Let's get kinky...

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by lildol on Monday, November 24, 2014 and has 30 replies.

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@lildol
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What do you consider kinky? Doesn't necessarily mean you would engage in such and may be over the top for you personally... but, if you want to share your personal experiences, fetishes, fantasies by all means please do LOL

Don't forget your Sun and Mars (I'm thinking this is driven not by emotions or love style but by energy, hence the reason I only chose those placements)

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Yeah I think kinky is a word that I associate with outside of my comfort zone. Stuff they do on the old school Real Sex show.

Like pony play or sploshing. I don't understand but I'm curious enough to watch other people do them *shrug*

Taurus stellium rules! coincidentally I don't like watching the sploshing more than anything, it could be my virgo rising.

Anyways I think kinky is anything that makes you feel excited and uncomfortable?

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15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Kinky to me is car sex, when a guy isnt scared of using toys on me, golden showers, gettin fingered at church, sexting during a hoard meeting, given head while hes driving, anal beads, nipple clamps, BLOOD, biting, calling me names in bed, sexual degrading me, double entrandas in public, giving head in the bathroom at a party.

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@DMV
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splosh

Noun: a sexual/sensual food party, in which participants cover each other in foods of different tastes, textures, and temperatures. eating the food off each other is optional. Nudity and sexual interactions often follow. Other common usages are the present verb??splosh??and the present participle verb formsploshing.

"We were at this sploshing party and my friend got covered in chocolate sauce and whipped cream, then they had her sit on a birthday cake! she really loved it!"

-I totally need to have a party like this

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12 Years500+ PostsVirgo

Posted by DMV
splosh

Noun: a sexual/sensual food party, in which participants cover each other in foods of different tastes, textures, and temperatures. eating the food off each other is optional. Nudity and sexual interactions often follow. Other common usages are the present verb??splosh??and the present participle verb formsploshing.

"We were at this sploshing party and my friend got covered in chocolate sauce and whipped cream, then they had her sit on a birthday cake! she really loved it!"

-I totally need to habve a party like this

With more post like this.... you be one ofmy favorite poster on dxp

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Posted by DMV
splosh

Noun: a sexual/sensual food party, in which participants cover each other in foods of different tastes, textures, and temperatures. eating the food off each other is optional. Nudity and sexual interactions often follow. Other common usages are the present verb??splosh??and the present participle verb formsploshing.

"We were at this sploshing party and my friend got covered in chocolate sauce and whipped cream, then they had her sit on a birthday cake! she really loved it!"

-I totally need to have a party like this


😐

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My BF (Pisces w\ Mars in Aqua) wants me to choke him (and he wants to choke me) - referred to himself as a little kinky which is what prompted this thread. I'm pretty much down for anything (Mars in Scorp) and believe that there is a broad range of behaviors that are normal (and that what is viewed as normal varies from person to person), but I'm not so sure about the choking, seems brutal. I suppose there is only one way to find out...

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Nothing to do with your mishap cheeky - his fantasy prompted this thread. I do know there are dangers associated with it, but that doesn't scare me, it's the brutality behind it - but, then again, the idea of dominating him like that (or me being in such a vulnerable position) does have its appeal...

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Posted by starlover
I only ever met one guy that would do the kinky thing with me . He had sun and mars in aqua, surprise surprise 😛

I was leaning toward his Mars, although Pisces are said to be quite open. Maybe it's a double whammy - a Pisces who lives in fantasy land w/ a creative, eclectic Mars who lives in the heat of the moment... suits me just fine 😉

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I had to look up "sunflowering" - what I found was along the lines of fisting and then splaying fingers. Ummm, yeah, don't think my body is suited for such in the least. Don't think I could quite handle bodily waste either. I'd throw in sex with animals or the whole crush fetish as on my NOT to do list as well...

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I would see a cap that wanted to eat veggie rolls off my ass I thought it was kinky and considerate instead of using fish sushi, followed by sitting on his face forever.
It was kinda awkward when I had to fart but nopppeeeee
I mean you think seemingly weird people would be into that but I did not expect this...
Very shocking.

People with fetishes like that will pretty much always be single.
After a couple of nights I was like BYE.
It's not what I think of when I think about ideal sex, you know?

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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by unknown2u
Oh and this should be a random word like orange or blue, etc. or a body gesture. Never use the word —stop??. Hope this helps.

Also something that can be mumbled through a ball gag.

I kid, i kid!

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If you're using a gag, don't use a word. Give them a small object to hold in one hand (if she's gagged, she's probably bound or cuffed in some way). Dropping the object replaces the safe word. Can't expect her to say flamingo with her mouth full...