Do you care about your partners sex number?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by ladylibra21 on Saturday, August 12, 2017 and has 17 replies.

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@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by LuckyLibra979
Naw I honestly don't care. I care more about the number of relationships and how they ended. If a person is single tho you can't judge em for being free.

Venus in scorpio

And as far as age group number for my age group?? Alot of ppl where im from started having sex at 11 and 10 years old so its best NOT to ask a number

I agree I care more about the relationship and how it ended. I'm curious because when I was single the past 2 years, I found that guys didn't really want to know this number. But I was arguing with my boyfriend yesterday and he brought up that he doesn't know a lot about my sexual history and how I know all about he's very short sexual history. He is 31 and has only been with two people and I am the second one.

I felt bad because first of all he never asked and I guess I just assumed he didn't want to know but I can't help but wonder if knowing my number will make him feel insecure. It's not like it is humongous, but compared to his two people it's pretty big

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@momo4
9 Years

it makes a difference but not a dealbreaker. just lets me know what kind of expectations to have of them

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@momo4
9 Years

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by momo4
it makes a difference but not a dealbreaker. just lets me know what kind of expectations to have of them

What kind of expectations do you assume?

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i should have said perspective rather than expectations...nothing specific....just a little more insight on the person 😛

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@Havoc077
9 Years

Venus in Scorpio

The higher your count, the more I'll demand of you, however this is kind of also dependent on who you had sex with, why, etc.

The less favorable I see you, the steeper and more difficult your climb to my heart will be and if I see that you made shitty choices and such I'm going to put you under pressure - it either busts pipes or makes diamonds.

I don't think that someone's higher count giving them better skills in bed should mean anything. Good sex is something that can be taught and frankly I'll value someone ten times more for having seen them at their worst and groomed them to their best.