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A Relationship that Never Leaves the Honeymoon Phase (Page 2)
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Posted by MyStarsShine
@tizianiDid you ever live with a woman tiz?
Yes I did. What makes you ask?
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I just wondered how it was for you and the length of time it lasted ?
Posted by DMV
Is it possible?What aspects in synastry could help this?
Have you ever had a relationship like this?
Isn't that the "ideal" relationship? That relationship you see on the Hallmark channel?
I think everyone wants that type or relationship. I know I do. However, I'm gonna be pessimistic for a second and say that it will never happen for me.
I had it for 6 months.
I believe for lots of people, there is a shelf life for this kind of phase in a relationship
Maybe that is why so many people go off and have affairs, to recapture that feeling....?
I think you're exactly right
Familiarity can at times breed contempt.....if I ever choose to have a relationship again, we will have separate houses. The domestic thing can kill the romantic side of the relationship. I like the saying *absence makes the heart grow fonder*
🙂
Yea, that wouldn't fly with me! I gotta have my woman close to me
Makes it more exciting with a little distance ... 🙂
While dating, sure! Once I have my prize, nope.
From my observations, it seems women are the ones that want to live separately.
Of course they do. They want that freedom and independence. Yet, wonder why guys refuse to put forth effort anymore or commit
Not so much freedom with the ones I have met.....more like not wanting to be burdened with the domestic stuff....especially after raising children. I have known women say they don't want to be minding a man after experiencing the constant nurturing of motherhood, which can be very tiring
That's having a booty call, imo.
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Really? I know women who have monogamous rships with men for years but don't live together.....how can that be classed as a booty call just because they choose separate living quarters?
Unless you are a very rich kid who doesn't have to work for the rest of life.
What the hell does this mean?
Are you implying that money can buy love? And you even got likes, so that means there are more of you who think money can buy love.
How fucking bizarre !!!!!
I'm not sure if you are being sarcastic or serious.
I stated in my comment that it is physically impossible to have a honeymoon which lasts for the rest of your life without being rich. I mean, who's going to make the money?
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Arent the 2 people working when they meet each other?
I dont mean honeymoon as in the after wedding trip to the bahamas.
Posted by DMV
Is it possible?What aspects in synastry could help this?
Have you ever had a relationship like this?
Isn't that the "ideal" relationship? That relationship you see on the Hallmark channel?
I think everyone wants that type or relationship. I know I do. However, I'm gonna be pessimistic for a second and say that it will never happen for me.
I had it for 6 months.
I believe for lots of people, there is a shelf life for this kind of phase in a relationship
Maybe that is why so many people go off and have affairs, to recapture that feeling....?
I think you're exactly right
Familiarity can at times breed contempt.....if I ever choose to have a relationship again, we will have separate houses. The domestic thing can kill the romantic side of the relationship. I like the saying *absence makes the heart grow fonder*
🙂
Yea, that wouldn't fly with me! I gotta have my woman close to me
Makes it more exciting with a little distance ... 🙂
While dating, sure! Once I have my prize, nope.
From my observations, it seems women are the ones that want to live separately.
Of course they do. They want that freedom and independence. Yet, wonder why guys refuse to put forth effort anymore or commit
Not so much freedom with the ones I have met.....more like not wanting to be burdened with the domestic stuff....especially after raising children. I have known women say they don't want to be minding a man after experiencing the constant nurturing of motherhood, which can be very tiring
That's having a booty call, imo.
Really? I know women who have monogamous rships with men for years but don't live together.....how can that be classed as a booty call just because they choose separate living quarters?
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What else would you call it? FWB?
Not living together ✅
Not spending time learning each other ✅
Netflix and chilling ✅
Unless you are a very rich kid who doesn't have to work for the rest of life.
What the hell does this mean?
Are you implying that money can buy love? And you even got likes, so that means there are more of you who think money can buy love.
How fucking bizarre !!!!!
I'm not sure if you are being sarcastic or serious.
I stated in my comment that it is physically impossible to have a honeymoon which lasts for the rest of your life without being rich. I mean, who's going to make the money?
Arent the 2 people working when they meet each other?
I dont mean honeymoon as in the after wedding trip to the bahamas.
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If you intended to say that, you should had specified it in the original post.
When one partners moon conjuncts the others sun. I see this placement with the longest lasting relationships, I'm not sure if they feel like they are still in "the honey moon" phase.
Unless you are a very rich kid who doesn't have to work for the rest of life.
What the hell does this mean?
Are you implying that money can buy love? And you even got likes, so that means there are more of you who think money can buy love.
How fucking bizarre !!!!!
I'm not sure if you are being sarcastic or serious.
I stated in my comment that it is physically impossible to have a honeymoon which lasts for the rest of your life without being rich. I mean, who's going to make the money?
Arent the 2 people working when they meet each other?
I dont mean honeymoon as in the after wedding trip to the bahamas.
If you intended to say that, you should had specified it in the original post.
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No need to get snippy. I did say "phase" and not "trip"
Unless you are a very rich kid who doesn't have to work for the rest of life.
What the hell does this mean?
Are you implying that money can buy love? And you even got likes, so that means there are more of you who think money can buy love.
