@borednbeautiful
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The hottest synastry aspects often involve Mars, Venus, and the Ascendant, especially Mars conjunct Ascendant or Venus conjunct Ascendant, which are linked to strong physical attraction and instant chemistry. These aspects tend to create noticeable pull, sexual tension, or “can’t ignore” energy between two people. Real experiences suggest these connections feel immediate and intense, but how they play out depends on the rest of the chart.
Pluto/moon, venus and/or mars
Gotta be careful with these tho ..even tho they can be intensely hot asf...they can also cause power struggles etc.
Mars/moon... basically can't keep your hands off each other and wanna make some babies. I can attest to this ...well and the above too lol
Planets in the 8th H...same type of dynamic as the Pluto aspects
Mars/rising... Mars is hot for the rising due to looks and demeanour... feeling is mutual tho too
Mars/venus... although I haven't really dealt with this one so much and wouldn't really be able to tell since most my relationships are plutonian...all the kids rave about it tho.
I know there's more...but that's a pretty good list lol
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Pluto/moon, venus and/or marsGotta be careful with these tho ..even tho they can be intensely hot asf...they can also cause power struggles etc.
Mars/moon... basically can't keep your hands off each other and wanna make some babies. I can attest to this ...well and the above too lol
Planets in the 8th H...same type of dynamic as the Pluto aspects
Mars/rising... Mars is hot for the rising due to looks and demeanour... feeling is mutual tho too
Mars/venus... although I haven't really dealt with this one so much and wouldn't really be able to tell since most my relationships are plutonian...all the kids rave about it tho.
I know there's more...but that's a pretty good list lol
Oh wow, I have to check for these signs/planets. Some of these light my Leo mars on fire lol 🔥
They sound too hot to touch and that’s just how I like it! 🤭
I always loved playing with fire. I am talking even lighting a bonfire or fireplace.
Is there a website you know that’s good for synastry reading?
Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Pluto/moon, venus and/or marsGotta be careful with these tho ..even tho they can be intensely hot asf...they can also cause power struggles etc.
Mars/moon... basically can't keep your hands off each other and wanna make some babies. I can attest to this ...well and the above too lol
Planets in the 8th H...same type of dynamic as the Pluto aspects
Mars/rising... Mars is hot for the rising due to looks and demeanour... feeling is mutual tho too
Mars/venus... although I haven't really dealt with this one so much and wouldn't really be able to tell since most my relationships are plutonian...all the kids rave about it tho.
I know there's more...but that's a pretty good list lol
Oh wow, I have to check for these signs/planets. Some of these light my Leo mars on fire lol 🔥
They sound too hot to touch and that’s just how I like it! 🤭
I always loved playing with fire. I am talking even lighting a bonfire or fireplace.
Is there a website you know that’s good for synastry reading?
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Totally understand...Leo Mars as well lol
I use astroseek to look at the synastry and then hop on the Internet to find more interpretations of the aspects at play.
Hottest synastry aspects will be:
Venus Conjunct Ascendant (Same as Venus in the 1st House Overlay. Probably the most beautiful most attractive synastry. Love at first sight, time-stops long gazes, butterflies,etc.)
Venus Conjunct Mars (I've been the Venus and lemme tell ya, I've never expected women to be so pushy to get me in bed. She wanted it more than I did)
Mars Conjunct Ascendant (Same as Mars in the 1st House Overlay. You get strong feelings of sexual attraction on sight. The locking of the eyes only enhances it.)
Sun Conjunct Moon (If you are the Moon person, you will almost always attract a partner who's Sun is the same as your Moon) The connection will be there.
