@Crabra
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Deal breaker placements
Scorpio lilith? lol
No I don't know, Cancers get a lot of bad press and I'm a cancer.
I also have a Gemini Venus and a Gemini moon.
Im interested in what others have to say though...
On both genders: I cringe when I see earth sign in Venus. I know I can expect a penny pincher that has no problem taking, but will not give. I have yet to meet someone that will prove me wrong on these placements.
Moon: Libra moon men are so dependent with no individuality. Sexually depraved and unrestrained. They should really re-think their current occupation and just go to being gigolos.
I think that's about it for me. I'm game for the rest.
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
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Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
the venus in gemini man i know who has libra mars seems asexual
unless he's fuking lots of prostitutes on the side
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Maybe he's a gentleman on the streets and freak in sheets.
Posted by CrimsonGirl
Yea don't think I could handle a Venus in Gemini man. Even if they love you they'll still end up being taken with and interested in other women while they're with you. I know a Taurus guy with this placement. Such a sweetheart, but the second he broke up with his gf he was at the strip club spending $ 600 on some chick and loving it. I think they need constant female attention andVenus in Scorpio just couldn't handle it.
Do you feel that way ever as a Venus gem male?
What you say is true with me as well. It's not necessarily a 'the grass is greener on the other side' kind of thing, but rather that insatiable need for variety of Gemini combining with the energy from Venus.
I am very faithful in relationships, but need a versatile partner who can keep up to help keep that eye from wandering. Porn helps a lot as well, but I would still rather get my needs met from my partner.
Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
Yowzas! I actually think I agree with most of this though. Depending on how you define, "Too sexual". 🙂
Posted by Shadowcat
Lol venus in sag + moon in gemini together is undatable period. So selfish, it's like they don't have a soul. Never met a venus in sag that could stay in a relationship for longer than two months.
I have always had long term relationships.hut I guess all of my progressive placements have all been Scorpio since almost day one though
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Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
Yowzas! I actually think I agree with most of this though. Depending on how you define, "Too sexual". 🙂
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An abnormally excessive and uncontrollable sex drive would be my definition of too sexual.
Venus/Mercury in Gem - flirty and indecisive. Love to keep a myriad of female company.
Venus in Aries - "live, laugh, love" surface dwelling nature
Both finicky. Both require a constant need for change and spontaneity that doesn't mesh well with my Venus in Scorp and its desire for stability.
Then again, my ViS is arguably worse than both. 😛
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Yea don't think I could handle a Venus in Gemini man. Even if they love you they'll still end up being taken with and interested in other women while they're with you. I know a Taurus guy with this placement. Such a sweetheart, but the second he broke up with his gf he was at the strip club spending $ 600 on some chick and loving it. I think they need constant female attention andVenus in Scorpio just couldn't handle it.
Do you feel that way ever as a Venus gem male?
What you say is true with me as well. It's not necessarily a 'the grass is greener on the other side' kind of thing, but rather that insatiable need for variety of Gemini combining with the energy from Venus.
I am very faithful in relationships, but need a versatile partner who can keep up to help keep that eye from wandering. Porn helps a lot as well, but I would still rather get my needs met from my partner.
Yeah exactly. You guys crave so much variety and I don't know if I could keep up. and the whole porn thing.... I'd murder him lol
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xD Well like I said, I prefer my partner to porn, but 2-3 times a day is often a little much for most partners and I don't want it to feel like a chore to them. I can definitely see how this placement can make compatibility difficult.
FML I bet all my placements will get called out ? I will exit out of this thread sideways—
Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
I think a lot us VIG attract each other, I know a guy who is probably your nightmare scenario. Libra moon, Venus in Gemini with Aries Mars. Your right he should be a gigolo he sure has a huge female fan club from pre-teens to older women.
Just tooo much sexuality ?
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Posted by SpidySense
FML I bet all my placements will get called out ? I will exit out of this thread sideways—
virgo mars doesn't seem so bad
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Thanks but it does make me a perfectionist ? hopefully not a critical one.
Having to contend with resting b.itch face, detached emotions, cry baby, manipulation, pendulum swinging moods and oh yeah.. cannot be trusted with that Venus.
