass and initiate the communication just once before we lose interest

What if a Pisces guy goes quiet for several weeks? THEN comes back as if nothing happened?

(One of my friends is going through this but she's not on here as she doesn't use forums).

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Posted by scorp222
what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢

You are screwed. She or he moved on.

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I'm going to ask the same question to you..

What if a Pisces (a guy in this case), goes quiet for several weeks with no messages, texts etc but THEN comes back as if they never went away??

Posted by pooface222

Posted by hydorah
either we're done with you OR we're giving you an opportunity to get off your ass and initiate the communication just once before we lose interest

What if a Pisces guy goes quiet for several weeks? THEN comes back as if nothing happened?

(One of my friends is going through this but she's not on here as she doesn't use forums).

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honestly it's difficult to tell you what's up with a pisces because pisces can follow more than one mental process at the same time, even contradictory ones.

They may have got frustrated because the other person didn't contact them ? So they 'suddenly appear lol!

The only time my ex disappeared was when he wanted a breakup and didnt know how to say it and never said it......

The user who posted this message has hidden it... again.

They only do it because they know that it fucks with you. If it doesn't, then they'll go cray cray. From my experience, just remind them that they aren't what they purport to be. Because they aren't.

Posted by GeminiMind
They only do it because they know that it fucks with you. If it doesn't, then they'll go cray cray. From my experience, just remind them that they aren't what they purport to be. Because they aren't.

You are an idiot who clearly doesn't know much about Pisceans.

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Posted by GeminiMind
They only do it because they know that it fucks with you. If it doesn't, then they'll go cray cray. From my experience, just remind them that they aren't what they purport to be. Because they aren't.

You are an idiot who clearly doesn't know much about Pisceans.

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Thank you for proving my point.

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Posted by AnOdeToNoOne

Posted by GeminiMind
They only do it because they know that it fucks with you. If it doesn't, then they'll go cray cray. From my experience, just remind them that they aren't what they purport to be. Because they aren't.

You are an idiot who clearly doesn't know much about Pisceans.

Thank you for proving my point.

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Yes, it is well established that you are an idiot.

Glad we could solidify that.

My best friend, a Leo, we sometimes don't speak for days, but always pick up and chat like we've never spent any time apart, its so nice and refreshing not having someone asking me why I didn't text, why I didn't call, nothing is ever said, we are just always there for each other when needed.

Lovely!

seriously ask yourself when is the last time YOU actually iniitiated any contact and by all means don't ever play games.

Posted by lifepath8piscis
Maybe he/she is simply not in the mood for chat.... simple as that.

some times the fish needs a break from the whole world. I am feeling this way right now to be honest.

no calls, no texts, no messages are desired. Thanks to those who understand and give me my space.- those are the people I usually go back to.

Posted by scorp222
what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢

Are you an important person in my life, or just some "good" friend.

Sometimes i become social and try to find new friends . but if you dont intrigue me enough and i get bored i will ignore you completely. Forget you are there.

If i am depressed, I will block everyone out of my life.

If you have made me mad, and overwhelmed with emotions... possibly even sad, i will ignore you to process everything and see if you are worth my time. I will hide and not contact you.

You're being too sensitive

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Posted by Scrumptious
They're probably doing large quantities of drugs

obviously this.

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My experience. And they'll go silent on you even when they fuck up. Sometimes they will come back but only for help. Just let it go and move on before you get greys.

as a quadruple pisces i have to say that when I go quiet it three things 1 I am too emotional or lazy to respond 2, I'm super busy or 3 I don't want you anymore or am irritated

For me it's, I'm pissed off at you. It could be something petty I'm making into a bigger deal then it is, or it could be my feelings are hurt by something she said. You know us sensitive Pisces. But like some others have said give me a little while or let me sleep on it I'll be ok.

if you made me. mad and sad, i will ignore you to process everything.

if there is something I don't like, I will try to put up with it first and see how's thing going

if I can't stand it I'll let you know, and if u keep do that, then I had enough & I'll just disappear from you.

Depends on the length of time, Pisceans absorb alot of emotion, if they become overwhelmed it can even become physically tiring or exhaustive and they might just need some alone time to themselves to think and reflect and recharge. Usually this could take a day or so and they usually come right back if it was them and not you. Now if they really didn't want you in their lives, believe me - you would realize that if it was at least a week. My ex Pisces hated being alone, it was one of her biggest fears. They love the company of others in their usually tight knit circle of friends. My brother Pisces is like this, my ex is like this, every Pisces I've ever known is like this. If they don't consider you in their proverbial school of fish, the term 'silence can seem so loud' will be deafening if it was you and not them. At the same time, if they still want you in their life, they'll seek your attention. Just don't assume a silent treatment prematurely or aggressively provoke them during this period, many of their decisions are based on what they feel in the heart. Pushing for attention would likely rub them the wrong way. They're like free spirits, they don't want to feel that conversing with someone is some mandated obligation. Although if a week goes by and you're both really close but there's still like an awkward silence between ya. I could see maybe checking in with them but in a sympathetic way to see if everything is okay would be in order but even my current Pisces and I might have an off day or so every now and then - but patience is an absolutely appreciated virtue in this regard. But she comes around and were like peas in a pod again. If you KNOW you may have hurt them, then absolutely apologize and really mean it cause with their sixth sense, they can sense BS a world away and they aren't afraid of ejecting bad influences cause more often than not, toxic emotional baggage lifts a boulder off their shoulders when they purge it from their world. Many times my ex would phrase things about those that hurt her as being dead to her or unfriend those that enjoy hurting others.

If you stop being an asshole and apologize for whatever fucked up shit you did, then that might make the Piscean have second thoughts about getting the hell away from you.

Get your shit together, and own up for what you did to the person.

Otherwise, KMA will be the justifiable response from us.

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Posted by scorp222
what does that mean? just like that, out of nowhere, no texts, no facebook messages, no answers 😢

Are you an important person in my life, or just some "good" friend.

Sometimes i become social and try to find new friends . but if you dont intrigue me enough and i get bored i will ignore you completely. Forget you are there.

If i am depressed, I will block everyone out of my life.

If you have made me mad, and overwhelmed with emotions... possibly even sad, i will ignore you to process everything and see if you are worth my time. I will hide and not contact you.

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Unfortunately, this. Sometimes I wait for you to contact me to see if you care enough. This is at least how I used to be but I recognize that no one is a mind reader and communication - regardless of how much I want to Ice them out - is key.