Venus in the 8th House (Similar to Mars in the 8th except one does too much giving and feels unappreciated and drives hatred for that person. If you are not feeling this person, its not going to be easy to get out)
Mars in the 8th House (Obsessive, manipulating but so tempting, your touch feels very sensitive to eachother's skin. It feels addicting but can turn dangerous)
Venus in the 5th House (Strong romantic feelings of attraction, you love how eachother move/talk/etc but dies out)
Mars in the 5th House (Strong primal physical attraction, its hot but burns out)
Moon in the 5th House (emotionally unhinged, so into their partner, wants to have their baby)
Moon in the 1st House (perfect for long term and bf/gf relationship/marriage)
Moon Conjunct Mars (Baby making aspects but the Moon person has the female-like dynamic where he/she is more emotional and Mars just wants him/her)
Moon Conjunct Venus (Baby making aspect, that's all I have to say)
Venus Square Uranus (Anytime Uranus is involved, there's a quick happening of things happening)
Almost any Pluto Aspect involves a power control dynamic but with its dark manipulation comes other things like being too close to eachother, passionate sex,etc)
Mars Square Uranus (Easily one night stands because the barrier gets broken very quickly)
Posted by borednbeautiful
I’ve been doing a bit of research. So far I’m only learning.I had this with a guy:
His mars in my 5th house
My sun in his 8th house
I would have to check some previous connections to see what’s what. But there is no doubt - some connections are more intense than others.
Sun placements in synastry overlay are overrated if you ask me, because it has to do with the ego and self image and general characteristics, its not a strong indicator of attraction at all and it doesn't get anywhere. Moon, Venus and Mars is where the real meat and potatoes are at. With his Mars being in your 5th house, it is HOT! That is probably why you 2 linked up in the 1st place. What is his AND your synastry overlay with Venus?
Synastry with my most recent partner @VenusStellium7
Moon Square Ascendant
Mars Opposition Venus
Sun Conjunction Moon
Sun Trine Venus
Ascendant Trine Mars
Sun Trine Saturn
Moon Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Venus Square Pluto
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
I didn’t go into all of them, but here are some of them. I skipped Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury. They don’t seem as exciting.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Synastry with my most recent partner @VenusStellium7Moon Square Ascendant
Mars Opposition Venus
Sun Conjunction Moon
Sun Trine Venus
Ascendant Trine Mars
Sun Trine Saturn
Moon Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Venus Square Pluto
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
I didn’t go into all of them, but here are some of them. I skipped Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury. They don’t seem as exciting.
You've got some good aspects with him like the Trines. Ascendant Trine Mars is very attractive, but the conjunction version is just special. It's very hard to get that aspect with someone unless his or your Mars is in his or your 1st house. With Pluto conjunct Mars, EVERYTHING is intense! You feel it strongly, and does he. This one can give the break ups on and off but since there's Pluto Trine Moon, Sun conjunct Moon and the Ascendant Trine Mars should balance it. Mars opposite Venus is definitely right up there with Venus conjunct Mars.
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Posted by borednbeautiful
I’ve been doing a bit of research. So far I’m only learning.
I had this with a guy:
His mars in my 5th house
My sun in his 8th house
I would have to check some previous connections to see what’s what. But there is no doubt - some connections are more intense than others.Sun placements in synastry overlay are overrated if you ask me, because it has to do with the ego and self image and general characteristics, its not a strong indicator of attraction at all and it doesn't get anywhere. Moon, Venus and Mars is where the real meat and potatoes are at. With his Mars being in your 5th house, it is HOT! That is probably why you 2 linked up in the 1st place. What is his AND your synastry overlay with Venus?
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If you mean in what houses, it doesn’t seem anything special. His Venus is in my 10th house and my Venus in his 9th house.
Posted by VenusStellium7
Posted by borednbeautiful
Synastry with my most recent partner @VenusStellium7Moon Square Ascendant
Mars Opposition Venus
Sun Conjunction Moon
Sun Trine Venus
Ascendant Trine Mars
Sun Trine Saturn
Moon Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Venus Square Pluto
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
I didn’t go into all of them, but here are some of them. I skipped Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury. They don’t seem as exciting.
You've got some good aspects with him like the Trines. Ascendant Trine Mars is very attractive, but the conjunction version is just special. It's very hard to get that aspect with someone unless his or your Mars is in his or your 1st house. With Pluto conjunct Mars, EVERYTHING is intense! You feel it strongly, and does he. This one can give the break ups on and off but since there's Pluto Trine Moon, Sun conjunct Moon and the Ascendant Trine Mars should balance it. Mars opposite Venus is definitely right up there with Venus conjunct Mars.
