Hey guys, can you give me some insight on this placement (probably combined with lots of earth/fire)? What are you looking for in a relationship? When do you fall in love and what does it take? Do you differ between sex and emotions? Fire away! I'm curious! 🙂
Venus in Pisces
Posted by waterbearer_femHi ?
Hey guys, can you give me some insight on this placement (probably combined with lots of earth/fire)? What are you looking for in a relationship? When do you fall in love and what does it take? Do you differ between sex and emotions? Fire away! I'm curious! 🙂
I am Capricorn with Venus in Pisces. AND combined with lots of Earth.
For example - I have Capricorn in Sun, Moon, Mercury and Mars.
I find that when I am looking for a relationship, I really want Connection. Deep, emotional connection. So not just having the same interests - which is a great start though - but connection that goes into shared life experiences that we both had before we met - this creates understanding of each other.
Then I like connection that means we both have similar personalities; we respond to each other in the same way; we respond to things we both like in the same way; we have similar habits - good or bad ones x
I want to feel as if I have known a man my whole life, even though I've only just met him.
The most gorgeous thing is to discover that he 'gets' me, and I 'get' him.
When falling in love, it tends to happen when I least expect it. It's when I've been single for a while and I have stopped looking. That's when he walks into my life for the very first time. I love it when that happens! ??
You asked 'What does it take..' Well for me, a man needs to be able to take my breath away the first time I set eyes on him. I believe in Love at First Sight.
I do differ between sex and emotions. However once myself and a man have got too a level where its obvious we are both very deeply into each other - and we haven't had sex yet - I start to combine sex & emotions. The reason is that as I am falling deeper in love, I start to feel something much deeper than just being horny for that man. I feel a deep need to connect with him physically so that when we finally make love, it's as if everything we have built up together through talking and being together, needs to be released through touch and nakedness and expressing everything you feel for each other physically.
I hope all of that makes sense?
I believe sex/love - making, starts in your mind using fantasy, be it emotional or sexual. You are thinking, dreaming and longing for that person. Then you combine your fantasies with your feelings, and finally you take your fantasies and feelings with you into bed with that person and it all comes out when you make love.
So that's me.
Hope this answers your questions ?
Posted by cvurkoHi ..I totally get what you said here. I've just posted my response and now I'm reading yours. It's pretty similar to mine ? For example you said that sex is only good when the emotional connection is deep between the partners! HELL YES! Totally!
Fall in love pretty quickly, mostly to an illusion created in our mind (unless you are aware of that and ground yourself strobgly on purpose). Sex and emotions are linked and sex is only good when the emotional conncetion between partners is deep and strong. You almost enter a state of trance while making love. This may be different for the native depending on other placements.
If this placement isnt balanced out in the natal chart or by the native himself, there is a risk of elusiveness, multiple partners, manipulation and stuff like that.
In a relationship, if the native isnt grounded, he might suddenly distance himself when his illusion meet reality and he understanda that the partner is different from what he thought. If the partners pass this moment and stay together the native can be a very loyal and loving partner.
Btw dont try to manipulate a venus in pisces in relationships cause it prolly wont turn out well for u. Be more direct and honest instead. Trust is pretty important for us as we know when we are being lied to
God i am so thankful for my aqua, cap and scorp placements.
Also..entering a state of trance while making love! Yes yes yes xx ??
Posted by -Flo-Yup that's me too. I pour my entire being into a person but nothing back. Especially my husband!Posted by yupvirgooYesPosted by cvurkoMy wife is a Pisces venus too.
Fall in love pretty quickly, mostly to an illusion created in our mind (unless you are aware of that and ground yourself strobgly on purpose). Sex and emotions are linked and sex is only good when the emotional conncetion between partners is deep and strong. You almost enter a state of trance while making love. This may be different for the native depending on other placements.
If this placement isnt balanced out in the natal chart or by the native himself, there is a risk of elusiveness, multiple partners, manipulation and stuff like that.
In a relationship, if the native isnt grounded, he might suddenly distance himself when his illusion meets the reality and he understanda that the partner is different from what he thought. If the partners pass this moment and stay together the native can be a very loyal and loving partner.
Btw dont try to manipulate a venus in pisces in relationships cause it prolly wont turn out well for u. Be more direct and honest instead. Trust is pretty important for us as we know when we are being lied to
God i am so thankful for my aqua, cap and scorp placements.
Does this mean that you tend to put your partner on a pedestal?
We pour our whole beings into them. It's pretty sad when we don't receive the same in return and most of the time ViP people don't.click to expand
Just noticed you wrote Venus in Pisces as ViP x Very Important Persons we are too ?

Posted by cvurko
Fall in love pretty quickly, mostly to an illusion created in our mind (unless you are aware of that and ground yourself strobgly on purpose). Sex and emotions are linked and sex is only good when the emotional conncetion between partners is deep and strong. You almost enter a state of trance while making love. This may be different for the native depending on other placements.
If this placement isnt balanced out in the natal chart or by the native himself, there is a risk of elusiveness, multiple partners, manipulation and stuff like that.
In a relationship, if the native isnt grounded, he might suddenly distance himself when his illusion meet reality and he understanda that the partner is different from what he thought. If the partners pass this moment and stay together the native can be a very loyal and loving partner.
Btw dont try to manipulate a venus in pisces in relationships cause it prolly wont turn out well for u. Be more direct and honest instead. Trust is pretty important for us as we know when we are being lied to
God i am so thankful for my aqua, cap and scorp placements.
Interesting, I have Venus in Pisces and I agree. when there is a deep connection with the other person sex is magical. Sometimes I get so into it I don't recall the exact positions or things we do, I get lost in it.
I love this about me! because sex for me isn't just something physical but is something that is felt deep down and joins two people into ONE.
Manipulation: yes! don't try to manipulate me into a relationship because I can see through it and will stay away from you.

