Out of the same element, which sign would you choose to date n why?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by saweetz1988 on Friday, December 8, 2017 and has 51 replies.

Which Zodiac Sign Within the Same Element Is Best for Dating

Choosing a partner from the same element can enhance compatibility due to shared traits. For example, earth signs like Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn value stability, making them great for long-term relationships. Water signs seek emotional depth, fire signs crave passion, and air signs enjoy intellectual connection. Your choice depends on which qualities you prioritize in a relationship.

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@Teena
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Virgo in earth... because they are always my bffs

Gemini in Air .... coz it's fun

Aries in Fire...seems like an adventure...oh well! This could be my safest adventure maybe??🤔...or exactly the opposite 😂

Cancer in water...coz of the stereotypical connection

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@Chuckcem
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Sagittarius - Fire (Had a good experience and have several Sag people in my life)

Virgo - Earth (Romance has never quite hit here, but I have several Virgo friends)

Cancer - Water (Some of the closest people to me have been Cancers)

Libra - Air (I easily attract Libras)

Interestingly enough a partner with these placements in Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Venus would probably be compatible. Granted I have those exact Moon, Mercury, and Venus placements.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by Chuckcem
Sagittarius - Fire (Had a good experience and have several Sag people in my life)

Virgo - Earth (Romance has never quite hit here, but I have several Virgo friends)

Cancer - Water (Some of the closest people to me have been Cancers)

Libra - Air (I easily attract Libras)

Interestingly enough a partner with these placements in Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Venus would probably be compatible. Granted I have those exact Moon, Mercury, and Venus placements.

I lack the Libra but have the other 3 lol.

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@Plutonian
8 Years

Virgo- they get me and push me to be better

Aries- they remind me that I'm strong

Aquarius- they acknowledge what I'm good at

Pisces - tie between Pisces/Cancer. nothing really to say because I have little experience with water suns outside of Scorpio.

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@miriyahhh
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Fire: a lazy Leo. Because I had a terrible experience with a stupid saggitarius

Earth: y'all already know a cap. Bcz I like pain ( my scorp moon )

Air: I guess Libra bcz they funny

Water: Scorpio fa sho

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@heliumfiasco
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Water- Cancer

Earth- Taurus

Air- Aquarius

Fire- this is hard I love Sag and Leo...... I guess because im currently dating one, ill say leo.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

I actually just like certain signs in each category

Air: Aqua, Gemini

Fire: Leo

Water: Scorpio

Earth: Capricorn,Taurus

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

i'm gonna go with my husband's energies..

Water Scorpio

Fire Leo/Sag combo

Earth Virgo

Air Aqua (he has aqua asteroids)

Houses are another matter though

someone should make a topic for houses. lol

mine would be

1st Aries fire

4th Cancer water

3rd Gemini air

10th/2nd Capricorn/taurus earth

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@LittleFairy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

earth Capricorn..i feel safe with them

air libra..generally nice people

fire sag ...interesting

water scorpio i feel safe with them i admire how they care people they love ..plus sexy

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@Aju
9 Years1,000+ Posts

okay for fun, as far as looking at them as energy and not necessarily under the sun sign...

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Fire= 1. Sagittarius, If your moon is here then it would probably be highly charged,the attraction.

I've experienced their moon with my mars (conjunction) and it's extremely sexual and strong.

Fire= 2. Leo energy I'm very familar with (two brothers moons are here) but it is

intercepted in my chart so it's nice to be reminded of the importance of this energy)

Fire= 3. Aries, maybe the easiest to feel uncomfortable with if it's concentrated.

*Anger and *Impatience would need to be worked on if it's an issue.

Water= 1. Pisces. Easy to understand. My Sun/Venus/Mercury/Jupiter here

Water= 2. Cancer. 7th house cusp. Energy I'd love to have in my relationships/

Warm spot in me

Water= 3. Scopio. My moon is here. easy to feel understood emotionally

though a lot of scars from the past with this energy

Air= 1. Aquarius .Sacred Energy. Intercepted in my 1st so it can feel very

personal. Nice to be reminded of my mothers energy too.

Earth= 1. Virgo. Very inspired by this energy plus my Ceres is here. I would

constantly make sure you are okay. 24/7 lol

***but no matter the primary influence I would be open to all signs because

It is up to the 'pilot' as far as how they handle the plane and what they do with it***

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@DivineWine9
9 Years

Earth : Capricorn bcs they are so intense it's beautiful close, thoughTaurus is great as well

Fire: Leo love those lion hearts lots of friends

Water : Scorpio! As much as I love Pisces and Cancer (sometimes)

Air: Gemini they are fun!

