This cancer man I really like is driving me insane. I met him a couple of years ago through a mutual friend. Initially we didn’t notice each other until we matched on a dating app. From there, we decided to go out on a date. He tries to take me home with him (called him out on it), but I changed my mind and went home to my place. From there, it’s been a cat and mouse game. He would make plans and then back out and I would have to figure out why. Finally, he came as a date to our friends wedding and I wanted to give him space to hang out with his friends. That night, we end up sleeping together. Everything was fine until he started playing that same being all moody and distant game. Finally I called him out on it and he acted like he didn’t know what I was talking about. For the past maybe few months it has been a cat and mouse game. About two weeks ago, I thought we were finally going to get somewhere when he asked me to visit him at court (he’s an assistant prosecutor). After seeing him, I finally admit my feelings. His response was very coy so I assume he didn’t feel the same way. It wasn’t until I ran until him later that week when my sister and best friend asked him how he felt (why? Don’t know). He tells them that he’s shocked that I like him and he likes me back. When I asked him about it, he wouldn’t admit what he had said. I feel like I’m in high school with this mess. I legit give up. I do not have time for these games but it’s so hard because he’s the first guy I’ve actually really liked in a while. What do I do? Is he being genuine about liking me? How come he won’t step up to the plate?? I’m a Scorpio btw.