How fucking bizarre !!!!!
I'm not sure if you are being sarcastic or serious.
I stated in my comment that it is physically impossible to have a honeymoon which lasts for the rest of your life without being rich. I mean, who's going to make the money?
wtf? ....
The conversation is about a state of mind, or more accurately, a state of relating ..... not an actual honeymoon, where two people are off on a romantic vacation.
I can't believe you're serious ... did you just crawl out from under a rock?
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You have to admit that faux pau was cute lol
P Angel is right tho, 7 people liked that post lol
Posted by yupvirgoo
People have always commented that my wife and I always seem to be in a honeymoon phase since we can be really uhm too affectionate in public lol, makes people barf. They're surprised when they find out we've been married for years. It's not that we don't have petty arguments sometimes but we're mostly very.. icky sweet lol.It's probably coz we're very tactile.
Touch and subsequent oxytocin are key for making relationships last.
There have been studies on this.
There are even some couples that abstain from sex but cuddle every night that are as happy as they were the first time they started dating years ..often decades prior.
Oxytocin is the bonding/connectedness chemical.
Moon mars contacts in synastry have always turned into long lasting hot love
Posted by halalbabe
Love can die many times in a relationship, only to be reborn. But it can never be restored
I think it can be and is often restored but just in a different form.
You can still love someone as much as you did in the beginning of the relationship but the passion may not be there. It doesn't mean you love them less. You just don't crave them anymore.
"Love" or specifically those chemicals that are released when one thinks they are in love ......result in us craving more contact with that person ....in essence they become our drug.
If the honeymoon phase lasted indefinitely nothing would ever get done.
I know I definitely couldn't be a responsible parent or be the best at my job if I were that obsessed with someone all of the time.
It's destructive.
Mars/Venus is closeness and adoring for me.
Venus/Saturn is long lasting through thick and thin. It's heavy but strong
Mars/Neptune contacts both ways is a consistent high off each other.
The conjunct provides a fantastic/idealistic element without even trying. I love this feeling personally, it’s an eternal craving.
Awww you and the Sagg are back on
Posted by halalbabe
Love can die many times in a relationship, only to be reborn. But it can never be restoredI think it can be and is often restored but just in a different form.
You can still love someone as much as you did in the beginning of the relationship but the passion may not be there. It doesn't mean you love them less. You just don't crave them anymore.
"Love" or specifically those chemicals that are released when one thinks they are in love ......result in us craving more contact with that person ....in essence they become our drug.
If the honeymoon phase lasted indefinitely nothing would ever get done.
I know I definitely couldn't be a responsible parent or be the best at my job if I were that obsessed with someone all of the time.
It's destructive.
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ya I once saw mars/neptune described as orgasm addiction, I had to read that article a couple of times.
do not have kids together!
Posted by halalbabe
Love can die many times in a relationship, only to be reborn. But it can never be restoredI think it can be and is often restored but just in a different form.
You can still love someone as much as you did in the beginning of the relationship but the passion may not be there. It doesn't mean you love them less. You just don't crave them anymore.
"Love" or specifically those chemicals that are released when one thinks they are in love ......result in us craving more contact with that person ....in essence they become our drug.
If the honeymoon phase lasted indefinitely nothing would ever get done.
I know I definitely couldn't be a responsible parent or be the best at my job if I were that obsessed with someone all of the time.
It's destructive.
ya I once saw mars/neptune described as orgasm addiction, I had to read that article a couple of times.
do not have kids together!
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I had the Mars Neptune aspect with a guy.....orgasm addiction for sure.....unbelievable....
@dmv: post or pm me with sun moon venus mercury mars ac and mc, with angles, and i will tell you your honeymoon for a long phase 😉
OMG DMV AND T HIIIIII
Posted by halalbabe
Love can die many times in a relationship, only to be reborn. But it can never be restoredI think it can be and is often restored but just in a different form.
You can still love someone as much as you did in the beginning of the relationship but the passion may not be there. It doesn't mean you love them less. You just don't crave them anymore.
"Love" or specifically those chemicals that are released when one thinks they are in love ......result in us craving more contact with that person ....in essence they become our drug.
If the honeymoon phase lasted indefinitely nothing would ever get done.
I know I definitely couldn't be a responsible parent or be the best at my job if I were that obsessed with someone all of the time.
It's destructive.
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As a moon in scorpio, i have to stay obsessed with someone and they have to stay obsessed with me.
Posted by LostPisces
@dmv: post or pm me with sun moon venus mercury mars ac and mc, with angles, and i will tell you your honeymoon for a long phase 😉
Im sorry. Say that again?
You want our charts?
Posted by LostPisces
@dmv: post or pm me with sun moon venus mercury mars ac and mc, with angles, and i will tell you your honeymoon for a long phase 😉Im sorry. Say that again?
You want our charts?
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The Original ideia was only your chart and I would try to get you honeymoon match 😛
But if you want to check it with your current partner, also can try to do it, in this case the two charts.
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wtf? ....
The conversation is about a state of mind, or more accurately, a state of relating ..... not an actual honeymoon, where two people are off on a romantic vacation.
I can't believe you're serious ... did you just crawl out from under a rock?