Commitment phobe aquarius !!?!?!?

well so as most of the women whu wud read this or even men , would know tht aqaurian men are commitment phobe and its like this new phobia tht they have developed among the whole aquarian community lol !!! nyways so last nite i spoke to my aqua man and he said he likes me and tht i m in his heart and blah blah blah and tht evn if i got married to someone else i can still have the master key to his heart and blah blah blah !!! so i asked him if u like me sooo much thn y dont u be the one , so he said u never know !!!?!? "confused look"
so i told him tht if i got married to someone else , u ll be a history to me and i wouldnt even contact you cuz i dont have the heart to betray someone who has trusted me fo life (i belong to indian community and marrige is big thing for us especially women , once a woman is divorced , its difficult to get married agn but its nt the same for men, i know pretty sucky bt cant help it ) nyways so yeah he said dont worry if u get married i will never ever bother u cuz i understand the consequences but if u ever wish to come back u r wolcome to do so anytime ..... so i asked " would u cheat on ur wife" so he said i duno , i may for u !!!
so all in all its soooo wierd , if he likes me sooo much y is he saying all this !!!?!!? also i wanted to know tht are aquarian men really really perverse whn they r in love with a woman or its just sex?!!?
m kinda confused !!!?!? he calls me like after every 2 days or so cuz its long distance relationship and goes absolutely crazy texting me if i dont reply to his texts or answer his calls .... but whn he dissappears he is soooooooooooooooooooo cold !?!!? y?!!?!!? whn i call him he wouldnt answer and would just ignore !!! initially we used to text eachother every day , now it has reduced , y!!?!!?
can someone please help me read this situation !?!! altho m a cappy moon and have a reputation of being emotionless(whch is not true cuz we have deep feelings but we just dont know how to express it) so yeah altho im capricorn moon and aries sun , i just cut his call last nite and strted weeping (not soo much) but i did cuz of the confusion (i mean i felt tht initially this guy tells me tht he wants to marry and babies and now this crap)... i din wana do it while i was toking to him cuz i know i wuld scare him off !!! i can obviously detach myself frm him and move on in less thn 2 days but thn if he dusnt want to marry thn y is he doing all this crap !?!! m an extremist so either i like someon

Aquas won't settle. The end.

If they don't think you're the one, and worth their time, they won't commit.
It's not because they're scared of it...

The sign Aquarius is ruled by the planet Uranus, which is the planet of chaos, change, transformation, innovation and thinking outside the box, this is why those with heavy uranian influences within a natal chart are open to different types of thinking, ideas and sometimes this can be different types of sex also.

Those with Aquarius on the 7th house tend to demand lots of freedom in the relationships they enter into. Aquarius is also the polar opposite of Leo, meaning that Leo is very subjective and very much into the self as Aquarius is very much objective and into the group. One has to be able to detach in order to see things subjective, this is very typical of the sign of Aquarius and the planet Uranus.

Hope this helps! :-)

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