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Astrological Insights into Relationship Dealbreakers and Preferences
In astrology, dealbreakers often relate to incompatible Sun, Moon, or Venus signs, while harmonious signs like Cancer or Scorpio are favored for deep connections. Preferences vary based on individual charts, but many seek partners with shared values and emotional compatibility. Understanding zodiac traits can help identify what to look for and avoid in relationships.
The one I got right now...Capricorn. everything about her is to my expectation. From all the jokes all the way down to a love of cooking.
What I look for in a partner is one who doesn't rush me (which is who I got right now)
One who likes humor (also who I got right now)
One like me who loves to play and don't take offense to every playful stuff (again who I got)
The dealbreaker would be the opposite to all the above.
there's this guy that i once rejected that i thought i was vibing with recently. but then he started to act like i owe him something, itemizes all the efforts i've done for him and wants me to chase him.
like bruh it's barely 2 weeks since i've realized you're kinda sorta maybe okay-ish but i'm not even at the obssession stage yet so i ghosted him the next day after i sent him a smiling emoji. blocked him in everything too.
sure you can manipulate me, but you gotta put some time into it. don't rush bae 😘😘
Relationship dealbreakers are having a girlfriend, wife, or being in an active marriage. 🥴
Always starting arguments, trying to hurt me intentionally to see some emotions.
Hygiene is important, but that should go without saying.
What I look for in a partner?
Someone who adores me, gives me time, sex, and attention and who has the intellectual capacity to keep conversations going.
Favorite sign to date is -Gemini.
They are fun and go with the flow and don’t over think and stress me out. They don’t make me jump through hoops or question my antics.
Favorite that I will never get- Aquarius.
I love them, but can’t keep up.
Favorite and most frustrating sign - Virgo
Bastards 😩🥺
Relationship dealbreakers are having a wife or being in an active marriage. 🥴
Always starting arguments, trying to hurt me intentionally to see some emotions.
Hygiene is important, but that should go without saying.
What I look for in a partner?
Someone who adores me, gives me time, sex, and attention and who has the intellectual capacity to keep conversations going.
Favorite sign to date is -Gemini.
They are fun and go with the flow and don’t over think and stress me out. They don’t make me jump through hoops or question my antics.
Favorite that I will never get- Aquarius.
I love them, but can’t keep up.
Favorite and most frustrating sign - Virgo
Bastards 😩🥺
I forgot about being married or in a relationship.
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Most men do 😈
I don’t know how many times men have asked me to be their third.
Fucking weird ass Americans. 🤣😅
Respect and honesty
Kindness
Not controlling or dominating
Good sense of humor
Faithful
Likes children and animals...
Am I the only one who thinks bad sex is a deal-breaker?
To that list - someone who doesn't like animals, is rude, jealous, cruel, dismissive and selfish. And lying. I don't stand for it.
I love it if you are imaginative, funny, smart, brave, honest and kind. Haha! wait, this describes ME also! Be passionate about something in your life other than me. Extra points if you are tall because I love when guys tower over me even when I'm wearing heels. But, I'll put on flats if I think you're worth it.
Edited to add: I usually find myself with Scorpio and Virgo BUT I did enjoy the Gem and wouldn't mind going another round with one of them.
Someone who is as affectionate as i am and can show he loves me and himself
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Why do you want someone to hurt your feelings or treat you badly?
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Virgos would work well for you in the whore/virgin role then, when they keep 2 people around to fill them.
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My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Why do you want someone to hurt your feelings or treat you badly?
Builds character.
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So does being loved and respected
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Why do you want someone to hurt your feelings or treat you badly?
Builds character.
So does being loved and respected
I said I wanted that too! Maxing those character gains.
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Okay
How would it be if it was just the love and respect? Would that be boring for you?
More like a mixture of sweet but also violating you pretty badly. Keep me guessing. Am I dirt or do you love me. Rollercoaster my feelings.
Gawd you're giving great fodder for the hungry thirsty folks! You go gurll! Quite some fantasies to explore 😝
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Why do you want someone to hurt your feelings or treat you badly?
Builds character.
So does being loved and respected
I said I wanted that too! Maxing those character gains.
