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Crazy to say but I love giving head.


It shouldn't be crazy to say. I don't understand why it's socially unacceptable for a woman to truly enjoy giving oral sex.
I enjoy it better than recieving oral.

Your so right, I shouldn't feel bad at all, it definitely makes me feel good when he feels great.
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Same here. I aim to please. The thing is that guys aren't complicated when it comes to physical pleasure. So, it's very easy for me to go above and beyond the call of duty. I wouldn't be satidfied myself by giving my guy status quo sex even though he swears that he'd be fine with that. I'm not trying to find out. Lol That only came up, because I told him that I knew he'd dump me if the sex wasn't great. He said that wasn't true...that he'd be happy with bare minimum sex. Lol ha ha ha...well, that makes one of us.
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Men are simple creatures. (Well... Except Scorpio sun Leo moon men. lol )

They'd like breakfast in the morning, a snack on their way to work, some pampering in the evening and good sex.

Most of the time, good sex simply means staying awake and participating fully in bringing yourselves to orgasm.
What makes them so difficult?
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Just teasing. 😛

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Passion aint shit without mastering the art of sex.
You don't think the passion can make the sex good or better?
You can have passion to play the an instrument but you need to practice, have good discipline. Dedication is needed to produce good sound, good food, good sexual experience.. etc.
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Which can happen by practicing with each other
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yes men can be addicted to very good sex.
Cancers are like this, i've heard from a few cancers even if it doesn't work out. The best girl always lingers in their head.
Libras are known to be good lovers but i think they can only consider you a good lover if you can fuck their mind too. They are very sensual and seductive.
Saggis erp were my least fav. I don't think I was his fav. I didn't know what he wanted, he was a bit small so I wasn't sure if he wanted me to humiliate him or worship him. He sent mixed signals.

Cappies are pretty intense lovers Male and female. I don't think other signs give us enough of a try, because we tend to be shy. We are earthy, so naturally sensual.
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Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol
i think so.

but if the women have a crappy personality and is unbearable to be with, they will disconnect that part of her and just do her good and leave as fast as they can.

(this is just what i think happens, but of course i dont know, since i'm not a guy) and if a guy did that, it's cold.

it's not a wonder men just watch porn and masturbate.

getting involved with women can be taxing for them if the woman gets sooooo invovled and want him badly and he doesn't want her back.

what do you think.

(i didnt read through this thread though)

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Posted by Tinxy
Title says it all

Just reading a topic about how women become addicted and attached to a skillful lover just wondering if it's the same for men ??

Curiousity I suppose lol
i think so.

but if the women have a crappy personality and is unbearable to be with, they will disconnect that part of her and just do her good and leave as fast as they can.

(this is just what i think happens, but of course i dont know, since i'm not a guy) and if a guy did that, it's cold.

it's not a wonder men just watch porn and masturbate.

getting involved with women can be taxing for them if the woman gets sooooo invovled and want him badly and he doesn't want her back.

what do you think.

(i didnt read through this thread though)

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What's if both parties r addicted to each other that way. Intensely, no matter how much they try to be with other people n always coming back to each other for it... Ther becomes a real problem indeed ¢
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It's not just about having rhythm.

You need to determine your partner's rhythm and how to flow with the person's energy.

You can have rhythm and be dancing your own style instead of working with the other person.

Sex is art.

Im ranting
So we can't measure sexual performance?


Because I would be interested to map it out. With targets.
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Here you go 😛

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I see mostly women answering for men..... hmmm lol
Are you make?

What's your take ?
Im not judging, my take is. Older women would always... try stuff when I was a kid and it was tempting to say the least. But once a guy trys out a older women 9/10 times he learns from her and leaves to go train his real girlfriend or someone in his age bracket.
Men learn through the older women, then leaves to find his partner to teach. She on the other hand either keeps being another boy's training partner or stays single.
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Ok thanks for your opinion lol

It interesting how men and women think so differently about these things.
But I wasn't really talking about older women and younger guys I meant in general as I was reading some douche bags ideas on how he makes women fall I love with him through intimacy. Wondered if it was the sae for guys
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Crazy to say but I love giving head.