Posted by PootyButtI do, when I'm really into someone I can't see someone else the same way. I admire my partner but I also seek admiration from him.
There's a tendency to make their partner their entire world. I'm sure they're capable of intellectually understanding the difference between love and sex, but in practice, they're the same for them. This is the kind of guy who masturbates to fantasies of his girlfriend.

Posted by yupvirgooYes. We admire our partners BUT we also want to be admired as the good women we are.Posted by cvurkoMy wife is a Pisces venus too.
Fall in love pretty quickly, mostly to an illusion created in our mind (unless you are aware of that and ground yourself strobgly on purpose). Sex and emotions are linked and sex is only good when the emotional conncetion between partners is deep and strong. You almost enter a state of trance while making love. This may be different for the native depending on other placements.
If this placement isnt balanced out in the natal chart or by the native himself, there is a risk of elusiveness, multiple partners, manipulation and stuff like that.
In a relationship, if the native isnt grounded, he might suddenly distance himself when his illusion meets the reality and he understanda that the partner is different from what he thought. If the partners pass this moment and stay together the native can be a very loyal and loving partner.
Btw dont try to manipulate a venus in pisces in relationships cause it prolly wont turn out well for u. Be more direct and honest instead. Trust is pretty important for us as we know when we are being lied to
God i am so thankful for my aqua, cap and scorp placements.
Does this mean that you tend to put your partner on a pedestal?click to expand
We know you aren't perfect ... but we will admire you for the things you do and the commitment you make to us.

Posted by -Flo-You have Venus in Pisces?Posted by yupvirgooYesPosted by cvurkoMy wife is a Pisces venus too.
Fall in love pretty quickly, mostly to an illusion created in our mind (unless you are aware of that and ground yourself strobgly on purpose). Sex and emotions are linked and sex is only good when the emotional conncetion between partners is deep and strong. You almost enter a state of trance while making love. This may be different for the native depending on other placements.
If this placement isnt balanced out in the natal chart or by the native himself, there is a risk of elusiveness, multiple partners, manipulation and stuff like that.
In a relationship, if the native isnt grounded, he might suddenly distance himself when his illusion meets the reality and he understanda that the partner is different from what he thought. If the partners pass this moment and stay together the native can be a very loyal and loving partner.
Btw dont try to manipulate a venus in pisces in relationships cause it prolly wont turn out well for u. Be more direct and honest instead. Trust is pretty important for us as we know when we are being lied to
God i am so thankful for my aqua, cap and scorp placements.
Does this mean that you tend to put your partner on a pedestal?
We pour our whole beings into them. It's pretty sad when we don't receive the same in return and most of the time ViP people don't.click to expand
lol me too! haha I think our Aqua sun helps a little so we don't go overboard.
I fall quick for guys but at the same time I get over them quicker.
First I look for things that I would admire them for, I don't like flaky, comformists, submissive guys. If I find things that tell me they are not Alpha males...I lose interest.
In terms of Alpha, Betas.. I'm an Alpha.. and I look for an Alpha male to walk together next to each other.
Thank you so much everybody for giving me some insight! The ViP guy I'm dealing with is pretty cool on the surface, but he tells another story when it's getting physical.. He's actually water dominant like me and his Venus plays a big part in his chart.. so it seems like you're control freaks because you're vulnerable and afraid of getting hurt? No offense, I am one too. 😉 But how can I show him that I'm no threat?

I have earth and fire placements as well as Pisces Venus.
What are you looking for in a relationship?
I am looking for a powerful emotional connection and somewhat of a dreamy quality in a relationship.
When do you fall in love and what does it take?
Being a very picky person with high standards, I don't fall fast, unless someone has left a very good and vivid impression on me. I, however, often find myself attracted to people who need help, who are sick or have problems in their lives. Why, you may ask? Because I have had them as well.
Do you differ between sex and emotions?
Never had either one of them.
What are you looking for in a relationship?
I am looking for a powerful emotional connection and somewhat of a dreamy quality in a relationship.
When do you fall in love and what does it take?
Being a very picky person with high standards, I don't fall fast, unless someone has left a very good and vivid impression on me. I, however, often find myself attracted to people who need help, who are sick or have problems in their lives. Why, you may ask? Because I have had them as well.
Do you differ between sex and emotions?
Never had either one of them.

Venus in Pisces is looking for a soulmate. Period. Sex for sex sake is alien to this placement. ViP almost loses themselves in their partner, preferring to become one with another individual. No boundaries. This is what makes successful relationships hardest, IMHO. Even harder than idealizing a partner. because even ViP people can experience disillusion, but they can never stop wishing to love all encompassingly.
I have this placement in the 12th house.
I have this placement in the 12th house.

One of my favorite sweet expressions is " I could kiss you for hours' and it has always fallen on deaf ears

Therefore I think its true that Venus Pisces does love like a Pisces.

Perhaps that's why ss a Pisces sun, although not venus ive found it hard to find a mutual total love and understanding x
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