I think that's the highlights ^ ? quoting all the horrors I've witnessed on dxp
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Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
I think a lot us VIG attract each other, I know a guy who is probably your nightmare scenario. Libra moon, Venus in Gemini with Aries Mars. Your right he should be a gigolo he sure has a huge female fan club from pre-teens to older women.
Just tooo much sexuality ?
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Nightmare placements for sure! I bet anything he probably hops around from relationship to relationship rather than staying single and indulging in casual sex. He probably just leads women on in order to get a short-term relationship.
Turn off:
Gemini Venus
Gemini Mars
Gemini Sun....
I detest Mars in Gemini....totally insensitive and unpredictable.
Posted by CrimsonGirl
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Yea don't think I could handle a Venus in Gemini man. Even if they love you they'll still end up being taken with and interested in other women while they're with you. I know a Taurus guy with this placement. Such a sweetheart, but the second he broke up with his gf he was at the strip club spending $ 600 on some chick and loving it. I think they need constant female attention andVenus in Scorpio just couldn't handle it.
Do you feel that way ever as a Venus gem male?
What you say is true with me as well. It's not necessarily a 'the grass is greener on the other side' kind of thing, but rather that insatiable need for variety of Gemini combining with the energy from Venus.
I am very faithful in relationships, but need a versatile partner who can keep up to help keep that eye from wandering. Porn helps a lot as well, but I would still rather get my needs met from my partner.
Yeah exactly. You guys crave so much variety and I don't know if I could keep up. and the whole porn thing.... I'd murder him lol
xD Well like I said, I prefer my partner to porn, but 2-3 times a day is often a little much for most partners and I don't want it to feel like a chore to them. I can definitely see how this placement can make compatibility difficult.
Well I gueeesss that's okay then haha. What signs do you find yourself most attracted to??
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You probably wouldn't be surprised if I told you air and fire women. I've been with mostly Libra and Sagg girls, which also probably won't come as a surprise lol
If my mind can be occupied by something other than sex, I can reduce how much sex I need by a good margin. If I am after you and you're not in the mood, you can literally toss a puzzle to a corner like a bone, and I'll go after it. 😆
virgo sun with gemini moon and libra venus
most selfish, hidden emotions, nonreciprocal person ive ever known.
and still has the audacity to tell me he loves me and wants me in the future..... but we can never have even a simple conversation!! let alone something deep or meaningful
Aries mercury
Posted by Orchidee
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Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
I think a lot us VIG attract each other, I know a guy who is probably your nightmare scenario. Libra moon, Venus in Gemini with Aries Mars. Your right he should be a gigolo he sure has a huge female fan club from pre-teens to older women.
Just tooo much sexuality ?
Nightmare placements for sure! I bet anything he probably hops around from relationship to relationship rather than staying single and indulging in casual sex. He probably just leads women on in order to get a short-term relationship.
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He does long term open relationships (I don't think one person could ever satisfy him), I always thought the Libra placements would make them crave commitment also has a Leo rising. He doesn't lead women on as they usually just throw themselves at him, almost as if he can read all women's thoughts.
Don't want to assassinate his character as he is a nice person, I would feel a bit insecure around a guy with a Mars in Aries & Venus in Gemini.
Posted by Effervescent
Venus in Scorpio or Venus in 8th House. Both cheat and then get away with it and no one finds out. I've seen it so many times.Taurus Moon or Sun (sometimes) on men. Way too stubborn. Wants the committed relationship at home and the fuck buddy on the side. Not understanding of one's point of view unless they can somehow relate to it. Very passive aggressive. Refuses to meet in the middle, must be his way all the time.
Agree on that it's better to be an open flirt, than those under cover types that always get away with it
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Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
I think a lot us VIG attract each other, I know a guy who is probably your nightmare scenario. Libra moon, Venus in Gemini with Aries Mars. Your right he should be a gigolo he sure has a huge female fan club from pre-teens to older women.
Just tooo much sexuality ?
Nightmare placements for sure! I bet anything he probably hops around from relationship to relationship rather than staying single and indulging in casual sex. He probably just leads women on in order to get a short-term relationship.