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@Librah
9 Years

Fire: Sagittarius. Because they're awesome. For me the total package. They're not as scared of commitment as they're made out to. In my experience they like a balance of closeness and individuality like me.

Honorable mention for leo girls because the sex is always good.

Earth: Capricorn. Some of my best friends are caps, my sag girl has a cap moon, mercury, venus, and I admire their ability to keep their emotions in check as it's something I struggle with at times. They get a lot of hate sometime, but dating one is like taking care of an orchid. They grow slow, but if you continually nurture them they blossom into something unimaginably beautiful.

Water: Scorpio. I have 3 scorp placements and I just seem to get them. I love the intensity.

Air: I cannot recommend any of these outside of friendships. I married a gemini and that was bad. Never dated a libra, but I did have a relationship with a libra-scorp cusper and that was a nightmare. Also had a relationship with an aqua for a while, but outside of sex it was meh. In all three instances we were really good friends, but when we took it beyond that it always ended up terrible.

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Teena
Virgo in earth... because they are always my bffs

Gemini in Air .... coz it's fun

Aries in Fire...seems like an adventure...oh well! This could be my safest adventure maybe??🤔...or exactly the opposite 😂

Cancer in water...coz of the stereotypical connection

What’s your sun sign and moon?

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Chuckcem
Sagittarius - Fire (Had a good experience and have several Sag people in my life)

Virgo - Earth (Romance has never quite hit here, but I have several Virgo friends)

Cancer - Water (Some of the closest people to me have been Cancers)

Libra - Air (I easily attract Libras)

Interestingly enough a partner with these placements in Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Venus would probably be compatible. Granted I have those exact Moon, Mercury, and Venus placements.

Yeah isn’t that that amazing! I don’t have any of the placements u mention that’s why I wud prob never date any of the placements u mention long term . Well I have dated sag n Virgo but they don’t quiet click for me. Lol..

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by TomSawyer
Cappy - i like em, never meet them tho

Pisces - because I like the challenge of understanding wtf is going on in the head

Leo - because Fuck Aries, no comment on Sags

Libra - Libras I've dated were hot(especially with Gem Moons)

HAHAha omg the Pisces placements. They r a lot more complicated than Scorpio I find lol.. Scorpio is easy for me. They either love u or they hate u.. for Pisces, they r nice n love everybody so when they r not happy with u, u have no clue lol

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by AneemA04
I'd like

Taurus for earth

Leo for fire

Scorpio for water

Aquarius for air

Lol all of em are fixed signs..

IMaoooo hahhaa me too! Omg I think u may pick the exact same signs as I would. I think it’s coz I have half fixed in my chart lol.

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Mutabull
Air: none.. aqua too detached, Libra too selfish, Gemini too annoying (4 personalities in a rs are way too many, and I don’t wanna compete for y’all time)

Earth: if I had to..virgo.. they always make great friends with me. Never met a Virgo didn’t like

Taurus is too lazy and stubborn, cap is great as friends but for some reason I’m never attracted to them ( I wish I was ffs, I’d be married already)

Fire: Leo, cause I never have and I know I won’t do sag or Aries again cause sag is a ho and Aries in sulky and non-comital

Water: Scorpio... too many cancer men in my family, I know I have a max 2 hour tolerance for them. Pisces never been attracted too, kinda dull and weird

I like most of ur explanation but argue that I myself Taurus is no where near lazy lol. But I seen a few Taurus men n they r lazy lol. But I’m curious, why is libra selfish?!! I never hard this before I thought they r always super nice n giving—

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Ok my Turn, sorry completely forgot I even created this thread lol.. ok Earth.- Def a Capricorn - worked well with one, easy and natrual. Reliable, hard working, nice and giving, not stubborn like myself. Can’t do Virgo again, too perfectionist even though had amazing relationship with one but he was just too boring for me. Air - as annoying as this sound, I will risk seeing an Aqua again- they feed my Aqua moon and other gem placements.- they provoke my brain and they r fixed . Not a gem, they r too childish and too immature for me. Two personalities. Don’t like that. Libra no thanks. Seems too nice for me n just not much personality . Fire.- def a LEO- big heart, easy to stroke their ego, great sex- passionate- fixed ( all or nothing) not Aries coz they r too competitive , childish. And throw too much tantrum . Not sag, fun but not for a relationship. The fire will burn out like Aries. Water.. has to be Scorpio.. they r intense n passionate n giving. All of nothing. Vengefulness but that’s fine lol. Can’t do cancer or Pisces , they r too soft for me.

