DeeLovesRed
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Jealousy or Controlling??
If I thanked somebody and they replied like you did I would be pissed too. He's probably mad because you keep rejecting him. Just reply and tell him he's a cutie.
Posted by libralotusIt's not intentional, but I just don't want to come off as a clingy person... or an overly emotional person... Also, I believe in space... so I don't want to feel like I'm limiting his freedom...
If I thanked somebody and they replied like you did I would be pissed too. He's probably mad because you keep rejecting him. Just reply and tell him he's a cutie.
But thanks I'll send him something nice now
I wouldn't have liked your response earlier, if it were me. I'd say you were mean, not him.
And I dont understand what he means you are naive...by going to a bar with friends...? Maybe I have a different understanding of the meaning of naive lol!
And I dont understand what he means you are naive...by going to a bar with friends...? Maybe I have a different understanding of the meaning of naive lol!
Posted by LibraLovesHimDamn... I sorta apologized to him for the "mean response".... but I asked him "how am I naive?".... I don't understand either... ??
I wouldn't have liked your response earlier, if it were me. I'd say you were mean, not him.
And I dont understand what he means you are naive...by going to a bar with friends...? Maybe I have a different understanding of the meaning of naive lol!
Posted by SagsagsagsI see traits like that with him.... I have a lot of childhood friends that randomly check on me or ask for us to meet up.... Anytime I'm on the phone he'll tell me "GET OFF"... but sometimes I do (b/c if we're hanging out i think that's sorta rude to be on the phone)...and sometimes I don't (b/c if we're driving... I could use the idle time)
? That kinda reminds me of my ex. Are you two official yet? When I was with a Leo, I need to ASK permission, yes lady you heard it right, ASK permission if I want to go and hang out with my friends. On a good day, he'll let me, on an awesome day, he'll suddenly show up on my ladies night ?
Leo's are crazy ??.... permission? Omg is it that serious
When your at the bar with your friends send him a text to let him know your thinking of him and wish he was there with you.
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Sagsagsags
? That kinda reminds me of my ex. Are you two official yet? When I was with a Leo, I need to ASK permission, yes lady you heard it right, ASK permission if I want to go and hang out with my friends. On a good day, he'll let me, on an awesome day, he'll suddenly show up on my ladies night ?
I see traits like that with him.... I have a lot of childhood friends that randomly check on me or ask for us to meet up.... Anytime I'm on the phone he'll tell me "GET OFF"... but sometimes I do (b/c if we're hanging out i think that's sorta rude to be on the phone)...and sometimes I don't (b/c if we're driving... I could use the idle time)
Leo's are crazy ??.... permission? Omg is it that seriousclick to expand
He's jealous of your time and wants you all to himself when your together. I think it's sweet.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI'm going to try my hardest... maybe I could tap into my little bit of Pisces... hahahaPosted by DeeLovesRedPosted by Sagsagsags
? That kinda reminds me of my ex. Are you two official yet? When I was with a Leo, I need to ASK permission, yes lady you heard it right, ASK permission if I want to go and hang out with my friends. On a good day, he'll let me, on an awesome day, he'll suddenly show up on my ladies night ?
I see traits like that with him.... I have a lot of childhood friends that randomly check on me or ask for us to meet up.... Anytime I'm on the phone he'll tell me "GET OFF"... but sometimes I do (b/c if we're hanging out i think that's sorta rude to be on the phone)...and sometimes I don't (b/c if we're driving... I could use the idle time)
Leo's are crazy ??.... permission? Omg is it that serious
He's jealous of your time and wants you all to himself when your together. I think it's sweet.
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Posted by DeeLovesRedYour not listening to what he needs. He told you he loves the extra attention. He doesn't want space, he wants to be smothered by you.Posted by libralotusIt's not intentional, but I just don't want to come off as a clingy person... or an overly emotional person... Also, I believe in space... so I don't want to feel like I'm limiting his freedom...
If I thanked somebody and they replied like you did I would be pissed too. He's probably mad because you keep rejecting him. Just reply and tell him he's a cutie.
But thanks I'll send him something nice nowclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneTrue... I'll try harder because he's a really sweet guy and I don't want to mess things up because of fixable shitPosted by DeeLovesRedYour not listening to what he needs. He told you he loves the extra attention. He doesn't want space, he wants to be smothered by you.Posted by libralotusIt's not intentional, but I just don't want to come off as a clingy person... or an overly emotional person... Also, I believe in space... so I don't want to feel like I'm limiting his freedom...
If I thanked somebody and they replied like you did I would be pissed too. He's probably mad because you keep rejecting him. Just reply and tell him he's a cutie.
But thanks I'll send him something nice now
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Posted by DeeLovesRedIt seems to be working beautifully.Posted by libralotusIt's not intentional, but I just don't want to come off as a clingy person... or an overly emotional person... Also, I believe in space... so I don't want to feel like I'm limiting his freedom...
If I thanked somebody and they replied like you did I would be pissed too. He's probably mad because you keep rejecting him. Just reply and tell him he's a cutie.
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Maybe you aren't suited.
He sounds temperamental.
Where's your moon, @DeeLovesRed?
Posted by MontgomeryAries Moon in 6th.. so you would think I'll be into "serving" others
Where's your moon, @DeeLovesRed?
His is Aqua... like my Venus
Posted by DeeLovesRedPosted by MontgomeryAries Moon in 6th.. so you would think I'll be into "serving" others
Where's your moon, @DeeLovesRed?
His is Aqua... like my Venus
Ahhh... fire and air.
I have no air in my chart till Jupiter.
Why are you doing this, though-- it does sound intentional.
Posted by DeeLovesRedAnd maybe like you're trying to conform to a standard that
It's not intentional, but I just don't want to come off as a clingy person... or an overly emotional person... Also, I believe in space... so I don't want to feel like I'm limiting his freedom...
But thanks I'll send him something nice nowclick to expand
has been imposed by someone who isn't you... or him.
@Montgomery
It's definitely not intentional but maybe it cause I dealt with a lot of airy men in the past... and he has a lot of air in his chart (just like mines)... so I guessed I was judging based on that, but now I know what and what not to do...
It's definitely not intentional but maybe it cause I dealt with a lot of airy men in the past... and he has a lot of air in his chart (just like mines)... so I guessed I was judging based on that, but now I know what and what not to do...
Coming from a leo female, I definitely like the extra attention from my partner. Also, if a partner or a close friend were to ignore me, it would make me go crazy and I would probably react quite irrationally or dramatically for a few hours until I calm down.
With regards to his text, I think he's jealous. Leos don't deal well with jealousy. I wouldn't consider myself as controlling, I allow my partner to do whatever he wants. However, when it comes to other girls, I definitely will make a fuss.
With regards to his text, I think he's jealous. Leos don't deal well with jealousy. I wouldn't consider myself as controlling, I allow my partner to do whatever he wants. However, when it comes to other girls, I definitely will make a fuss.
Posted by ellehrI don't do well with jealousy... ugh!! Hate hate hate it
Coming from a leo female, I definitely like the extra attention from my partner. Also, if a partner or a close friend were to ignore me, it would make me go crazy and I would probably react quite irrationally or dramatically for a few hours until I calm down.
With regards to his text, I think he's jealous. Leos don't deal well with jealousy. I wouldn't consider myself as controlling, I allow my partner to do whatever he wants. However, when it comes to other girls, I definitely will make a fuss.
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