He does long term open relationships (I don't think one person could ever satisfy him), I always thought the Libra placements would make them crave commitment also has a Leo rising. He doesn't lead women on as they usually just throw themselves at him, almost as if he can read all women's thoughts.
Don't want to assassinate his character as he is a nice person, I would feel a bit insecure around a guy with a Mars in Aries & Venus in Gemini.
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Long term open relationship? LOL He was better off with short term relationships, but this open relationship has opened doors for cake eaters like him to have their cake and eat it too. Must be nice!
Posted by aflyingarrow
Gemini mars..No just no..
+1.
I don't use astrology in my daily life...
My mutable placements (Gem Mercury/Venus, Virgo Moon, Pisces Mars and Sag Saturn/Uranus) seem to help in making me more asexual than anything, that would be a dealbreaker for most I guess.
Welcome to the Venus in Gemini club lol no one likes us ?
I'll look at placements and cringe, but astrology will never have full control over who I deal with. It just helps me analyze others behavior. I like to give the benefit of the doubt.
My whole chart is difficult lol I would say my Venus in Gemini, cancer moon in the 11th house, and cancer mars, and merucry in Aries in the 8th are all difficult. Having an 8th house dominant makes me intimidating and suspicious of everyone, so a lot of people just avoid me, which is fine lol
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Posted by Crabra
I was checking out some videos on my Venus in Gemini placement, and noticed a slight trend of commenters who were like, "Venus in Gemini? ... effffffff that!" Of course, not everyone felt that way, but it did get me wondering on when you look at someone else's chart, what placements do you observe and say to yourself, "No way I'm dealing with that"Also if you would like to add, what placements do you have that you feel make things difficult for others?
I wonder what it is about Venus in Gem that another venus placement won't do ?
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According to everyone we're notorious cheaters lol
Sun in Gemini
Moon in Sag
Venus in Sag or Gemini
Mars in Gemini
In one chart....."..nightmare.. "
😱
Posted by Piscox
That venus in Aqua or Scorp moon; deal breaker placements for more than one reason.
Can you explain more, if possible, Pisco ?
Posted by Orchidee
Venus is Gemini men are too sexual. Their sexual libido is above average. They need to stick to escorts who will not only be available at their beck and call, but the fetishes they have can only be satiated by a prostitute. A nympho with kinks would also be a good match. I think they need to make this aspect of them known early on in getting-to-know-someone phase.
You know your shit
Posted by TaurusBull1977
Turn off:Gemini Venus
Gemini Mars
Gemini Sun....
I detest Mars in Gemini....totally insensitive and unpredictable.
I dated a dude with gem sun taurus moon gem merc gem mars and gem Venus. The gem stellium was in the 5th house. When I saw it I got terrified and rightfully so. He ended being everything people hate about those placements.
I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
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I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
your friends?
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No I don't use friends nor expose secrets, im mostly covered with Earth except Venus and rising. If you want me to stick around you can't throw yourself at me
Posted by aflyingarrow
Gemini mars..No just no..
I feel like Gemini mars checks out mentally during sex. Like just blank out. After sex it's a totally different person.
Does anyone feel like that.
Posted by lionspark
gemini sun and gemini venus.i also could not handle cancers and virgo suns. libra moon and virgo mars. thank you
Expand on Virgo mars
Posted by Narcissus
I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
Realness
Posted by Piscox
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Posted by Piscox
That venus in Aqua or Scorp moon; deal breaker placements for more than one reason.
whats your moon
Scorp moon. 😛
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I wouldn't date a man with a scorp moon either.
It affects then differently.
I'm Virgo Mars/ Venus. Would not fuck with myself on a relationship level. hahaha
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I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
your friends?
No I don't use friends nor expose secrets, im mostly covered with Earth except Venus and rising. If you want me to stick around you can't throw yourself at me
why is that, you find people who throw themselves at you to be boring?
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Yes I'm still getting used to it but a lot of them have daddy issues and I don't want to deal with that . No need for me to throw superficial charm at them
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I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
your friends?
