Why do pisces men like to play games with women?

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i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...
I think mine is doing the emo manipulation and mind games atm. Since he said he's falling in love with me and I had to be honest and say I'm not quite there but not far behind, you've got me I'm not going anywhere. He's been funny and pulled back. Level of communication has dipped and not spending much time together Etc.

My ex who was also a Pisces was loyal and never cheated, but was prone to lying about silly things and emo manipulation was a fav game of his.
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Have you considered he's confused?

Ask him directly why πŸ™‚
Confused, about what?
You know him. We sometimes can be overwhelmed by feelings/emotions.

I don't know the guy but you do. You've spent time with him. But feeling confused is a big thing. It makes you think. So maybe ask him what's on his mind.
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would that cause him to send me texts and not respond when I do and to disappear and to reappear. I havent initiated contact with him. he is the one to text me first. We went our separate ways because he didnt know what he wanted and seemed inconsistent
Or does he want to make sure I dont move on?
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Have you considered he's confused?

Ask him directly why πŸ™‚
Confused, about what?
You know him. We sometimes can be overwhelmed by feelings/emotions.

I don't know the guy but you do. You've spent time with him. But feeling confused is a big thing. It makes you think. So maybe ask him what's on his mind.
would that cause him to send me texts and not respond when I do and to disappear and to reappear. I havent initiated contact with him. he is the one to text me first. We went our separate ways because he didnt know what he wanted and seemed inconsistent
Or does he want to make sure I dont move on?
That would be cruel to me as a Pisces. I couldn't do that. But I know Aries can. Maybe if someone could look at his chart for you they could advise further.

People disappear for numerous of reasons. Currently I know that feeling. Which leaves unanswered questions

Personally I don't like being ignored so. I would say to you don't reply. He'll either get bored and stop or he'll have to change what he's doing.

What is it you want from him?
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Its rude to ignore a persons messages i guess i dont know what he wants from me
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i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...
I think mine is doing the emo manipulation and mind games atm. Since he said he's falling in love with me and I had to be honest and say I'm not quite there but not far behind, you've got me I'm not going anywhere. He's been funny and pulled back. Level of communication has dipped and not spending much time together Etc.

My ex who was also a Pisces was loyal and never cheated, but was prone to lying about silly things and emo manipulation was a fav game of his.
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my ex was talking to other girls while he was talking to me in the beginning, then i said im not going to put up with that so bye and that is when he said he loved me and asked if i loved him too...they will tryyyyyyyyyyy to manipulate you into saying it....
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i dated a Pisces once, he was a cheater and played a lot of mind games and used a lot of emotional manipulation, he LOVED to see me cry. It is because of him that i can spot a liar from a mile away now...
I think mine is doing the emo manipulation and mind games atm. Since he said he's falling in love with me and I had to be honest and say I'm not quite there but not far behind, you've got me I'm not going anywhere. He's been funny and pulled back. Level of communication has dipped and not spending much time together Etc.

My ex who was also a Pisces was loyal and never cheated, but was prone to lying about silly things and emo manipulation was a fav game of his.
my ex was talking to other girls while he was talking to me in the beginning, then i said im not going to put up with that so bye and that is when he said he loved me and asked if i loved him too...they will tryyyyyyyyyyy to manipulate you into saying it....
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Lol that won't work with me I see that shit a mile off.

I told him I have feelings but I'm not quite there, as in falling in love just yet. Behaving like this has me going in the opposite direction. I will not chase someone that shows no signs of interest, actions speak louder than words.

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Sounds to me like you enjoy playing, since you acknowledge he's not treating you right, while you continue to give him attention.


that means you are just playing him for whatever attention you can get from him


A Pisces is going to realize from jump street what your intentions are .... so, he likely realized immediately that you are shallow enough to respond to superficial sentiment ... so, as a typical Pisces, he'll entertain himself with a dumbass when he's bored.


It's all tit for tat .... so, why are you bitching? ... other than you feel like being a bitch?
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Pisces likes to play mind games, I deal with same situation dating a Pisces guy, they are liar, manipulator. He ignore my text then one day disappear without any contact only to reappear back like nothing happen. I ignore and stop all contacts with him which make him mad and when he saw me with one of guy friend, He start to blasting my inbox with messages. They just want nothing but attention don't give it to them, they just play games and when they get bored they will disappear
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but then again, i'm pro-ghosting so i'm confused why this is an issue

Your type of manipulation is Earthy...lmao



Everyone manipulates, we just all have different avenues of focus.