Wonder if this is an Aqua trait?

moi aussi

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Since the first time I did it, I was hooked. Gets me super hot and ready. I feel like I'm in control for his pleasure.
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We Aquas do like that control.... buhahahahahahha!
uhhhhhh. it took forever for my husband to get me to do that. (yes too much information) but it's the truth. I'm not into that stuff.

he pleaded for a long time to try it. a very long time.

i'm not really into it. if i do, it's because i love to pleasure my husband. and only if i'm in the mood. Im very controlled sexually for some reason. I dont go cray cray, which is sometimes why my husband may call me a bit of a bore and lacking in iniation and sexual drive.

i'm really very very COLD, until he WARMS me up. I'm like a dormant fireplace and honestly it has to the be right man ---which is my husband.

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I see mostly women answering for men..... hmmm lol
Are you make?

What's your take ?
Im not judging, my take is. Older women would always... try stuff when I was a kid and it was tempting to say the least. But once a guy trys out a older women 9/10 times he learns from her and leaves to go train his real girlfriend or someone in his age bracket.
Men learn through the older women, then leaves to find his partner to teach. She on the other hand either keeps being another boy's training partner or stays single.
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that's so sad. it seems like a lonely existence. but i guess if they are happy doing it. and find joy in it..... that's good.


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Phil says it all



phil collins look so short for some reason.

so i checked..

5'6....that's the same as tom cruise, robert deniro, and a few others.....

maybe danny devito. (oh checked -- 5'0" exact)

manlet!!!! 😄 😄
My first love was Michael j. Fox. Think we are same height haha
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heehee. i remember now....he is married, a very very long time to a cancer sun lady:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tracy_Pollan
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Crazy to say but I love giving head.


Wonder if this is an Aqua trait?

moi aussi

😈
Since the first time I did it, I was hooked. Gets me super hot and ready. I feel like I'm in control for his pleasure.
😉
We Aquas do like that control.... buhahahahahahha!
uhhhhhh. it took forever for my husband to get me to do that. (yes too much information) but it's the truth. I'm not into that stuff.

he pleaded for a long time to try it. a very long time.

i'm not really into it. if i do, it's because i love to pleasure my husband. and only if i'm in the mood. Im very controlled sexually for some reason. I dont go cray cray, which is sometimes why my husband may call me a bit of a bore and lacking in iniation and sexual drive.

i'm really very very COLD, until he WARMS me up. I'm like a dormant fireplace and honestly it has to the be right man ---which is my husband.

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I see mostly women answering for men..... hmmm lol
Are you make?

What's your take ?
Im not judging, my take is. Older women would always... try stuff when I was a kid and it was tempting to say the least. But once a guy trys out a older women 9/10 times he learns from her and leaves to go train his real girlfriend or someone in his age bracket.
Men learn through the older women, then leaves to find his partner to teach. She on the other hand either keeps being another boy's training partner or stays single.
that's so sad. it seems like a lonely existence. but i guess if they are happy doing it. and find joy in it..... that's good.


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Haha so you are some sort of puritanist or very religious? Anyway i think sex between husband & wife is not actually a necessity,
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I think both men and women will go against logic if sex is off the charts ex:

woman: "he is kind of cold, secretive, doesn't return my texts...but sex was ahӢmaӢzing! We have a soul comnection, he really opened up and I saw his true feelings!!!"

man: "yeah, the girl has serious tongue skills, not the one to bring home to mom but I'm just going to do this until it's not fun anymore"

People will go against almost any damn red flag if sex phenomenal
.

Men will know it right off the bat while women always have the hope that the rest of the undesirable traits a man has will be altered over time by the power of her love...

This generally speaking and pretty much evidenced by the endless threads on dxp
lmao!!!


heh.

i dont trust those type of men anyway.
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I could totally picture myself picking him up and cuddling him and saying: "you're so smrt, Alex p. Keaton."

Then he accidentally head butts me due to his parkinson 😢
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me and my husband both felt sad about him getting parkinson. we both liked watching the spin city episodes with him in it.

Charlie sheen was good in it too.
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I think both men and women will go against logic if sex is off the charts ex:

woman: "he is kind of cold, secretive, doesn't return my texts...but sex was ahӢmaӢzing! We have a soul comnection, he really opened up and I saw his true feelings!!!"

man: "yeah, the girl has serious tongue skills, not the one to bring home to mom but I'm just going to do this until it's not fun anymore"

People will go against almost any damn red flag if sex phenomenal
.

Men will know it right off the bat while women always have the hope that the rest of the undesirable traits a man has will be altered over time by the power of her love...

This generally speaking and pretty much evidenced by the endless threads on dxp
lmao!!!


heh.

i dont trust those type of men anyway.
lol...I know. I see it with my brothers and their friends

man: " yeah, this chick has some serious issues man, like some Glen Close shit but man...this chicks a spinner."