Okay
How would it be if it was just the love and respect? Would that be boring for you?
No, but I'm an over achiever so I shoot for it all.
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Okay thanks
Have you ever found one person that can fulfill all that?
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Seems to be a lot of people looking for Daddies. I think to an extent things go through a cycle, I can remember when lots were looking for master. Never done cnc, met people who were into it.
Are they? What's the normal daddy relationship like? I'm not really into bdsm toys, body morphing, or money or anything like that. I have a really physically sensitive body. It's probably more like vanilla bdsm 🤣
On Reddit and a few other places loads of references to looking for a daddy. I'm not a daddy, would rather be called sir.
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My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Why do you want someone to hurt your feelings or treat you badly?
Builds character.
So does being loved and respected
I said I wanted that too! Maxing those character gains.
Okay
How would it be if it was just the love and respect? Would that be boring for you?
No, but I'm an over achiever so I shoot for it all.
Okay thanks
Have you ever found one person that can fulfill all that?
For the longest time, no. But more recently yes in libra-y virgos.
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You’re a Virgo sun?
Am I the only one who thinks bad sex is a deal-breaker?
Absolutely tf not because that's my main dealbreaker lol
Am I the only one who thinks bad sex is a deal-breaker?
Absolutely tf not because that's my main dealbreaker lol
I think when you get past the age of 30 you don't have sex which is intrinsically bad, disappointing, but not bad.
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Explain.
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
Virgos would work well for you in the whore/virgin role then, when they keep 2 people around to fill them.
Edited to make it gender neutral 😊
Is that what the virgo sun/scorpio venuses were into? If you don't mind me asking. Just trying to get an idea.
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I have no clue. You listed a whole lot and the Scorpio Venus Virgo I was with didn’t even like choking 😬
I dated two.
The one with lots of Virgo and Cancer moon was the sadist 😅😅😅🤪
The other one I adored. They were like night and day.
My deal breakers are pretty limited. I'm not really into relationships anymore aside the one I'm currently in lol. So I mean hypothetically, not looking long term. You could be married, getting investigated for murder for all I care. Just don't have any stds. Dont make me bail you out of prison. And you have to genuinely like me.
I don't have set rules for what I'm into. I'm open to new experiences. We vibe with each other that way or we don't. I only use intuition now. But someone who is sexually dominating is preferred. Dominant personality overall/protective. I like that. Tell me what to do or make me. Rape role play. Be my daddy dom. Force me into submission. Hurt my feelings then cuddle me while I cry and tell me you didn't mean it.
oh wow I know somebody here who is going to be in your inbox in 2.5 😂🤣🤣🤣
But yes, I agree on the dominant thing too I like a strong man who makes me feel protected but not into the rest.
Im a fan of Virgos and Tauruses it seems.
I know someone here who is going to be in your dm's in 2.5 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
but yes, I agree with the dominant thing, I like a man who has an authoritarian presence and makes me feel protected too. Not into the other parts though. Maybe it's a Virgo thing (I'm a Virgo moon).
I doubt that very much haha. My dxp DMing days are over. I don't think I have them even turned on. Could be. It's very sweet when a virgo does it. Makes you feel cared about. They're great thinkers like that. I keep meeting smart ones.
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but you're a virgo lol
i've got a date with a fellow virgo today so wish me luck 🤞
Am I the only one who thinks bad sex is a deal-breaker?
Absolutely tf not because that's my main dealbreaker lol
I think when you get past the age of 30 you don't have sex which is intrinsically bad, disappointing, but not bad.
Explain.
I think by that stage most people presuming they have been sexually active for a few figure out what they like, what is physically possible and ways to please a partner.
By disappointing to use a real life example. We finished up, she went to the bathroom to get cleaned up then she came back dressed and left. Disappointing there was no afterplay and pillow talk, the sex itself was better than average though.
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Oh yeah. I need post sex cuddles. That's another non-negotiable.
Oh yeah. I need post sex cuddles. That's another non-negotiable.
My definition of post sex cuddles is no hugging or kissing, a pat on the ass and I say “the towels are uhh over there, uber will be here in 4 mins.”