No I don't use friends nor expose secrets, im mostly covered with Earth except Venus and rising. If you want me to stick around you can't throw yourself at me
why is that, you find people who throw themselves at you to be boring?
Yes I'm still getting used to it but a lot of them have daddy issues and I don't want to deal with that . No need for me to throw superficial charm at them
damn i like this guy and i've been slightly chasing him by saying nice things to him
i didn't realize i had daddy issues
i just think he's very hot
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I'm sure he's flattered but used to it, you don't have daddy issues it's just what I attract lol . Just know a beautiful man isn't always aware how we attract others
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
i would definitely DATE MYSELF and all my PLACEMENTS.
Here here
Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm Virgo Mars/ Venus. Would not fuck with myself on a relationship level. hahaha
Hey helium, why not Virgo mars.
I think that's the greatest mars placement to have. We get better with practice.
Posted by Narcissus
I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
My ex had this placement and he was like this with everything, books, TV shows... he had to keep 2 or 3 and bounce back and forth between them, or he would grow bored, and quit them altogether.
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Posted by heliumfiasco
I'm Virgo Mars/ Venus. Would not fuck with myself on a relationship level. hahaha
Hey helium, why not Virgo mars.
I think that's the greatest mars placement to have. We get better with practice.
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Honestly, I don't feel my Virgo Mars strongly. Also, the only thing that I relate to with the Venus is the critical nature. I feel these placements are so muted in my personality. I'd love a fire Venus. I feel like my 8th house moon is prominent and my Pluto in the First I relate too.... My Libra sun I feel even though in the 12th. However, my Virgo only causes me grief and to self criticize while also doing the same to my loves. Perhaps I havent yet mastered how to recognize the strengths the placements have to offer.
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Posted by Narcissus
I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
My ex had this placement and he was like this with everything, books, TV shows... he had to keep 2 or 3 and bounce back and forth between them, or he would grow bored, and quit them altogether.
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Lol exactly it also doesn't help I got Gemini rising with weak Mercury , I flake too on that level
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I have Venus in gem and can't talk to only one person I need 3 on the side for when I get bored
My ex had this placement and he was like this with everything, books, TV shows... he had to keep 2 or 3 and bounce back and forth between them, or he would grow bored, and quit them altogether.
Lol exactly it also doesn't help I got Gemini rising with weak Mercury , I flake too on that level
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At least you are honest and self-aware. 😛
Posted by Crabra
I was checking out some videos on my Venus in Gemini placement, and noticed a slight trend of commenters who were like, "Venus in Gemini? ... effffffff that!" Of course, not everyone felt that way, but it did get me wondering on when you look at someone else's chart, what placements do you observe and say to yourself, "No way I'm dealing with that"Also if you would like to add, what placements do you have that you feel make things difficult for others?
Moon in Libra. The experiences I've had with Libra moons has been so traumatic, that I'm now terrified of any and all Libra placements.
The only experience I've had with Gemini Venus was good, and completely unlike what I've read about that placement.
I've dated & am friends with venus in Gemini men.. they're all fun guys.. venus in Gem have a hard time being with just one woman , maybe a cancer sun & gem venus can do the one woman thing , besides that, they like to have too much fun. Still love em though
wouldn't call them all the way deal breakers (don't wanna jinx myself X-)).. but aspects i like to avoid in people
gem mars
gem venus
cancer mars
leo merc
aries merc
sag venus
Posted by FknNerd
Ha I love gem mars. Theyre super chill and always a willing participant... Maybe its because I have a lot of libra that I get on pretty easy with gem placements aside from moon in gem at 26/27 degrees ?Undateable:
Scorpio moon
Virgo venus
Any libra placements
curious.. you have a lot of libra placements but you find them undatable.. why?
Leo moon and Aquarius moon
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I was checking out some videos on my Venus in Gemini placement, and noticed a slight trend of commenters who were like, "Venus in Gemini? ... effffffff that!" Of course, not everyone felt that way, but it did get me wondering on when you look at someone else's chart, what placements do you observe and say to yourself, "No way I'm dealing with that"
Also if you would like to add, what placements do you have that you feel make things difficult for others?