
serenidad
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Posted by MyStarsShine
My sister had many squares in her chart including sun square Moon
She was one of the most difficult, tense and unkind people i knew. She battled with herself so much, full of conflict and neuroses
Leo Sun, Merc, Venus, Pluto
Scorpio Moon, Mars, MC
Cap rising

Posted by PoshChickenLove1111Posted by MyStarsShine
My sister had many squares in her chart including sun square Moon
She was one of the most difficult, tense and unkind people i knew. She battled with herself so much, full of conflict and neuroses
Leo Sun, Merc, Venus, Pluto
Scorpio Moon, Mars, MC
Cap rising
wow.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by PoshChickenLove1111Posted by MyStarsShine
My sister had many squares in her chart including sun square Moon
She was one of the most difficult, tense and unkind people i knew. She battled with herself so much, full of conflict and neuroses
Leo Sun, Merc, Venus, Pluto
Scorpio Moon, Mars, MC
Cap rising
wow.
Wow ๐ฎ indeed
Itโs quite the chart isnโt it?click to expand
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How can squares in synastry lead to a healthy relationship?
๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ โ Overcoming squares in synastry, especially the ones that are causing a lot of misunderstanding and conflict, is all about practicing empathy. We need to see from the other personโs perspective, a perspective that may seem completely alien to us. We need the gifts of Neptune to imagine what it is like to be them, with their particularly astrological traits and neuroses.
๐๐๐ญ ๐ ๐จ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ โ Sometimes we need to recognise that the conflict in our relationships, whether caused by squares in synastry or other factors, is not going to go away until one person backs down. By remaining conscious and present you can often see when the issue between you is just not worth the unhappiness caused by the conflict. Surrendering your position, as long as it is done with good will, completely disarms the other and leaves you both free to enjoy each others company.
๐๐๐๐๐ฉ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐๐ซ๐ โ The unfortunate reality is that none of us are perfect, but some of us have yet to accept this. We may beat ourselves up for our own faults or we may harass others for theirs, but neither approach is very useful. Accepting ourselves and others as we are, especially when this does not fit the model of how we would like things to be, is a fundamental step towards developing healthy relationships.
๐๐๐ค๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ง๐๐๐๐ฌ โ Itโs easy to blame others for failing to meet our needs and squares in synastry make this more likely. For example a woman with Venus square her partnerโs Mars may feel angry that they are rough and ready in the bedroom when what she craves is sensuality. If in all other ways the relationship is a good one, this woman might consider meeting her need for sensuality elsewhere, such as by enjoying a perfumed bath or having a professional massage.
๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐๐๐ญ๐ โ Communication is vital in any relationship and the misunderstandings caused by squares in synastry make it all the more important. Never assume the other person understands where youโre coming from, or blame them for failing to โget youโ when you havenโt been clear about how you see the world, your needs or your feelings.