@Viper7717
8 Years
He says doesnt want to rush sex
Understanding Why Someone Might Not Rush Sex
Someone who prefers to take things slowly may value emotional connection and comfort over rushing into sex. It does not necessarily mean they are uninterested, but they prioritize building trust and a connection first. Clear communication is essential to understand each other's expectations and comfort levels.
Did you ask him why ?
Posted by clownloyal
those laughing emojis say inner despair to me
Nah, just find it humorous.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?
Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
He is low key rejecting you, but wants to string your along
He probably has someone else
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
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How many times have you physically met ?
Posted by Queenaries2
He is low key rejecting you, but wants to string your alongHe probably has someone else
Could be! We talk a lot. He initiated plans before but had to cancel. I told him if he isnt interested that its cool, idc but he said he's "very" interested he just doesnt like to rush things. And, actually, just now...he offered to meet up this weekend haha wow...but Im busy. Idk he's a little weird and also a Leo
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
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We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
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Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Posted by Koniuchaa
What did he mean by ‘things’?
I have no idea to be honest. I asked what he meant but he just repeated himself. Figured I'd be beating a dead horse if I press him on what he meant.
Posted by Caramel_Princess
2 months aren’t really THAT long. Maybe he doesn’t want a committed relationship, but it doesn’t mean he wants emotionless sex either. Kind of like friends with benefits.
Ohh good point! I just based it on my experience from before, usually things happened fast with hookups. I guess I got spoiled haha.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
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Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
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Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Posted by hollyhock
Meh, I'm always suspicious when a guy wants to wait. It could be many reasons. I make guys wait and they usually get annoyed. The other way around seems a bit concerning. double standard, I know.
I totally understand where you're coming from. From my experiences with men, things are quick like they need it asap. This is a first for me and its honestly odd. I'm worried he has an std he's working through or something lmao jk
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
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Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
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Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
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.....is that okay for you ?
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
.....is that okay for you ?
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Definitely. I'd rather he take care of what's going on in his life than force himself to do something he just isnt up for right now. He's a nice guy, I dont mind just talking.
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
.....is that okay for you ?
Definitely. I'd rather he take care of what's going on in his life than force himself to do something he just isnt up for right now. He's a nice guy, I dont mind just talking.
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You sound kind....are you a Pisces ? 🙂
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
.....is that okay for you ?
Definitely. I'd rather he take care of what's going on in his life than force himself to do something he just isnt up for right now. He's a nice guy, I dont mind just talking.
You sound kind....are you a Pisces ? 🙂
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Haha i am 😁😁 good guess!
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
.....is that okay for you ?
Definitely. I'd rather he take care of what's going on in his life than force himself to do something he just isnt up for right now. He's a nice guy, I dont mind just talking.
You sound kind....are you a Pisces ? 🙂
Haha i am 😁😁 good guess!
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Putting themselves last
Be careful that you don't become too much of a giver though....think of yourself and needs too ❤️
Posted by MyStarsShine
Did you ask him why ?Yeah but he just repeated himself lol he doesnt like to rush things. Still find it odd when its casual but ehh i backed off. Dont wanna pressure anyone
How many times have you physically met ?
We havent yet, just talked and snapchatted
Wait till you meet and see how it goes.....he may want to jump on you 😛
Hahah will do! He is a leo so maybe its this "cat and mouse" nature I hear so much about with them
Keep us posted
To be fair, it's hard to tell what the story is until you meet face to face
....and words are just words, you know ?
Will do and absolutely agree! Actions speak louder than words 😉
Update: So we had plans this weekend and he cancelled. He admitted he is going through some tough stuff and to liking me as well. We still talk but now things are in a grey area I guess? Taking it slow while he works through shit for now.
.....is that okay for you ?
Definitely. I'd rather he take care of what's going on in his life than force himself to do something he just isnt up for right now. He's a nice guy, I dont mind just talking.
You sound kind....are you a Pisces ? 🙂
Haha i am 😁😁 good guess!
Putting themselves last
Be careful that you don't become too much of a giver though....think of yourself and needs too ❤️
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Aww, thank you! But no worries there 😉 im Aries stellium so i got a fiery backbone lol
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Yet we agreed to just hookup.
Weird or just me? 😂😂
We have been talking for almost 2 months now too.