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Leave.
Big turn off ~~
anger issues stemming from childhood which lead to attempts to dominate or control others, sexually and otherwise. Im not your abusive mother. Don’t try you’re strangulation fantasies out on me or you’ll feel my sssssting.
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My biggest dealbreakers are misogyny, selfishness, and disloyalty.
My partner has everything I want and more. Honest, loving, understanding, patient, affectionate, and he’s super body positive. For the first time in my life I feel secure in my body even though I’m the farthest from my goal weight. :c
Also... Do you ever feel like you're too picky when choosing a partner?
nvrmind i feel zero chemistry for virgo men
i just like the ones with scorpio venus 🥵🥵
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Truly a unicorn among donkeys. Keep him close!
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Amen to this sister 👍😃
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Truly a unicorn among donkeys. Keep him close!
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Haha I don’t kink shame or anything but damn I don’t feel any pressure to endure something I’m not into whatsoever. An amazing feeling. 😊
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Amen to this sister 👍😃
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I’m starting to wonder if any woman actually likes it at this point. 🤣
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Amen to this sister 👍😃
I’m starting to wonder if any woman actually likes it at this point. 🤣
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Lol🥴
I only tried it once....just no way José
How about you Coco?
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Truly a unicorn among donkeys. Keep him close!
Haha I don’t kink shame or anything but damn I don’t feel any pressure to endure something I’m not into whatsoever. An amazing feeling. 😊
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I just like having nice clean sheets personally lmao
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Amen to this sister 👍😃
I’m starting to wonder if any woman actually likes it at this point. 🤣
Lol🥴
I only tried it once....just no way José
How about you Coco?
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I share that sentiment lol. Never tried it with a partner but I know I don’t even want to think about trying it. 😂
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Truly a unicorn among donkeys. Keep him close!
Haha I don’t kink shame or anything but damn I don’t feel any pressure to endure something I’m not into whatsoever. An amazing feeling. 😊
I just like having nice clean sheets personally lmao
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I like ruining my clean sheets in other ways. 😂💦☂
Dealbreakers: lack of empathy and compassion, violent, rude, cheaters, abusive and liars. Basically if I can't trust you, feel comfortable and be myself with you then I don't want a relationship with you.
I love someone who is compassionate, caring, humanitarian, high EQ, genuine similar values. But most importantly someone I connect with emotionally. You can have someone who ticks all the boxes on your list but still don't feel any connection with. Someone who I feel gets me and inspires me. A best friend.
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
Amen to this sister 👍😃
I’m starting to wonder if any woman actually likes it at this point. 🤣
Lol🥴
I only tried it once....just no way José
How about you Coco?
I share that sentiment lol. Never tried it with a partner but I know I don’t even want to think about trying it. 😂
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Don’t go there 🥴
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
😂😂 I've been doing anal for almost two years now and I'm over it honestly
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
😂😂 I've been doing anal for almost two years now and I'm over it honestly
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If I’m not getting joy out of it, I’m not doing it. So it’s a hell nah for me. 😂
A man who isn’t into anal. Gotta treasure him. 😮💨😂
😂😂 I've been doing anal for almost two years now and I'm over it honestly
If I’m not getting joy out of it, I’m not doing it. So it’s a hell nah for me. 😂
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I used to like it but then it got old real fast 😂😂 So nah like I'll do it occasionally if I feel like it but definitely not on the regular.
nvrmind i feel zero chemistry for virgo men
i just like the ones with scorpio venus 🥵🥵
That's too bad. Thank you for the effort though. I'm starting to think mbti is way more accurate than astrology.
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plus the pisces sun/cap moon and i got back together so 🤷♀️🤷♀️
nvrmind i feel zero chemistry for virgo men
i just like the ones with scorpio venus 🥵🥵
That's too bad. Thank you for the effort though. I'm starting to think mbti is way more accurate than astrology.
plus the pisces sun/cap moon and i got back together so 🤷♀️🤷♀️
What's the pisces' mbti?
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hmm i'll get him to take the test one of these days but he seems to come off as an INFP to me
and virgo energy seems better on women than men anyway
what's yours?
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