Capricorn Man, Cancer Woman (Page 2)

Hmmm, be careful he's just not giving you attention bcuz he doesn't want you to get over him too quickly. Some guys are like that, doesn't matter the sign.

Maybe lol it's been like 2 months

I only read the first two posts. All I have to say is this is why one shouldn't mess around at the office.

And bewary of dating men going through a divorce. It sets you up for being the rebound girl and an ego trip for him.

Okay 🙂

I feel like you give the best advice.

You should start a "dear sally" type blog lol

Posted by truecap
I only read the first two posts. All I have to say is this is why one shouldn't mess around at the office.

I normally wouldn't. Lol we just had such a connection. I tried to play it off but even my co-workers were like "we'll see you at the wedding" lol rme!

We work in different departments though.

I agree about the divorce stuff you said. Now that the smoke has cleared a bit... I think... "did I really think he was gonna go through a divorce and be in a relationship at the same time?"

So I'm gonna just let him do what he wants. I'm gonna be missing a lot as I'm going home on vacay. So we'll have some space.

G8ve it time and see what happens.

Posted by Foreverloveme

Posted by Smilebhappy0715
Sooooo

he Texted me last night and was like "hope everything is going well with you!"

I waited awhile to text back and said "hey! It's been going pretty well! Hope you're having a good weekend"

He texted back around 3 today like "it's been good for the most part"

I said "only for the most part? Lol"

Then he said "long story short, (the kid's mom) is crazy"

I said "I figured she would be on father's day"

He said, "she was..Lol"

I just said.. "surprise! Lol she's so ridiculous."

Like.... I know, I need friends. Lol

But otherwise... Thoughts? I think it's a good sign? I'm gonna leave the convo there or do you think I should turn it into something positive?

Leave it there. Like I said let him come to you. He's thinking about you and not just sexually so let it develop naturally. Everything is fine just relax go with the flow & take it 1 day at a time

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Okay, soooo I did text him like two days later.. flirting a bit, then saying.. Have a good day at work.. He texted back but.. I wasn't feeling that he was feeling it lol sooo I decided to remain aloof.

He thought I was on vacay so when I showed up to work I guess it threw him. He came up and chatted with me a few times.. But no office kisses lol then when I was alone... Nothing... (normally that's when he comes and visits) I also felt him getting this annoyed demeanor.. But still I'm like.. I'm leaving you alone! You're coming up to me. Lol but also maybe something bad is happening with divorce. Idk

So I was over it.. Then my vacay started the next day, he texts me in the morning like "sorry I didn't get time to visit you.. thought you were on vacay? Lol" what does that mean? Part me is like.. Is it genuine? Or like he's feeling out when I'm gonna be gone... You think he's playing while I'm out of town (when the cat's away the mice will play? Lol)

It's been 5 days no contact from either of us.. Lol

Posted by Foreverloveme
@Smilebhappy0715

What I can offer you is my initial reaction because it could be a few different things.

I would question your sincerity/honesty because

1. He thought you were on vacay for a reason so either

A) you changed days or

B) he confused the days

2. You sent a have a good day at work text then later show up at work

3. You approach me via text & not when we're in person

This was just my initial thoughts. Yes it could be divorce related. I doubt he's playing while you're away, that could be a possibility though. I honestly think he's trying to process everything & make sense of what just happened & whether he can trust you or not.

I think you're right.. But wow I guess I left some important timeline details out.. I don't want you to think I was dishonest.. 😢

1. I didn't get into all the deets about going on vacation with him. Last week, I was just kinda like, hey next week I'm going on vacation.

2. We have the same days off but with me and another co-worker off, that has changed. So when he showed up on what is normally our Monday, I wasn't there, he assumed I was on vacation. This is also the day I texted him.

3. Next day, I work. Then the next day I go on vacation. This is when he texted me.

4. With how work is set up.. I can't really approach him.. He's free to roam, I'm stationed in one spot.

My heart totally dropped when you said "you approach ME via text.. " I was like omg it's him!!

Cool, I'll figure this out on my own from here on out. Thanks for all your help. 🙂

@Foreverloveme



Lol word girl!

I'm just gonna have to feel the vibe out when I go back. Plus I know from his messages the other day that the ex was being crazy.. Maybe that's it.

That "sorry I didn't have time to visit you" text... Was just weird as heck to me... Like.. You saw/talked to me at work.. idk I thought that would be the first thing he asked if he thought I was on vacation. . To text me the next morning... Weird. Lol...

I would think with all the crap in his life he wouldn't be trying to play two girls at the same work place. ...But idk

My tarot today said be patient. Lol

So.. I guess I'll just keep on, keepin on. Lol

@Foreverloveme

And yeah.. Doing nothing seemed to really be working. That's why I haven't said anything. But also kinda saddens me that he hasn't either lol

I wasn't really feeling it back.. And I'm not gonna just throw it all out there if I feel foolish. So yeah. I guess I'll just let him come to me (for real this time lol) and move on slowly but surely.

It's just hard to let him just come to me, when he gives me mixed signals then I think.. Okay maybe he's not sure if I'm game too.. So I try to throw him a bone and now it's weird! Lol

BUT then again... I think with all guys, regardless of zodiac sign... They put you were they want you. And if they want you, you'll see the effort.. I'm not seeing that and thus that's why I kinda am starting to look away

Posted by Foreverloveme

Posted by Smilebhappy0715
@Foreverloveme

And yeah.. Doing nothing seemed to really be working. That's why I haven't said anything. But also kinda saddens me that he hasn't either lol

I wasn't really feeling it back.. And I'm not gonna just throw it all out there if I feel foolish. So yeah. I guess I'll just let him come to me (for real this time lol) and move on slowly but surely.

It's just hard to let him just come to me, when he gives me mixed signals then I think.. Okay maybe he's not sure if I'm game too.. So I try to throw him a bone and now it's weird! Lol

BUT then again... I think with all guys, regardless of zodiac sign... They put you were they want you. And if they want you, you'll see the effort.. I'm not seeing that and thus that's why I kinda am starting to look away

Same here. Did you post his other placements? Or do you know them?

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I don't know them. He seems to be a hardcore Capricorn though. He has a Capricorn tattoo which I think is hilarious lol but he never really talks about astrology.

Learning placements is new to me.. I just did my birth chart the other day.. I don't know how legit the site was. I had a lot of Cancer placements, a few Pisces anddd that's all I remember. Lol

What were you saying "same here" too? Lol