^^^already admitting she may be unstable but keeps her because the sex is good

women pretty much the same thing= the whole bad boy vibe. I've fallen for it myself when I was younger. I don't trust men like that either. Me= reformed bad boy lover.
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me too!! reformed bad boy lover. 😄 😄

i still like 'em a little bad, but good deep down.
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I see mostly women answering for men..... hmmm lol
Are you make?

What's your take ?
Im not judging, my take is. Older women would always... try stuff when I was a kid and it was tempting to say the least. But once a guy trys out a older women 9/10 times he learns from her and leaves to go train his real girlfriend or someone in his age bracket.
Men learn through the older women, then leaves to find his partner to teach. She on the other hand either keeps being another boy's training partner or stays single.
My *training* days are over, but i had great fun whilst i did it 😛...they all ended up being long term, even though it was never my intention and they hung on for grim death!


Age gaps aren't practical or meant to last long term and you have to use your loaf and let the younger one free if you care about them


I will write a book one day....under a pseudonym of course

Have been told through dreams, visions, meditations, readings etc, there has been a significant one waiting for me for the past five years, but hasn't shown himself yet as i was never ready.....hope he isn't too young, i dont want to go there again. He better be good lol, i am reluctant to give up my freedom after years of *togetherness* and teaching


:-))
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i've seen 30 plus years gap, between an older woman and younger man, but the younger man wants a long term commitment and he is willing lovingly to stay with her and stick with her to the end. This happened with my ex's mother and her lover. It really is rare, but it happens. For some reason, i never worried that he'd leave her, because of his low-brow character. he loved her to distinction.
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Lol i know that its just i am trying to ask that question & i just quoted that post randomly. Sorry i suppose Michael J Fox is that middle age looking man standing at the right side?
you must be pluto Scorpio? or pluto sag (if you're a teenager), you never heard of Michael J.Fox? or seen Spin City??

you should!! there are some episodes on YouTube for free i think.



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What do you prefer Black Mamba, spit or swallow? If you love someone you swallow right? :-)
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Oh yeah penis is beautiful and special untill you catch an std.

I love foreplay but I get nervous that I hope it's not all about sex.. but due to my past childhood drama I ensured..I kept to myself all these years. I try not to let it bother me and have that self confidence that I just need to adjust what guys love the most. And feel comfortable. So far I think I as a woman have learned something from the people I dated and even my ex.. I take it all in and use it to better my skills. Everyone is different has different needs. So can woman be just as skilled a nd be okay with it without criticizing from men. Can men be okay without sex or foreplay. No way. But some people have way more experience and can't compete.
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Lol i know that its just i am trying to ask that question & i just quoted that post randomly. Sorry i suppose Michael J Fox is that middle age looking man standing at the right side?
you must be pluto Scorpio? or pluto sag (if you're a teenager), you never heard of Michael J.Fox? or seen Spin City??

you should!! there are some episodes on YouTube for free i think.



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What do you prefer Black Mamba, spit or swallow? If you love someone you swallow right? :-)
xD
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I am an aqua & in my 20's, teenage years are well in the past. I live in Asia so i had no idea of this celebrity.
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Men are driven by sex......easily pleased most of them i found


Be the sexual dynamo and you have them for life or for as long as it is meant to be....also be creative with it......dress up, surprise them and be outrageous, burlesque, femme fatale etc.

All the men i have been with love the mother/whore archetype

Warmth is also very important

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Must of been alot of cancer and virgos lol
wow...Cancer men have madonna/whore complexes? I knew about Virgo but sheesh...
Ohhhh yeahhhh. Cancer men are up there fighting for the number one spot. I never understood why I was attracted to older women, and astrology came in and told me why i'm so weird. Thank you astrology! 😉 lol
(tongue in cheek)
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lol are you not virgo dominant? 😛
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Men are driven by sex......easily pleased most of them i found


Be the sexual dynamo and you have them for life or for as long as it is meant to be....also be creative with it......dress up, surprise them and be outrageous, burlesque, femme fatale etc.

All the men i have been with love the mother/whore archetype

Warmth is also very important

😛
Must of been alot of cancer and virgos lol
wow...Cancer men have madonna/whore complexes? I knew about Virgo but sheesh...
Ohhhh yeahhhh. Cancer men are up there fighting for the number one spot. I never understood why I was attracted to older women, and astrology came in and told me why i'm so weird. Thank you astrology! 😉 lol
(tongue in cheek)
lol are you not virgo dominant? 😛
Thank God no.
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6th house?? 😛