Water signs definitely have more of a tendency towards the emotional type, since that is their strength.

Your brand might be more of the guilt-tripping... Virgoean type. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

And criticizing πŸ˜‚πŸ‘πŸΌ
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far as i'm concerned, crying wolf involves guilt-tripping too

crying wolf, hidden cthulhu
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they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities

like they can look like a 4 and act up like this

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Hahahaha... you are so funny!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£
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i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?

guilt.

boom emotional manipulation.
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they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities

like they can look like a 4 and act up like this

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Hahahaha... you are so funny!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?

guilt.

boom emotional manipulation.

Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !

Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.
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yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it

and even got angry with me
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they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities

like they can look like a 4 and act up like this

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Hahahaha... you are so funny!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?

guilt.

boom emotional manipulation.

Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !

Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.

yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it

and even got angry with me

I remember that story. You went out of your way for him and took him seriously, and even had a door knocked down, right? He was being very manipulative. Using true feelings to screw with you, I think.
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yes and i got so hurt that i avoided him

i was recently hospitalized for an ear problem and he got worried and sent me a message and i did reply politely BUT curtly so that the convo won't be for long

just don't want that shit to happen again
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they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities

like they can look like a 4 and act up like this

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Hahahaha... you are so funny!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?

guilt.

boom emotional manipulation.

Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !

Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.

yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it

and even got angry with me

Too bad huh ? maybe you should not go there so he would do it for real next time.
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wow you're a fucking asshole

you must be such a better friend than me and know everything about this man
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Posted by MareInfame
Posted by virgoOPPP

they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities

like they can look like a 4 and act up like this

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Hahahaha... you are so funny!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?

guilt.

boom emotional manipulation.

Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !

Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.

yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it

and even got angry with me

I remember that story. You went out of your way for him and took him seriously, and even had a door knocked down, right? He was being very manipulative. Using true feelings to screw with you, I think.

yes and i got so hurt that i avoided him

i was recently hospitalized for an ear problem and he got worried and sent me a message and i did replied politely BUT curtly so that the convo won't be for long

just don't want that shit to happen again

Very understandable. I hope your ear is better.
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thanks it is πŸ™‚
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well i know of a pisces guy we kind of flirted in the past but we were mostly like friends , he went through some breakup because his gf cheated on him or something. we talked about it and i asked if he was okay. he messaged me and i said i'm open to talk, but he knows im in a relationship and he keeps bringing up sexual topics so i turned him down. yesterday he messaged me saying hi and i asked how he was and he was all like "the only reason i messaged you earlier was because i was horny". i deleted and blocked him, it feels good.

but now i feel guilty
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they're emotionally manipulative, preying on others' vulnerabilities

like they can look like a 4 and act up like this

Image Not Found



Hahahaha... you are so funny!! πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

i mean if someone texts me that they're gonna kill themselves and send a pic of a poison bottle then be like 'it's okay coz i know you're busy at work so don't worry.' then how am i supposed to feel?

guilt.

boom emotional manipulation.

Sane people mind : Oh my god, my lover would kill himself ! i cant let it happen i love him !

Moron thought : He must be trying to manipulate me, lol. *The next die he found dead* Wow, i know im so so so genius and know every damn thing.

yeah listen i went there and he didn't go through with it

and even got angry with me

Too bad huh ? maybe you should not go there so he would do it for real next time.

wow you're a fucking asshole

you must be such a better friend than me and know everything about this man

I thought the one whose asshole are the one who had a bad tgought thinking a man who said he would do a suicide must be a lie and it must be manipulation.
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i didn't assume he was manipulating. in fact, i believed him and had his door broken down coz it was locked from the inside. i'm not really angry, i'm mostly hurt. doesn't matter now, that's already happened.
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Posted by MsTeeq1974

In my experience Pisces men are flakes. I have noticed that they can only have "one love" and until they truly move on from that person (even if the person is continents away), they can't really take anyone else serious. I also know that Pisces men will put up with a lot of crap from that one love that they have. Everyone else is disposable.

This is so true! I had a fling with a pisces sun, cancer moon man and he was completely closed off to anyone but his ex. From my experience I find that both pisces and cancers get fixated on one person, even if the relationship is dead and gone, and even if you're the better option.

There's no bigger turnoff IMO than someone who can't let go of a failed relationship. Nothing like feeling like a sloppy second.

Sometimes it's best to crush these types if they keep playing games. Just best him out and he'll come crawling back ... But at that point do you even want him anymore? Who wants someone that insecure?