i was in a very intense relationship that only lasted 5 months.. we were both inlove then had to leave to different school 5 hours away from eachother..I tried to break up with my aires before we left, knowing that the relationship was gonna be hard but he said he loved me and it would be amazing when we finally could see eachother. After a week of being in separate states, my aries started acting weird.. he ended up breaking up with me saying that it was too hard with the distance and he realized he wasnt gonna be able to last all through college without seeing me everyday (5 years). I understood and we broke up . About two weeks later he had a girlfriend. Was he lying to me? Did my boyfriend ffind someone new and break up with me? or could it really have been the distane and he rushed into a new relationship to get over me? So confusing.
I agree, long distance relationships are difficult - i think your decision in breaking it off before leaving was a good thing and so did you apparently however, Mr. Aries talked you into changing your mind - no biggie though. I believe that you both needed to experience this situation to have a better understanding of why it will not work. He realized that he too was not able to follow through and he let you know. About having the girlfriend before hand? - one will really never know that answer hon. Best to just accept that it happened and make peace with it.
I do know as an Aries myself that there is NO WAY that I will partake in a long distance relationship - I enjoy being with someone - connecting with them on all levels developing the relationship.
Know that what the two of you had was special, be glad for the moments that you shared and let go. Keep yourself open to the new adventures that are coming your way 😉
*everything happens for a reason - it's all good. wishing you the best!
Was he lying to me? Did my boyfriend ffind someone new and break up with me? or could it really have been the distane and he rushed into a new relationship to get over me? So confusing.