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Hey everyone. I have been lurking here for a while now and decided to join. I've been seeing an older woman (25 years older) for a couple of months now. We met a year ago and hit it off right away. So far, this has been the best relationship I've everโฆ
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Go for it, love to hear from those who have feltโฆ
You have to pick at max 3 whether its house overlays or aspects, as in if a synastry has these 3 house overlays and aspects then it is bound to have hot sex oozing fromโฆ
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Like you look on Astro Seek when you have your birthday and then put in another person's to get an idea of how passionate versus loving a relationship is. What if there was a way to put in your birthday and then find which birthdays would have theโฆ
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Say you have the squares and opposites, maybe even a double whammy of the two, in a synastry. Does this mean the two of you are attracted to each other in an odd way or just repulsed? How much does house placement matterโฆ
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What are your thoughts on aspects that lead to this? Mines is if someone is say Neptune or Uranus and that is the planet making contact with the inner planets but the others is not. Un-even houseโฆ
like the creepy guy chasing the girl that is notโฆ
Source: https://insightastrology.net/relationship-astrology/squares-in-synastry/
How can squares in synastry lead to a healthy relationship?
๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ โ Overcoming squares in synastry, especially the ones that are causing a lot of misunderstanding and conflict, is all about practicing empathy. We need to see from the other personโs perspective, a perspective that may seem completely alien to us. We need the gifts of Neptune to imagine what it is like to be them, with their particularly astrological traits and neuroses.
๐๐๐ญ ๐ ๐จ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ โ Sometimes we need to recognise that the conflict in our relationships, whether caused by squares in synastry or other factors, is not going to go away until one person backs down. By remaining conscious and present you can often see when the issue between you is just not worth the unhappiness caused by the conflict. Surrendering your position, as long as it is done with good will, completely disarms the other and leaves you both free to enjoy each others company.
๐๐๐๐๐ฉ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐ โ The unfortunate reality is that none of us are perfect, but some of us have yet to accept this. We may beat ourselves up for our own faults or we may harass others for theirs, but neither approach is very useful. Accepting ourselves and others as we are, especially when this does not fit the model of how we would like things to be, is a fundamental step towards developing healthy relationships.
๐๐๐ค๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ง๐๐๐๐ฌ โ Itโs easy to blame others for failing to meet our needs and squares in synastry make this more likely. For example a woman with Venus square her partnerโs Mars may feel angry that they are rough and ready in the bedroom when what she craves is sensuality. If in all other ways the relationship is a good one, this woman might consider meeting her need for sensuality elsewhere, such as by enjoying a perfumed bath or having a professional massage.
๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐๐๐ญ๐ โ Communication is vital in any relationship and the misunderstandings caused by squares in synastry make it all the more important. Never assume the other person understands where youโre coming from, or blame them for failing to โget youโ when you havenโt been clear about how you see the world, your needs or your feelings.