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Pluto seems like an obsession and emotional manipulation. His Pluto is in my 12th house. I wonder what does it mean subconsciously?
My Venus in Scorpio
Opposite his Mars in Taurus
This is a red hot 🔥 aspect
Taylor and Burton had it
No greater passion
Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by VenusStellium7
Posted by borednbeautiful
I’ve been doing a bit of research. So far I’m only learning.
I had this with a guy:
His mars in my 5th house
My sun in his 8th house
I would have to check some previous connections to see what’s what. But there is no doubt - some connections are more intense than others.Sun placements in synastry overlay are overrated if you ask me, because it has to do with the ego and self image and general characteristics, its not a strong indicator of attraction at all and it doesn't get anywhere. Moon, Venus and Mars is where the real meat and potatoes are at. With his Mars being in your 5th house, it is HOT! That is probably why you 2 linked up in the 1st place. What is his AND your synastry overlay with Venus?
If you mean in what houses, it doesn’t seem anything special. His Venus is in my 10th house and my Venus in his 9th house.
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When Venus is in the 10th, both are non-chalant and its business based. It can only work if you are both in a business setting. Venus in the 9th, you both play follower with eachother.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by VenusStellium7
Posted by borednbeautiful
Synastry with my most recent partner @VenusStellium7Moon Square Ascendant
Mars Opposition Venus
Sun Conjunction Moon
Sun Trine Venus
Ascendant Trine Mars
Sun Trine Saturn
Moon Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Venus Square Pluto
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
I didn’t go into all of them, but here are some of them. I skipped Neptune, Jupiter and Mercury. They don’t seem as exciting.
You've got some good aspects with him like the Trines. Ascendant Trine Mars is very attractive, but the conjunction version is just special. It's very hard to get that aspect with someone unless his or your Mars is in his or your 1st house. With Pluto conjunct Mars, EVERYTHING is intense! You feel it strongly, and does he. This one can give the break ups on and off but since there's Pluto Trine Moon, Sun conjunct Moon and the Ascendant Trine Mars should balance it. Mars opposite Venus is definitely right up there with Venus conjunct Mars.
Pluto seems like an obsession and emotional manipulation. His Pluto is in my 12th house. I wonder what does it mean subconsciously?
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Pluto in the 12th, obsessive fantasy. You or he fantasizes a sexual, power dynamic. The Pluto person is messing it up, while the 12th house person is delusional.
I assume you mean hot as in chemistry?
Aspects involving 5th, 8th.
Positive aspects involving,
Lilth, pluto, mars, venus, moon.
A woman's lilth positively aspecting a mans personal planets is intense!
She opens up and is more expressive at a deeper level.
It really depends what you are looking for. What you find attractive.
For mental people, Mercury can be a amplifier with other aspects at play.
Eros, psyche too. I also consider sun a supporting character rather then a main driver.
The ultimate attraction I've had with a female showed in all of these aspects:
Her Venus Conjunct my Ascendant
Her Mars Conjunct my Ascendant
Her Venus Opposite my Mars
Her Venus Opposite my Venus
Pluto Trine Mars
Pluto Trine Moon
Her Sun conjunct my North Node and Lilith
Her Moon is in my 1st House
Her Venus is in my 1st House
Her Mars is in my 12th House
My Moon is in her 5th House
My Venus is in her 8th House
My Mars is in her 8th House
Her Eros conjunct my Ascendant
Her Psyche conjunct my Ascendant
My Eros Opposites her Venus
My Eros Opposites her Mars
Her Moon Opposites my Sun
The Conjunctions and the Opposites will give the strong attraction. The Trines and Sextile give the easy-going to friendship vibes.
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I’ve been doing a bit of research. So far I’m only learning.
I had this with a guy:
His mars in my 5th house
My sun in his 8th house
I would have to check some previous connections to see what’s what. But there is no doubt - some connections are more intense than others.