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@Teena
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Teena
Virgo in earth... because they are always my bffs

Gemini in Air .... coz it's fun

Aries in Fire...seems like an adventure...oh well! This could be my safest adventure maybe??🤔...or exactly the opposite 😂

Cancer in water...coz of the stereotypical connection

What’s your sun sign and moon?

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Scorpio sun, Taurus moon

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@AbbyNormal
13 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

never dated a cap but never opposed. they usually just have a familial feel tho... like the young cap that works with me is my "son" lol he hugs me and i feel like a mom 💖

I'm seeing a virgo now and boyio I'm not necessarily opposed to another but if theyre anything like this one hahahaha what a hand full 😜

only bull i ever saw ran me off quick LOL but i think it's too much of the same or something. we get along very well but its never romantic.

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

just from my experience:

Air: Aqua (never would go for a Gem and Libra men are meh)

Earth: Taurus (maybe because its my descendant) and they are usually good in bed

Fire: Aries or Leo (never would go for a Sag)

Water: Scorpio (no Pisces, no Cancer)

I would go basicly for fixed people, maybe maybe cardinals, but mutables are just too flaky in my experience

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@Dip
9 Years

Air Libra women are my weakness. I love everything about them. Even when they're mad they're sexy as hell to me.

Water Scorpio women are another guilty pleasure.

Earth Eh. Taurus and Virgo are nice to look at but that's as far as it goes for me.

Fire If I had to pick one I would probably pick Leo

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@ScopioConfused
8 YearsCapricorn

Posted by saweetz1988
For example, earth ( Taurus, Virgo Capricorn) which one would you choose and why? And water , fire and air...

Fire: Leo - My best friend is and I get along well with them even though ive never dated one

Earth: Virgo - I have a solid relationship with my dad and 3 male friends who are true gentlemans even though ive never been attracted to virgo sexually

Air: Gemini, only dated gems and they're fun and exciting. the relationships didnt work due to circumstance. Was in love with a libra who wouldnt make up his mind, but I would take him back if he cleared his life.

Water: Scorpio. My 2 best friend's are pisces, but I have never been sexually attracted to pisces, i am surrounded by many scorpios and I recently started to get to know one, although it seems to have ended, i like a challenge to keep me interested.

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@saweetz1988
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Pandora101
just from my experience:

Air: Aqua (never would go for a Gem and Libra men are meh)

Earth: Taurus (maybe because its my descendant) and they are usually good in bed

Fire: Aries or Leo (never would go for a Sag)

Water: Scorpio (no Pisces, no Cancer)

I would go basicly for fixed people, maybe maybe cardinals, but mutables are just too flaky in my experience

Interesting why you would go for fixed people when your chart isn’t so fixed?

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@Starslikeyou
8 Years

Fire - All three fire signs are good fun. But I'm more drawn to aries and sagittarius.

I have so much fun with aries and find them to be very charming. And feel as though I have this natural, telepathic understanding of them. Can easily talk with them about interesting subjects, all though their attention span is shorter than mine. 😉

Sagittarius and I also have so much fun together. Someone you can really talk to about interesting subjects and I learn a lot from them. The good ones are often fascinating to me. Then there are some that are just plain odd-balls.😉

Water - Probably Scorpios. I have a Scorpio moon, so we share the intensity and passion.

Earth - Taurus. Nice guy, quirky, articulate about what they are passionate about.

Air - Libra. Same sun sign as me. We understand each other, true best friends, peacemaker and rebel all in one, and libra men often have a great wit. Instant spark.

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@alexa566
8 YearsPisces

Fire: Probably Aries (Except I wouldn't ever date a Fire sign)

Air: Aquarius (because of deep intellectual conversations) (But also would probably never date an Air sign)

Water: Cancer (Because of emotional depth, connection and sensitivity)

Earth: Definitely Taurus (Because they are just so..... ahhhh

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@alexa566
8 YearsPisces

Posted by alexa566
Fire: Probably Aries (Except I wouldn't ever date a Fire sign)

Air: Aquarius (because of deep intellectual conversations) (But also would probably never date an Air sign)

Water: Cancer (Because of emotional depth, connection and sensitivity)

Earth: Definitely Taurus (Because they are just so..... ahhhh

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@Liriell
9 YearsCapricorn

Fire: Probably either of them all, as all seem fine. Out if males, met only Leo.

Earth: Capricorn Sun or Taurus Moon/Venus. Not very fond of Virgos. Taurus Suns are way too stubborn.

Air: Definitely Gemini. They're fun, this tends to get me to loose my tension.

Water: Probably Cancer, cause I haven't met one yet. Definitely not Scorpio (too explosive), nor Pisces (too deep in their imaginary world).

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